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Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by Lovexme(m): 2:49pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Isn't there someone you can get to help if she's so eager to get back to work? Or enroll the child into a creche. |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by Jojodivine(f): 2:49pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Yes she can. Both of you should look around for a good creche. There are women who have resumed work with babies less than 3months old. May God direct you though. 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by Bonapart(m): 2:49pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Burger01:4 months baby? Money has indeed destroy the world Think again 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by Nobody: 2:50pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by lurlah2014(f): 2:50pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
you should allow her cos NIGERIA situation now is above you placing your wife as a full house wife, my sister experienced same thing but she was able to get a good day care that accepted the baby thou with extra fee, now the baby is three and they all live happy 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by huthority01(m): 2:51pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
MY BROTHER THE ANSWER IS CAPITAL YES........................... |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by jaybee3(m): 2:51pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
How about asking for resource support from your parents? You can look at getting a creche for your baby If her salary is way more than yours then simply resign Above all, make sure you do family planning as a matter of urgency 1 Like |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by TwistedPair(m): 2:51pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
how old is the nephew that lives with you?..if he is of age, he can help with the baby till you guys come back from work or invite one family member from the village to live with you to avoid paying for a nanny(in your situation).. p.s: let her work o, it'll pay in the long run 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by kukuruku156(f): 2:51pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Tough one... If the pay is good and she can get a good nanny then let her take the job. We all know how challenging it is getting a job these days. Do either one of your mums live close by? That's another option you could explore. If all these fail then let her stay back and take care of the baby. Hopefully another job opportunity will come then. |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by ammyluv2002(f): 2:51pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
What if she has a job before now? She would've gone back to work already (3 months maternity leave) so what's the difference? Just get a good creche especially the one close to her office. Staying at home day in day out is very tiring 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by lurlah2014(f): 2:51pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
this is not about money its about survival Bonapart: 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by Burger01(m): 2:52pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Bonapart:So, you haven't seen a two month old bay in the care of nanny while madam goes off to work? Siddown there. No be money dem go take cater for the baby? ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by petkoffDrake(m): 2:52pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
guess u get a good house maid. she breast feeds d baby well before going to work, d maid feeds d baby with milk in d afternoon then when d mum come back from work, she breast feeds him well b4 going to bed 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by lurlah2014(f): 2:52pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
steppin:dont just try that, remeber the case of the orekoya family |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by Nobody: 2:54pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
yorubadelta: Yeah, you can't imagine because you have never been in their position, if you were deep in debt or your husband is barely earning enough to cater for you and your baby 8 Likes |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by braine(m): 2:54pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
MOORCHMOORE: What if she didnt get the job? Please let her stay with the child. |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by odyx: 2:54pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
My guy that your son needs financials for up keeps. Allow ur wife to work as jobs are hard to come by. Just get a maid for now and all other things will follow. Female banker with four months kids also work and are not allow to bring kids to office. Just let her work 1 Like |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by leggo: 2:54pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
should you allow?? are you some sort of dictator? 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by akoaki(m): 2:55pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Judging from the reasoning faculty of many nairalanders (maybe due to age), i doubt if you would get a good quality advice from here. Please look elsewhere in the best interest of your family. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by albovy(m): 2:56pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
My brother help us all_of a truth you may conisder that the child is 4months as you said and let your wife stay home but really the economy isn't friendly with you_iKd suggest you let that your inlaw or whoeve r is related and of age to come help out with other chores and ur wife prepare down for your baby_even if she's working, a normal work place leave for maternity is 3months so don't let ur wife with the feeling of guilt as to she's abandoning your kid..remember they even bore most of that @delivery than You lolz..but sincerely she's good yo go...the economy of that child is dependent on that her work also alongsde urs..#Candid opinion 1 Like |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by ogaprime(m): 2:57pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
LaRoyalHighness: A good nanny?? That must be nanny mcphee... |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by Cutehector(m): 2:58pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Midehi:wat if they livn in one bedroom apartment? |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by carzola(m): 2:58pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
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Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by kushsy: 2:58pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Your income is low,you have dependants,inlaws here and there yet you don't want your wife to work,what is the use of those inlaws coming over? Let her mother or close relation help in taking care of the baby at home..all working mothers leave their children from three month and goes back to work..its not idle or suitable but if you can manage then let her stay at home cos even a second child would come, would she resign from work then? 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by Nobody: 2:58pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
This is a perfect disadvantage of having a nuclear family. ![]() @OP, do you live in the same city as your parents or your wife's parents? If yes, give the kids to them and if no, try asking other family members and friends |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by debbydee(f): 2:58pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
money has destroyed the world. so you want to leave the young baby in the hands of a total stranger very soon you will cry foul when something happens. My question is what type of job did she get someone like her should target teaching jobs so you have ample time for family. My dear be wise. Don't chase money at the expense of family. My brother it seems you are a young couple please try to cut down extra expenses all these in law today and family tomorrow stylishly tell them to relax a bit for you to get your feet. Peace. |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by SouthernBreeze(m): 2:59pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Seconded Burger01: 1 Like |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by olawoyintolani: 3:00pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
A 4 month old child needs the mother's love, care and attention. If she refuses to take care of the child properly then she wants her child to grow up and be something bad. Her primary assignment is her child. God has been providing for your needs since when you got married,till she was pregnant, so God won't forsake you...To hell with the job if it will deprive her child of her attention.... pls help drop some comments on my blogs,God bless,obrigado www.olawoyinmustapha..com www.naijalawlibrary..com www.beneficialhowtodoit..com |
Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by omoarowolo12345: 3:01pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
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Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by blank(f): 3:01pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
What's the big deal? Don't women get just 3 months maternity leave? Look for a good creche that accepts from 3 months. But some questions sha. |
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