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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Omotayor123(f): 8:28am On Aug 14, 2015 |
godoluwa:You are very right... |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by drnoel: 8:30am On Aug 14, 2015 |
Toks2008: Ten thousands of billion of Billions Blistering Barnacles and thundering typhoons of likes to u sir. A word is enof 4 the wise. |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Toks2008(m): 8:30am On Aug 14, 2015 |
juanmiguel: You dont mean it. So e don dey happen since time memorial. 1 Like |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by sfx9ja(m): 8:34am On Aug 14, 2015 |
"There are three things that are too amazing for me, four that I do not understand:The way of an eagle in the sky, The way of a serpent on a rock, The way of a ship in the middle of the sea, And the way of a man with a maid" Proverbs 30:18-19. [/quote] Nice write up op. But u clearly misunderstood the bible here. That phrase translates to the ways of a man with a girl. 1 Like |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Toks2008(m): 8:36am On Aug 14, 2015 |
drnoel: Better take cover because some ladies may come for your head. |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Toks2008(m): 8:39am On Aug 14, 2015 |
sfx9ja: lol.. its the same bro lady,girl,woman,girl servant...a maid no be man nah habba. |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by drnoel: 8:40am On Aug 14, 2015 |
Toks2008: pls let them come, we men are ready 4 them. I dont believe in suffering foolishness neither do i condone rubbish. |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by pickabeau1: 9:04am On Aug 14, 2015 |
remsonik: PICS or ADONBILIV!T!!! 1 Like |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by pickabeau1: 9:06am On Aug 14, 2015 |
Eureka123: is it not better to divorce than commit murder |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Nobody: 9:09am On Aug 14, 2015 |
kikilove: TRUE TALK ANY WOMAN WHO LOSES HER HUSBAND TO A MAID SHOULD BLAME HERSELF, I HAVE A COLLEAGUE WHO SENDS OUR CLEANER ON ERRANDS TO BUY FOOD ON DAILY BASIS, SHE EVEN BRINGS FOOD FROM THE HOUSE FOR HIM, COS HIS WIFE CANT PREPARE MEALS AS SHES TOO BUSY CHASING CASH. I WONT BE SURPRISED IF HE MAKES OUT WITH THE CLEANER CO SHES TAKING GOOOD CARE OF HIM. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by adorable29(f): 9:11am On Aug 14, 2015 |
cococandy: Hehehe! You are a life saver! Had a lot to say when I read the post but I guess this says more than enuff! Chop knuckles! 2 Likes |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by snakebeat: 9:16am On Aug 14, 2015 |
LaRoyalHighness:It's beyond comprehension because u're not a man. U need a higher logic to comprehend his message (the truth)... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Gemc3(f): 9:19am On Aug 14, 2015 |
Toks2008: Admiring her in what manner? Sexual or just admiring her for her good work (like ur boss would admire you for being a wonderful employee) |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by WafiJoe(m): 9:21am On Aug 14, 2015 |
Toks2008: Don't mind them, they ignored the message. All they are looking is fault. Most nairaland ladies don't like taking correction. Trust me, a lot them "blasting" you liked your initial post. 1 Like |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by WafiJoe(m): 9:27am On Aug 14, 2015 |
Toks2008: Dude in as much as I like your post, I don't like it when people try to BEND the scripture to any shape to suit their talks/sermon. Here is an NIV translation of the same scripture below: Proverbs 30:18-19 New International Version (NIV) 18 “There are three things that are too amazing for me, four that I do not understand: 19 the way of an eagle in the sky, the way of a snake on a rock, the way of a ship on the high seas, and the way of a man with a young woman. You and I knows that at as the time of old, a young lady is mostly call a maid(en), like we call young girls; "chick" today. So please do not abuse the bible. 2 Likes |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Nobody: 9:28am On Aug 14, 2015 |
Gemc3:I refuse to quote mediocrity directly sis, I quoted you because the guy you're quoting is an arseeeeee and a hypocrisy personified. ISIS Hope they will say something similar when wife falls for the driver, gardener and gateman too. Damn!!!!!! Nigerians 6 Likes |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Mekky05(m): 9:29am On Aug 14, 2015 |
Mindfulness:Proffer your own solution and stop sounding like a "broken" record! |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Gemc3(f): 9:33am On Aug 14, 2015 |
LadyFiona: What can I say? Smh. |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by 2scorehigh(m): 9:35am On Aug 14, 2015 |
This article is completely meaningless to me. I don't see any point in it all. If you want to fhuck your maid; go ahead and do it but don't just come here and try to justify it! It's like a thief telling people,"Hey, look, I'm a thief and if you don't hide your wallet very well, I'm going to steal it because I can't help it!" Akuko. Go to abroad and present this your logic. By the time the divorce lawyers have ripped you apart, torn you to pieces and completely rid you of all you've got, you'll be the one begging your next wife not to hire any maid again! Self-control is the key. Nothing more; nothing less. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by WafiJoe(m): 9:36am On Aug 14, 2015 |
