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Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by harmeyd: 11:12am On Jul 07, 2015
Opinions plz?
Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by dharay99: 11:14am On Jul 07, 2015
harmeyd:
Opinions plz?

undecided lipsrsealed

Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by ArQueBusieR(m): 11:16am On Jul 07, 2015
Because they wish for their men to die before them, just so they can have his money all to themselves.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by Cutehector(m): 11:16am On Jul 07, 2015
Ifa don high sef
Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by Nobody: 11:24am On Jul 07, 2015
its all about the money
Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by thorpido(m): 11:29am On Jul 07, 2015
Maturity mostly.Most guys who are older would be more exposed and matured,better able to handle a relationship.
Most girls don't want boys they have to start nursing.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by 400billionman: 11:31am On Jul 07, 2015
They suffer daddy issues.

They like men who pet them. Experience has also taught me ladies like men who are not emotional. Romantic men who are mean in their dealings. Young ladies don't want to see a man who whines but one who is totally in control. One they can cry to.
Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by TheSonOfMark(m): 11:35am On Jul 07, 2015
ArQueBusieR:
Because they wish for their men to die before them, just so they can have his money all to themselves.

Young man, with this mentality of yours don't think you should check into rehab?undecided
Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by Nobody: 11:37am On Jul 07, 2015
Women are generally attracted to men that they believe possess what it takes to take care of them. This involves both physically, emotionally and other wise. Someone who they believe is more experienced than them in handling things that concern relationship and romance.

When a lady wants to go into a serious relationship with a guy, she would prefer someone who she believes is mature enough to play the lead role in a relationship. Someone who is wise enough to make smart judgments and decisions. Someone who is mature, both in mind and in body.
Most ladies look at younger guys and see them as not being able to meet the aforementioned criteria

As humans we all feel we are smarter than people who are younger than us.
We all have a default perception of viewing those who are younger in age as less experienced and wiser than us.
This also applies to ladies that are seeking a worthy partner.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by lilmaaxfidel: 11:39am On Jul 07, 2015
TheSonOfMark:

Young man, with this mentality of yours don't think you should check into rehab?undecided
he has a valid point though grin

Just made wrong assertions
Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by marshalcarter: 11:40am On Jul 07, 2015
ArQueBusieR:
Because they wish for their men to die before them, just so they can have his money all to themselves.
Wat abt if the man doesn't have money ni

Abi you never see woman wey love man wey no get moneyundecided
Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by lilmaaxfidel: 11:41am On Jul 07, 2015
misssclassy:
Women are generally attracted to men that they believe possess what it takes to take care of them. This involves both physically, emotionally and other wise. Someone who they believe is more experienced than them in handling things that concern relationship and romance.

When a lady wants to go into a serious relationship with a guy, she would prefer someone who she believes is mature enough to play the lead role in a relationship. Someone who is wise enough to make smart judgments and decision. Someone who is mature, both in mind and in body.
Most ladies look at younger guys and see them as not being able to meet the aforementioned criteria

As humans we all feel we are smarter than people who are younger than us.
We all have a default perception of viewing those who are younger in age as less experienced and wiser than us.
This also applies to ladies that are seeking a worthy partner.
well said smiley .....
Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by Nobody: 11:48am On Jul 07, 2015
lilmaaxfidel:
well said smiley .....

smiley
Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by misspicy(f): 11:55am On Jul 07, 2015
Older men are more matured,less jealous,take care of their responsibilities and more appreciative.....
Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by preciousone123: 12:22pm On Jul 07, 2015
My I wish I went for an older guy who can take care of me. But wait o...why cant some guys just tell yhe the truth when a woman has decided to spend the rest of her life with him.

Myself and my husband dated for 2 years of which we shared all with each other. However as we live in a western culture...we share our food bills when we go out. We got married 2 months ago and I am already regretting it.

Last month he told me that he invested in a business to surprise me when the money comes. However to cut long story short, business did not do well. I have a masters in business which I could have given him a feasibility study of the business succeeding or not. ?. As Some men like to keep money away from the wife he didnt tell me.

Now rent money is due in the house, I have to pay it.
Now we need food in the house, I have to buy it.


My father had warned me against this kind of men who are a few years older than me...but I failed to listen.

The guy is so picky with food and I am thinking should a beggar be a chooser....I dont think so..

He is looking for full time work now but expects so much from me..

Honestly speaking I had options to marry other guys but I picked the wrong guy I guess.

