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Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by Seventeen(f): 4:10am On Aug 06, 2015
Virginity is required of both sexes... D devil has seriously used d sexual sin successfully on us all. We all struggle with fornication/adultery/pornography/and all manner of sexual impurities. But guyz the bible says dat NO ONE who indulges in these will see God. Plz let us be serious with the commandments of our maker and stop throwing around words like 'if dats what takes me to hell so be it'. The beauty of Heaven far surpasses anything u can think of on dis earth. Sex was designed by God, yes, but he wanted it to be one of the most beautiful things a man would share wit his wife. But guess who doesnt want any good plan of the Lord to see the light of day,? The Devil. Plz we dont want to end up with him in hell. Hell is a place we joke around with like its going to be a party there... But many ppl eye go clear ON THAT DAY. Better make ee clear now ooo.. because ON THAT DAY some ppl will wish they were impotent on earth. Ladies too. PLZ my brothers and sisters. There are other sins we need to work on as well of course, but the sexual sin has been neglected like its no big deal. Dont struggle to live a holy life and at THE END u find out its dat premarital/extra marital affair dat u tot was nothing dat will disqualify u. Heaven and hell is as real as earth.

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Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by joek(m): 4:13am On Aug 06, 2015
Gurgle, waoh! I read evrytin u wrote and I fell in love instantly. Ur perfect woman any sensible man wud want to marry.Thanks for ur contributions. Kisses.
Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by Nobody: 4:16am On Aug 06, 2015
bukatyne:
@OP:

Very good one...

I marvel when people hype on female virginity only forgetting it talks two to tango.

I see some shitty analogy about locks and keys...

What is the lock? What is the key?

If men are free to be promiscuous, who are the people they do it with?

Or are we encouraging homosexuality? Let the guys run amok with themselves

I hear virgin men are not good in bed... Please who was born with bedmatics? Every bad ass guy was once a virgin and learnt from women. How sweet will it be you both learn together

And again, the fact a man is experienced doesn't mean he will be able to satisfy you if he is unwilling to learn what pleases you as a woman

You do not know if a man is a virgin... you also do not know if he is a killer. You keep yourself pure because it is commanded and not because 'Nobody will not know'

Lol. U take style yarn small truth here o

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Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by jaybee3(m): 4:19am On Aug 06, 2015
Simply put, it's the common sense approach to guarding against unwanted pregnancies and boys simply don't have to worry about this inherent risk
Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by iRepNaija1: 4:36am On Aug 06, 2015
sparkleRed:
A key dat opens every lock is a master key while a lock dat allows any key opens it, is useless and would be thrown away

*shrugs* my own opinion

Comparing women to locks. Good job! undecided
Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by Nobody: 4:38am On Aug 06, 2015
ronald4lif:
Yea, ladies must keep their virginity why guys are free to screw anything in skirt. Hypocrisy of men.
A lock that can be easily opened by any key is useless but a key that can open any lock is called a master key. wink Go figure!! grin grin
Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by tohpahz(f): 4:42am On Aug 06, 2015
AgapeCharis:
A lock that can be easily opened by any key is useless but a key that can open any lock is called a master key. wink Go figure!! grin grin

lipsrsealed
Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by smudge2079(m): 4:48am On Aug 06, 2015
because d gal can be put in a family way if caution is not taken
Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by Nobody: 4:53am On Aug 06, 2015
tohpahz:


lipsrsealed
grin grin grin
Lool! I lie? grin
Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by iRepNaija1: 4:54am On Aug 06, 2015
shegsky:
But why is it that only girls are asked to keep their virginity? What about us men, eh? I have read a lot of posts and comments that talk about girls keeping their virginity, and some guys even insult those that are not virgins.

But my question is this: Is it only girls that are meant to keep their
virginity?

What about guys? And again how will a lady be able to keep her virginity when guys are always asking for sex then turn around and
insult her for losing it?
It is not only women that are expected to be pure, guys should be pure as well. You want a lady to be pure, yet,
you won't stop asking for sex. If she still refuses, you try to make her weak in her
defence. Yet, you will come online or elsewhere and shout about girls keeping
their virginity until marriage.. Are we immune to virginity?

