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Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by peeparty(m): 2:52pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
ammyluv2002: yea good bkos some gehs most especially just think it only fukerying daht is cheating. |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by millionboi(m): 2:52pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
Wetin again if no be sex |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by Cutehector(m): 2:56pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
misspicy:if my bae talks to any guy other dan me, she is guilty of cheatn.. ![]() |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by RoyalRoy(m): 2:59pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
Emotional cheating also exists too. |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by TOWNCRIER2015: 3:06pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
Cheating does not apply to sex only, it applys to following 1. When a lady starts conversing with ex lover n begin to recall back memories of past event. 2. When a lady begins to tell faults of her partner to a guy "like his not caring, his too domineering etc. 3.When a lady logs off her fone when her partner comes close to her. 4.When she lies about who she was speaking with. 5.When her heat beat increases when ever her partner picks up her phone. Note: if you find urselve within the above listed u are cheating, pls quickly amend to avoid problems in ur relationship. 2 Likes |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by rman: 3:07pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
ammyluv2002: remove number 9 from your list abeg. |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by Divaj: 3:07pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
ammyluv2002:i disagree becos one patner should be their priority, before confiding in any doctor,lawyer or banker your spouse has to know about it and whats going on first and should be aware that he/her spouse would be confiding in any banker,lawyer or doctor 3 Likes |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by bennyann: 3:08pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
I think cheating is when you do something you really can't do or normally don't do in the presence of your partner. When you're more comfortable doing that particular thing in the presence of someone else especially when your partner is not aware you do such thing with such person. |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by uyuoko(m): 3:08pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
Tydies:It would only be a matter of time........ |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by ammyluv2002(f): 3:08pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
rman:Why? ![]() |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by Nobody: 3:09pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
kathykathy:Your boo is in big time trouble. Your boo isn't allowed to have female friends right? Nothing wrong in buying suya for a friend please. |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by Nobody: 3:09pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
MRBrownJ: options E) to I) ah ah! Guy calm down nah!! Jesus Christ |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by ammyluv2002(f): 3:11pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
Divaj:Well, you also have a point! I totally get what you are saying. |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by engrjacuzzi: 3:16pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
relationships are so delicate and can break on minor issues and simple misunderstandings once broken, it is a die-hard task to mend the relationship and get back the same intensity of affection in the relationship. there can be visible reasons, maybe a misunderstanding or communication gap, at times it can be a mistake of someone else, fragile relationships can break over any simple cause. the cause for the easy breaks in relationships is that relationships are mind products, subjective to each other. |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by freecocoa(f): 3:17pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
Cheating is not just about sex, for me, It's when you start becoming emotionally involved with someone other than your partner. Ofcourse you can feel attracted to other people, but fuelling that attraction is cheating, it is generally doing something that you ordinarily wouldn't do with your partner around. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by DJ2HOT(m): 3:23pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
MRBrownJ:I love this ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by agibigibi: 3:24pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
Not only emotional also chromoblastomocisis cheating uhm?cheating na cheating! kennygee: |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by Nobody: 3:25pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
tete7000:Marital commitment or not, it's cheating. Will you kiss another girl in the presence of your girlfriend? Dating someone involves assuring the person of your love and commitment. So hey! It's cheating. |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by Olabamijie(m): 3:28pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
I don't think Cheating in relationship is pertaining to Sex alone; If either party should give absolute attention to anyone aside the partner then i guess that could be regarded as Cheat too. |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by DJ2HOT(m): 3:35pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
silvermania:yeeeepa!!! You pray?? Why not fast join?? Lolz anyway I wasn't seeing it as bad not even with the way you've spoken about it....anyway mrbrownj don talk I don see Wettin I wan see there 1 Like |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by Rachaelfrancis(f): 3:54pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
cheating is far beyond that. if u change ur ex's name on ur fone to another name just to hide it from ur wife that u still are communicating with her,bros u de cheat. I found out not too long ago that my husband was communicating with his ex and hid her number and was sending her money,meanwhile he doesn't provide money for his own child. |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by tete7000(m): 3:56pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
AgapeCharis: Does dating presuppose sex? |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by chimah3(m): 3:59pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