Honestly considering a divorcee. Might as well cut my losses now.
Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by ArQueBusieR(m): 1:57pm On Jul 07, 2015
TheSonOfMark:

Young man, with this mentality of yours don't think you should check into rehab?undecided
Isn't that a little selfish? Just because you love it in there doesn't mean I will too. I know you need friends, but this is the wrong way of going about it because I'm not rehab material like you.
Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by ArQueBusieR(m): 1:59pm On Jul 07, 2015
preciousone123:
My I wish I went for an older guy who can take care of me. But wait o...why cant some guys just tell yhe the truth when a woman has decided to spend the rest of her life with him.

Myself and my husband dated for 2 years of which we shared all with each other. However as we live in a western culture...we share our food bills when we go out. We got married 2 months ago and I am already regretting it.

Last month he told me that he invested in a business to surprise me when the money comes. However to cut long story short, business did not do well. I have a masters in business which I could have given him a feasibility study of the business succeeding or not. ?. As Some men like to keep money away from the wife he didnt tell me.

Now rent money is due in the house, I have to pay it.
Now we need food in the house, I have to buy it.


My father had warned me against this kind of men who are a few years older than me...but I failed to listen.

The guy is so picky with food and I am thinking should a beggar be a chooser....I dont think so..

He is looking for full time work now but expects so much from me..

Honestly speaking I had options to marry other guys but I picked the wrong guy I guess.

Honestly considering a divorcee. Might as well cut my losses now.
shocked
Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by IamLEGEND1: 2:01pm On Jul 07, 2015
misssclassy:
Women are generally attracted to men that they believe possess what it takes to take care of them. This involves both physically, emotionally and other wise. Someone who they believe is more experienced than them in handling things that concern relationship and romance.

When a lady wants to go into a serious relationship with a guy, she would prefer someone who she believes is mature enough to play the lead role in a relationship. Someone who is wise enough to make smart judgments and decisions. Someone who is mature, both in mind and in body.
Most ladies look at younger guys and see them as not being able to meet the aforementioned criteria

As humans we all feel we are smarter than people who are younger than us.
We all have a default perception of viewing those who are younger in age as less experienced and wiser than us.
This also applies to ladies that are seeking a worthy partner.

Even though you can be an idìot sometimes,

I duff cap for you.

#WellSaidMa'am
Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by ArQueBusieR(m): 2:03pm On Jul 07, 2015
marshalcarter:
Wat abt if the man doesn't have money ni
Abi you never see woman wey love man wey no get moneyundecided
I have never seen such.
Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by TheSonOfMark(m): 2:20pm On Jul 07, 2015
ArQueBusieR:

Isn't that a little selfish? Just because you love it in there doesn't mean I will too. I know you need friends, but this is the wrong way of going about it because I'm not rehab material like you.
You really must be in a luxury assylum considering the fact that you are allowed access to the internet. I bet you have dreadlocks and you had houseflies for breakfast.

Scratch that; mad men grow 'dada'.

Say 'hi' to your alter-ego, Kamoru.grin
Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by TheSonOfMark(m): 2:33pm On Jul 07, 2015
misspicy:
Older men are more matured,less jealous,take care of their responsibilities and more appreciative.....
You and your lots eventually seek we younger men 'cause we are virile, youthful, spontaneous, closer to your age and hence share similar perceptions and interests.

When you married women start getting fed up with your s*xless, boring and predictable relationships, who do you seek to spice up your lives - YOUNGER men. cool

Chase Alhaji, sweetheart but in the end you'd find out it was foolhardy.wink
Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by ArQueBusieR(m): 2:34pm On Jul 07, 2015
TheSonOfMark:

You really must be in kuxury assylum considering the fact that you are allowed access to the internet. I bet you have dreadlocks.


Scratch that; mad men grow 'dada'.

Say 'hi' to your alter-ego.grin
Well if you could tell the difference between Copacabana palace hotel and a luxury asylum, then you probably wouldn't be browsing nairaland from the confines of a rehab facility.
Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by TheSonOfMark(m): 2:44pm On Jul 07, 2015
ArQueBusieR:

Well if you could tell the difference between Copacabana palace hotel and a luxury asylum, then you probably wouldn't be browsing nairaland from the confines of a rehab facility.
You seem pissed off. You obviously haven't been taking your anger management therapy seriously.
Oops! Withdrawal symptoms, right? I knew you are a junkie.

Alright, let me help you out: hold your breath till you pass you. Simple therapy, innit?smiley

Hopefully 5 years of coma would help clear your befuddled subconscious.
See you in 2020.
Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by TrishaP(f): 2:54pm On Jul 07, 2015
For experiences, Maturity and respect.
Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by ArQueBusieR(m): 3:01pm On Jul 07, 2015
TheSonOfMark:

You seem pissed off. You obviously haven't been taking your anger management therapy seriously.
Oops! Withdrawal symptoms, right? I knew you are a junkie.

