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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Gurgle(f): 9:01am On Jul 31, 2015 |
BestySam: Loooool is that whats disturbing you. but that will only happen once anyway im not encouraging you to seek virgins to destroy, carry go o 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Lanadelrey: 9:08am On Jul 31, 2015 |
otunsman:The average nigerian man has had more sexual partners than most "runsgirls and hoes" as you call them, yet a female still marries the men who are hoes, these "runsgirls and hoes" still find themselves a man and in most cases they marry better than naive girls cos they are smarter and won't fall for certain BS. So no one is telling you who to marry, my point is that sexual history of couples should be kept in the past and never brought up, it's unnecessary and most secure people don't care. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by godwineli(m): 9:14am On Jul 31, 2015 |
they don't want to look loose or to attract self pity |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Horlaidex(m): 9:14am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Hmm, I dated 3 girls and they told the Same stories. They were raped and dated another 3, 1. Her ex did and that was the only time she had sex before we meet. #SMH 2. To my surprised, her cousin did 3. She told me she was a virgin until I got down. #just like a lake. My prick come b like say person drop needle inside am. As for my orente. * lip sealed* I no wan talk about it. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by jony247(m): 9:16am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Swagk101: Did they also molest you? Linus umgba |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 9:16am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Lanadelrey:It is difficult for guys to have a sexual partner if they don't have decent jobs and cribs,given that, ladies don't date guys who doesn't spend on her often.Those categories of guys abstain from having sex for many years.But girls can easily sleeps with a guy who can spend on her.An average girls sleep with guys with money 5times in a week,but when guys have sex twice in a day, he can't have any until after 1month. Ladies are sexually active than guys.It's just that they form holy a lot. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Tesley: 9:21am On Jul 31, 2015 |
[quote author=ThisMeansWAR post=36445010]why would any dude wanna know how his girl got disflowered? Hmmm...as long as you too are sexually involved,that flower deflowermenr is just a story for trust sake...abi story sake...it maters so much that it don't matter too much....me too confuse...#instateofawe#. |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by midolian(m): 9:23am On Jul 31, 2015 |
OREMUSSANCTUS:yourmain dey fvck up joor! I stopped visiting her profile the very day she claimed to be from and based ireland or so |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by paschenko(m): 9:23am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Lanadelrey: u'r on point. God bless ur intelligence. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 9:34am On Jul 31, 2015 |
midolian:She no lie my bro, d babe is based dere. Must u be a frnd to dose based in naija only? Somtin fit take u go ireland, and she mite be of help. No limit urself, dat babe na good grl. |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by christinie(f): 9:36am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Humanbeingyahoocom:do! |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Lanadelrey: 9:36am On Jul 31, 2015 |
otunsman:So you mean, truck pushers don't get laid? Ok dear, I believe you *rolls eyes*. It's mentality of men around that makes ladies lie and "form holy". I have never had to talk about my sexual history with a man and I don't feel ever the need to and men who ask that are beneath me and would never walk up to me on the street so chances are I'll never get to know any such men. The bold part emphasizes my point, ladies lie because MOST(not all but MOST) nigerian men are insecure and unpolished even the educated ones and ask questions when they can't handle the truthful answers. It's like kids asking where babies come from, no one ever tells them till they grow up and discover they should never have asked and laugh it off. My point again is that ppl who live among well-thinking circles don't care about sexual history of partners. What a man/woman does before he/she meets you is in the past and should never be brought up. Environment and mindset has a lot to do with this. People in well-evolved communities to do not ask and do not tell. |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Eddodoh(m): 9:36am On Jul 31, 2015 |
The most dangerous creatures full of deceit are women but they cry foul when reverse is the case. Trust women at your own peril. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by christinie(f): 9:36am On Jul 31, 2015 |
freeage7:and the guys won't disclose to their girls how many girls they have been with. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by christinie(f): 9:37am On Jul 31, 2015 |
donbrowser:res ipsa loquito. |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by christinie(f): 9:38am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Lawsimon:people are most times products of their upbringing and environment. I can't say more than that. |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by christinie(f): 9:40am On Jul 31, 2015 |
mudiana:he who alleges must prove. |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Shwarz: 9:43am On Jul 31, 2015 |
You know, it just occurred to me now that thats what my last two exes told me... The first one said her uncle raped her as a kid, the second one said her brother's friend also raped her as a kid too... Mehn, i think i've been had... |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by midolian(m): 9:45am On Jul 31, 2015 |
OREMUSSANCTUS:wetin I wan go do for ireland? U know places wey I don reach? U think say na only Naija here I dey all my life? Well, that aside..u hav a point sha. Buh all those kain thing na long tin to me. @yourmain midolian is saying hi |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by jatthobber(m): 9:48am On Jul 31, 2015 |
