whizqueen:
If she tells you I was df at the age of 15 by her Ex or something you'll call her cheap now she's trying not to look cheap just because she cares you're now ranting here again

What does nigerian guys want sef

chisco82:

If you will honestly accept what's the need asking?

christinie:
Can you prove this allegation?

mekus15:
There seems to be too much focus on female virginity; but how can one prove if a man is a virgin or not?

freecocoa:
Have you stopped for a minute to think that most of them probably told the truth? It's common knowledge how most men behave when it comes to sex, especially with naive girls.

R*pe is very common in naija whether you people believe it or not, infact you know sef so no need to talk plenty.

shaiba:
that is past and the future is bright with him by her side. would it be fair to ask how he was disvirgined? why should it be of interest to him? would the answer make them richer or add more years to his life? Honestly I don't see how it can better the future of that relationship.

MOVE ON BRO

1miccza:



In as much as i agree with your last line about opening up don't you think it's necessary for the sake of trust??

shaiba:
that is past and the future is bright with him by her side. would it be fair to ask how he was disvirgined? why should it be of interest to him? would the answer make them richer or add more years to his life? Honestly I don't see how it can better the future of that relationship.

MOVE ON BRO

naijaboiy:

while I agree with your first paragraph that some of them may have actually said the truth and yes guys behave somehow when it comes to the past of their girl friends. I have a problem with the second paragraph.

Does that mean a girl should use the rape story as her excuse for losing her virginity?

Going by that,,it means 95% of Nigerian girls may have lost their virginity through rape?

I find that very hard and disturbing to believe.

skyfullofstars:


Well, I don't mind telling my boyfriend about my past. The thing is that I come from a country where it is normal not to be a virgin, so we don't need to make up stories so as not to look bad. On the other hand, I also asked my boyfriend wbout his past, I want to know, I'm curious.

freecocoa:
If you understood my post, why then are you asking questions that suggest you don't?

Where did you read that a girl should use the r*pe excuse?

And yea, may sound crazy but I'm sure many Nigerian girls lost their virginity through forced sex, whatever figure you choose to use as the percentage, is entirely up to you.

Lawsimon:
Do you have diffferent version on this matter to tell us. How did your own happen?

hardychris:
hahahaaha but christinie that's true dear, I'v heard it from many guls.

Dis is no big deal there cus wat has been opened has been open it can't be sealed back again.

naijaboiy:

[b]it was not about understanding your post it was agreeing to it.

Your statement about nigeria having high rape cases was indirectly supporting the issue of girls using rape as their loss of virginity story.

And your last statement is totally erroneous as you don't have any fact to back that up. You are only guessing.

How many girls around you do you know that lost their virginity through forced sex?

Don't you know girls that lost their virginity willingly? Was it all a rape case?

I can't put any percentage to it because I don't believe because rape cases are high,, every girl who lost her virginity was through that method. And don't forget that non-virgins also get raped too.

And that's why the topic of the thread is why girls never say the truth about the loss of their virginity. They all have one story or another to tell but the one which is trending among them is the rape story.

We all know how the issue of rape is very sensitive and that's what many girls use just to get sympathy. It is very difficult to meet a girl who will tell a guy how she lost her virginity willingly.

That's just it.

You don't expect me to keep believing when almost every girl i've met comes up with the same story.[/b]

freecocoa:
If you understood my post, why then are you asking questions that suggest you don't?

Where did you read that a girl should use the r*pe excuse?

And yea, may sound crazy but I'm sure many Nigerian girls lost their virginity through forced sex, whatever figure you choose to use as the percentage, is entirely up to you.

freecocoa:
We must have diffrent understanding of what "agreeing" means, I wonder how you can say you agree yet here we are.

No, I'm not guessing, I do know many girls who lost their virginity through r*pe, you first have to understand that many people don't even know what rape is.

Plus, I don't remember saying every girl who's lost her virginity in naija did so through rape, so what's your case exactly?

whizqueen:
If she tells you I was df at the age of 15 by her Ex or something you'll call her cheap now she's trying not to look cheap just because she cares you're now ranting here again

What does nigerian guys want sef

christinie:
Can you prove this allegation?