Gurgle:


Yeahhh but its a reality. So the sooner we realise it the better. Because when we ignore it we make really bad mistakes

Have you heard the story of the lizard and the rat? Men are the lizards, we're the rats

But as I was saying on your thread, I think we can emerge as the winners if we acknowledge our position and act smartly

/in Mama Nkechi's voice/ God forbid!

I understand what you mean. I've come to terms with that reality (from a young age) so it has actually stopped me from doing stupid things and what not it just pains me to think that by virtue of having a dick, some smchluck out there thinks that he's better than me AND has an easier life than I do. Ugh.

Rat kwa? I don't know that story o.

The only solution as far as I'm concerned is to get money. And lots of it. Money is no respecter of colour, gender or age. That's why I plan on making lots of money so no one can tell me anything

justified19:
u sound like we can fvck if women no dey... truth is, d more we fvck d more u get fvcked...

The more wee get bleeped the more u guys life get fuucckked up abi u tink u can fuucckk an go is eida u pay or we donate ur destiny as recommened glasses for our ancestors as byday gift for dem

shegsky:


Okay ma, By the way, I helped a lady I love keep her virginity bt she
eventually left me after many yrs for no good reason bt I never regret doing dat cos I knw one day,she wil remember and thank me for dat.So I can't really blame guys who dnt help ladies keep their virginity though.Is just a matter of the person's decision.

Uncle me there are many girls why did u pick that one
It was ur choice nt a collective thing
so as nt to make d same olodo ojukokoro mistake wateva made u like her make sure its absent in ur new gfs life truss me it works

That's because they are the only gender with a SEAL!

i no know all these ones you people are saying

but as for me my husband must be a virgin o

shegsky:
But why is it that only girls are asked to keep their virginity? What about us men, eh? I have read a lot of posts and comments that talk about girls keeping their virginity, and some guys even insult those that are not virgins.

But my question is this: Is it only girls that are meant to keep their
virginity?

What about guys? And again how will a lady be able to keep her virginity when guys are always asking for sex then turn around and
insult her for losing it?
It is not only women that are expected to be pure, guys should be pure as well. You want a lady to be pure, yet,
you won't stop asking for sex. If she still refuses, you try to make her weak in her
defence. Yet, you will come online or elsewhere and shout about girls keeping
their virginity until marriage.. Are we immune to virginity?

Let’s stop asking ladies out, and even when they accept to date us, don't ask them for sex.

Help them to keep their
virginity until marriage and stop putting the whole virginity and purity struggle on them alone!

Just my humble opinion though.

Thanks!

Troubling question especially because morality ought to be universal

halfrica:


Uncle me there are many girls why did u pick that one
It was ur choice nt a collective thing
so as nt to make d same olodo ojukokoro mistake wateva made u like her make sure its absent in ur new gfs life truss me it works

Your mouth like abebe. I be oloju kokoro abi. In as much as i condemn fornication. How many ladies wud wish for a virgin man? It wil surprise u wen u hear
from them. Women dn't
appeciate virgin men. Infact, they hate them wit passion.
Unlike the men! Or halfrica, did i lie? U sef no say a v guy is the last thing on ur dictionary,abi mo paro mo eni.

[quote author=shegsky post=36644961]But why is it that only girls are asked to keep their virginity? What about us men, eh? I have read a lot of posts and comments that talk about girls keeping their virginity, and some guys even insult those that are not virgins.

But my question is this: Is it only girls that are meant to keep their
virginity?

What about guys? And again how will a lady be able to keep her virginity when guys are always asking for sex then turn around and
insult her for losing it?
It is not only women that are expected to be pure, guys should be pure as well. You want a lady to be pure, yet,
you won't stop asking for sex. If she still refuses, you try to make her weak in her
defence. Yet, you will come online or elsewhere and shout about girls keeping
their virginity until marriage.
Let’s stop asking ladies out, and even when they accept to date us, don't ask them for sex. We hie u, but ladies stop askins us abt money, ur bussiness the pic check the basket na waitin der!

