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Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by fombadi: 6:55pm On Jul 10, 2015
If I was Prince I won't do a court marriage. Traditional and Church marriages are enough to show your love. Prince definitely has been showing her love that's why she agreed to marry him. If Amaka was rich she wouldn't even wanna hear anything about court marriage. As for Amaka I smell greed and lack of trust, and for Prince uncertainty and lack of trust.
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by ShayGirl(f): 6:55pm On Jul 10, 2015
Both are right in their own ways, they only need to sit and agree on they really want and follow each other's opinion.

Left for me, I see nothing wrong in getting married by both means, (traditionally and legally) cos they r both important. I believe for them come to d decision of marriage, they must HV gone a long way, so therefore misunderstandings like this shouldn't b taking place..
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by zeb04(f): 6:55pm On Jul 10, 2015
court marriage is necessary especially in the eyes of the law.

traditionally marriage is also necessary especially in the eyes of the land and the hungry chief's with pot bellies. so both should never be compromised.

the only one that doesn't make sense to me is white wedding even some churches will not wed you till they see the court certificates.
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by jaymejate: 6:55pm On Jul 10, 2015
Disagreement even before marriage. And you sure say this tin go work?

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Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by SpeedyConnect(m): 6:56pm On Jul 10, 2015
Azubreezy:
What is court marriage and what is church marriage? The fact that you celebrated your marriage in court doesn't make your marriage more serious than the one celebrated in church. After all it is the same documents you execute in church that you also sign in court which will be filed in the marriage registry at the local government. Your marriage is either traditional or marriage under the Act. Church and court are just venues for celebration of marriages. They are both one and the same thing as long as you are issued a certificate after everything. I wonder why Nigerian girls think celebrating marriage in court makes them 'more married'. Please refer to the Marriage Act and the Matrimonial Causes Act for avoidance of doubt. Be guided properly.

Cool.
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by freeage7(m): 6:56pm On Jul 10, 2015
Guy, don't be afraid, give her court wedding. No wahala. Na she go first u die and ur properties remain yours. Lol

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Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Nobody: 6:57pm On Jul 10, 2015
Pavore9:


What if she aborts it, will he arrest her?
This made me smile. It is only a woman that can decide when she wants to get pregnant or not.

It reminds me of mixing contraceptive pills in centrum or vitamins c/supplement pack.
If she is smart, she won't be caught.

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Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by darkchap(m): 6:57pm On Jul 10, 2015
[quote author=suggyspic post=35703943]She wants court marriage while he wants traditional marriage. This resulted to argument between Prince and Amaka who have been dating for 5yrs. Prince have propose to Amaka and the traditional knocking of door have been done. In the process of planning for the marriage, prince have insisted that he would only do the traditional marriage and later the church marriage, but Amaka insisted that she prefers a court marriage and later the traditional marriage. Amaka went further by telling prince its either the court marriage or no marriage at all, stating that court marriage would proof to her that Prince truely loves her and wants to protect her further with him. Prince on the other hand insisted that he would do the court marriage when he deems it fit. Amaka have threaten to break up the relationship. Prince is the only son in a family of four and is doing very well. Marriage preparation is 80% ready.

Should Prince concede to her or maintain his stand?
Is Amaka's stance right (using love as a yardstick to buttress her point)
do you smell any hidden agenda on the part of prince or Amaka.
In your candid opinion, do you think this marriage would work.




They are both daft. So, what av dey bein doin for 5 yrs witout discussin deir future, bleeping I guess. Silly people
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by cyprus000: 6:58pm On Jul 10, 2015
Moneyyy:
She has other motives, if the guy wasn't doing well would she have insisted on court marriage?


[size=13pt]
Don't mind the snitch.
Why must it be court marriage,if she doesn't have hidden motives and even threatened to break up.

If that guy conced,he is a fool..people don't learn from all this people you see in the news going to court everyday and begging judge to desolve their marriage,cos their partner's think they have monopoly to misbehave.

On the flip side,she might have eyez on his properties,which may be her reason for insisting on court marriage,when he offered church marriage.

All this bittch ain't to be trusted,some even kill their husband for this purpose.

If I want to give her something,I will do that on my own terms,nobody can compel or cow me into that.

Whether we dun date for 1,000 yrsangry
She is my responsiblity and I will take care of that.

No person go tell me wetin to doangry[/size]

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Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by ikombe: 6:58pm On Jul 10, 2015
Cutehector:
Can two ppo come togeda if dey can't agree?
using question to answer a question just like a perfect nigerian undecided
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by sonofananimalz: 6:59pm On Jul 10, 2015
angry

IF YOU WANT TO MARRY A NAIJA WOMAN, DON'T DO COURT WEDDING, I REPEAT, DON'T DO COURT WEDDING.

COURT WILL ONLY GIVE THEM RIGHT TO DO WHATEVER NONSENSE THEM LIKE.


BY THE WAY, SHE ONLY WHAT COURT WEDDING FOR HER SELFISH INTEREST, NAIJA WOMEN ARE WORST THAN ANIMALS.
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by ikombe: 6:59pm On Jul 10, 2015
Aprime:
Heads or Tails?
They should flip a Coin. Works always for my Dad & Mum.
lol grin
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by ronald4lif(m): 7:01pm On Jul 10, 2015
kunletoks:


I really like you point.
They should agree on what they can forfeit in case on any future issue.