Nawa o! Even waking up without waking u up abi?!! ammyluv2002: |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by ammyluv2002(f): 4:04pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
chimah3: ![]() |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by Nobody: 4:06pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
tete7000:No. |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by Nobody: 4:07pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
2people: Yes there is. Sex is only one of the numerous ways you can cheat in a marriage. Flirting at the office is one way to cheat. It may seem harmful. But sharing subtle jokes with sexual intents is surely something you shouldn't be doing when you are married. Spending time with the opposite sex on dinners, outings and the likes is also another way of cheating. Fantasizing about having sex with the most gorgeous girl in your office or the most dashing guy in your office is also cheating. Whether or not you agree, it is cheating. Watching porn is another way of cheating. Seriously any sexually oriented act or undue attention or devotion to someone, whether intense or subtle, is considered cheating if its done outside of your marriage |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by adedayor08(m): 4:17pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
ammyluv2002:girl if all these also means cheating ... then cheatng is neccesary in a relationship. simple |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by freecocoa(f): 4:27pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
tete7000:Why is it so hard to understand that not everyone cares about religion? Na wa o. 1 Like |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by MRBrownJ: 4:29pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
bebe2: i dont know about you but i am the only person my woman should hold hands with... because it means much to her and I, it shows the bond/care/affection/trust/respect we have for one another; it also shows that we are there for one another and are not afraid to show the world. now, if my woman feels this way with another dude then something is very wrong in our r/ship tete7000: so what you are saying is that if you date a lady, she can do whatever she wants and sleep with whomever she desires until the day of marriage?! with no worries from your part?! TOWNCRIER2015: 1) her ex will always be part of her past, and may be the reason she is the great woman she is today, you can never change/erase that. so why should reminiscing about her past (whether good or bad) be viewed as cheating? lets say he helped her achieve academically or protected her from ritualist. just because they aint together any longer does not mean they cant be friends. 2) whats wrong with that? especially if she has already told you about these issues but you havent changed... the lady is telling you about what she feels about a particular issue, and you should act accordingly to solve it. if you dont then she will carry a worry and may open up to friends and family about such issue. the fact that you only care that it is a male friend shows us all that its your ego which is getting in the way here. 3) she needs to give you all her attention when you are around so therefore she SHOULD log off... especially if you are the jealous/insecure/low self esteem type of guy. 4) it all comes down to the r/ship you guys have. lets say you dont want her to speak to her family who hates you, but she talks to them in secret because one of them is very sick and she is worried (it aint right but would be understandable), would you call that cheating? 5) there are many things she may want to hide from her husband within her phone, and there would be nothing wrong with that... things that may have nothing to do with other men/sex/cheating etc example: she may have lost her job and dont want you to know; she may have spent money that she doesnt want you to know;she may have a surprise for you and dont want you to find out etc, ps dont confuse LYING/HIDING THE TRUTH with CHEATING, these are two different things! Divaj: the priority to solve any emergency issue should be to talk to the professional, above all... he is the only one whose views matter on certain subjects, and wifey would certainly understand that he (lawyer/banker etc) was contacted 1st. if there are fraudulent withdrawal from my account, then the bank manager is who i will call 1st and foremost, then my partner thereafter. if my daughter faint in the middle of the kitchen then i will call the doctor immediately, and thereafter mama will be contacted; if my son calls me to tell me that he has been arrested, then my lawyer is who i will call 1st to get this kid out of there and/or the proper guidance, and then mama will be called thereafter. its called PRIORITIES in life! bennyann: so what you are saying is that... if my woman loves to sing and want to be a singer, but she is shy to sing in front of me since i always belittles her singing; but she isnt afraid to sing in front of others, and does so behind my back, that means she is cheating? 1 Like |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by tete7000(m): 4:38pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
AgapeCharis: MRBrownj: Thank you. Now dating is a period of mutual knowing. It is just a period when two people seek to walk together to see whether the two can stay in marriage together. It is an open ended relationship during which one or the two can choose to part and walk away anytime they deem fit. There is no such commitment that binds them together till death do them part and as such one cannot really claim to be cheating the other. Infidelity only applies to married couple. So if you find a person supposedly 'cheating' in on you in a premarital relationship, simply take a walk and look for one who can be faithful in marriage. Everyone still has that freedom during dating and courtship but once marriage is consumated the freedom is lost. Don't accuse your sleeping partner of cheating rather see people for who they are - a lying w_hore, and in any case if you sleep with a person before marriage what moral obligation stops the person from sleeping with another? 1 Like |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by prof12(m): 4:39pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
ammyluv2002: You got it right. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by christinie(f): 5:02pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
ammyluv2002:we are all cheats then. |
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