Hello nairalanders.... I need mature opinions please...i met my new boyfriend through one of my male friend who was actually asking me out...i didn't agree to date him because I wasn't really in love with him(mind u we were just friends, we didn't have sex or anything like dat) but am kinda feeling guilty bcus am dating his friend who I really love and I met through him....
pls nairalanders am I a bad person because of wat I did.....mature opinions needed pls

As you have said you don't love the first guy, on wahala. Afterall na one place person go meet the person wey he/she go marry.

Yes you are bad.

U are a stewpid f00lishhfool.

Very very bad
Give the poor boy just one round and let him be.

If it were me, seriously, I will hate you all my life

Nope, not bad at all because you made it clear that you weren't interested in him first, before going with his friend

if you had pretended you wanted him in order to get closer to his friend, that would be bad

So, no problem here. Please carry go

You are beri badt gurl
You need counseling.
#InMyPrivateChambersOfCoz

Dragging a girl wit another guy is jst smth I can't do.. She has to make a choice.....

You didn't but i can't do it.They are in the same circle.

LadyJul:
Hello nairalanders.... I need mature opinions please...i met my new boyfriend through one of my male friend who was actually asking me out...i didn't agree to date him because I wasn't really in love with him(mind u we were just friends, we didn't have sex or anything like dat) but am kinda feeling guilty bcus am dating his friend who I really love and I met through him....
pls nairalanders am I a bad person because of wat I did.....mature opinions needed pls

You haven't done anything bad but I foresee doom with the present relationship , left to me I'd go fishing in other lakes.

You bad pass Michael







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neoapocalypse:



You haven't done anything bad but I foresee doom with the present relationship , left to me I'd go fishing in other lakes.

I reject any doom you are seeing in my relationship

LadyJul:
I reject any doom you are seeing in my relationship

shameless hoe.

nawa
see as i just dey feel for the rejected dude

LadyJul:
Hello nairalanders.... I need mature opinions please...i met my new boyfriend through one of my male friend who was actually asking me out...i didn't agree to date him because I wasn't really in love with him(mind u we were just friends, we didn't have sex or anything like dat) but am kinda feeling guilty bcus am dating his friend who I really love and I met through him....
pls nairalanders am I a bad person because of wat I did.....mature opinions needed pls

.... Since you have made it clear to your friend that you cannot date him, i do not really think is bad, I also have a female close friend, real paddy to me who we got into similar thing with yours, but in my case, i did not date her friends shall. The girl was expecting me to approach her for a sexual relationship but i resisted, until one day she was no longer patience enough to wait after showing me many green lights,, she opened up to me by trying to romance me, i told her to stop that we are best friends, she told me to marry her that she is clocking 30yrs and still searching, i told her i cannot date my closest paddy not to talk about marriage even. She said ok.... Till today, we are still good friends. Back to your own case, please make sure you are not into intimate relationship with this your boy friend, because if he is not matured enough in brain, he will end up telling his friend how your Virgina vibrates aand all that. may God help you to handle the relationship since you find love in him. bye.

You did nothing wrong



If he can't deal with it then he's a poocee

No... u did not have any sexual encounter with him so your not meant to feel bad.

Youngpo413:
shameless hoe.

sorry how old are you?

LadyJul:
sorry how old are you?

So, how did he took it. I mean the first friendzoned guy

GloryGloryRufus:
.... Since you have made it clear to your friend that you cannot date him, i do not really think is bad, I also have a female close friend, real paddy to me who we got into similar thing with yours, but in my case, i did not date her friends shall. The girl was expecting me to approach her for a sexual relationship but i resisted, until one day she was no longer patience enough to wait after showing me many green lights,, she opened up to me by trying to romance me, i told her to stop that we are best friends, she told me to marry her that she is clocking 30yrs and still searching, i told her i cannot date my closest paddy not to talk about marriage even. She said ok.... Till today, we are still good friends. Back to your own case, please make sure you are not into intimate relationship with this your boy friend, because if he is not matured enough in brain, he will end up telling his friend how your Virgina vibrates aand all that. may God help you to handle the relationship since you find love in him. bye.

I'd pretend I didn't see the murderous use of English. But why are you lying ?

ladyjul,you just reminded me of my past,was having some problems with my then g.f,she asked for a break,I gave it her unwillingly,months passed,we decided to become just friends,she then created a whatsapp group,added me,and added some of my friends and some of her friends as well,as time went on,I became good friends with one of her besties who I met in the groupie,one thing led to another and,,, boom!!!! we began dating,my ex couldn't take it,she came back begging,but it was too late..
I think you made the best decision for the both of you,I wouldn't want to date a lady who doesn't love me,just find a way to make him understand..

dang!!! if your bf knew his friend was asking you out but he still went ahead to ask you out,then he should be castrated,he broje the bro code.