LadyFiona: Madam, you guys are deceiving yourself. The gardener, driver bla bla bla you mentioned are not known to seduce their madams (unlike the maids). One thing about Nigerian women is that they know the truth within them but they choose to ignore it. Go ahead, get a sexy housemaid but do not come here to cry when the deed has been done by your potent husband. 3 Likes |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by cyprus000: 9:37am On Aug 14, 2015 |
DrGroove:[size=13pt] Just look at this parasitic dirty thing. A feima-coffin trash _whore! **spit on your existance** [/size] |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Nobody: 9:37am On Aug 14, 2015 |
Surprising they are not even ashamed to accept they have no control. LadyFiona: 1 Like |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by WafiJoe(m): 9:37am On Aug 14, 2015 |
2scorehigh: I smell hypocrisy. And when was the last time you make a sentence without using the word abroad or america? 1 Like |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Nobody: 9:39am On Aug 14, 2015 |
WafiJoe:Na!!!, I am not deceiving myself. The bunch of the maids do not seduce but the rabid animals seduces them when madam happens not to be around. It is on rare cases that maids seduces the boss. So my examples still stands. 1 Like |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by WafiJoe(m): 9:45am On Aug 14, 2015 |
LadyFiona: I won't argue Fiona. I am a guy, and I can tell you that lots of ladies have a way of silently (almost subconsciously) seducing a guy. It is a natural feminine thing, that is are they are made. And I must say, it is not totally a bad thing but things can go bad. So I believe the OP is trying to advise men and women to avoid the need to avoid temptation. 1 Like |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Toks2008(m): 9:45am On Aug 14, 2015 |
Gemc3: No matter how hard you try,you are not just capable of understanding this because as a lady,your brain is not wired like mine so i honestly dont know how to explain. wait..do you think a man just wakes up and starts loving you? yes those curves or molds could catch his attention but it is the care you show that ignites that bond towards you. how can a man eat a maid food,finds it delicious and not love her? the elders were spot on when they said the way to a man s heart is tru his stomach. Asking a maid to cook your husband food is tantamount to your hubby asking a man to scrw you..hard to comprehend shey? if any lady gives up cooking of her husband meal to a maid,she had better give her to the husband as second wife. If ladies cant understand this then i cant help beyond this. 2 Likes |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Nobody: 9:46am On Aug 14, 2015 |
peppyluv02:Then you begin to imagine how flamboyantly stewpid and dumbo they are. It is just like letting yourself low. Because she does everything for you , you've to fall for her huh!!!!? For the sake of common sense, why not seduce your mum too because she does all and more. 3 Likes |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by jnrbayano(m): 9:52am On Aug 14, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: You see why I type very little and straight to the point? I never justify lack of self-control. The Op too. I only said that a lady who is voluptuous is already sexually attracting. I also suggested that a wife should not relegate her duties such as cooking for her husband, serving the food to her husband dressing the bed etc to her housemaid the time I said "employing another helper (woman)" I pointed out what a wise wife does. She prays for her husband and mitigate temptation from the family. Her foolish counterparts rather bring hell (temptation etc) to their homes. Good morning. |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Nobody: 9:52am On Aug 14, 2015 |
And our front pages are always graced with the news of shameless men sleeping with their daughters and kids. Some guys will even be proud to tell you they slept with their cousin and someone quoted this and called it wisdom...funny. InvertedHammer: 1 Like |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Toks2008(m): 9:53am On Aug 14, 2015 |
LadyFiona: Its not about who seduces who. There was a time an employee of my ex was giving me green light,she will wink at me at several occasions but God forbid i stoop that low but i also guess it was easier for me because she does not stay in same house. These maids need not seduce you at all because there is no greater seduction than cooking delicious meals for you,making your bed,and generally caring for you even better than the career driven madam. 1 Like |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Nobody: 9:56am On Aug 14, 2015 |
Their reasoning is surprising. LadyFiona: 1 Like |
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