Let’s stop asking ladies out, and even when they accept to date us, don't ask them for sex.

Help them to keep their
virginity until marriage and stop putting the whole virginity and purity struggle on them alone!

Just my humble opinion though.

Thanks!

Because the Nigerian culture is patriarchal in nature. When it comes to most things, especially sex, the majority of the population have accepted that men are allowed to be sexual beings and women are not. I could go into why we, as a society, don't want women to be sexual beings but that's for another day.

Men have the choice to engage in that activity with whoever they want, as many times as they want, without any repercussions, without their integrity and their worth as a person being questioned or diminished, without feeling guilty. Women do not. The most convenient and supposedly most effective way to bring down a woman down is to sexually insult her, so you see some women who pretend to be virgins or claim to have had only one or two partners. Because they are trying to abide by the culture. They want to be viewed as special and valuable, in this capacity, to the male population.

It is fair? No, of course not. But because the standard we have indulges men and gives them this privilege/advantage over women, they are not in any rush to change it, if at all.

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Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by emmykk(m): 4:57am On Aug 06, 2015
sparkleRed:
A key dat opens every lock is a master key while a lock dat allows any key opens it, is useless and would be thrown away

*shrugs* my own opinion
babe make them sama you one bottle of fanta
Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by Khd95(m): 5:29am On Aug 06, 2015
Dis topic is ridiculous,lemme conclude my lafta in suprano grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin


op wait,u xpected boiz 2 keep virginity,kaaai u fall my hand...
Ask ursef is ther anytin like virginity in boiz in d first place,then hw would u no if a guy is a virgin

Anyways,d ans 2 ur topic is,only gels r virgin,so only gels should keep their virginity,shekena.




Btw,iam a virgingringrin
ask my MUM nd MY OLUWATOBi8)
Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by sparkleRed(f): 5:49am On Aug 06, 2015
Walexsammy:
ah dey gbadun u jare...btw, hw u dey?

Am alright dear..na u dey flex na
Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by sparkleRed(f): 5:51am On Aug 06, 2015
Joavid:


Its not your opinion. its a copy and paste xtupid adage someone put together and you took it hook, line and sinker.

So you would teach your son he is a key, and the only way he's considered a real man is when he sleeps with every gal he sees.

And the day your daughter loses her hymen, she is useless


Ok
Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by mekonglobal(m): 5:51am On Aug 06, 2015
IamLEGEND1:

see what ah mean?
flawless logic.
there is a reason only one gender came with a factory "seal"
#ChopKnuckleJare
Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by hassymo5(m): 5:55am On Aug 06, 2015
I have been asking the same questions... boys/men always wanting a virgin...while dey go about sleeping with others girls..

This is a two way traffic... both should b virgins

I cannot keep my self virgin while the person I will spend the rest of my life with either men/women/guys/ladies/young/old had HND,Bsc,PGd,Msc,PhD..in sexuality........

But wait ..They keep saying ur virginity is ur pride.. I don't get this statement..

you are a virgin agreed and kept it and the man/woman who married u ..have been sleeping with girls/boys..he/she com and sleep with u as a wife/husband..and they call it pride...
now this person now is not satisfied because u are not experience in bedmatic..cheating set in..

I don't get it.....

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Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by Remii(m): 5:59am On Aug 06, 2015
why not ask why women collect dowry, move to husband house, expected not to work, drop her surname after wedding, etc it is a package

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Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by Nobody: 6:03am On Aug 06, 2015
[quote author=queencalipso post=36647882][/quote] I will be in court to support this shit.
Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by onunwa21(m): 6:15am On Aug 06, 2015
The reason is dis;
The man is the one to pay 4 d bride price.
Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by MsFaith: 6:26am On Aug 06, 2015
Talk to them o
Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by Lordmykel(m): 6:30am On Aug 06, 2015
shegsky:

Thanks for your input. But nevertheless, can i actually no why 98percent of ladies detest guyz who is not a ' DON JAZZY ' sort of guy but will prefer going out / on a date with the so called PLAYERS! i mean the whatsup guyz. Although,these is another topic on its own, just wanna hear ur view.


