Most people often think that rape is only when there is an element of force, coercion or threat on the victim. The law says any person who had sexual intercourse with a girl without her consent has committed the offence of Rape. This means having sex with a sleeping or intoxicated girl had amount to rape. Some guys even stupefy a girl's drink in other to have their way. This type of rape is often difficult to prove absent of consent, thereby most girls don't even bother to launch a complain to the police.

My Story ( The trick)

This guy had been asking me out for sometime, yesterday evening I decided to give him a shot. He took me to a nice bar somewhere around town. As we got seated, he ordered for a bottle of alcoholic wine. I told him I don't have a head for alcohol (which is a lie), that a little sip might make me tipsy (big lie), except he will promise to take me home if I get tipsy. He promised me that he will take me home. As we got drinking, this dude keep telling me how much he love me and want me to be the mother of his unborn kids, and that he will never hurt me, that I should give him a chance blah blah blah... He looked so innocent, charming and convincing. I told him to give me sometime to think about his proposal.

After emptying several glass of wine, at a point I decided to start the trick to test him, I started acting like I was drunk. I started talking out of point, dangling my head and making awkward hand gestures. He was convinced that I was drunk, yet he was still persuading me to drink more. At that moment I knew he was up to something, but I need to be sure. I took more glass of wine as he requested, after that I increased my acting. At a point he decided it was time to go , he held me as we were walking out toward his car i was staggering . As he help me into the car, he slightly touched my boobs. He did it to look like it was a mistake, but I knew he wanted to confirm my state of intoxication, so I didn't bug. As he gets into the car and drove the car, I pretended to have dozed up. At a point he stopped the car, got out and rushed into a pharmacy shop, I was just lying there like I was deep asleep with my eyes slightly open peeping at him. I guessed he was buying condoms , but I wasn't sure.

The next stop was in front of a hotel, he got down again and rushed inside. I guessed he went to book a room. He got back , helped me out of the car and inside the hotel. As we got to the reception, I decided the acting was enough, I forcefully pulled myself away from him, I called him a bloody liar , a rapist and all other hideous names I can't even remember. He was so astonished to see my eyes wide open. I also castigated the receptionist , I asked her how could she be their and watch a man drag an unconscious girl into a room . I even threatened to call the police to arrest them both. After that I walked out of the hotel gallantly leaving him there ashamed of himself. I took a taxi back home.

This is the 7th guy I have used this trick on , and they all failed woefully. The moment you start acting like you are intoxicated, the demon beneath the handsome, cool loving guy comes out to manifest. This got me thinking, are all guys rapist ? Is there any guy out there who can take an intoxicated girl to her house , without trying to take advantage of her condition? May God help us all.

Stupid guys. I guess they believe a drunk girl is anyones game.

U should have kept it secret anyway. A rapist might be reading this, who knows?

in lalasticlala's voice @OP where is the source? lol

White teeths!

Aminat508:

Hmm! Girl, you get mind o! That acting could have turned ugly at any minute.

Me, personally, I can't even do a drunk girl, cos I wont enjoy it. I had this experience with this girl I was F'ing back in the day. She came around when I was trying to finish a story, and I politely asked her to leave after about an hour, cos I needed to meet a deadline. She begged me, ans said she wont disturb. She said I should by her can stout, that it would keep her company. She said she could finish 6 cans and not get drunk, so i sha bought her three cans. I even sipped out of one of the cans.

After about two hours, she started romancing me, and all that, so I did her, and she fell asleep. The next morning, she asked me what happened the night before. Men! I just told her nothing, so as not to make her feel ashamed. I still can't believe she wasn't conscious of her actions. Thank God we had been F'ing wella before that night, if not, I would have felt guilty for a long time.

OP, hope you don't go and mistakenly get drunk one day with this your moves.

Wonderful..... So ur priority in dis world is to identify potential rapists......nd then leave them 2 carry out their evil intentions on unsuspecting victim.....hmmm...dats an achievement.

op be feeling like


good story sha.

but did you stop to think what if he had planned with the bartender and drugged your drink before you drank it..we'd be hearing touching stories like ow i tricked myself into getting into deep poo

Sabrwahaqqo:
U should have kept it secret anyway. A rapist might be reading this, who knows?

