refreshrate:
Prince is not ok. Wetin be him own sef? Is it not the woman that owns wedding day? Abi where you hear say dem talk say its the grooms happiest day? Na bride dem dey talk.

If the girl had been keeping honeypot from him prior to this discussion ehn i swear even if na shrine she talk prince no go complain. The guy wan jump ship come dey form quarrel.
Be careful of prince.

Prince of where sef?

Ikiriye:


I use European satellite at home not dstv so I watch some channels dstv don't offer and I see lots of divorce rates and how beneficial it is to women.have you wondered why most men in Europe are not married.partial systems that favors the women and against the men.they get the guys committed and encourage him to sweat and buy a house,then they set the men up with paid prostitutes that stalks the man until he falls and they have video recording to that effect.the rest you should know.Nigerian ladies are copying very fast.I don't encourage 2 wives syndrome but we have wicked women that wish our mothers dead so they can run us.this is AFRICA MEN SHINE YOUR EYES.

freecocoa:
Lets forget Europe for a minute and concentrate on Nigeria as the same thing doesn't happen here, even what you call women being favoured is open for debate but not today.

Marriage here doesn't favour women as you are trying to say, instead the man gets away with almost anything.

Ikiriye:


How can we forget Europe when everything our women are doing is European.fake nails,fake ass,fake hair,fake eye lash and the list goes on.if she is rich and the guy is poor she might not consider court option.we are beginning to have hybrid women in our society so we men need to be careful.men watch your wives when they start keeping so many friends for she will most likely be corrupted when you talk she heads to court to take that your sweet house.not acceptable.

cyprus000:

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Then,it's better you jump inside lagoon,cos no human being can dictate for me.
my fada/moda didn't do that.
It will be one woman from nowhere that will do that...lyk watdefuck

WTF..do you ladies think marriage is to men?..I personally don't think I will marry,so save me that crap.
Cos you ain't doin no one any favour,its 50/50%
So look for all this "sissy" men to shove that bullcrap terms and condition in their throat.

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What the heck do you ladies think love is?..a kind of mumu MODE
It has come to my notice that you people use it to emmitionally blackmail gullible guyz and give it a new meaning to suit your selfish interest.

I only pity those men..SMH
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freecocoa:
After 5 years of what? I didn't realize dating and marriage mean the same thing.

Of course he won't be jailed, but he has to abide by the contract of their marriage.

suggyspic:
She wants court marriage while he wants traditional marriage. This resulted to argument between Prince and Amaka who have been dating for 5yrs. Prince have propose to Amaka and the traditional knocking of door have been done. In the process of planning for the marriage, prince have insisted that he would only do the traditional marriage and later the church marriage, but Amaka insisted that she prefers a court marriage and later the traditional marriage. Amaka went further by telling prince its either the court marriage or no marriage at all, stating that court marriage would proof to her that Prince truely loves her and wants to protect her further with him. Prince on the other hand insisted that he would do the court marriage when he deems it fit. Amaka have threaten to break up the relationship. Prince is the only son in a family of four and is doing very well. Marriage preparation is 80% ready.

Should Prince concede to her or maintain his stand?
Is Amaka's stance right (using love as a yardstick to buttress her point)
do you smell any hidden agenda on the part of prince or Amaka.
In your candid opinion, do you think this marriage would work.

bashydemy:
They dated for 5 long years and she dint still trust the guy? Come off it girl. I hate that word court marriage, In my family we don't believe in that.. Why sign a bondage for myself where i cannot have a say and she will threaten me with certificate.. Make Prince let her lots of girl are on the street, By the time she spend another 5yrs dating another guy her head go straight.

suggyspic:
She wants court marriage while he wants traditional marriage. This resulted to argument between Prince and Amaka who have been dating for 5yrs. Prince have propose to Amaka and the traditional knocking of door have been done. In the process of planning for the marriage, prince have insisted that he would only do the traditional marriage and later the church marriage, but Amaka insisted that she prefers a court marriage and later the traditional marriage. Amaka went further by telling prince its either the court marriage or no marriage at all, stating that court marriage would proof to her that Prince truely loves her and wants to protect her further with him. Prince on the other hand insisted that he would do the court marriage when he deems it fit. Amaka have threaten to break up the relationship. Prince is the only son in a family of four and is doing very well. Marriage preparation is 80% ready.

Should Prince concede to her or maintain his stand?
Is Amaka's stance right (using love as a yardstick to buttress her point)
do you smell any hidden agenda on the part of prince or Amaka.
In your candid opinion, do you think this marriage would work.

efemenaslectura:
Haaa typical African man.i see

Mr no woman can talk to me

speaking of sissies i prefer them to the so called macho guys

sissies are very malleable and easy to shape in the way you can easily control and feel comfortable with .a direct opposite of the mr macho guy

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Yes, I am an african and a proud one at that.
Infact I am a cave man with a retro tendency,but more logical and advanced in thinking than you zombified brainwashed peeps,whose sixth sense have been hegemonically infested by the imperialist,with no mind of your own and live the life of emperialist just to please them.