MrsPhyno:

/in Mama Nkechi's voice/ God forbid!

I understand what you mean. I've come to terms with that reality (from a young age) so it has actually stopped me from doing stupid things and what not it just pains me to think that by virtue of having a dick, some smchluck out there thinks that he's better than me AND has an easier life than I do. Ugh.

Rat kwa? I don't know that story o.

The only solution as far as I'm concerned is to get money. And lots of it. Money is no respecter of colour, gender or age. That's why I plan on making lots of money so no one can tell me anything

Well, just because he thinks he has a better life than you, doesn't make it so. It doesn't need to pain you, just ignore them and stay in your lane. Theres no point competing with men because we are 2 completely different animals

The rat and the lizard were out one day, the lizard jumped into the lake and started swimming and the rat also joined him after deliberating. After they finished swimming they came out and went on their ways. The lizard has scales, so the water just slid off him and dried by itself. But the rat who only had its fur caught a cold from the water and died.

In other words sometimes the person youre following has completely different luck and circumstances to you, so they may do something and get away with it, facing no consequences while you may commit exactly the same act, yet ruin your life.

And yeah money is the key. Not just the money but what you had to do to get the money ie study, hustle, fight and so on. By the time we have struggled like that we will have the self-esteem and experience to know when something is good for us and when it isn't, without the deceiving cloud of gender inequality issues hovering over our minds

MrsPhyno:
i no know all these ones you people are saying

but as for me my husband must be a virgin o

Thumbs up Dear. I no we still av some loyal ladies,but the prob is that ure very few in number. Keep it up.and may your wish comes to pass IJN.

ronald4lif:
Yea, ladies must keep their virginity why guys are free to screw anything in skirt. Hypocrisy of men.

You can imagine. Hypocrites!

My opinion: Real men have self control.

Walexsammy:
asif u no no say most oloshoo clean pass some wey no be oloshoo self...and btw, u even no say condomm dey b4 abi....

There is inner cleansing and outter cleansing can they bleach their diseases away?
Or cleanse it wiv italian pami

shegsky:

Thumbs up Dear. I no we still av some loyal ladies,but the prob is that ure very few in number. Keep it up.and may your wish comes to pass IJN.

Thank you very much

Reason

bukatyne:
@OP:

Very good one...

I marvel when people hype on female virginity only forgetting it talks two to tango.

I see some shitty analogy about locks and keys...

What is the lock? What is the key?

If men are free to be promiscuous, who are the people they do it with?

Or are we encouraging homosexuality? Let the guys run amok with themselves

I hear virgin men are not good in bed... Please who was born with bedmatics? Every bad ass guy was once a virgin and learnt from women. How sweet will it be you both learn together

And again, the fact a man is experienced doesn't mean he will be able to satisfy you if he is unwilling to learn what pleases you as a woman

You do not know if a man is a virgin... you also do not know if he is a killer. You keep yourself pure because it is commanded and not because 'Nobody will not know'

sweety, you sounded just like me here.

shegsky:


Your mouth like abebe. I be oloju kokoro abi. In as much as i condemn fornication. How many ladies wud wish for a virgin man? It wil surprise u wen u hear
from them. Women dn't
appeciate virgin men. Infact, they hate them wit passion.
Unlike the men! Or halfrica, did i lie? U sef no say a v guy is the last thing on ur dictionary,abi mo paro mo eni.

Dated a virgin guy once didnt change anytin not like hisss ddiiiccccckkk was located under his armpit nau Every fucckkkinn loooseee nigggaa started as a virgin too na no biggie its only girls dat makes sexxx their future ambittion vision and mission that wee nt want a virgin guy
One good merit is no scandal of baby mama in his record unless he wants to say he his 21st century josef

MrsPhyno:
Thank you very much

Ure welcm.

An2elect2:


You can imagine. Hypocrites!

My opinion: Real men have self control.