Alright, let me help you out: hold your breath till you pass you. Simple therapy, innit?smiley

Hopefully 5 years of coma would help clear your befuddled subconscious.
See you in 2020.
One cannot pass out from holding their breath. Why would you even think that? You've smuggled some LSD into the facility again, innit?
Now you'll have to start all over again. From stage one. Well, looks like you have no hope of getting out until 2030. It is well my brother. It is well. Be strong, you can do it. At worst you'll be there for a decade more, or two, or three, or four...who knows...maybe five or six. You could set a new record you know. #silverlining
Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by ArQueBusieR(m): 5:48pm On Jul 07, 2015
TheSonOfMark:

[b]Kamoru , one passes out when there's no more supply of oxygen to the brain. Holding your breathe ceases the supply that's why you get dizzy after few seconds of holding it.

What do you think happened the last time you had a seizure?

You are still here? Why not try out the therapy?

...And stop eating houseflies! They are unhygienic! Do I have to keep reiterating that to you? undecided
[/b]
Why do you insist on showing off your new name when it isn't yet official? Well Kamoru, you can't pass out from holding your breath cos your body will fight back. You will lose the ability to control your breath before your brain can shut down. Your body will only convulse and you'll involuntary start to breathe again. Even your body knows better than to give a "Kamoru" control over it, because Kamoru is always high as a kite. So when Kamoru tells his body "it's time to die", the brain replies "don't mind him. He's just high...as usual". Understood, Kamoru? tongue
Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by TheSonOfMark(m): 6:03pm On Jul 07, 2015
ArQueBusieR:

Why do you insist on showing off your new name when it isn't yet official? Well Kamoru, you can't pass out from holding your breath cos your body will fight back. You will lose the ability to control your breath before your brain can shut down. Your body will only convulse and you'll involuntary start to breathe again. Even your body knows better than to give a "Kamoru" control over it, because Kamoru is always high as a kite. So when Kamoru tells his body "it's time to die", the brain replies "don't mind him. He's just high...as usual". Understood, Kamoru? tongue
Kamoru, everyone knows I am an Ibibio dude.

Kamoru, once you become dizzy it becomes a prelude to coma/unconsciousness. The speed at which one loses that consciousness depends on the inhaled oxygen. Once the supply to the brain reduces, the brain begins to hibernate.

That's why people in crampy spaces tend to faint a lot.
Try holding your breathe and see if you wouldn't become dizzy.
That you removed your hands to exhale wasn't involuntary.
Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by TheSonOfMark(m): 6:03pm On Jul 07, 2015
ArQueBusieR:

Why do you insist on showing off your new name when it isn't yet official? Well Kamoru, you can't pass out from holding your breath cos your body will fight back. You will lose the ability to control your breath before your brain can shut down. Your body will only convulse and you'll involuntary start to breathe again. Even your body knows better than to give a "Kamoru" control over it, because Kamoru is always high as a kite. So when Kamoru tells his body "it's time to die", the brain replies "don't mind him. He's just high...as usual". Understood, Kamoru? tongue
Kamoru, everyone knows I am an Ibibio dude.

Kamoru, once you become dizzy it becomes a prelude to coma/unconsciousness. The speed at which one loses that consciousness depends on the inhaled oxygen. Once the supply to the brain reduces, the brain begins to hibernate.

That's why people in crampy spaces tend to faint a lot.
Try holding your breathe and see if you wouldn't become dizzy.
That you removed your hands to exhale wasn't involuntary.

Kamoru, stop eating houseflies!angry
Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by ArQueBusieR(m): 6:17pm On Jul 07, 2015
TheSonOfMark:

Kamoru, everyone knows I am an Ibibio dude.

Kamoru, once you become dizzy it becomes a prelude to coma/unconsciousness. The speed at which one loses that consciousness depends on the inhaled oxygen. Once the supply to the brain reduces, the brain begins to hibernate.

That's why people in crampy spaces tend to faint a lot.
Try holding your breathe and see if you wouldn't become dizzy.
That you removed your hands to exhale wasn't involuntary.

Kamoru, stop eating houseflies!angry
Congrats then. You're the first Kamoru of Ibibio descent. Well, Kamoru, you need to start watching dark videos. Like videos of people trying to commit suicide by asphyxiation. Head to Liveleak(dot)com now and see things for yourself. But I must warn, if you go there, you may never leave rehab. In fact, you'll be needing more than just one rehab. Okay let's stop talking about gross stuff now. Google phalloplasty instead.
Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by Catalyst4real: 6:54pm On Jul 07, 2015
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Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by tpiander: 6:59pm On Jul 07, 2015
harmeyd:
Opinions plz?

you are just asking this question today because?

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