That's how it should be. A pre-nup contract should be embark upon before nuptials, especially in this age where people are marrying for wealth and financial gratifications. The love flim-flam tricks shouldn't fly anymore. Not to people who are cognizant of the fact that there's no such thing as love. We only have "interest" not love.
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Nwocha12(f): 7:02pm On Jul 10, 2015
Let them go their separate ways since they don't agree on how the marriage should be hold. Haaaaaaaaaaaa but she is not serious oo so the court wedding will tell her if he loves her or not, she never ready. Court or no court a man will always do what he feels like doing.
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by freshvine(f): 7:08pm On Jul 10, 2015
freecocoa:
Why does Prince not want a court wedding? He's up to something, if I were Amaka, I'll stick to my guns.

The question should be would she be the one sponsoring the court marriage.

If a woman should argue with her intended husband over an issue like this then the man is about to manage an overbearing manipulative woman as wife.

The truth is what's she afraid of by being insecure?

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Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Nobody: 7:08pm On Jul 10, 2015
No Nigerian man should ever agree to court Marriage. It is a trap.

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Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Neplusultra(f): 7:10pm On Jul 10, 2015
Wots her fear?
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by EbolaParasite: 7:11pm On Jul 10, 2015
ronald4lif:
What's Prince scared of and trying to protect for rejecting a court wedding?. His properties and assets should in case of eventualities I suppose. He should proceed with the court wedding but must ensure they sign a pre-nup and states clearly what he's not willing to forfeit should the marriage collapse.

Sign a pre-nup? Someone that says it's court wedding or nothing and won't agree to traditional marriage will sign a pre-nup? For where
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Ayietim(m): 7:12pm On Jul 10, 2015
Give it to her, show her that you trust her, show her that you love her, any thing to make her happy.
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Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by ComrdDRS: 7:14pm On Jul 10, 2015
NO......
Cutehector:
Can two ppo come togeda if dey can't agree?
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by emmusay(m): 7:14pm On Jul 10, 2015
With the current rate of abortion and destruction of wombs these days...court wedding is becoming more cruel to the men; just in case she's a victime. #BewarePrince you also need a heir.

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Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by efemenaslectura: 7:16pm On Jul 10, 2015
If they both cannot settle little battles in courtship how do they settle issues in marriage


anyway this is another potential igando customary court case grin



they are already fighting battles just before getting started grin
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by freecocoa(f): 7:18pm On Jul 10, 2015
freshvine:


The question should be would she be the one sponsoring the court marriage.

If a woman should argue with her intended husband over an issue like this then the man is about to manage an overbearing manipulative woman as wife.

The truth is what's she afraid of by being insecure?
How much do you think it costs to get wedded in a court? Do you even know the importance of court wedding?

She doesn't have to be afraid of anything, she's just taking the right step, what is the man afraid of by refusing?

It's really saddening to read a woman calling another woman with an opinion manipulative and overbearing, so she's supposed to just go with whatever the fiance wants? It's not even like the court wedding will be in her favour alone.

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Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by efemenaslectura: 7:18pm On Jul 10, 2015
Another angry man syndrome grin


awon its either my way or no way at all grin
cyprus000:



[size=13pt]
Don't mind the snitch.
Why must it be court marriage,if she doesn't have hidden motives and even threatened to break up.

If that guy conced,he is a fool..people don't learn from all this people you see in the news going to court everyday and begging judge to desolve their marriage,cos their partner's think they have monopoly to misbehave.

On the flip side,she might have eyez on his properties,which may be her reason for insisting on court marriage,when he offered church marriage.

All this bittch ain't to be trusted,some even kill their husband for this purpose.

If I want to give her something,I will do that on my own terms,nobody can compel or cow me into that.

Whether we dun date for 1,000 yrsangry
She is my responsiblity and I will take care of that.

No person go tell me wetin to doangry[/size]
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Pavore9: 7:19pm On Jul 10, 2015
mercylicious:

This made me smile. It is only a woman that can decide when she wants to get pregnant or not.

It reminds me of mixing contraceptive pills in centrum or vitamins c/supplement pack.
If she is smart, she won't be caught.

Sometimes men delude themselves into believing they have a final say when it comes to pregnancy! cheesy cheesy In this case, the lady cannot be outsmarted with a pregnancy....cunny man die, cunny man bury am! cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Nobody: 7:21pm On Jul 10, 2015
Cutehector:
traditional marriage is very very important


Ikr but why? I wonder
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Richman15: 7:21pm On Jul 10, 2015
freecocoa:
Why does Prince not want a court wedding? He's up to something, if I were Amaka, I'll stick to my guns.
And if I were Prince, I'll show U the exit Door. I can't marry a materially concious and unsubmissive woman.
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by efemenaslectura: 7:23pm On Jul 10, 2015
Lol. E nor dey hard to easily identify awon dheek whipped women grin



she has to grin
freecocoa:
How much do you think it costs to get wedded in a court? Do you even know the importance of court wedding?

She doesn't have to be afraid of anything, she's just taking the right step, what is the man afraid of by refusing?

It's really saddening to read a woman calling another woman with an opinion manipulative and overbearing, so she's supposed to just go with whatever the hubby wants? It's not even like the court wedding will be in her favour alone.
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by efemenaslectura: 7:24pm On Jul 10, 2015
Neplusultra:
Wots her fear?
her fear is not to become a victim of stories that touch the soul when they start brining out their colour grin
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Pavore9: 7:25pm On Jul 10, 2015
ClockworkOrange:
No Nigerian man should ever agree to court Marriage. It is a trap.

But they willingly do that with a white woman, whom the Law protects more than the man! Even if the white wife kills him, his family may not likely get justice!

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Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Cutehector(m): 7:27pm On Jul 10, 2015
Shezhawt:



Ikr but why? I wonder
well, whr u come from, is very important, so ur native home, I.e ur kinsmen, gotta be very aware dat thr daughter is getn married... And must gv their blessings... Its been d oldest form of marriage eva... Even befor d advent of christain mariage...

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