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reportnaija:



http://sunnewsonline.com/new/30-yr-old-man-accused-of-defiling-one-yr-old/

na wa ooh. Little baby dis guy deserve serious punishmnt I swear. If u can't control ur di.ckus @least FG neva banned okpoo joint now d way ogogoro has been banned now.

mablie:
You are a man right?Let me guess,you also consider yourself a feminist too right?LOL.Okay tell me good man,what is wrong in a woman maintaining her chastity until marriage? and what are its disadvantages?Or do you erroneously believe virginity for men and women are thesame?LooooooooL

Nothing wrong with virginity/chastity at all. It is to be admired. Just don't tell me about it or make it a bragging
point. Let it be a suprise on the big night.

I am not a feminist at all o. Infact I have a thread arguing that nature intended the sexes to be different and probably unequal. I'll send u the link.

I forgot to paste this:

BTW,
There is this red hot thread where we are trying to determine what should be the parameters of the age of consent in 9ja (and wether there should even be a consent age at all). And also what sorts of punishment should be meted out and wether the punishment should vary depending on age. I think it's a discussion we seriously need to have. You may wish to add your two cents. Here is the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/2439827/age-consent-sex-what-want

Maybe there is a thread u think I should comment on? Let me know.

architez:


Nothing wrong with virginity/chastity at all. It is to be admired. Just don't tell me about it or make it a bragging
point. Let it be a suprise on the big night.

I am not a feminist at all o. Infact I have a thread arguing that nature intended the sexes to be different and probably unequal. I'll send u the link.

I forgot to paste this:

BTW,
There is this red hot thread where we are trying to determine what should be the parameters of the age of consent in 9ja (and wether there should even be a consent age at all). And also what sorts of punishment should be meted out and wether the punishment should vary depending on age. I think it's a discussion we seriously need to have. You may wish to add your two cents. Here is the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/2439827/age-consent-sex-what-want

Maybe there is a thread u think I should comment on? Let me know.

I like this your post because you put your point of view across clearly with no insult whatsoever.Thank you for not being like the majority on this site.As for the age consent thread,I may view it soon and maybe even post a comment or two

Nawa Ooo

MrsAnyanwu:
Why is d heart of man evil? Dis man should suffer d consequences nd let him not forget, 2morow he wld say he has repented nd given his life to Christ, he wld get married nd have daughters nd someone wld do same to his daughters,innocent daughters, dat don't know anything, Karma is a .......

My first friend on NL, MrsAnyanwu. My first time seeing u again since I joined. Ha u been?

U R right on point. The cycle of abuse continues.

BTW,
There is this red hot thread where we are trying to determine what should be the parameters of the age of consent in 9ja (and wether there should even be a consent age at all). And also what sorts of punishment should be meted out and wether the punishment should vary depending on age. I think it's a discussion we seriously need to have. You may wish to add your two cents. Here is the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/2439827/age-consent-sex-what-want

Maybe there is a thread u think I should comment on? Let me know.

A year old girl hasn't had a hymen yet.

mablie:
I like this your post because you put your point of view across clearly with no insult whatsoever.Thank you for not being like the majority on this site.As for the age consent thread,I may view it soon and maybe even post a comment or two

Thanks. It is just the easiest way to be (for me). Being nasty is too much work. BTW, u r not bad yourself.
Don't forget to tell me if there is a thread u wish I comment on.

Vivly:
A year old girl hasn't had a hymen yet.

Thought I was the only thinking on that line.
I would like to meet you.....someday.

Vivly:
A year old girl hasn't had a hymen yet.

Hmmmmm, come to think of it.... are u sure?
Are u a medical person?

nawaoo, this kind news don too much 4 diz country.

blublahd:
Thought I was the only thinking on that line. I would like to meet you.....someday.

why u wan meet her?

Doesnt this guy deserve to die??... ...which kin sociopaths full this country na....

standd:


Hmmmmmmmm The pain the infant must have felt at the intrusion too. How I wish I have super powers.

Some people are just not worthy to be called ‘human'. I feel for the poor girl and her parents.

Bastard...

bro na wa for u oh, ashawo house don finish for naija?

Vivly:
A year old girl hasn't had a hymen yet.

Defiling is not restricted to hymen

Headlamp1:

Defiling is not restricted to hymen

According to the opening post, the goat tore her hymen in the process.

Many are sick, few are roaming. There are actually more insane than sane persons on earth today.

Vivly:
According to the opening post, the goat tore her hymen in the process.

Oh ok. I read only the topic.

My dear tell me about it.

standd:
This is why I'll always maintain that Nigerian women don't owe anyone virginity or what the fucck is it called. Cos you can never tell which bastard have poked out your virginity in infancy.....

And one day, this little girl will grow up, be abused and ridiculed for being loose cos her hymen is no longer intact. Who will explain to her what this useless excuse of a man had done to her.

Cc Bukytayne, freecocoa, cococandy, insidous, ghostlady, come and see what another hypocrite has done to an infant.

