PecE2Make:
Virgins guys still exist believe me.

Demmzy15:

Hehehe! **draws chair nearer** Oya I dey hear!

Hehe My Chief, na long story.

Astagafurullah! I was a bad boy then

ronald4lif:
Goes to tell that some women are confused. Spend a night with them without reaching for their body they consider you as weakling and not man enough. Reach for their body they say you're loose and sometimes call you a pervert.

The thing is, before any lady decide to spend the night with a man, they are consciously or subconsciously aware he'd make sexual moves towards them and have made up their mind to either have sex or not with the person even before going, never mind the initial resistance she might put in so as not to appear cheap. Whether they want sex or not women loves when a guy makes sexual moves at them. It gives them some form of assurance that the man finds them attractive and appealing.

If a man spend a night with a woman without making moves I can bet she'd return to her place feeling sad and uncertain about her chances in the affair or like in this case if this OP didn't find her worthy enough. For someone like myself who has studied women's psychology and the way their cerebrology function I'd make the push and persuade her to allow me access. I won't allow any lady spend the night with me without touching her then go about referring me as a weakling and not man enough. Mbanu

alexis007:
ladies of nowadays eh .....hardly vocal and with complex body language, they still expect you to be able to understand them and decode their every behavioral gimmicks.

for me, I'm done with solving mysteries, cus I'm no Robert Langdon. once a lady joins me in my crib and spend more than 30 minutes, she wants the Koko.........and unless I'm just not into her, or in the mood, I must definitely straff her.


last bullet: any lady who comes over to your place and;
a. asks if the door is locked from time to time.

b. see fun in nothing else in your crib than just you, even when you're advertising the hottest telemundo in town to her.

c.watches you with this cold stare like an abandoned owl while you're talking (her mind no just dey for your gist at all at all ).

d. tells you to your face that you are boring even when you funny pass Tosyn2much etc.......is h0rny and wants to get laid. Don't pity her, fu(k her without apologies.

Ramos16:
I am not good at telling long story, so this will be short, My best friend, a girl, had a boyfriend, whom i do not really relate to, their relationship had issues so she decided to take a break.
She called and asked if she could come to my place, i agreed, and was happy to have her, as even i had to just had a break up.
Long story short, she spent three days in my place, we ate from the same plate, and slept on the same bed for three days but i never touched her or made advance.
When she left my place, she called and asked if i am okay, that something must be wrong with me for not having sex with her or even touching her once througout when she was with me.
My honest thought through out her stay was that i was trying to help a friend who was heart broken, so i played the gentleman.
My people pls help me oh. Did i do wrong?

Ramos16:
I am not good at telling long story, so this will be short, My best friend, a girl, had a boyfriend, whom i do not really relate to, their relationship had issues so she decided to take a break.
She called and asked if she could come to my place, i agreed, and was happy to have her, as even i had to just had a break up.
Long story short, she spent three days in my place, we ate from the same plate, and slept on the same bed for three days but i never touched her or made advance.
When she left my place, she called and asked if i am okay, that something must be wrong with me for not having sex with her or even touching her once througout when she was with me.
My honest thought through out her stay was that i was trying to help a friend who was heart broken, so i played the gentleman.
My people pls help me oh. Did i do wrong?

Truckpusher:
There are sometimes you don't want to go down with a woman simply because you don't want to be caught up in a dangerous dramatic love triangle - I believe the op knew how sensitive her case was and sleeping with her would have given her the right to lay claim that a relationship exists and this is where I admire the op's courage.

Some persons wouldn't mind but I have always told people that one mad rush of uncontrolled sexual desire can ruin your entire life or give you the heat that you wouldn't wish your enemy to have.

I personally called him a 'jonsing' boy but deep inside me what he did was the right thing - Sometimes , women are crazy and you pray not to be their victim when their madness comes calling.

