As a gentleman that I am, I have come to discover that most Ladies don't really know their Purpose on earth.. I have a elder female friend who couldn't wait to hustle for a little after nysc because she meet an rich Alhaji who asked her hand for marriage to be his second wife and the lady accepted without getting to know the Alhaji first, now she is regretting an action because the Alhaji sleep around and come home late, my question then his what kind of advice can you give to her if she is your sister or friend?

She should use the Alhaji for money ritual before He uses her for same


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Water comes out of my girl's vagina during sex(..... Please what should I do with the water?

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It a choice!!

@jollyjoy.. She really need help, any advice u have really be appreciate... She happens to be an introvert

no

If they can become 2nd girlfriend or side chick in d name of love or money, then becoming 2nd wife is BOBO JUICE.

Shit wetin concern me sef, i be woman? Abeg make una no vex i dey pokenose.

Nope

askakim:
@jollyjoy.. She really need help, any advice u have really be appreciate... She happens to be an introvert

as i said earlier,it her choice to make bt why on earth wil she want to put her head in anoda woman soup?isnt she aware of rivals fights, quarrels and all that? Btw no woman in her right sense would do dat,like seriously the man have oda priorties. Bt it her choice,as for me it a no no,wouldnt want my kids to grow up in such unhealthy environ,the thought of even sharing my man is killing.

My advice to her - she should enjoy the food she stup!dly cooked for herself

Was DAT not how d 1st wife was suffering when alhaji was sleeping around with her too, b4 he made her d 2nd wife??

She should suffer d marriage cos more wives and concubines are coming , so her suffering has just began sef. Mtswweeee

DuchessLily:
My advice for her - she should enjoy the food she stup!dly cooked for herself

Was DAT not how d 1st wife was suffering when alhaji was sleeping around with her too, b4 her made her d 2nd wife??

She should suffer d marriage cos more wives and concubines are coming , so her suffering has just began sef. Mtswweeee

Though this sounds a bit harsh, I totally agree with her.

That's Karma for u....things really do come around.

Can she file a divorce case cos she I pity her condition self?

Rich or poor, I don't care. I know I'm too jealous for that sort of arrangement, so no way. It'd be too painful & might make me miserable + snappy. Hubby would never have a day of peace lol.

Nigeria ladies can do anything for money. They can even exchange their private part 4 money.

@punkyoh, if she is your friend, what advice will u gv her?

askakim:
@punkyoh, if she is your friend, what advice will u gv her?

Well, if she thinks she's built for it then by all means, she can go ahead & go share a husband with someone else. I mean, really, what can you say? They're adults after all.

Polygamy in the 21st century,ko jo.




That's suicide

DuchessLily:
My advice to her - she should enjoy the food she stup!dly cooked for herself

Was DAT not how d 1st wife was suffering when alhaji was sleeping around with her too, b4 he made her d 2nd wife??

She should suffer d marriage cos more wives and concubines are coming , so her suffering has just began sef. Mtswweeee

I couldn't agree more. Marriage is already hard with just 1 husband and wife now you want to add more drama. To each their own but I could never ever do it. I would rather remain unmarried then become a second wife. Peace of mind is something that is very important to me.

girls and money are inseparable na

Y should she b a 2nd wife when she can b a side chick?
Isnt d latter better?

One thing I have come to discover in my little years on earth is that most ladies want already made men, they lack personal vision for themselves.. Now I think she want to file a divorce case now after three years in the marriage

Does she have any issue yet for the alhaji?

One question!




@Op, you seem so concerned!
Are you 'lashing' this lady who's unhappily married to oga Alhaji

@houseofglamour.. I am not lashing her, am only trying to b honest cos I remembered ds hasty attitude that she will get married to a rich man @ a must, I know wonder why she is hating it now..@emilyone. She has a 1yr old gal with her, @least, she has an asset to hold on..

There r two questions here. First is 'can u become a second wife to a rich Man'? I can bet it wit u 65.234567 of our ladies can. And d second is to advise a lady which i dont knw wot to say. Bt i can only say she is into it already and pay d price for being a gold digger.

@ksbuhari, what advice will u give her if she is your blood sister?