As far as am concerned, a lady that constantly engages in pre-marital sex is a PROSTITUTE. |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 9:50am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Lanadelrey:I don't ask but rather do my private investigation about her. Some girls brings badluck to their bfs or husbands due to their past sexual escapades with aristos.A girl had asked a male colleague in the office why would a man,after he had had sex with a girl,he now used white handkerchief to wipe his rod.It was known to everyone that she was dating her boss.She was referring to her boss(a married man)who did that to her after a round of sex with her. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Adaeze003(f): 10:01am On Jul 31, 2015 |
sauceny: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/07/man-defiles-11-yr-old-daughter/ Front page story. This one is in the news but up to 90% of such cases aren't. Plus, do you realize that sleeping with a minor is rape? Or is it because we live in a lawless country? |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Adaeze003(f): 10:01am On Jul 31, 2015 |
sauceny: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/07/man-defiles-11-yr-old-daughter/ Front page story. This ine is in the news but up to 90% of such cases aren't. Plus, do you realize that sleeping with a minor is rape? Or is it because we live in a lawless country? |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by joe4christ(m): 10:03am On Jul 31, 2015 |
I hate Bloody shyte, and why would I even ask such a question in the first place, I dey craze? I still wonder why people attache so much value on virginity. I just hate imagining the bloody moment... I hate virgins - Fact! |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Shwarz: 10:04am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Lanadelrey: No offense but your generalization of men doesn't really portray you as secure and polished either. You are been unrealistic as you say you shouldn't care about the past of your partner, much more a life partner at that. And whats this "well thinking circles" you are talking about. Just so you know, there's nothing like that, there's no group of people who know it all, people who claim so are psychotic cultists. The keyword is human nature. Its human nature to know about the past, present and future of their partner. And its not possible to turn off human nature in a committed romantic relationship that may last forever, because romanticism is a product of human nature. Dont say that its "unpolished and well thinking" to not care about the past of a partner, thats a very wrong notion. Its left to individualism to either to forget or forgive. |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by DrDxtrz: 10:06am On Jul 31, 2015 |
shaiba: thats a good one, and left for me, i really dont care how my gf lost her virginity or whtatever or who she dated in the past before me, i would never ask, like u said the knowledge wouldnt improve anything.. But what op is asking is this;.. if by circumstance she had to tell her boo how she was deflowered why does she have to lie? |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 10:21am On Jul 31, 2015 |
midolian:Hehehehehehehehehehehehehe, don't get me wrong, me only dhe yarn u say u don't know where una fit meet for dis life. Anytin can take u to ireland, una fit meet for syria, iran, for mecca or medina during hajj. Dis world is a small world u know? |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Lanadelrey: 10:25am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Lanadelrey: Shwarz:I guess you stupidly skipped the part of my post where I not once but twice said that most not all but most nigerian men are guilty of this BS. And if you don't believe that through education, exposure and enlightenment one can develop higher thinking then I really don't have words for you. And the part about me being insecure, lol cos you are the one who is very insecure and not me cos i'm not threatened at all by numbers that you are obviously mortified about. And your logic is soo flawed I don't even know where to begin with you. Now listen, It's in human nature to have sex whenever you feel like and find a willing partner to do it with so what's the forgive and forget you're talking about? Forgive someone for having sex? It is not in human nature to ask sexual history of partners cos humans are sexual beings, it's like saying it's in a lion's nature to keep count of his prey or it's in human nature to keep count of how many food we've eaten since we first knew what eating was. If something comes naturally, it's against nature to keep count, you just keep doing it when nature calls. Humans actually have a lot less sex than they were designed to have. Your logic is false and no excessive grammatical usage will make it correct. Yes, there's no group of people who know it all, but there is certainly a group of people who know better and as a result, do better. And romanticism is *drumroll* not human nature but a human manufactured product fed and ingrained into humans through books and cinema, humans invented romance and they tell it to children to uphold their innocence and convince them that there is some good and magic in the world and they grow up and the illusion is shattered. Marriage even is not human nature, it's a social construct. Love on the other hand is human nature. My point again is that ppl who live among well-thinking circles don't care about sexual history of partners. What a man/woman does before he/she meets you is in the past and should never be brought up. Environment and mindset has a lot to do with this. People in well-evolved communities to do not ask and do not tell. |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by midolian(m): 10:32am On Jul 31, 2015 |
OREMUSSANCTUS:Na so..mayb na hajj I go meet my yourmain. Na 4 mecca we go finish everything sef. Do 1month honeymoon for there sef b4 I bring her back to Nigeria where she should be. |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by PrinceEm: 10:32am On Jul 31, 2015 |
[quote author=ivyT post=36405940]Like seriously... some things are unnecessary[/quoti it's necessary to me cause it's make me value her or not |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by sodson11(m): 10:32am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Ifebazz:VERY TRUE |
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