Hmmm I'm befuddled by the accentuated remark. Are you in any way alluding guys who indulge in sex lacks self-control and unreal men?

i tire ooo

halfrica:



Dated a virgin guy once didnt change anytin not like hisss ddiiiccccckkk was located under his armpit nau Every fucckkkinn loooseee nigggaa started as a virgin too na no biggie its only girls dat makes sexxx their future ambittion vision and mission that wee nt want a virgin guy
One good merit is no scandal of baby mama in his record unless he wants to say he his 21st century josef

hmn. Oku ise oluwa.

shegsky:

hmn. Oku ise oluwa.

Praise be thee

shegsky:


How to Tell if a Guy is a
Virgin?
First of all it’s important to understand that there’s no way of physically knowing
that he’s still a virgin – guys don’t have anything like a hymen which can be broken
during intercourse. So you will have to go by your intuition and gut instinct when it comes to determining if your present boyfriend is
a virgin.

Here Are some common signs that suggest he is a virgin?


He is Very Shy About
Touching You
This is not a definitive sign but it can well be an indication that the guy is a virgin. Men who have had intercourse at least once would not be so shy of touching a girl. In fact shyness towards the opposite sex decidedly reduces in men who have been in intimate before. But
can you tell if a guy is a
virgin just because he is shy about being intimate? Not really but it’s a strong sign. So if a guy is shy about touching you, especially at the intimate body parts, it does hint at this being a virgin.

He is Very Uncertain
While Getting Physically
Intimate
If he is quite clueless about how to react to your advances then there is a possibility that it might well be his first time. Most guys
who are not virgins would just need a hint to start tearing at your clothes – they have done this before and their experience helps
condition their mind. Virgin guys would be very circumspect about how to go about getting intimate. IF YOU ARE NOT A VIRGIN,YOU WILL FIND THE VIRGIN GUY ESPECIALLY CLUELESS.

He Kisses Awkwardly
Some guys are bad kissers but that does not mean they are virgins. But if a guy
kisses awkwardly, in a very shy or inhibited manner, it’s almost a sure sign that he is
a virgin. If a guy is pretty good at kissing you can be sure that he is not a virgin no matter what.

Using these signs you can tell if a guy is a virgin with relative surety, but of course there are no guarantees.

thank God for your last words. I for blast u....... Am nt shy to do the touching tinz with any girl as long as shez giving me hints..... I kiss a lot n do some other tinz..... Still I hav never had sex..... Xo wat do u say to dat?

namedonfinish:
i tire ooo

But 4real, wont u choose the ginger swagger guy to a guy who tends to maintain his moral. Wont u see him as impotent or call him those names. Ur views are welcm.

delectablegyal:


Which kind of s.tupid opinion is this?

How many keys have opened ur own lock?

www.nairaland.com/2502958/lawyers-makinglets-meet-here#36617938

So the muslims that are uncircumcised don't have sex? In ur opinion dem be virgins too abi?

halfrica:
Cos d boys are out there dancing cultural dance wiv everyoda girl out there
Dey shd nt circumcise men again till after dere wedding day den we will kno d true male virgins the foolish ones and the wise ones

xyzhill:
thank God for your last words. I for blast u....... Am nt shy to do the touching tinz with any girl as long as shez giving me hints..... I kiss a lot n do some other tinz..... Still I hav never had sex..... Xo wat do u say to dat?

That is why i said any lady will have to go by
her intuition and gut
instinct when it comes to determining if his
present boyfriend is
a virgin or not. Its kinda tricky.

Gurgle:


Well, just because he thinks he has a better life than you, doesn't make it so. It doesn't need to pain you, just ignore them and stay in your lane. Theres no point competing with men because we are 2 completely different animals

The rat and the lizard were out one day, the lizard jumped into the lake and started swimming and the rat also joined him after deliberating. After they finished swimming they came out and went on their ways. The lizard has scales, so the water just slid off him and dried by itself. But the rat who only had its fur caught a cold from the water and died.