How I wish there is a way I can make the post visible to girl's only. Pple need to learn

Oh my gosh..... ...
I can imagine the look on the guy's face

But OP, you really like free drinks o

So you have started following men to bar right?



Mama will hear this.

delishpot:
Stupid guys. I guess they believe a drunk girl is anyones game.

The op is a foolish woman and I pray the next guy rapes her until she's not able to walk.

She's busy eating guy's money and pretending she's' testing if they are rapists but one day will be her day of sorrow.

Who send her?

Instead of learning from her mom how to be a woman she's busy going from bar to bar, drinking like her father.

Like I said, the bush meat will catch the hunter one day.

Nah person wey go river water dey carry shey? It will be her turn one day.

The story won't always end the same and I pray it happens soon.

Specialiste:
Wonderful..... So ur priority in dis world is to identify potential rapists......nd then leave them 2 carry out their evil intentions on unsuspecting victim.....hmmm...dats an achievement.

What heck do you expect me to do? Kill them?

Jenny1010:


How I wish there is a way I can make the post visible to girl's only. Pple need to learn

Everybody has a machine in his head which should be working, so, a typical girl should be smart enough to u know help herself out of danger....
I was actually referring to U anyway, don't use that trick next time cos it's already an open secret sort of.

naijaboiy:
Are you people still on this rape issue of a thing?

It's getting stale.

Let's hear word abeg!

You seem pained . Are u one of dem dudes

Enh enh.....so u came to post dis story on nl after letting me waste my money on drinks and booking a room!!! No worry na.......tomorrow is anoda day

Abeg na joke I dey o

naijaboiy:
And your silly reason for opening this thread is to identify all guys as rapists abi?

Is that now the new trend on Nairaland?

Okay!

I hope it will be safe if I accuse every male relative in your family as rapists too?

You can never know.

Silly thread!

Silly you! Is it that you can't read? Where did I call all guys rapist? You are only suffering from guilty conscience

Jenny1010, next tym dnt play dat dangerous game

Aminat508:

My sister, help me laugh am

BuddhaPalm:


My sister, help me laugh am

thank your stars..

Cutehector:
Jenny1010, next tym dnt play dat dangerous game

The early you discover what your potential date is made of, the better for you.

Tallesty1:
So you have started following men to bar right?



Mama will hear this.



The op is a foolish woman and I pray the next guy rapes her until she's not able to walk.

She's busy eating guy's money and pretending she's' testing if they are rapists but one day will be her day of sorrow.

Who send her?

Instead of learning from her mom how to be a woman she's busy going from bar to bar, drinking like her father.

Like I said, the bush meat will catch the hunter one day.

Nah person wey go river water dey carry shey? It will be her turn one day.

The story won't always end the same and I pray it happens soon.

Chei bros this your vex plenty o. Haba abeg make dem no rape her o. Eh I feel many people view drunk girls or guys as lacking self control and feel they deserve what ever punishment they get but still it doesnt mean drunk people should be rapped.
She went to a joint not a brothel. If she goes to his house wahala if she follows him to a joint wahala again?
Would he have treated her better if she paid for the drink that got her drunk? Do you think its okay to rape a woman because you buy her a bottle of wine?
To me o. The guy did not do well. If he couldbt afford the wine for free he shouldnt have taken her out to drink in the first place. Nor be force na.

But OP biko look for a heathier way to hang out with dates. This your way get as e be. And be mindful of the time you go on dates too. No chop meat wey big pass you one day oo

Jenny1010:


The early you discover what your potential date is made of, the better for you.

ok so for women, what do u discover? If she is a sex worker, or gold digger

naijaboiy:
Everything in their eye now is rape rape rape.

A guy will be attracted to a girl the natural way and they'll tag him a rapist.

Is that the only crime in the world?

Only you seven potential rapist. Are you the only girl in the world?

How come you keep attracting men that want to rape you? You have not asked yourself that question.

Give us guys a break abeg! If one bad egg will make you throw the remaining good ones away then don't eat eggs at all.

Don't get me wrong. I never said all guys are rapist. I know there are nice guys out there.