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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by midolian(m): 10:02am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Ama80:To me, the answer is simple. Its either the OP's wife doesn't get the kinda satisfaction she expects from her husband OR she z cheating, and the man servicing her outside is doing far beta. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by tupem: 10:04am On Jul 31, 2015 |
topmost of a woman's need is security! if she isnt secured there is little she can do unless she seriously puts her heart to it! is the family's finance ok?! a woman fretting where school fees will come from watching her children starve and being scared the landlord will soon com knocking is unlikely to be turned on by a sexual gesture no matter how romantic such gesture is! 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by julietchic(f): 10:16am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Yehman:who told u that it's my birthday? Happy birthday to me. |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by ksbusari(m): 10:23am On Jul 31, 2015 |
MarieSucre:u r wack |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by MRLANNISTER(m): 10:30am On Jul 31, 2015 |
dramenda: WICKED!!! |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by bukatyne(f): 11:14am On Jul 31, 2015 |
jarkbauer: You have been married for 2 yrs (24mths) and except if there are twins, you both agreed to rush your kids or you had one of them before marriage, your wife was pregnant for 18mths out of 24mths. Hormones messed up with her body for 18mths and I am sure 6mths is not enough to normalize them. That might be her body's way of making her rest or her body is reacting to the fear of getting pregnant again. If she is working, she will be caring for two under two babies and you in addition to her job. Start from getting a help/nanny if you don't have one yet or invest in household machines and ensure you are hands on at home. Then discuss with her after doing the above on progress reports. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by sellYourCar: 11:18am On Jul 31, 2015 |
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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by OLUWAFUNMISE(f): 11:18am On Jul 31, 2015 |
two years of marriage with two kids... na wa ooo ![]() |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Yehman(m): 11:42am On Jul 31, 2015 |
julietchic:Keep my cake for me joor. How do I get it? |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Ama80(f): 12:16pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
midolian:chauvinist speaking.it's always d woman.don't let me drop a bombshell. |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by midolian(m): 12:51pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
Ama80:Going by the story, who do we blame here? ![]() ![]() I even stated that mayb the man is not doing well enough. And that probably is the reason why errm errm... Buh I know for sure that the wife is having an extra-marital affair ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by jabojafa(m): 12:59pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
dovelike:hmmmm..... U want ur clothes to turn abi? U must rili b hungry for dt tin |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Ama80(f): 1:15pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
midolian:are u saying her libido may be alive outside d home but dead inside.hmmmm.na u talk am ooo mak u know break d Op's home wt Ds accusation. |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Bolosiye: 1:30pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
What it means is dat ur wife needs a break. Just leave her alone 4 a while, and it will resucitate with time. But u self u too do, 2 kids in 2 years? na wa 4 u ooo! |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by midolian(m): 1:32pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
Ama80:that's exactly wat ayam saying. E no easy for libido to die like that na. ![]() I wld suggest the op begins to monitor the wife's movement henceforth. Something is obviously wrong |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by fireforfire: 1:33pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
jarkbauer: only 2 yrs and her libido is alreqdy dead ![]() hmmm.... are u thinkin what im thinkin? |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by fireforfire: 1:35pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
Brandnew2: ur just everywhere dishing out yeye advise. winsh one u dey na |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by awesomesossy(f): 2:06pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
I smell menopause oooo....she is xperiencing low libido because of d hormonal changes ...think u both should go for family planning....they also counsel couples on things like this.... some hormonal therapy would do d magic |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by sukkot: 2:08pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
darlenese:so you sayin he aint hittin em corners like he spposed to ![]() |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by free37: 2:24pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by sage2(m): 2:44pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
You have been married for 2 years, you have 2 kids and you have only had sex 4 times in the last 6 months. Hmmm. Okay, I will be asking you a couple of questions. 1, How old are your first and second child? 2, After how many months of marriage did your wife gave birth to your first child? Thank you. |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Handsomeorobo(m): 2:50pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by doubleexplorer: 2:52pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
She's cheating on you! |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by josite: 2:53pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
dont worry yourself ,she is just telling u to go and get your sex elsewhere.guess she already has a satisfier and doesnt need u again. |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Handsomeorobo(m): 2:54pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
I have always said it for those who care to listen. Please, check if your wife was circumcised. Especially those from the East. Once a woman is circumcised, sex is not part of her life, mostly they just lie there emotionless. You need to check that out, then you can understand how to start seeking help. I feel you bro. Pelé. |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Nobody: 3:47pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
tjskii:Your own case is very different from tha OP's, the guy categorically stated that He's tried to lure her into some serious converse that could give birth to possible solutions. You see, that woman is hell bent in her resolve not to have sex wt this dude, she said her libido is DEAD! Don't you get?.... Who knows, she might be getting all she wants from somewhere else cos I can't still get myself to understand how a woman will be sleeping on the same bed wt a man for a period that long without any form of intimacy.... Its so unimaginable. Back to your challenge at men of this age; We both know things will not remain as it was before marriage. It's nat jes possible! Unless you're married to a lazy man....That's why there are two different words for the different phases; one courtship, the other marriage. Infact men of this age I can proudly say are more romantic than men of the yesteryears who majorly adopt polygamy and who would have to share the affection and attention among wives. I don't know how those wives manange to keep up their libido.... Women of those age on the average give birth to on the average 6kids, my granny is my witness....Its just that women of this age are so unsatiable and expect too much than we can offer. You guys I restate should stop comparing us with our white counterparts. Their society's design and make up, the norms, the laws, the traditions and the values are not the same! On a broader note however, I feel our neurotic society where everybody is restless, anxious, stressed and tensed up, where familial ties have been cut short, where materialism have been taken to mean love and where family friends don't meet up and drink up in cafes on weekends and talk into the night but will rather group chat on whatsapp needs to be revisited, reviewed and redesigned. The time now is all work and pseudo-play if at all we relapse. So, don't blame men, blame us all. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Nobody: 4:03pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
bukatyne:Nanny kor, Ronaldo ni!, polygamy is the corekt answer. Don't you see this guy is sex starved? Do you know how it feels to be sex starved, do you know its effect on productivity? If yes, I know you will agree wt me that If this guy goes for another wife it will be near impossible for them to fall into hormonal turmoil at the same time. So that when one is recuperating, the other will be available for proper servicing. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by segefx(m): 4:20pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
christinie: Lol very funny 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by darlenese(f): 4:47pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by LastProphet: 6:00pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
jarkbauer: She has gotten used to u, why is this difficult for black people to understand? That is what makes marriage difficult nah? And besides u might not even look attractive anymore with your pot belly and all. Separate for a while period! Suggest different bedroom or go more on trips. Don't ever ever bring up issue of sex again until she does, get a sidekick outside if u can't hold it and remain a good husband. If u go to any pastor or elder for advise then u would have just started chopping your nyash |
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by ladygudhead(f): 6:13pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
christinie: don't mind dem jare! 100likes for u sister! 1 Like |
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