In other words sometimes the person youre following has completely different luck and circumstances to you, so they may do something and get away with it, facing no consequences while you may commit exactly the same act, yet ruin your life.

And yeah money is the key. Not just the money but what you had to do to get the money ie study, hustle, fight and so on. By the time we have struggled like that we will have the self-esteem and experience to know when something is good for us and when it isn't, without the deceiving cloud of gender inequality issues hovering over our minds

Wow Madam Gurgle I can see you have this down to a science. Nice one.

That story makes me feel like crying like seriously. The worst thing is when males say that kinda stuff with their own mouths, the locks and doors analogy or how eve brought the curse onto mankind blah blah blah. They're so proud of that stuff even tho it has nothing to do with them. How do you feel better than about half of humanity just cause you have a pe.nis? Tufia.

I agree. As usual haha. But at the same time, men are complaining about how they don't like 'overly educated' or über successful women cause blah blah blah. (Wow my autocorrect is nice look how it's spelling uber) So you can't really win. Good little housewife, they complain. Fun-loving sex kitten, they complain. Money oriented educated lady, they complain. It's annoying.

shegsky:

But 4real, wont u choose the ginger swagger guy to a guy who tends to maintain his moral. Wont u see him as impotent or call him those names. Ur views are welcm.

nope i wont

What the OP don't understand is that, the female p**y is like soft ponmo, when u beat it hard with any strong object it will Sag/Slack and never go back to its original position.

If u see such ponmo in ur stew, would u pick it?
No, u prefer the spiral ponmo abi?

ronald4lif:


Hmmm I'm befuddled by the accentuated remark. Are you in any way alluding guys who indulge in sex lacks self-control and unreal men?

Ok are you a grammarian? or you trying to impress? or whatever it is, i dey laugh.

Erm i dont see any confusion in what i have stated as my opinion which is based on my religious belief, morality and life experiences.

Any man who cannot bring his body under submission, cannot keep a home. You are going to be the head of a family someday, and there is no better time learning what it takes to be that, than now. So yes, men who indulge in sex, most times have only a wasted life to show when all is said and done.

nelandrewz:
So the muslims that are uncircumcised don't have sex? In ur opinion dem be virgins too abi?

The skin wee stee be removed away na

MrsPhyno:

Wow Madam Gurgle I can see you have this down to a science. Nice one.

That story makes me feel like crying like seriously. The worst thing is when males say that kinda stuff with their own mouths, the locks and doors analogy or how eve brought the curse onto mankind blah blah blah. They're so proud of that stuff even tho it has nothing to do with them. How do you feel better than about half of humanity just cause you have a pe.nis? Tufia.

I agree. As usual haha. But at the same time, men are complaining about how they don't like 'overly educated' or über successful women cause blah blah blah. (Wow my autocorrect is nice look how it's spelling uber) So you can't really win. Good little housewife, they complain. Fun-loving sex kitten, they complain. Money oriented educated lady, they complain. It's annoying.

Yeah I have been thinking about this stuff a lot recently. Probably because of the stage in my life that im in like probably marrying soon. Trying to orientate myself in the right way

Well I heard that Eve thing as an argument against women leading in the church. Because men can follow a woman even when shes wrong, without really thinking about it. Women are too powerful, so they have to be kept limited somehow. What do you think?

I think all those traits, money-oriented, successful, sex-kitten are great for men. The problem is when they threaten his control or his perception of control. Of course men love educated women, esp Nigerian men. but if you purposefully use it to make him feel like an !idiot, keep rubbing it in his face for no reason or keep using it as an excuse to dodge your responsibility, he will complain. That's what I meant about being smart with our gifts. We don't need to talk about them all the time, just use them behind the scenes.

Of course there are a lot of men who are just insecure and no amount of strategy will stop them from trying to bring you down. But hopefully me and you will avoid such men in future But I do think we women can create a lot of problems for ourselves in that regard. Trying to engage in power struggles with our men I mean. It never works. This is David and Goliath stuff. We cant fight with them head to head, we have to go via a different avenue

Again, what do you think?