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When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by kay29000(m): 12:58pm On Jul 11, 2015
I have been meeting a lot of single ladies in their mid 30s lately, and it got me wondering why they weren't taken already. Then, from talking to most of them and doing some research and I discovered that most of them are still playing hard to get. I don't mean girls should jump at every man that comes your way, but at least, if a guy you like APPROACHES you, dont chase him away.

Not all girls are like this though. I remember taking my mom for a party some years back and I saw this fine girl talking to my mom. They hadn't spoken much when my mom called me and introduced us. She had asked my mom if I was her son, and with my mom's experience, she understood what the girl was trying say. Why can't girls go for what they want? You don't have to walk up to the guy and say "Hey, I like you...let's go out." No...you can be subtle with it...be creative.

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Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by onosprince(m): 1:02pm On Jul 11, 2015
In the fullness of time

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Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by Rilwayne001: 1:07pm On Jul 11, 2015
NEXT YEAR

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Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by funlord(m): 1:09pm On Jul 11, 2015
grin That's why most of them end up as unhappy housewives married 2 brutes or in dysfunctional relationships with _twats! They spend their good years "FORMING" away @ their best options! Grow up ladies cause its a sign of IMMATURITY!

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Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by Afrok(m): 1:16pm On Jul 11, 2015
Nah today? Dem go learn and wake up wen we return to the GARDEN OF EDEN.
In my gf's voice " Kenny u know how to have ur way", i said shoo... Do u think all guys have time or know how to have their ways? Una go jst dey there, una emotional lives go dey empty for life until HIS KINGDOM COME.

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Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by Nobody: 1:21pm On Jul 11, 2015
Ok
Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by damilareoye: 1:24pm On Jul 11, 2015
wake up, you sleeping being... grin

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Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by Remilekun101: 1:27pm On Jul 11, 2015
I still don't know why people think marriage is necessary....


Jobless OP

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Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by kay29000(m): 1:33pm On Jul 11, 2015
Remilekun101:
I still don't know why people think marriage is necessary....


Jobless OP

Did I mention marriage? Being 'not' single doesn't mean you are married...you could be in a healthy relationship.

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Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by Remilekun101: 1:35pm On Jul 11, 2015
kay29000:


Did I mention marriage? Being 'not' single doesn't mean you are married...you could be in a healthy relationship.

What would the relationship lead to....... angry
Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by babyfaceafrica: 1:41pm On Jul 11, 2015
They will never wakeup cos they hve been programmed to form....its only the wise ones among them that are reprogramming themselves....what they fail to understand is that not all guys have time to be playing catchup..when there is money and better things to chase!!!...maybe when they are 60 he go clear for their eyes

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Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by misspicy(f): 1:43pm On Jul 11, 2015
Remilekun101:
I still don't know why people think marriage is necessary....


Jobless OP
And you think it is not necessary?
Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by Remilekun101: 1:47pm On Jul 11, 2015
misspicy:

And you think it is not necessary?


It is not........


I love been alone just by myself

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Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by dulux07(m): 1:48pm On Jul 11, 2015
True talk, i think some ladies should stop seein themselves as sex objects indirectly, thats d mentality they have, that a guy must chase u to get down there.

cos if u like someone, i see no reason y u should b playin hard to get, its not as if he is directly tellin u to come n have sex with him, remember whether a rlatnship is celibate or sexual it all depends on d lady.

I believe if ladies learn to close their legs more often, they wont play hard to get, n it will b much more easier for them to ask a guy out.

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Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by misspicy(f): 1:54pm On Jul 11, 2015
Remilekun101:



It is not........


I love been alone just by myself
How then do u intend to fulfil ur God given mission '[b]BE FRUITFUL AND MULTIPLY[\b]'

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Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by Remilekun101: 1:57pm On Jul 11, 2015
misspicy:

How then do u intend to fulfil ur God given mission '[b]BE FRUITFUL AND MULTIPLY[\b]'

Fruitful and Multiply is specifically meant for the Christian Adam and eve


Not for me

and moreover there are baby mamas

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Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by Nobody: 2:00pm On Jul 11, 2015
We wud start wen feminism becomes legal
*equality of the sexes*
Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by Nobody: 2:05pm On Jul 11, 2015
op but playing hard to get is sometimes sweet
Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by kay29000(m): 2:27pm On Jul 11, 2015
Andrew114:
op but playing hard to get is sometimes sweet

Yea...'sometimes' when the girl doesn't do the hard to get thing in a rude manner. It can also be good for guys that are just all out to sleep with every girl they lay their eyes on. But if there is some form attraction between the two parties, why play hard to get?

