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Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Babs2040: 6:32pm On Jul 10, 2015
LET THE HE CARRY THE DAY.
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by heed101(m): 6:32pm On Jul 10, 2015
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by ednut1(m): 6:33pm On Jul 10, 2015
crap
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Sunofgod(m): 6:34pm On Jul 10, 2015
So this is what marriage has become??

Anyway its obvious they're both devious and both don't trust each other,

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Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Emodeee: 6:37pm On Jul 10, 2015
elantraceey:
To many insecurities , they should pause the marriage first , then sit down and sort themselves out, Amaka doesn't trust prince, they need to work on that trust before proceeding to marriage.

r u nt ripe for marriage?
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by eightsin(m): 6:37pm On Jul 10, 2015
There has to be a reason for her to insist on court marriage.
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Cyriloha(m): 6:37pm On Jul 10, 2015
Cutehector:
Can two ppo come togeda if dey can't agree?
a beg allow her go oolong! !!!!! she has plan she has been watching ini edo movies and actresses life style engage for some months ask for devo and share properties that she knows nothing about. ....No it can work guys are now smart
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by AreaFada2: 6:38pm On Jul 10, 2015
ronald4lif:
What's Prince scared of and trying to protect for rejecting a court wedding?. His properties and assets should in case of eventualities I suppose. He should proceed with the court wedding but must ensure they sign a pre-nup and states clearly what he's not willing to forfeit should the marriage collapse.
Amaka will vamoos if Prince mentions pre-nup. Amaka seems very money/ wealth conscious and Prince seems traditional. Amaka's threat to quit should make Prince look b4 even leaping. Would she also quit if Prince became incapacitated or poor God forbid?
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Nobody: 6:40pm On Jul 10, 2015
have you seen this?

Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by 9jatatafo(m): 6:40pm On Jul 10, 2015
Two thieves in the jungle trying to hide a treasure they found, no trust and no love.

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Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by yorubadelta(f): 6:40pm On Jul 10, 2015
edwife:
Men are scared of court wedding nowadays gringrin.The hustle is real....

Abi.. guyz are not smiling again o.. ladies aren't either tongue

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Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by angelz(f): 6:41pm On Jul 10, 2015
court wedding is important. Amaka should not settle for less. It has nothing to do with money but a lot to do with polygamy. if there's no court wedding, prince can marry another wife since the marriage is not legal. except they sign the marriage certificate in the church.

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Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by IYANGBALI: 6:42pm On Jul 10, 2015
Can't you impregnate her and keep her mouth shut
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by refreshrate: 6:42pm On Jul 10, 2015
Prince is not ok. Wetin be him own sef? Is it not the woman that owns wedding day? Abi where you hear say dem talk say its the grooms happiest day? Na bride dem dey talk.

If the girl had been keeping honeypot from him prior to this discussion ehn i swear even if na shrine she talk prince no go complain. The guy wan jump ship come dey form quarrel.
Be careful of prince.

Prince of where sef?
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by josite: 6:43pm On Jul 10, 2015
only poor men do court marriage.pay dowry on her and get her pregnant and when she proved she is the real wife and you are ready to die and give her all you own mthen do court wedding.i happen to be a lawyer.
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by oyejideogunjumo: 6:43pm On Jul 10, 2015
The two of them know what they doing why.
However if such flimsy matter like this has started with disagreement they have a long way to go.
Many things to disagree to agree in marriage.
They are comedians leave them.

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Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by kunletoks(m): 6:44pm On Jul 10, 2015
ronald4lif:
What's Prince scared of and trying to protect for rejecting a court wedding?. His properties and assets should in case of eventualities I suppose. He should proceed with the court wedding but must ensure they sign a pre-nup and states clearly what he's not willing to forfeit should the marriage collapse.