It is a pity that you peeps still wallow in the swamp of ignorance and sees anything from the emperialist as progressive and your's has retrogressive.
That's the peak of mental slavery.
There is no way a counterfeit can be better than an original.
Quit being a copycat and have a mind of your own.

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I have dated 4 white ladies and in no way,did they try to dictate life for me.I didn't even give room for such nonesense.
It is the way you present yourself,will you be taken.

Infact,my present GF is a brazilian and was a budhhist.i am the one who converted her to christainity.
So anytime I see you peeps use whites has reference,I begin to wonder if it's same white I know or from pluto

And about the embolded,it's good that you have your boundry,I only pity those "sissy" men you are planning to make your subjects.

It's not my business anyway

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ronald4lif:
What's Prince scared of and trying to protect for rejecting a court wedding?. His properties and assets should in case of eventualities I suppose. He should proceed with the court wedding but must ensure they sign a pre-nup and states clearly what he's not willing to forfeit should the marriage collapse.

edwife:
Men are scared of court wedding nowadays .The hustle is real....

roob:


Bro., you no book die!

freecocoa:
Stop feigning ignorance biko. How do you expect to have this debate when you don't see anything wrong in a man deciding he wants another wife and can have that, whenever he wants, regardless of what his wife thinks or how it affects her?

suggyspic:
She wants court marriage while he wants traditional marriage. This resulted to argument between Prince and Amaka who have been dating for 5yrs. Prince have propose to Amaka and the traditional knocking of door have been done. In the process of planning for the marriage, prince have insisted that he would only do the traditional marriage and later the church marriage, but Amaka insisted that she prefers a court marriage and later the traditional marriage. Amaka went further by telling prince its either the court marriage or no marriage at all, stating that court marriage would proof to her that Prince truely loves her and wants to protect her further with him. Prince on the other hand insisted that he would do the court marriage when he deems it fit. Amaka have threaten to break up the relationship. Prince is the only son in a family of four and is doing very well. Marriage preparation is 80% ready.

Should Prince concede to her or maintain his stand?
Is Amaka's stance right (using love as a yardstick to buttress her point)
do you smell any hidden agenda on the part of prince or Amaka.
In your candid opinion, do you think this marriage would work.

suggyspic:
She wcourt marriage while he wants traditional marriage. This resulted to argument between Prince and Amaka who have been dating for 5yrs. Prince have propose to Amaka and the traditional knocking of door have been done. In the process of planning for the marriage, prince have insisted that he would only do the traditional marriage and later the church marriage, but Amaka insisted that she prefers a court marriage and later the traditional marriage. Amaka went further by telling prince its either the court marriage or no marriage at all, stating that court marriage would proof to her that Prince truely loves her and wants to protect her further with him. Prince on the other hand insisted that he would do the court marriage when he deems it fit. Amaka have threaten to break up the relationship. Prince is the only son in a family of four and is doing very well. Marriage preparation is 80% ready.

Should Prince concede to her or maintain his stand?
Is Amaka's stance right (using love as a yardstick to buttress her point)
do you smell any hidden agenda on the part of prince or Amaka.
In your candid opinion, do you think this marriage would work.

bashydemy:
The last time i check the man is the head of the house, So if prince say he did not believe in court marriage will he be forced to do it? Amaka Should becareful or else she is about to loose 5yrs of her life.

angelz:
court wedding is important. Amaka should not settle for less. It has nothing to do with money but a lot to do with polygamy. if there's no court wedding, prince can marry another wife since the marriage is not legal. except they sign the marriage certificate in the church.

Chidoks:
wait o.if the church wedding is properly done then amaka has nothing to fear.not just blessing of marriage o.in family law,there are conditions for a marriage to be legally acceptable
1:the marriage should be registered at the registry.21 working days notice would then be posted infront of the registry office for anyone that wishes to oppose the narriage to come forth.
2:the wedding must take place in a recognised place of worship.that i a church that is duly registered.
3:the marriage must take place between certain hours.i think 10:00am to 4:00pm.(not very sure but something likevthat..
4:the wedding myst be conducted by a recognised minister.
note:after the wedding you get a certificate(usually3)the church has one,the couple has one and the registry has one
so amaka ask questions if you contract your wedding the aforementioned way it is valid abd legal
amaka bear in mind that conducting a marriage under the act(court marriage) does not show love.yes it is a sign of commitement but not love.infact with that divorce is almost a sure thing because even when the elders of thr family intervene in disputes a dissatisfied party msy run to the court and get what they want

ronald4lif:
What's Prince scared of and trying to protect for rejecting a court wedding?. His properties and assets should in case of eventualities I suppose. He should proceed with the court wedding but must ensure they sign a pre-nup and states clearly what he's not willing to forfeit should the marriage collapse.

halfrica:
Simple the magistrate shd be present at the traditional wedding with necessary documents
Simple tin to do *rules are meant to be broken for love*
Ask adam and eve dey no berra

Toks2008:


A man who truly loves his lady and has no hidden agenda will gladly do a registry marrage.