A guy I met invited me for his birthday but I refused to go because he told me chika is coming.(Chika is a girl he was dating before he met me ,but he claimed they had issues and he'll break up with her soon but he didn't want to jst call it quits with her. He said he was jst going to give her space and with time ,she'k get tired of calling and that will be the end).
So 2 days after the birthday, I saw him..I had already made up my mind to end everything cos I couldn't cope, we talked, I asked him how the birthday was, he was still pissed that I didn't come or wish him a happy birthday. I suspected a lot would have happened btw both of them, since I didn't come. Later I took his phone secretly n checked his pictures, I saw pictures of both of them kissing n cuddling on his bed, I was shocked cos he told me nothing of such happened. Immediately, I called it quits, he started begging, then he sent a break up msg to the girl, she replied the msg begging him not to end their relationship.
He says he has finally chosen me over her..but I'm still worried over the pics and everything..I'm having double minds(whether to quit the relationship or continue), but I still love him..
Pls what should I do? Matured advices...

If you had gone, there wouldn't be any room for them to kiss,cuddle and even snap the acts. For advice? I believe the poster below me has an advice for you

do your mind. .

the fact about this issue is..

that guy will not leave that girl cos of you as said. Blv me or not.

BTW the guy was so dumb to leave such pix on his phone?
email me the pix make I confirm

So because of you, he's about to break someone's heart.. what makes you think he won't break your heart when he sees a better girl?..

I am worried too

Dis is ur problem nt ours to keep it to ur self

Ok

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UnknownT:
[b]If you had gone, there wouldn't be any room for them to kiss,cuddle and even snap the acts. For advice? I believe the poster below me has an advice for you

@the bolded, that was exactly what he told me. Hmmm..

The girl is begging him so is easy for him to go back to her anytime he wishes, maybe after your reconciliation. Quit messege is not an excuse.

Am faithful n am single, but poor id you dont mind

Girl, if he can do tat to other girl then definitely he can do it to u as well....so move on...we ladies shudnt settle for anything less ...it may hard, but take one step forward at a time and soon u realize u did the right thing...

Fleeky, forget d dude... Cancel evryluv u hav for him.. A word is a enuf for d wise..


Dnt say kashybaby and I ddnt warn u

Cutehector:
Fleeky, forget d dude... Cancel evryluv u hav for him.. A word is a enuf for d wise..


Dnt say kashybaby and I ddnt warn u

roger that Sir…

even i am worried for you.
coz the only things you stand a chance of being to this guy.......... :
#SideChick
#BabyMomma
#BootyCall
#PunchingBag
But kontinu.

What u saw in his fone had already tagged him a cheat, abort mission or b aborted by the mission

fleeky:
[b][/b] @the bolded, that was exactly what he told me. Hmmm..

I was not gonna comment until I saw this^^^ , for him to have said this then trust me sister, he's not worth ur time! Sister to sister! Eat what u can and leave but pls do not put ur heart into it.


He was making excuses for his shortcoming. He's gas-lighting u, wants u to take the blame for his actions! Such people are horrible people, I've been there. The other girl, he'll still text her and tell her some silly lie and get back with her.

I have some good advice for you o.p, but I don't feel like dropping It now! Maybe in the evening!

hola106:
Dis is ur problem nt ours to keep it to ur self

That's harsh...
Why are we here then? If we can't be our brothers/sisters keeper

You should have featured in that pix but since u weren't available, d available becomes the featured.
No one appreciates his/her loved ones not honoring his/her birthday.

agarawu23:
the fact about this issue is..

that guy will not leave that girl cos of you as said. Blv me or not.

BTW the guy was so dumb to leave such pix on his phone?
email me the pix make I confirm

I don't blame the guy for keeping the pix. He needs evidence just in case the babe gets pissed and says he _raped her. Girls are dangerous especially when you end a relationship.

AfroKnight:


I don't blame the guy for keeping the pix. He needs evidence just in case the babe gets pissed and says he _raped her. Girls are dangerous especially when you end a relationship.

not a good reason why he should keep such pix as a double dater

agarawu23:
not a good reason why he should keep such pix as a double dater

Bro. It is a very good reason o. But he should have hidden or encrypted it sha. Just pray you don't dump a chick crazy enough to frame you.

Besides, there's nothing wrong with having a plan B babe. All girls have replacement for their guys. Some gals have as much as 5 spare guys. What's wrong if I keep one by the side just in case?

HE LEFT ANOTHER GIRL FOR YOU, WHAT MAKES YOU THINK YOU WILL BE HIS LAST BUS STOP.

ANYWAY YOU WILL DESERVE IT SHA, CUZ YOU SNATCHED ANOTHER GIRLS MAN

Is allowed

Omotayor123:

That's harsh...
Why are we here then? If we can't be our brothers/sisters keeper

if am too harsh den check ur signature nw wat can we call dat

Guys playing away match all the time...OP recieve sense In Jesus name coz once dah guy sleeps with u,dahs d end,he will go back to the oda girl.

hola106:
if am too harsh den check ur signature nw wat can we call dat

how

Omotayor123:

for ur info omotayo let hook up on 07062888246 I hv sometin important for u

He is neva gonna brk up with dat gal. U will just be there as option whenever they are having issue. (sidechick)

Omotayor123:
how

check ur signature

hola106:
check ur signature

What's harsh In my signature?

Omotayor123:

What's harsh In my signature?

notin s harsh y don't u leave dem nd continue receiving pm .call me plz