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My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by jarkbauer: 9:17am On Jul 30, 2015 |
About 6 months ago my wife started refusing sex. In the last 6months we have had sex only 4 times. I asked her why and she told me her libido is dead. She doesn't feel like having sex. I am at loss. Any woman with this kind of problem. To help her, I asked if she has any fantasy we could fulfill just to spice our sex life and she told me she doesn't have any sexual fantasy.she hardly think about sex. That's why ask in another thread if women usually have sexual fantasy. We are married for 2 years and have 2 kids. 9 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Nobody: 9:22am On Jul 30, 2015 |
She can introduce her friend if you find it hard to get some yourself. 87 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Cutehector(m): 9:23am On Jul 30, 2015 |
Who killed it 120 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by capricun: 9:24am On Jul 30, 2015 |
Something must have led to the "death". Libidos don't just die like, something triggered it or you were not doing enough. Shed some light into occurances during that period. Did you hurt Her? Did she lose someone? Did she get a new job? Or is she cheating on you? The solution to this problem starts with communication ![]() 104 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by TV01(m): 10:44am On Jul 30, 2015 |
jarkbauer:May I ask you a few questions? Totally understand if you would rather not. If you answer no to the first one, then leave it anyway. 1. Are you intent on restoring things? 2. How old are you and your wife 3. How old are the kids - particualrly the last one 4. How would you describe things before the "refusal"? Particulalry sex-wise; frequent, occasional, steady rate or reducing? 5. Has there been any trauma? Especially of a type that damages the spousal relatioship. 6. If yes, was it properly resolved? 7. Is your family pressured for any reason? Finances, childcare, accomodation etc. 8. What kind of physical shape are you in? 9. Likewise for you wife. TV 53 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by dyttt: 10:52am On Jul 30, 2015 |
did you hurt that woman in anyway? has she stopped loving you? 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by KanwuliaJara: 10:56am On Jul 30, 2015 |
She sees you as a brother na! ![]() If you know and understand anything about the female mind and body, you will not find it strange! Sex in marriage is ALWAYS the first to go! Women get really tired, especially after children and bleeding for over 30 years or more. Time to get a "galfriend" or manage your situation as best as you can! ![]() 15 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by natasha: 11:11am On Jul 30, 2015 |
Are you a passionate lover? Do you help her with chores in the house? do you compliment her? Do you just do your "biz" without getting her wet, engaging in pre-intimacy, making her come? Sometimes men just ignore that it takes 2 to enjoy intimacy and if you just peck, squeeze her balloons like orange and then thrust in and out, no caressing her hair, body etc just focused on yourself women get bored and see it as nothing to look forward to. I think its important you reflect on you and the answer/solution might just lay with you 58 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Iaz93: 12:53pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by SAMBARRY: 1:10pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
Haba how can you say such. This time I'll disagree with you with an explanation its unfair to encourage a married man to commit adultery especially when he has said his vows. Do you want to break a young marriage with your utterances Be continued. Battery low ![]() KanwuliaJara: 30 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by lilmax(m): 1:33pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
Bury it ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by darlenese(f): 2:22pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
No woman will make this kinda decision if she was enjoying it , oga are u sure u are doing the right thing? , there's difference between having sex and making love o. Please beg her to tell u the truth and u will be amazed 34 Likes |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by KanwuliaJara: 7:10pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Haba! Is Nairaland for agreement of views? ![]() Na the advice wey I go give my own husband be dat o! Nothing to agree about! Welcome to "Open Marriage 001"! Shikena! ![]() 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Ama80(f): 7:54pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
I'm one of such women whose libidos are dead long time ago and yes a lot of things contributed twds dat;1 my husband's unfaithfulness,2 poor sexual motivations in d bed.etc.so op tell us wat u did dat killed her libido 49 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by pretty050(f): 8:19pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
Op 2yrs and 2 children already. I think that's the source of your pb 38 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by julietchic(f): 8:30pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
2Kids in 2years!
Maybe u no sabi Bleep. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Nobody: 9:02pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
This is why I always encourage people to marry younger ladies .... This is what happen when you marry an old cargo 28 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Bonapart(m): 9:35pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
Carry your wife go deliverance 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Nobody: 9:36pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
Africa |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by NifemiOlu(m): 9:36pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
Oh God |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Empress2014(f): 9:36pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Nobody: 9:36pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
Pray this prayer: any power, short or tall, tieing a red & black wrapper, cooking the libido of my wife in any evil pot, release her libido & DIE. Die die die die die. I hope that helps. Just kidding anyway. Talk to your wife, encourage her to see a counsellor, talk to her some more & exercise some patience. If this doesn't work & you think you cannot take it anymore, suggest a divorce. 8 Likes |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by allanphash7(m): 9:37pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
Ororun mi ooooooo ( in baddos voice) Dis is a case i cant judge Bro u may do d needful now like lalasticlala |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by wunmi590(m): 9:37pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
Take her to the prophet, they would wake her libido up with prayers ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by moyinoluwabun(m): 9:37pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
Married for two years and two kids. U too rush her now, why her libido no go die. 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by dramenda(f): 9:37pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
High mileage things 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Sodiq3(m): 9:37pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
Sorry... |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by bigerboy200: 9:37pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
Why won't her libido die Wen it's only "missionary style" u'll b using to hurriedly and selfishly satisfy ur own KONJIfied state..u better go and gather relevant skills and experience from wherever, wen u are done,come back and handle her,i bet u,her libido will resurrect sharp sharp and she will be singing ur name every night.....talking from experience. 14 Likes |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Johnnoah1st: 9:37pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
jarkbauer:. |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by gen2briz(m): 9:37pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
Wetin kill am |
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