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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by shankie: 10:00am On Aug 14, 2015 |
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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Toks2008(m): 10:00am On Aug 14, 2015 |
jnrbayano: Why stress yourself reiterating? Im not sorry to say this but only very few Nigeria ladies have sound IQ and when you read contrary opinions of this few,you will doff your hat for them Every one castigating this factual write up have towed same line and i realized that no single one of them comprehended but were just focussed on making unwarranted sarcastic remarks but thats the fun though. 1 Like |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Nobody: 10:02am On Aug 14, 2015 |
WafiJoe:Good. Everybody likes or tends to love those who are exceptionally good or care for them. But telling me that men and women are wired differently when it comes to that response is balderdash. There is no justification to being a sexual nuisance and an individual with lack of self control and self esteem. 1 Like |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Nobody: 10:06am On Aug 14, 2015 |
@Op how old are you??your point is foolish,childish and pathetic.....if u know u truly feel that employing a full grown maid is the problem then employ a male maid now ...or houseboys no dey??my point is a married man that sleeps with another woman that is not his wife is pathetic and we should condemn it and not try to justify nonsense....ok what about men that slept with their daughter??na the wife u go still blame??what about men that sleeps with small small girls wey never even get bre*ast...na the wife u go still blame abi??ode......or u know dey hear news...... Do not try to justify a man acting like a dog and with no self-control by sleeping with his maid all in the name of temptation.....nonsense...so many kids on Nairaland these days.......am sure if you hear a news that a woman slept with the houseboy you will be quick to call her dog,slut and several names but now you are trying to justify a man sleeping with his maid just because your foolishness and dumb upbringing made you to think men are permitted to act like a dog abi??while women should keep their body....fool!!!! 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Toks2008(m): 10:10am On Aug 14, 2015 |
tete7000: Ride on pastor preach it. Oga Ade e don tey wey dem don dey preach say fornication na sin but has it stopped some people from doing it or will it stop even you from falling as an imperfect human? Oga i don give my life to christ 27years ago and i know that while preaching against sexual sin will help,i also believe that we should flee just as the bible admonishes us so lets leave preaching for now and not take steps that will lead us to temptation. 1 Like |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Toks2008(m): 10:16am On Aug 14, 2015 |
LadyFiona: As i wrote,you cant understand.i will only advice you not to tempt that innocent man. its one thing for a decent guy to go to work and subdue temptations from ladies out there and its a different ball game to come home everyday to meet a more dangerous temptation expecially the one that takes care of his tommy. im surprised you are having issues with this. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Nobody: 10:19am On Aug 14, 2015 |
Well,you can as well have the voluptuous Fiona and voluptuous gay if your wife brings them home. 3 Likes
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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Gemc3(f): 10:20am On Aug 14, 2015 |
Toks2008: Mehn Toks, u dont need to be all defensive. I asked a question. Still waiting for a direct answer. |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Nobody: 10:21am On Aug 14, 2015 |
Toks2008:I won't lie here. It makes you feel and look gooood that you're being admired but acting on that is where problems lies, especially when you have someone that will be hurt in the process of actualising your obsessions. What I am mean is that it goes both ways for both men and women it is not exclusive to men, Once you got the fond glances/attentions/ flattering and the works from an admirer/coworker that you are not getting from your significant other, you fall flat if you are weak, unfaithful, amoral and a nincompoop. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Nobody: 10:24am On Aug 14, 2015 |
Toks2008:Naaaa, not having issues at all but sad that you're justifying why men are too weak that they can fall for pants and bra that works for or with them. |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Nobody: 10:25am On Aug 14, 2015 |
Which kid? A forty years old man who thinks marrying early twenties,he will be doing them a favor. Go check his thread where he advise men to marry old ladies only. Always trying to speak for every man with his senseless posts. wakacome: 1 Like |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by sapientia(m): 10:25am On Aug 14, 2015 |
So maids still exist Its simple.. Just ask ur husband to bring his blood relative to stay with una.. If he decides to commit incest.. Then.. Even if you had brough a 5 yr old little gal.. Him for defile am too.. So.. Let d househelp always be ur husband's blood relative 4 Likes |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Nobody: 10:30am On Aug 14, 2015 |
peppyluv02:I think I will just call him "an adult that thinks like a boy instead of a man" he is speaking based on his own pathetic way of reasoning..... 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Kingsley4all(m): 10:30am On Aug 14, 2015 |
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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Nobody: 10:40am On Aug 14, 2015 |
