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Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by danafro123: 4:54am On Jul 17, 2015

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Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by DavidEsq(m): 5:07am On Jul 17, 2015

LadyBoss1:
Hmm
Personal experience
I have trusted .. Lol too trusting n it always ends up bad... Bunch of thieves lol
But anyway i will be testing next time to make sure ! as the trust approach no dey work for me .. Cant speak for others tho..

#test first biko

Try reassessing the factors that influence your choice. If u don't, testing would only make it worse. coz its dumb!

Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by daey118(m): 5:18am On Jul 17, 2015

i think ex gf used her friend to test me ...well i passed cos i never liked the friend anyway.....we jst got along cos of gf....then one day gf called to say she got preg for a guy and their folks already know and theyve accepted and stuff....and somebody is on here talking thrash abou test and trust...smh..dnt even go there...life is a bitach ...when shiii happens ..yu move the f on.

Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by SELENAqueensy(f): 5:41am On Jul 17, 2015

I know he will definitely fail, so no need
Guys will always be guys

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Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Adaeze003(f): 6:08am On Jul 17, 2015

It's kinda useless to test your bf or gf coz even if he/she sails through, it proves nothing.

But, life tests each and every one of us. By the way they react to even the smallest things you can tell the kind of person you're with. Most times we just ignore the signs or hope they'll "change" coz we're blinded by lust or material things.

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Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Nobody: 6:22am On Jul 17, 2015

I don't test people and I don't want to be tested!
I hate it and if I have a glimpse about it, I Intentionally fail.
I have my own personality, part of which is i don't pretend.
Testing me to see if I am going to cheat by using a friend? How that one won take happen?
So I will just fuccck a random guy that calls me to say we met and bla Bla Bala.....Ii will pass that test you know, but doesn't mean I might not be cheating with someone else he doesn't know.

No need to test me, just pay attention and observe me.

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Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by freeman67: 6:39am On Jul 17, 2015

There say trust but verify. its only through test you can verify. Thats why the cliche 'tested and trusted' exist. Trust under normal circumstances should come after test .

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Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by controlG(m): 7:00am On Jul 17, 2015

As the Russian proverb says,"doveryai no proveryai" (trust, but verify).

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Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by mmauton: 7:02am On Jul 17, 2015

[color=#000099][/color] love relationship is a work and a decision to be with an imperfect being. If you turn your partner into a trust-lab--mouse. I bet u r the one with the problem. Better you spell out your likes and dislikes and you both will work it out

Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Machiny: 7:10am On Jul 17, 2015

Don't need a special test because life its own is a test

Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Damminglola(f): 7:13am On Jul 17, 2015

He is testing her to know whether she is materialistic while she is also testing him to know if he is stingy. Both of them should not worry because the devil is testing both of them so as to know who get common sense pass!!!

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Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Nobody: 7:29am On Jul 17, 2015

;Dchaichaichai

Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Nobody: 7:29am On Jul 17, 2015

mcjibs22:
;Dchaichaichai

Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Nobody: 7:30am On Jul 17, 2015

Samiceman:
Bro no offence, but I have tried searching for the meaning of that word but couldn't find anything....

You can't find it.....but it's correct.

Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by prettyeyo: 7:30am On Jul 17, 2015

Why would you want to test someone? Would you wanna be tested too? It's either you just trust and believe or you just forget about it. Some have tested and it ended up ruining what they have! Just believe and hope everything is ok. Until your partner proves his/herself otherwise then you know it wasn't you.

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Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Samiceman: 7:32am On Jul 17, 2015

starlingslimnet:
You can't find it.....but it's correct.

Care to tell me what it means?

Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by 2scorehigh(m): 7:37am On Jul 17, 2015

Of course, I MUST test.

What's the point of going to school if there were no exams?

But not to worry, girl, the tests are subtle so you won't even know what the questions are going to look like.

Which makes it even much more difficult to pass!

Ha ha haaa! cheesy

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Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Nobody: 7:38am On Jul 17, 2015

Samiceman:
Care to tell me what it means?

It means someone whose mental retar*dation is innate I.e inbuilt.

Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Nobody: 7:39am On Jul 17, 2015

SELENAqueensy:
I know he will definitely fail, so no need
Guys will always be guys

Common..... tell me you don't mean that.

Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Taiwo20(m): 7:42am On Jul 17, 2015

SELENAqueensy:
I know he will definitely fail, so no need
Guys will always be guys

Why would you test a cat with fish? That's wickedness...

Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Orikinla(m): 7:51am On Jul 17, 2015

[size=18pt]"Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world."
~ ◄ 1 John 4:1 ►[/size]

You better test everyone before you agree to date, mate or marry.
A friend told me how he saw his girlfriend sneak out of bed at midnight and then he saw her talking to an invisible person near the bathroom at the backyard of their compound, a tenement house and she collected something he did not see, but saw her drinking from it.
Then another girlfriend he had suddenly woke up one midnight and started singing and dancing in a strange manner.
Another friend, a fine guy told me how he met a very beautiful Igbo woman who later was manifesting strange characteristics of marine spirit with water always in their bed and she was not bed wetting.
A beautiful young Igbo woman I nearly dated later confessed how a python came out from her at a deliverance vigil. She said she was born again, but her close friend later said she was still keeping white ceramic plates of her cult. And when we wanted to make love, she was shaking and rolling her eyeballs in a strange way that made me not to make love to her again.