Onyiibazz:


Mr Lie-nus A.K.A lion of the tribe of nairaland

Ramos16:
I am not good at telling long story, so this will be short, My best friend, a girl, had a boyfriend, whom i do not really relate to, their relationship had issues so she decided to take a break.
She called and asked if she could come to my place, i agreed, and was happy to have her, as even i had to just had a break up.
Long story short, she spent three days in my place, we ate from the same plate, and slept on the same bed for three days but i never touched her or made advance.
When she left my place, she called and asked if i am okay, that something must be wrong with me for not having sex with her or even touching her once througout when she was with me.
My honest thought through out her stay was that i was trying to help a friend who was heart broken, so i played the gentleman.
My people pls help me oh. Did i do wrong?

Tomfrench:
Mr nice guy,

if she came for consolation, she would've left that same day!!

she came to LASH away her sorrows.....and you were busy forming chief priest

rabbuy:


My burother edtm if you no touch dem you dey impotent if you touch dem you be rapist #edontayame

Truckpusher:
There are sometimes you don't want to go down with a woman simply because you don't want to be caught up in a dangerous dramatic love triangle - I believe the op knew how sensitive her case was and sleeping with her would have given her the right to lay claim that a relationship exists and this is where I admire the op's courage.

Some persons wouldn't mind but I have always told people that one mad rush of uncontrolled sexual desire can ruin your entire life or give you the heat that you wouldn't wish your enemy to have.

I personally called him a 'jonsing' boy but deep inside me what he did was the right thing - Sometimes , women are crazy and you pray not to be their victim when their madness comes calling.

SexyStrawberry:


Chai, I wish I would have this kinda boyfriend with supper self control coz its almost impossible to see guys like this

MKO4ever:

And I will rather be a rapist than an impotent

bosslhadi:

What a funny story....you did nothing wrong, just call her back and do the needful

pinkbee:

Nah! That was back in d days. Not now.


Now, guys fall in love with their female best friends. I blame hollywood for this.


I want me a male best friend that I can jump on playfully, sleep on same bed, even shower 2geda with no thought of sex at all. (like 2 9yr olds with innocence).

Truckpusher:
There are sometimes you don't want to go down with a woman simply because you don't want to be caught up in a dangerous dramatic love triangle - I believe the op knew how sensitive her case was and sleeping with her would have given her the right to lay claim that a relationship exists and this is where I admire the op's courage.

Some persons wouldn't mind but I have always told people that one mad rush of uncontrolled sexual desire can ruin your entire life or give you the heat that you wouldn't wish your enemy to have.

I personally called him a 'jonsing' boy but deep inside me what he did was the right thing - Sometimes , women are crazy and you pray not to be their victim when their madness comes calling.

SmartMugu:

It may have been too late now if she already got it from another man. She probably thinks youre either gay or suffering from erectile issues. Boys no dey waste time o, unless she's ugly or has body odour, then you could have been a 'gentleman'. Is she ugly?

Pray and fast for another opportunity, if your prayer is answered, don't dull yourself this time.

Me, sleep on the same bed with a girl for three days and do nothing? When I'm not gay. Female best friend? Guys wey i know wey dey do that one get gay tendencies. It's either we are doing something together or you're just an acquaintance. That's just me though.

styvon:





Baby u can have me..my control even get remote I will give u d remote

Ramos16:
I am not good at telling long story, so this will be short, My best friend, a girl, had a boyfriend, whom i do not really relate to, their relationship had issues so she decided to take a break.
She called and asked if she could come to my place, i agreed, and was happy to have her, as even i had to just had a break up.
Long story short, she spent three days in my place, we ate from the same plate, and slept on the same bed for three days but i never touched her or made advance.
When she left my place, she called and asked if i am okay, that something must be wrong with me for not having sex with her or even touching her once througout when she was with me.
My honest thought through out her stay was that i was trying to help a friend who was heart broken, so i played the gentleman.
My people pls help me oh. Did i do wrong?

Ginaz:
lol, this scene reminds me of a Chinese movie I watched, they were doing "chan shin shu chan" the actor na vex and blow the boss, the boss fell and broke his neck.

Rilwayne001:


Hehe My Chief, na long story.

Astagafurullah! I was a bad boy then

SPG4U:
You are a good guy for respecting her...

Tell her to come around that d last time she came u had something heavy in ur mind

She will be worried and want to come around

Den u can grant her desire


But do not tell her u were respecting her in the first place or else she will now feel cheap



She is ur best friend make her happy, sex is a good thing if both of u are ready



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