Vivly:
A year old girl hasn't had a hymen yet.

Is the virginity/purity of a female/female child/infant restricted to the hymen alone?
I bet you know that ladies lose their hymens to tampons, hard exercises and accidents.

Touching and fiddling with a girl child, hymen or no hymen is defilement, it is not about the presence or absence of her hymen.

The thing is a 30year old man poked his fingers into a toddler and made her bleed, repeatedly, and he even hurt her till her mother found out.
So what he took from that little gal is more than her hymen, but I understand that this crazy society that we live in may not make you understand what the bastard did, cos he may even get away with it and do it to another gal child.

Am tired of reading all this rape and defilement stories everyday... ....this world is really turning to another thing

wtfCode:
nawaoo, this kind news don too much 4 diz country.

IzonOwei:
Doesnt this guy deserve to die??... ...which kin sociopaths full this country na....

That's the kind of news 5minsmadness and dinachi ought to be pouring their righteous indignation over instead they are sitting in their house things are going awry all around them and they on nairaland disturbing cococandy about gay people in America.

5minsmadness what happened to your "good people shouldn't keep silent" when things like this are happening around you in alarming frequency.

I do carry the baby sometimes without the knowledge of the mother to my room and play with her..

Shudders in revulsion.

architez:


My first friend on NL, MrsAnyanwu. My first time seeing u again since I joined. Ha u been?

U R right on point. The cycle of abuse continues.

BTW,
There is this red hot thread where we are trying to determine what should be the parameters of the age of consent in 9ja (and wether there should even be a consent age at all). And also what sorts of punishment should be meted out and wether the punishment should vary depending on age. I think it's a discussion we seriously need to have. You may wish to add your two cents. Here is the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/2439827/age-consent-sex-what-want

Maybe there is a thread u think I should comment on? Let me know.

my dear friend , nice to have u here again, I've bin good nd u?,ok dear , let me check out the thread, enjoy ur day, God bless....

[color=#006600][/color]pls cut off d guys fingers and sand paper his john thomas ;Dpls cut off d guys fingers and sand paper his john thomas

cococandy:

Shudders in revulsion.

Oh. The ones that get caught are the ones that get reported. Please note that the man may never be punished as long as enough Naira notes enters the wrong hands.

So you can imagine the sheer number of toddlers and little girls that gets abused daily in this country....undiscovered.
You can imagine the pains and torture and most times, the perpetrators will go unpunished and people don't see anything wrong with this.

Furthermore, these men that defile little girls, sleep with underaged girls, rape teenagers and commit all sort of atrocities will still strut around like overfed chickens and DEMAND for a virgin when they want to settle down.
How do we begin to reconcile all these?

Did that 1year old dress indecently too?

I get teary eyed when I think about it.

I don't know why our country is yet to see this as a national emergency. I know some NGOs and women orgs are trying their best but this is an all-hands-on-deck kind of problem.
A great percentage of our kids undergo sexual abuse. If you or your friend has not been sexually molested, you'd know someone who has. If you don't know someone who has been molested, your friend knows one. That's a high number.

I believe the problem lies with the police institution. They way they handle some of these cases before it gets to court is pretty disgusting.

standd:


Oh. The ones that get caught are the ones that get reported. Please note that the man may never be punished as long as enough Naira notes enters the wrong hands.

So you can imagine the sheer number of toddlers and little girls that gets abused daily in this country....undiscovered.
You can imagine the pains and torture and most times, the perpetrators goes unpunished and people don't see anything wrong with this.

Vanquay16:
Its only rough play afterall You cant expect an Aboki to know that fingers can break hymen

them fell you say kogi na northerners? they are ebiras olodo

Some men just deserved to be buried...this one is of no different.

cococandy:
I get teary eyed when I think about it.

I don't know why our country is yet to see this as a national emergency. I know some NGOs and women orgs are trying their best but this is an all-hands-on-deck kind of problem.
A great percentage of our kids undergo sexual abuse. If you or your friend has not been sexually molested, you'd know someone who has. If you don't know someone who has been molested, your friend knows one. That's a high number.

I believe the problem lies with the police institution. They way they handle some of these cases before it gets to court is pretty disgusting.

These things happen everywhere and people turn a blind eye out of shame and the inability to seek for justice.
At least, I once sat down a class-mate in High School, who was promiscuous and had a heart-to-heart talk with her. She told me stuffs that made me wretch. Told me how her 'uncles' fing'ered her as a child, how a neighbour was giving her head and how the soldiers in her community used to sleep with teenage girls EVERYDAY. And when her parents got to know, they simply moved out of the community to avoid being ostracised/ victimized/ shamed.
And this is just one of a thousand other cases.
This girl publicly confessed to being a Nympho, she used to write notes to students begging for sex, until she was caught.
I was the head-girl so I was selected to talk to her. Her Tales left me sad, and I wonder what kind of society I was born into.

I was young but I felt pity for her, I also stopped talking to anyone who called her a slut, cos the society makes the 'slut' and still attempt to stone the 'slut' to death.