Please, beware of both strange men and women in this mysterious world.
Lest we forget, nobody on earth asked to be born, so beware of the creatures on earth.

[size=18pt]"Rid me, and deliver me from the hand of strange children, whose mouth speaketh vanity, and their right hand is a right hand of falsehood:"
◄ Psalm 144:11 ►[/size]

Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Maximus85(m): 8:04am On Jul 17, 2015

Twaci:
Trust is an important factor in every relationship. With trust comes commitment and loyalty. But from the experiences I hear now and then, I understand that though we claim to trust our partners, we tend to test them. To see if their love is true.

Some tests with little things like, "I will tell him am sick to see his reaction....". While others go extreme, say like, asking their friends or strangers to try their partners, to see if they would fall.

Now I have to say that some these tests actually turn out good as they help the 'testing partner' know if the 'tested' is worth their time and affection. But I have also noticed that majority of these tests lead to breakup. For example, the 'tested' might fail or the 'tested' may pass but will be disappointed in the 'testee' or..... A lot of things can go wrong.

Enough of my opinions. What do u think? Do we TRUST or TEST before we love?

CC: lalasticlala

True love has no reason. As hard as it may sound. True love is when your partner cheats on you but you forgive him or her.
So why test? I won't test for fidelity or loyalty but for more important reasons like, can she manage our home? Can she raise our kids in a sound and Godly way? Can she relate well with my family and friends? Can she be supportive? Truth been told love is not most important in a relationship especially marriage. Don't get me wrong, it is important, it must be present. It fails for variable periods in a marriage and when it does, what holds the marriage? This is when those other aforementioned reasons comes into play.

So, testing her to ascertain her fidelity is not that important.

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Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by BANGERLEE1(m): 8:09am On Jul 17, 2015

letsbet:

care to explain?

I want you to know 1 fact. You won't test a partner if what you feel for him/her is not strong... What if ur partner fails? Do you think the feelings will obliterate like that? Instead u will feel the need to fathom whr u erred in ur relationship..thereby not leaving 1 partner to feel the consequence of brk up but both of you! It has done more harm than good!

Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Samiceman: 8:13am On Jul 17, 2015

starlingslimnet:
It means someone whose mental retar*dation is innate I.e inbuilt.

LOL.... Thanks bro

Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by 400billionman: 8:42am On Jul 17, 2015

Twaci:
Trust is an important factor in every relationship. With trust comes commitment and loyalty. But from the experiences I hear now and then, I understand that though we claim to trust our partners, we tend to test them. To see if their love is true.

Some tests with little things like, "I will tell him am sick to see his reaction....". While others go extreme, say like, asking their friends or strangers to try their partners, to see if they would fall.

Now I have to say that some these tests actually turn out good as they help the 'testing partner' know if the 'tested' is worth their time and affection. But I have also noticed that majority of these tests lead to breakup. For example, the 'tested' might fail or the 'tested' may pass but will be disappointed in the 'testee' or..... A lot of things can go wrong.

Enough of my opinions. What do u think? Do we TRUST or TEST before we love?

CC: lalasticlala

This is childish.

If I discover you are suspecting me even while dating me, that's the end. If you give me your friend say nah test, I will Bleep her and date her.

Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by XwhY(m): 9:19am On Jul 17, 2015

Test me at your risk. I can be so unpredictable!

Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by tintingz(m): 9:33am On Jul 17, 2015

At some point in your relationship or even in marriage you will test your partner. Trust me it is psychology.

Stop shouting why will I test my partner.

Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by kb77: 11:05am On Jul 17, 2015

4 me Bleep trust bcox it can lead to death when am married das wen I can even trust a little but 4 GF hahhahaha das booooooshit as far well always av sex anytime bt of us wish no big deal and we always help each other steady I love by dat but I don't trust hahah she always buy me card wit out askin she buy me things steady hw do u expect me to trust

Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by 19naia(m): 12:19pm On Jul 17, 2015

Dont test, just stay close and look to know and understand a partner. The closer we all are to each other, the more we get to know each other and intuitively see the things we need to see in each other.

Test your own intuition, test your own understanding and knowledge of your partner.

Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Abihorlah15(m): 12:36pm On Jul 17, 2015

Rapmoney:
Op, u need to get a first-hand experience of the issue u are asking about! Nobody here, and I repeat, nobody here will give u a reasonable answer. Life is all about growing and learning. People that have reasonable answers to ur question must have known that through first-hand experience and I bet u, they paid one way or the other for it

ORO AGBA.

Rapmoney:
Op, u need to get a first-hand experience of the issue u are asking about! Nobody here, and I repeat, nobody here will give u a reasonable answer. Life is all about growing and learning. People that have reasonable answers to ur question must have known that through first-hand experience and I bet u, they paid one way or the other for it

ORO AGBA.

Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Abihorlah15(m): 12:37pm On Jul 17, 2015

Rapmoney:
Op, u need to get a first-hand experience of the issue u are asking about! Nobody here, and I repeat, nobody here will give u a reasonable answer. Life is all about growing and learning. People that have reasonable answers to ur question must have known that through first-hand experience and I bet u, they paid one way or the other for it

ORO AGBA.

Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Nobody: 6:14pm On Jul 17, 2015

of course you need to test...

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