But why is it that only girls are asked to keep their virginity? What about us men, eh? I have read a lot of posts and comments that talk about girls keeping their virginity, and some guys even insult those that are not virgins.

But my question is this: Is it only girls that are meant to keep their
virginity?

What about guys? And again how will a lady be able to keep her virginity when guys are always asking for sex then turn around and
insult her for losing it?
It is not only women that are expected to be pure, guys should be pure as well. You want a lady to be pure, yet,
you won't stop asking for sex. If she still refuses, you try to make her weak in her
defence. Yet, you will come online or elsewhere and shout about girls keeping
their virginity until marriage.. Are we immune to virginity?

Let’s stop asking ladies out, and even when they accept to date us, don't ask them for sex.

Help them to keep their
virginity until marriage and stop putting the whole virginity and purity struggle on them alone!

Just my humble opinion though.

Thanks!

Brother if supporting this notion will take us to hell i still support. I mean i AGREE.
But do you guys will stop and also, do you think some girls can't stand living without sex. It is just the way and what the World is.

He/She that want the best for himself/herself should just stay away from sex.
Many don't know that sex is even a blood covenant btw two. Demonic girls are out there destroying destinies and lives still some he-goat nor go gree hear.

Ladies wey no pure again will SURELY regret and suffer at the end.

So it's choice, no 1 can force anyone.
BUT HE THAT HAS AN EAR, LET HIM HEAR!

so we should date without nacking?

THE LION HUNTS TO KILL, NOT FOR FUN.

#ApexPredators

jaymejate:
Brother if supporting this notion will take us to hell i still support. I mean i AGREE.
But do you guys will stop and also, do you think some girls can't stand living without sex. It is just the way and what the World is.

He/She that want the best for himself/herself should just stay away from sex.
Many don't know that sex is even a blood covenant btw two. Demonic girls are out there destroying destinies and lives still some he-goat nor go gree hear.

Ladies wey no pure again will SURELY regret and suffer at the end.

So it's choice, no 1 can force anyone.
BUT HE THAT HAS AN EAR, LET HIM HEAR!

I know there will be critizm but uve just said d truth. Wish dey will listen.

jaymejate:
Brother if supporting this notion will take us to hell i still support. I mean i AGREE.
But do you guys will stop and also, do you think some girls can't stand living without sex. It is just the way and what the World is.

He/She that want the best for himself/herself should just stay away from sex.
Many don't know that sex is even a blood covenant btw two. Demonic girls are out there destroying destinies and lives. still some he-goat nor go gree hear.

Ladies wey no pure again will SURELY regret and suffer at the end.

So it's choice, no 1 can force anyone.
BUT HE THAT HAS AN EAR, LET HIM HEAR!

gurgle

Your "type" is here

#ShouldWeSoundTheWeddingBells?

IamLEGEND1:


gurgle

Your "type" is here

#ShouldWeSoundTheWeddingBells?

LOL

**modified I misunderstood you

Why are you trying to dash me to another man, are you mad

Well everybody knows that women are always the losers in this world

Our world is fallen, so things are not as they should be, they are just the way they are

Everybody should just be realistic with what they expect in their lives and how they allow others to influence them

Because once its gone, its gone...

Gurgle:


LOL

leave me, we're not marrying again. You've turned evil

i didnt choose the thug life

the thug life chose me.

you can join me over here if you want you know

Can u prove that a guy is a virgin? No. So that's why.

delectablegyal:
Can u prove that a guy is a virgin? No. So that's why.

see what ah mean?

flawless logic.

there is a reason only one gender came with a factory "seal"

#ChopKnuckleJare

A virgin guy doesn't sound very enticing.

IamLEGEND1:


gurgle

Your "type" is here

#ShouldWeSoundTheWeddingBells?

Bros i no understand u o

jaymejate:


Bros i no understand u o

dnt wori, i'm just playing matchmaker for u

the lady "gurlg!e" shares the same ideals as you, so i thought why not?

i went rouge and i was thrown in the waste bin.

so good sir,

#TakeOver

[quote author=shegsky post=36644961]But why is it that only girls are asked to keep their virginity? What about us men, eh? I have read a lot of posts and comments that talk about girls keeping their virginity, and some guys even insult those that are not virgins.