I really like you point.
They should agree on what they can forfeit in case on any future issue.
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Nobody: 6:44pm On Jul 10, 2015
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Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Vince77(m): 6:45pm On Jul 10, 2015
There is no point marrying someone u dont trust.
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by SpeedyConnect(m): 6:46pm On Jul 10, 2015
Cutehector:
traditional marriage is very very important
No dear. It can be dispensed with by two adults.
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by ronald4lif(m): 6:48pm On Jul 10, 2015
AreaFada2:
Amaka will vamoos if Prince mentions pre-nup. Amaka seems very money/ wealth conscious and Prince seems traditional. Amaka's threat to quit should make Prince look b4 even leaping. Would she also quit if Prince became incapacitated or poor God forbid?

If she won't agree to a pre-nup agreement then Prince should jettison the wedding/relationship and move on. The Amanda lady has an ulterior motive and would likely sue for divorce and huge alimony entitlements.
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Seadove70(m): 6:48pm On Jul 10, 2015
Bikun lo loko ni bi tapu te ni
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by shepherdnoble: 6:48pm On Jul 10, 2015
Nonsense love!!! She can't change my decision of trado marriage. Why court marriage? She has divorce agenda 2morrow. The guy should be careful... Ladies n their yeye love sef.
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Pavore9: 6:51pm On Jul 10, 2015
IYANGBALI:
Can't you impregnate her and keep her mouth shut

What if she aborts it, will he arrest her?
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Azubreezy(m): 6:52pm On Jul 10, 2015
What is court marriage and what is church marriage? The fact that you celebrated your marriage in court doesn't make your marriage more serious than the one celebrated in church. After all it is the same documents you execute in church that you also sign in court which will be filed in the marriage registry at the local government. Your marriage is either traditional or marriage under the Act. Church and court are just venues for celebration of marriages. They are both one and the same thing as long as you are issued a certificate after everything. I wonder why Nigerian girls think celebrating marriage in court makes them 'more married'. Please refer to the Marriage Act and the Matrimonial Causes Act for avoidance of doubt. Be guided properly.

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Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by sweatlana: 6:53pm On Jul 10, 2015
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Nobody: 6:54pm On Jul 10, 2015
Court Marriage is a way of signing your life away as a man.


African tradition marriage is the only marriage Africans should recognise. Why must he do a court wedding? There are many women in the world and there are also many men in the world.

There is nothing certain about marriage. Why stay with someone who you are not happy for the rest of your miserable life?

If she does not want traditional, she can look for someone else.

Tres simple.

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Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Karlman: 6:55pm On Jul 10, 2015
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Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by SpeedyConnect(m): 6:55pm On Jul 10, 2015
Chidoks:
wait o.if the church wedding is properly done then amaka has nothing to fear.not just blessing of marriage o.in family law,there are conditions for a marriage to be legally acceptable
1:the marriage should be registered at the registry.21 working days notice would then be posted infront of the registry office for anyone that wishes to oppose the narriage to come forth.
2:the wedding must take place in a recognised place of worship.that i a church that is duly registered.
3:the marriage must take place between certain hours.i think 10:00am to 4:00pm.(not very sure but something likevthat..
4:the wedding myst be conducted by a recognised minister.
note:after the wedding you get a certificate(usually3)the church has one,the couple has one and the registry has one
so amaka ask questions if you contract your wedding the aforementioned way it is valid abd legal
amaka bear in mind that conducting a marriage under the act(court marriage) does not show love.yes it is a sign of commitement but not love.infact with that divorce is almost a sure thing because even when the elders of thr family intervene in disputes a dissatisfied party msy run to the court and get what they want

See this girl o. Are you a law student?
But you only succeeded in stating only the formal requirements -- which cannot invalidate the marriage if one of them claims not to be aware of them-- and left the essential requirements such as age, prohibited degree of consanguinity, single status etc.

It's should be noted that there is no differrence between church marriage and court marriage, that's strictly speaking. What we have are just two forms of marriage. Customary and statutory( which encompasses court, church etc, remember court or church is just like the venue and different rules apply depending on the 'venue' chosen.).

Regarding church, the most important thing is that the marriage at chuch should comply with legal provisions lest it become a mere church blessing and of no legal effect.

Dont have time now, would have written at length about this.

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