smithsydny:
how she go dey talk like that nah..if nah her pick how she wan do am? ehhkwa

MrsChima:


Why would I needs to come your way? I am not interested.

smithsydny:
people like born kids and live them in dustbin..nah unah way..

MrsChima:


Don't mind these fools because there are many single mothers out there raising kids on their own even married women are raising kids on their own while the men can frollick around like rabid hyenas.

Not every man wants children especially by a girlfriend and not every woman wants children so they opt for abortion ( if they have used proper birth control then there would not be a need for abortion).

I don't care what anyone say if push come to shove...the woman is typically the one left with the kids if all else fails. If you are not about to care for your children give up for adoption but what African nation you know freely adopting babies? Exactly.

BOWOTO:
But you know you're wrong right, so if we had sex and you get pregnant,dont you think its wrong for you to take it out without telling me, think about it.

MrsChima:


Don't mind these fools because there are many single mothers out there raising kids on their own even married women are raising kids on their own while the men can frollick around like rabid hyenas.

Not every man wants children especially by a girlfriend and not every woman wants children so they opt for abortion ( if they have used proper birth control then there would not be a need for abortion).

I don't care what anyone say if push come to shove...the woman is typically the one left with the kids if all else fails. If you are not about to care for your children give up for adoption but what African nation you know freely adopting babies? Exactly.

Benignasweety:
Am in dxame shoes. I hvnt aborted mine bt my boyfriend isn't financially capable as he is still in his finals. I need help.

proxillin:


If all fails she can go for abortion. But now...nothing is failing...just short few quarrel break, she aborted.

My guy is single and has have a good job enough to take care of 4 wives, talkless of a single girl

And the lady is working too

MrsChima:


If we agreed on having children as married couples...I wouldn't. If we are dating and had unprotected sex and I am pregnant depending on my circumstances I would give the child up however I don't judge women who have abortions because it is obvious they don't want the baby or can't care for it.

It is their choice and I can't force my opinions on them. I suggest men use condoms until you have met the right one to breed babies with.

MrsChima:


Men don't get it. Just because he is employed and has money means NOTHING. He loses his job then what? He leaves her for another woman then what? He decides he wants nothing to do with the kid then what?

Money is like fire it can be extinguished!

PunkyVeer:


Didn't a guy just poisoned a baby because he wanted out of the relationship with the child's mother? Men do terrible things too when they feel trapped within a relationship they no longer want or faced with a pregnancy/child that wasn't planned. It happens everywhere. In America, Scott Peterson murdered his pregnant wife Lacy because he didn't want to be a father. So guys please, don't act like every guy is overjoyed or willing to take responsibility upon hearing this kind of news. Hence ladies just take matters into their own hands. Some guys can be cruel & so are some ladies (the ones who chuck babies in bins for an example).

MrsChima:


You don't have to read any of my comments. My opinions isn't to cater to what you think someone to say or not. It is a free world...move on

onemorepls:
Let him give her another one

smithsydny:
women do worst nne

MrsChima:


This has nothing to do with Feminism. There are women who are not feminists aborted their babies. Get off the Feminism thing and focus on the matter at hand.

You take a risk when you have unsafe sex with anyone. I am not advocating abortion but I do call a spade a spade.

It is her body and she can do whatever to her body.

MrsChima:
She doesn't need your consent to do anything to her body even if you are married. It is the same thing for men who do not have to be father's to their children. They can terminate their parental rights and move on.

It is a risk you take when you are in a relationship and date like minded to avoid conflicts.

Benignasweety:
Am in dxame shoes. I hvnt aborted mine bt my boyfriend isn't financially capable as he is still in his finals. I need help.

cyprus000:

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If you abort my baby. I swear.

Just lyk you didn't give my son/girl the right to live.
I will take away your's too

Cos I don't need your consent to terminate your life,just lyk you didn't need their consent to tarminate their's

That's the perfect example of equality and equity you peeps preach
Tho it can never happen,let me pretend its a nightmare.


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faith551:



When I mentioned feminism, that's was the only thing that came to my mind that could warrant you to make the comments about abortion, seriously no woman can try that on me, why will you abort my sweat and blood? It takes two to tango, and when the deed is done, the two has to make the decision.

The lady in question sound patetic,now they are back in terms, who even suffered it sef.
No fighting sha, how have u been, I missed u

smithsydny:
off cos I will I can never be stagnant ma'am.. know that she will surly pay for what she did be it now or later.. what if its her only child she aborted? then she will carry her misfortune to anoda innocent guy, or what if she losses her womb hmmmm...don't u consider all this ma'am..

PunkyVeer:


Come on! That's bullcrap & you know it. It appears so because when a woman commits a crime, it's considered more shocking since women are supposed to be caretakers, nurturers & so forth. The most heinous crimes are often committed by men. Need I mention the likes of Ted Bundy, Richard Ramirez, Ghengis Khan...
And what's the name of that guy who got crafty with the skin of his victims by making lampshades, rugs...? I believe he even wore the skin at one point. Made a sweater Most nutters are guys. End of story.

smithsydny:
that's for u bro

proxillin:


So based on your logic, people should not marry again.

or what makes you think he will not marry her if he knew she is carrying her baby?

MrsChima:

You don't missed me.

Benignasweety:
Am in dxame shoes. I hvnt aborted mine bt my boyfriend isn't financially capable as he is still in his finals. I need help.

faith551:

I did

ladyF:
But u guys are not the ones going to carry a protruded belly for 9 months, u won't join her as she goes through the supposed *shame* and stigma that society will met out for *mothering* a child out of wedlock, the stigma wen they ask her how is *Oga*, and she has to explain that she's not married yet, how her parents will feel too....
I'm not saying she has the veto power, but I think the overall decision should lie with her. The OPs friend should just talk things through with the lady, put urself in her shoes too. Love supercedes all.
PS: I do NOT in any way support abortion.

proxillin:

The risk of losing her womb and life is more than stigma and shame

MrsChima:


People should look before they leap and know whom they are sleeping with.

It is better to be safe than sorry. We don't know the man's reaction but marriage doesn't solve anything.

MrsChima:

It is her life.