christinie:
why should it be the norm? It should be discouraged. Unmarried people should not be involved with sex. Am not here to preach though.

whizqueen:
If she tells you I was df at the age of 15 by her Ex or something you'll call her cheap now she's trying not to look cheap just because she cares you're now ranting here again

What does nigerian guys want sef

christinie:
Can you prove this allegation?

Anjorson4sure:
If you have value for your relationship you will not border bother over non issue conversation. You should look for what the future hold for both of you not the past

dabriggs:



Thank you jare for saying the truth. No be all those yeye "why does he want to go to memoryt lane" answers. Some Ladies and yeye borrowed terms. Simple question, una dey write textbook as answer. It is simple, you do not want him to think you are a sl.ut who sleeps around!
Guys will tell you how it happened. I have never met a guy who ran away from this question.

UpLoyo:


Height of joblessness, of that relevance is somebody's else virginity? Some of you are just too disgusting to be allowed amongst sane people. There's always a stupid article about ladies, do you perverts have a mother or sister in your lineage at all? What is your damn business if a ladies lies about her virginity to her man, is that your freaking problem? Bunch of jerk offs, I blame the clown responsible more monitoring this website, it has really gone to the dogs.

lawnreigh:
I find it difficult to believe how most ladies lie about how were disvirgined to their boyfriends/Fiancé and co, most times they usually lie, it's either they were raped by a neighbor when they were young or probably one brother in their area which makes it hard to even believe the one saying the truth because it seems to be the same lie trend among ladies.

Is there anything bad in telling your boyfriend how you were truly disvirgined by former boyfriends et al?

lawnreigh:
I find it difficult to believe how most ladies lie about how were disvirgined to their boyfriends/Fiancé and co, most times they usually lie, it's either they were raped by a neighbor when they were young or probably one brother in their area which makes it hard to even believe the one saying the truth because it seems to be the same lie trend among ladies.

Is there anything bad in telling your boyfriend how you were truly disvirgined by former boyfriends et al?

Gurgle:


Yeah that's it

The same way a guy wont tell her how he used to be an armed robber

nobody wants to reveal that agbero side of their past

christinie:
Can you prove this allegation?

freecocoa:
We must have diffrent understanding of what "agreeing" means, I wonder how you can say you agree yet here we are.

No, I'm not guessing, I do know many girls who lost their virginity through r*pe, you first have to understand that many people don't even know what rape is.

Plus, I don't remember saying every girl who's lost her virginity in naija did so through rape, so what's your case exactly?

otunsman:
It's because lying is their birthright

Nneka123:
Trust you say!

Some guys tend to act like they don't care about a girl's past or how many guys she has been with, when they ain't good either, but as soon as she just start talking about her EX, then the virginity part, and AYE! Everything changes, but his own past ain't pretty too.

shaiba:
that is past and the future is bright with him by her side. would it be fair to ask how he was disvirgined? why should it be of interest to him? would the answer make them richer or add more years to his life? Honestly I don't see how it can better the future of that relationship.

MOVE ON BRO

lawnreigh:
I find it difficult to believe how most ladies lie about how were disvirgined to their boyfriends/Fiancé and co, most times they usually lie, it's either they were raped by a neighbor when they were young or probably one brother in their area which makes it hard to even believe the one saying the truth because it seems to be the same lie trend among ladies.

Is there anything bad in telling your boyfriend how you were truly disvirgined by former boyfriends et al?

Gurgle:


NO NO NO NO LOOL

*modified

but anyway, these might be true. that's the sad thing

But I think if I were her I would have evidence for the toilet infection ready, to prove that its not a lie

BestySam:


LOL... The truth is I DON'T CARE! Virgin or no virgin.

I'm even scared of meeting a virgin cuz of the blood thing, I can't stand it.

Gurgle:


What! are you serious

you generally don't like blood or just that kind of blood

freeage7:

But why would boy friends care to know how their girls was dis flowered? I think it is irrelevant to know.

soniawarmate:
Guys u r d ones raping dis girls so y ask again can a girl rape herself? A guy raped a girl in school and after school d girl became a big girl working in Lagos some day dis guy came in contact wt d girl and he fell inlove wt her. A day came when he asked her how she got disvirgined and when d girl finished her tragic story of how she was raped in d university by a cult guy by d cult name......dis guy immediatly knew he was d one no need to flash back.the girl was narrating her ordeal wt tears in her eyes, and she laid courses on d guy right in front of him not knowing d guy she was talking to and in love wt is her rapist. Dis guy dieing of guilt could no longer face the girl he decided to disappear. It took dis girl a friend of his who he confessed to to know the truth and y dis guy has just disappeared without a word. So in dis case do u still advice guys continue to ask how a girl got disvirgined? If yes den d guy should also say how he got disvirgined, den guys will continue to lose dia relatioship cos dia sins will b exposed and trust me no girl can stand a guy dat forcefully disvirgined her. Guy do d right tin. What goes around comes back around.

Lanadelrey:
This only applies to illiterates or insecure people with lesser mindsets. Educated well-rounded couples don't ask about the past sexual history of their partner and they never bring up theirs. Shows you what category most Nigerians fall in.

Edusouls:
Shut up,the past never stays dead,you women think that all those past dirty lives of urs is written off,of course not,it lingers and follows u for lifetime and surely into the home thats why most marriages today are full of scandals and they fail,so we men should always ask and be concious of the past of the person we are commiting our future with, cos we dont want to end up with women with various curses...