I remember when I was in unilag, a female friend of mine narrated a story to me...Her room mate came to meet her that she liked a particular guy in my friend's class. My friend went and did a little snooping around and found out the guy in question actually liked the girl too. So, without telling the guy how her friend felt towards the guy, my friend talked to the guy and urged him to make a move on the girl. He did...twice, and the girl still turned him down. The next week, the guy got a new girlfriend, and the "shakara" girl came back to my friend crying... She said she didn't know why she kept proving hard to get.

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Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by Deexxy: 3:03pm On Jul 11, 2015
Remilekun101:
I still don't know why people think marriage is necessary....


Jobless OP
Shut the fhuuck up!

Marriage is very necessary but not compulsory. undecided

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Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by Deexxy: 3:04pm On Jul 11, 2015
halfrica:
We wud start wen feminism becomes legal
*equality of the sexes*
Feminism has never been illegal. undecided

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Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by Nobody: 3:16pm On Jul 11, 2015
Deexxy:

Feminism has never been illegal. undecided

Really even in africa grin
And there is a femalein nigeria femaleinafrica campaign all over twirra
Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by Remilekun101: 3:16pm On Jul 11, 2015
Deexxy:

Shut the fhuuck up!

Marriage is very necessary but not compulsory. undecided

How is it necessary?


sad angry
Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by Deexxy: 4:54pm On Jul 11, 2015
halfrica:


Really even in africa grin
And there is a femalein nigeria femaleinafrica campaign all over twirra
First of all define "Legal" undecided
Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by Nobody: 4:55pm On Jul 11, 2015
Deexxy:

First of all define "Legal" undecided
Legal is anytin dat is acceptable by d law in a country grin
Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by Deexxy: 4:57pm On Jul 11, 2015
Remilekun101:


How is it necessary?


sad angry
Its necessary so man and woman can live together and have kids legally. That's the only right way the society sees it.
Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by Deexxy: 4:58pm On Jul 11, 2015
halfrica:

Legal is anytin dat is acceptable by d law in a country grin
Thank you!

So since when have you heard that the concept of feminism is abolished by the law? undecided
Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by Nobody: 5:00pm On Jul 11, 2015
Deexxy:

Thank you!

So since when have you heard that the concept of feminism is abolished by the law? undecided
Bever said it was abolished its just not yet legal in ngetia abi is it in d nigeria constitution if so wat section
Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by Nobody: 5:01pm On Jul 11, 2015
Deexxy:

Thank you!

So since when have you heard that the concept of feminism is abolished by the law? undecided
Never said it was abolished its just not yet legal in nigeria abi is it in d nigeria constitution if so wat section
Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by Deexxy: 5:03pm On Jul 11, 2015
halfrica:

Never said it was abolished its just not yet legal in nigeria abi is it in d nigeria constitution if so wat section
You keep using the word legal ignorantly.

There is no country that feminism is "legal" as a law. Feminism is a concept.

What you'll say is the ideologies of feminism has not been widely accepted here in Nigeria.

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Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by Adaeze003(f): 5:08pm On Jul 11, 2015
Ha... feminism is now illegal? Lol.

I guess gals will wake up when guys wake up...
Re: When Will Nigerian Girls Wakeup? by passionate88: 5:33pm On Jul 11, 2015
kay29000:
I have been meeting a lot of single ladies in their mid 30s lately, and it got me wondering why they weren't taken already. Then, from talking to most of them and doing some research and I discovered that most of them are still playing hard to get. I don't mean girls should jump at every man that comes your way, but at least, if a guy you like APPROACHES you, dont chase him away.

Not all girls are like this though. I remember taking my mom for a party some years back and I saw this fine girl talking to my mom. They hadn't spoken much when my mom called me and introduced us. She had asked my mom if I was her son, and with my mom's experience, she understood what the girl was trying say. Why can't girls go for what they want? You don't have to walk up to the guy and say "Hey, I like you...let's go out." No...you can be subtle with it...be creative.
What did you do with the girl?

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