HAZAZEL:
The last few days here on nairaland has been war. The cause of this free for all is the subject of RAPE. So, wading through the barage of accusation, insults,and base generalistions I saw that most guys do not really understand the subject matter.

You can take this to be a crash course to that effect. Here goes:

Rape simply put is non-consensual sex. The key word is CONSENT. so if at any point a lady says/through actions express non-agreement to your sexual intent,but you still go ahead to do the deed, the law says you have raped her. It is not fair as I shall explain later,but that is the law for now.

The moral background of the raped counts for little when in court. So a prostitute, non-virgin etc. According to law can be raped. Her morality is no excuse.

So guys how can you protect yourself? Here are a few tips I got from jon mixon, a close follower of american jurisprudence:

1) Never have sex with drunk or "high" lady, legally she is in no mind to give consent.

2) A mixed answer should be taken as a no!

3) As much as possible minimise "alone time" with women. The reason is because when it comes to rape even a false accusation can be socially devastating in consequence. So employ cctv's in offices and when with female visitors at the last resort leave your doors open

4) Stay away sex wise from teenage girls and young adults. Most of them don't understand consent yet.

5) Stay away from women who have nothing to lose: a large percentage of false rape accusations come from morally lax women aiming to blackmail or outrightly ruin you.


6) Make certain that you are able to account for your time in
the wake of a "bad date." Stop at a fast food restaurant, an
all-night box store or a gas station. Pay with a credit/debit
card and get a receipt. Just have a good alibi.


7) Only date women who know what they want. The era of "she gave me green light" is fast becoming late. When it comes to sex/rape only VERBAL CONSENT counts much. Sure asking : janet do you want to have sex? Takes away the spontanity of sex,but it might keep you out of jail.


Don't forget when it comes to rape the woman's word counts more than your own.

Cutehector:
Thanks for this piece op....

HAZAZEL:



Thanks. Most friends will interpret this thread wrongly, I am not saying women are not raped ( my heart goes out to all true victims), but am saying there are evil women who are constantly taking advantage of laws meant to protect them to there depraved machinations.

U meet a girl on the street, woo her, then ask her to go out with you.
She accepts.
You take her to a bar, buy her isi ewu, pepper soup, fried meat and 2 bottles of Smirnoff.
She is full of thanks.
Things get funny and you start discussing about sex. She tells you she likes romantic guys.
You smile, then ask if she can go with you to your crib.
She accepts, and off you go.
At your crib, things get nasty and soon you're kissing and handling her br.easts.
She responds . . .starts caressing your hard dick. Then slowly, you both go unclad.
Then as you're about to insert your Benjamin she screams rape!
Neighbours come bashing your door; someone calls the police. And here you are before the DPO.
He accuse you of rape. You try to explain but he won't listen because the "victim" is crying and feeling pains.
Next day, a busybody opens a thread about you on Nairaland.
And idiots like Captainswag or lesbians like FirstEva and EroticAngelina come badmouthing men in general, calling them dogs.

*Sigh*
Seriously, we need to start investigating these rape cases judiciously.

Vyolet:
The rate of rape and attempted rape is still higher than false accusations.
Many young ladies have at a point in their lives faced attempted rape from guys they trusted most.