But my question is this: Is it only girls that are meant to keep their
virginity?

What about guys? And again how will a lady be able to keep her virginity when guys are always asking for sex then turn around and
insult her for losing it?
It is not only women that are expected to be pure, guys should be pure as well. You want a lady to be pure, yet,
you won't stop asking for sex. If she still refuses, you try to make her weak in her
defence. Yet, you will come online or elsewhere and shout about girls keeping
their virginity until marriage.. Are we immune to virginity?

Let’s stop asking ladies out, and even when they accept to date us, don't ask them for sex.

Help them to keep their
virginity until marriage and stop putting the whole virginity and purity struggle on them alone!

Just my humble opinion though.

Thanks![/qu




https://www.nairaland.com/2321378/why-it-only-girls-asked

Op what you just did is plagiarism I can sue you for that you know.

delectablegyal:
Can u prove that a guy is a virgin? No. So that's why.

How to Tell if a Guy is a
Virgin?
First of all it’s important to understand that there’s no way of physically knowing
that he’s still a virgin – guys don’t have anything like a hymen which can be broken
during intercourse. So you will have to go by your intuition and gut instinct when it comes to determining if your present boyfriend is
a virgin.

Here Are some common signs that suggest he is a virgin?


He is Very Shy About
Touching You
This is not a definitive sign but it can well be an indication that the guy is a virgin. Men who have had intercourse at least once would not be so shy of touching a girl. In fact shyness towards the opposite sex decidedly reduces in men who have been in intimate before. But
can you tell if a guy is a
virgin just because he is shy about being intimate? Not really but it’s a strong sign. So if a guy is shy about touching you, especially at the intimate body parts, it does hint at this being a virgin.

He is Very Uncertain
While Getting Physically
Intimate
If he is quite clueless about how to react to your advances then there is a possibility that it might well be his first time. Most guys
who are not virgins would just need a hint to start tearing at your clothes – they have done this before and their experience helps
condition their mind. Virgin guys would be very circumspect about how to go about getting intimate. IF YOU ARE NOT A VIRGIN,YOU WILL FIND THE VIRGIN GUY ESPECIALLY CLUELESS.

He Kisses Awkwardly
Some guys are bad kissers but that does not mean they are virgins. But if a guy
kisses awkwardly, in a very shy or inhibited manner, it’s almost a sure sign that he is
a virgin. If a guy is pretty good at kissing you can be sure that he is not a virgin no matter what.

Using these signs you can tell if a guy is a virgin with relative surety, but of course there are no guarantees.

A key dat opens every lock is a master key while a lock dat allows any key opens it, is useless and would be thrown away

*shrugs* my own opinion

[quote author=queencalipso post=36647882][/quote]
Lol. You are free Dear. But for clarity sake, if i knew such topic exist on nairaland,i wont stoop so low by pasting such again since our aim is to abolish any thing called pre marital sex and for us to keep our body as clean and holy for the most high. Then i guess the main reason of these topic again is just to remind our folks out there of respecting the temple of God ( Body ).
Accept my apology if u think i copied your post.

shegsky:


How to Tell if a Guy is a
Virgin?
First of all it’s important to understand that there’s no way of physically knowing
that he’s still a virgin – guys don’t have anything like a hymen which can be broken
during intercourse. So you will have to go by your intuition and gut instinct when it comes to determining if your present boyfriend is
a virgin.

Here Are some common signs that suggest he is a virgin?


He is Very Shy About
Touching You
This is not a definitive sign but it can well be an indication that the guy is a virgin. Men who have had intercourse at least once would not be so shy of touching a girl. In fact shyness towards the opposite sex decidedly reduces in men who have been in intimate before. But
can you tell if a guy is a
virgin just because he is shy about being intimate? Not really but it’s a strong sign. So if a guy is shy about touching you, especially at the intimate body parts, it does hint at this being a virgin.

