swiz123:
There is nothing like being friends with your ex after a break up.when you decide to break up with someone,you quite communicating with them for a while until the feelings dies down.

Kondomatic:
I don't understand what some of you do in your relationship that automatically makes your ex an enemy. I am cool with my ex, we talk always, chat almost daily and I still do bail her out of certain things.
What I have said NO to since we broke up is meeting her.
That a relationship didn't work doesn't mean that friendship wouldn't work. Sometimes we do mistake all feelings to be love spoil a genuine friendship with dating.

Cornerstone2020:


Some will always want to get back into your life .
keeping them is cool if they are matured enough to respect the new status. but some will not let go.
imagine an ex running to you all the time trust me it won't be healthy in the long run

ediama:
Over the years I have been in few relationships and a lot of things went through in the process.

There is something that is very common in them all. My ex always want us to keep calling and charting. But one thing I realised while doing this is that..in the process of our conversations something still kindles. This is common with all the relationships I have been through. If I turn on communication again with any..in less than a month something funny will happen again.

I began to search for knowledge to know if it is proper to keep in turch with an ex and I found out this:
1. They are called ur ex because they are in the past
2. They will always feel hurt whenever they see you happy with someone else no matter how they pretend to be happy for you.
3. They remind you of the past n end up slowing you down from moving forward.
4. It is not safe to always be around them if u have found happiness in another n they are aware of it.

With these few reasons above, I cut off all sort of communications with my ex in their interest and mine too, but this hard decision of mine has made such people to see me as a stony hearted person because during the process of breaking up with them, I promised to be talking and charting up with them. I made this promises because I couldn't withstand the tears that was flowing in their eyes any more. I noticed that, wat I said gave a little relieve to them.

It is said that words give life to something. Silence takes life away from it.

I have deleted their account from my FB, whatsapp and other social medias.

I'm now seen as a bad person. I know I did it in the interest of them and me. Pls did I take my decisions too far?

Ooh hell naaah..you are NOT a bad person..Deleting or even blocking them means you know what u really wanted in your life...

Sometimes we cut them off coz they aint worth of our attention/ time...As long u stay in ur lane, you are juz PERFECTLY FINE..

Kondomatic:
I don't understand what some of you do in your relationship that automatically makes your ex an enemy. I am cool with my ex, we talk always, chat almost daily and I still do bail her out of certain things.
What I have said NO to since we broke up is meeting her.
That a relationship didn't work doesn't mean that friendship wouldn't work. Sometimes we do mistake all feelings to be love spoil a genuine friendship with dating.

Cornerstone2020:


Some will always want to get back into your life .
keeping them is cool if they are matured enough to respect the new status. but some will not let go.
imagine an ex running to you all the time trust me it won't be healthy in the long run

Dotwillis1:
Yes you are a bad person.
That they are your ex doesn't mean you can't continue as friends or keep in touch once in a while.