Omotayor123:and u are a lady??so u think not having a maid will stop a man that wants to act like a dog??what about husbands that sleeps with their in-laws??what about husbands that sleeps with their neighbours daughter??what about husbands that feels cheating is a way of life?? my point is having a maid is not the problem but the problem is a pathetic husband without self control....don't worry u will understand when u finally get married...... as a man let me be honest with you,you can only satisfy a responsible man as a wife,a man that is a cheat and an irresponsible and undisciplined man will still cheat on u even if you satisfy him in everything as a wife....a man that wants to cheat will cheat whether you are a good wife or not...go and ask toke makinwa... ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by chinnyonwu(m): 10:53am On Aug 14, 2015 |
kenny987:Hi Kenny, just out of curiosity... If a women is sexualy satisified, does she still desire to have sex with more men? |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by chinnyonwu(m): 11:00am On Aug 14, 2015 |
Guidette:Hi dear, i have 2 questions for you and need your honest answers. 1. Do you mean, at your status of a Dr, you can be sexualy involved with an official driver of a company? (they are usually well dressed, clean and fit) 2. Out of curiosity... If a woman is sexualy satisified, does she still desire to have sex with more men? |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by LaRoyalHighness(f): 11:03am On Aug 14, 2015 |
Ok oo! Nkita! snakebeat: |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by LaRoyalHighness(f): 11:06am On Aug 14, 2015 |
Word!!! wakacome: |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by DaGeneral(m): 11:06am On Aug 14, 2015 |
If truly i love my wife and fear God then irrespective of what my maid does or what my wife does not do, should not be an excuse to LIGHT my maid,i mean if i LIGHT my maid i did because i wanted to LIGHT her and a wife who truly loves her man,understands her role and fear God should draw the line as to what the maid should do..It irritates me sometimes when people talk about this temptation in this context,nothing just happens, A man the bible says is tempted when he is drawn after his OWN lust..C'mon guys its high time men start taking responsibilities for their actions rather than keep blaming the devil who is chilling with his hot ORIJIN due to absence of freezer where he is. 1 Like |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by chinnyonwu(m): 11:13am On Aug 14, 2015 |
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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Crativjosh(m): 11:17am On Aug 14, 2015 |
if you are a dog, you are a dog. whether housemaid is mature or not 5 Likes |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by chinnyonwu(m): 11:19am On Aug 14, 2015 |
ideykwum:ARE you naturally daft or ur just making a special effort today? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Toks2008(m): 11:24am On Aug 14, 2015 |
DaGeneral: I love that part..a woman who truly loves her man understands her role. Good 1 Like |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by daimlerbenz: 11:25am On Aug 14, 2015 |
It's not the same bro. The maid there in the Bible refers not to househelp. Don't equate both. Toks2008: 1 Like |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Nobody: 11:29am On Aug 14, 2015 |
peppyluv02: This is not an acceptable way to vent spleen haba!!, the guy is entitled to his opinion. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by daimlerbenz: 11:29am On Aug 14, 2015 |
quote author=Toks2008 post=36940659] lol.. its the same bro lady,girl,woman,girl servant...a maid no be man nah habba.[/quote] |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Nobody: 11:32am On Aug 14, 2015 |
See who is talking about IQ.. You are such a good relationship counselor that you didn't realise the damage you did to that lady's life after dating her from the age of 19 and dumping her and 31... Why not end the relationship mid way or it was after 11 years you realized she wasn't good for you. Well,it's for her own good, she will get a better man not one that fantasies sleeping with every woman. Nkita! Toks2008: 5 Likes |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by bluice2(m): 11:33am On Aug 14, 2015 |
DrGroove: I completely disagree with you. I stay alone and have had two female maids (24 & 29yrs respectively) that come clean up everyday. One handles the interior and the other takes care of 4 adult dogs (bathing, feeding, cleaning of kernels). Tho they come late mornings and leave evenings, I get to meet them on weekends when am home. I have never for once had to urge nor even the thought of even admiring them nor wanting to sleep with them. They have worked for me 3yrs and counting. 2 Likes |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Adeboyefa(f): 11:33am On Aug 14, 2015 |
Mindfulness: Toks2008: Some men rape babies and employing underaged children is child abuse. BETTER OPTIONS 1.Employ a married woman for day duty only. 2. Better still,do the chores yourself when your children are small and start training them at age 10. Even boys must learn to cook or they will have to patronise expensive or dirty eateries or marry just any woman when they leave home. sapientia: That's why a wife should have a cordial relationship with her in-laws. |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by bluice2(m): 11:37am On Aug 14, 2015 |
bluice2: I equally have waitresses with the right shapes and curves in the right places who work at my bar; I still have not contemplated nor thought about sleeping with them. Not even for once. 3 Likes |
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Toks2008(m): 11:39am On Aug 14, 2015 |
Adeboyefa: Intelligent point. |
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