Hey Don Jazzy is a shy guy. grin
Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by Nobody: 6:43am On Aug 06, 2015
chowlade:

shut up. is dis d best way u can express ur own contribution?
Slut

Bytch you shut the Bleep up! Who the Bleep are you to tell me what I should or shouldn't say? Quoting me talking crap. Bleep you. Fucking skank coming online acting holier than thou.

I repeat, virgin guy is not enticing to me. Now take your crusty snatch & go sue me, cùnt. Rubbish!
Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by jrerico1(m): 6:48am On Aug 06, 2015
halfrica:
Cos d boys are out there dancing cultural dance wiv everyoda girl out there angry
Dey shd nt circumcise men again till after dere wedding day den we will kno d true male virgins the foolish ones and the wise ones
This is wickedness I can't Imagine the pain I went through when I was a kid, no sleeping pill can keep me for that now
Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by cutepaul(m): 6:53am On Aug 06, 2015
[quote author=queencalipso post=36647882][/quote]

Its possible that u also plaguared it from somewhere ...........and he did like wise.......so as long as the original plaguaree didn't sue u........why evilsevils grin
Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by Bonapart(m): 6:59am On Aug 06, 2015
EggovinMma:


That's what Boyz do.
it's true.... i pledge allegiance to my father in HEAVEN so till marriage

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Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by jabojafa(m): 7:03am On Aug 06, 2015
sparkleRed:


U must be a product of misoprostol gone bad 4 abortion, dat y ur brain is half baked and u re senseless
Rubbish

Get out of my mention... dis gal leave me, I don't knw u,u don't knw me, so just get out abeg, don't add 2 my annoyance dis night abeg


I don't even knw y answering sef
my dear when next u hv issues like, jst ignore them... Remember silence is d best answer given to f.............
Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by Nobody: 7:08am On Aug 06, 2015
Another beaten, overflogged topic. I'm beginning to suspect topics like this appear on frontpage as a form of census since almost every member would want to contribute their opinion.

I'm out of here. On to more pressing and educative matters.
Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by Fourwinds: 7:09am On Aug 06, 2015
MrsPhyno:

/in Mama Nkechi's voice/ God forbid!

I understand what you mean. I've come to terms with that reality (from a young age) so it has actually stopped me from doing stupid things and what not it just pains me to think that by virtue of having a dick, some smchluck out there thinks that he's better than me AND has an easier life than I do. Ugh.

Rat kwa? I don't know that story o.

The only solution as far as I'm concerned is to get money. And lots of it. Money is no respecter of colour, gender or age. That's why I plan on making lots of money so no one can tell me anything tongue
don't let money get into u and affect ur home. Be humble. There are responsible men out there dat will give u ur due respect. Don't act as if because u have d money, u can no longer play the role of a helper in d family.
Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by bionictino(m): 7:09am On Aug 06, 2015
Of all the questions and opinion from a guy, na dis one u update U sure say u're not gay Lolllzzzzzz
Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by Nobody: 7:16am On Aug 06, 2015
Because women have virginal= they should keep their virginity , easy and good to call. BUT Men have penis= they should keep their penisity. u see it sound obsolete, even dictionary no recognize am. so let leave for virginal for virginity.
Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by rabbuy(m): 7:17am On Aug 06, 2015
IamLEGEND1:
so we should date without nacking?

THE LION HUNTS TO KILL, NOT FOR FUN.

#ApexPredators

Tel'em brov
Re: Why is it that only Girls are asked to keep their virginity? by Fourwinds: 7:20am On Aug 06, 2015
MsFaith:
Talk to them o
d point here is that if girls decide to close their legs, what is left for d guys? Nothing. They will be force to follow suit. U may say they will go for prostitute s but dat on its own doesn't dignify d boy and he will come to realise his foolishness. A boy will never be proud of sleeping with prostitute but can do so with girls he date

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