He is Very Uncertain
While Getting Physically
Intimate
If he is quite clueless about how to react to your advances then there is a possibility that it might well be his first time. Most guys
who are not virgins would just need a hint to start tearing at your clothes – they have done this before and their experience helps
condition their mind. Virgin guys would be very circumspect about how to go about getting intimate. IF YOU ARE NOT A VIRGIN,YOU WILL FIND THE VIRGIN GUY ESPECIALLY CLUELESS.

He Kisses Awkwardly
Some guys are bad kissers but that does not mean they are virgins. But if a guy
kisses awkwardly, in a very shy or inhibited manner, it’s almost a sure sign that he is
a virgin. If a guy is pretty good at kissing you can be sure that he is not a virgin no matter what.

Using these signs you can tell if a guy is a virgin with relative surety, but of course there are no guarantees.

So there is no proof.
All these u wrote up dere are mere hypothesis.

sparkleRed:
A key dat opens every lock is a master key while a lock dat allows any key opens it, is useless and would be thrown away

*shrugs* my own opinion

Which kind of s.tupid opinion is this?


How many keys have opened ur own lock?

delectablegyal:



Which kind of s.tupid opinion is this?


How many keys have opened ur own lock?

See see don't just get me started on u dis night...

Which brand of weed did u smoke? re u blind can't u see my opinion there or wen did pple stop having opinions abi must I think d way u re thinking , just waka pass if various keys have peruse u and it's pinching u just look left cos dis night is just nt my nice night @ all

Mtcheeewww

delectablegyal:



Which kind of s.tupid opinion is this?


How many keys have opened ur own lock?

Stupiid doesn't even begin to describe that "opinion".

sparkleRed:



See see don't just get me started on u dis night...

Which brand of weed did u smoke? re u blind can't u see my opinion there or wen did pple stop having opinions abi must I think d way u re thinking , just waka pass if various keys have peruse u and it's pinching u just look left cos dis night is just nt my nice night @ all

Mtcheeewww

if we do our research, we will find out the i.diot is not a virgin.

delectablegyal:


if we do our research, we will find out the i.diot is not a virgin.

U must be a product of misoprostol gone bad 4 abortion, dat y ur brain is half baked and u re senseless
Rubbish

Get out of my mention... dis gal leave me, I don't knw u,u don't knw me, so just get out abeg, don't add 2 my annoyance dis night abeg


I don't even knw y answering sef

delectablegyal and sparkleRed. Thats enough. Let bygone be bygone .okay. All we need is constructive critizm.

shegsky:
delectablegyal and sparkleRed. Thats enough. Let bygone be bygone .okay. All we need is constructive critizm.

Ok no p thnks

sparkleRed:

Ok no p thnks

Ure welcm.

Cos d boys are out there dancing cultural dance wiv everyoda girl out there
Dey shd nt circumcise men again till after dere wedding day den we will kno d true male virgins the foolish ones and the wise ones

cos dia is no difference in d thing of a virgin guy nd one who isnt a virgin...dia is no point telling guys to keep it wen u wouldn't knw if they do or not..
.

btw, I'm a virgin...#TEAMweddingNYT

halfrica:
Cos d boys are out there dancing cultural dance wiv everyoda girl out there
Dey shd nt circumcise men again till after dere wedding day den we will kno d true male virgins the foolish ones and the wise ones

you are pained..


pele, ndo

justified19:
you are pained..


pele, ndo

Why will it pain me am i d one to marry all d boys ni e no concern me make dem like no learn ow to keep body shebi hiv std and all don dey kee una like road side chicken
U are not doin me u are doing ursef

halfrica:
Cos d boys are out there dancing cultural dance wiv everyoda girl out there
Dey shd nt circumcise men again till after dere wedding day den we will kno d true male virgins the foolish ones and the wise ones

Thanks for your input. But nevertheless, can i actually no why 98percent of ladies detest guyz who is not a ' DON JAZZY ' sort of guy but will prefer going out / on a date with the so called PLAYERS! i mean the whatsup guyz. Although,these is another topic on its own, just wanna hear ur view.