Ebiz12:




Good answer! But we are not Adam and Eve

SPG4U:
You are a good guy for respecting her...

Tell her to come around that d last time she came u had something heavy in ur mind

She will be worried and want to come around

Den u can grant her desire


But do not tell her u were respecting her in the first place or else she will now feel cheap



She is ur best friend make her happy, sex is a good thing if both of u are ready



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Truckpusher:
There are sometimes you don't want to go down with a woman simply because you don't want to be caught up in a dangerous dramatic love triangle - I believe the op knew how sensitive her case was and sleeping with her would have given her the right to lay claim that a relationship exists and this is where I admire the op's courage.

Some persons wouldn't mind but I have always told people that one mad rush of uncontrolled sexual desire can ruin your entire life or give you the heat that you wouldn't wish your enemy to have.

I personally called him a 'jonsing' boy but deep inside me what he did was the right thing - Sometimes , women are crazy and you pray not to be their victim when th eir madness comes calling.

Mine happen Nov2013, I just graduated. A lady I became friend with on facebook since 2011 Amaka a graduate of mass comm UNN(not real name)exchanged number and ever since then, She has been calling like kilode that kept me wondering and ask myself questions like "is this how relationship is" not minding the fact that have not met her in person both enjoy most of our conversation. I started returning her calls and we became love birds that she always end our normal conversation to wish she knew where I stay @first I shivered because I do run things with my neigbors, we r 12girls and 2guys in my lodge. How will sharon, chinenye act seeing Amaka both nevertheless I still went ahead to give Amaka my description which she came, I made move on her but she was like forming hard to get for 1 full week "conji wan kill me" I started running away from my room just to avoid Amaka.....

chocolateme:
Its not too late, call her back now and grant her the desires of her heart since she is so blinded to observe the respect you accorded her.
Tomorrow they will say that guys don't have levels of self control.
Mtschrwww!!

FTC

Akanbiedu:


What is the problem here? Wetin dey worry these boys sef?

chocolateme:
Its not too late, call her back now and grant her the desires of her heart since she is so blinded to observe the respect you accorded her.
Tomorrow they will say that guys don't have levels of self control.
Mtschrwww!!

FTC

chocolateme:
Its not too late, call her back now and grant her the desires of her heart since she is so blinded to observe the respect you accorded her.
Tomorrow they will say that guys don't have levels of self control.
Mtschrwww!!

FTC

Ramos16:
I am not good at telling long story, so this will be short, My best friend, a girl, had a boyfriend, whom i do not really relate to, their relationship had issues so she decided to take a break.
She called and asked if she could come to my place, i agreed, and was happy to have her, as even i had to just had a break up.
Long story short, she spent three days in my place, we ate from the same plate, and slept on the same bed for three days but i never touched her or made advance.
When she left my place, she called and asked if i am okay, that something must be wrong with me for not having sex with her or even touching her once througout when she was with me.
My honest thought through out her stay was that i was trying to help a friend who was heart broken, so i played the gentleman.
My people pls help me oh. Did i do wrong?

Truckpusher:
There are sometimes you don't want to go down with a woman simply because you don't want to be caught up in a dangerous dramatic love triangle - I believe the op knew how sensitive her case was and sleeping with her would have given her the right to lay claim that a relationship exists and this is where I admire the op's courage.

Some persons wouldn't mind but I have always told people that one mad rush of uncontrolled sexual desire can ruin your entire life or give you the heat that you wouldn't wish your enemy to have.

I personally called him a 'jonsing' boy but deep inside me what he did was the right thing - Sometimes , women are crazy and you pray not to be their victim when their madness comes calling.

freecocoa:
OP, you did nothing wrong, the girl is the problem and please don't take what she said as an invite to try touching any girl who might be alone with you.

I don't understand why some girls won't just use their brains.

Kachisbarbie:


Truckie, the girl only asked a very simple question. Sometimes I wonder why guys rush into conclusion(s).
It could be her only lil way of saying 'wow, you surprised me, I expected you to rush me like a wolf'.

I think the OP should grow up and stop reading meaning into every question. Except she explicitly asked for the sex.

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chocolateme:
Its not too late, call her back now and grant her the desires of her heart since she is so blinded to observe the respect you accorded her.
Tomorrow they will say that guys don't have levels of self control.
Mtschrwww!!

FTC

Kachisbarbie:


Truckie, the girl only asked a very simple question. Sometimes I wonder why guys rush into conclusion(s).
It could be her only lil way of saying 'wow, you surprised me, I expected you to rush me like a wolf'.

I think the OP should grow up and stop reading meaning into every question. Except she explicitly asked for the sex.

Truckpusher:
There are sometimes you don't want to go down with a woman simply because you don't want to be caught up in a dangerous dramatic love triangle - I believe the op knew how sensitive her case was and sleeping with her would have given her the right to lay claim that a relationship exists and this is where I admire the op's courage.

Some persons wouldn't mind but I have always told people that one mad rush of uncontrolled sexual desire can ruin your entire life or give you the heat that you wouldn't wish your enemy to have.

I personally called him a 'jonsing' boy but deep inside me what he did was the right thing - Sometimes , women are crazy and you pray not to be their victim when their madness comes calling.

Truckpusher:
Do they use their brain when those hormones starts raging ?

ronald4lif:


I see. But the friendship that existed between them might not be same again nonetheless. The lady would always feel rejected and won't relent in her effort and gimmicks to lure him to bed. Although she didn't actually make obvious moves at him but she feels rejected and women don't take rejections lightly. That thought will always linger in her mind.

The blunder was allowing her sleep over as what transpired is capable of ruining the friendship. For anyone who doesn't want to ruin their friendship with a lady or have no intention to shag them they should dismiss any move that would make them come spend the night at their residence because you can never tell what they have in mind, needless to say sleep on same bed. That's a temptation taking overboard.

freecocoa:
Your hormones shouldn't be raging in the first place.

Truckpusher:
I was referring to you ladies.

freecocoa:
And I was referring to everyone.

chocolateme:
Its not too late, call her back now and grant her the desires of her heart since she is so blinded to observe the respect you accorded her.
Tomorrow they will say that guys don't have levels of self control.
Mtschrwww!!

FTC

Truckpusher:
But it does rage, right?

Ramos16:
I am not good at telling long story, so this will be short, My best friend, a girl, had a boyfriend, whom i do not really relate to, their relationship had issues so she decided to take a break.
She called and asked if she could come to my place, i agreed, and was happy to have her, as even i had to just had a break up.
Long story short, she spent three days in my place, we ate from the same plate, and slept on the same bed for three days but i never touched her or made advance.
When she left my place, she called and asked if i am okay, that something must be wrong with me for not having sex with her or even touching her once througout when she was with me.
My honest thought through out her stay was that i was trying to help a friend who was heart broken, so i played the gentleman.
My people pls help me oh. Did i do wrong?

Truckpusher:
Well, you have a point but what would make a lady confront a guy in that manner if she wasn't expecting anything from him? But again they are friends and can always talk about anything sha.
But make person no play rough play near my corner o.

c'mon...na you dey talk this thing?

A lot of girls have asked their male besties very silly questions at some point and vice-versa. 'Are you gay?' after an unadventurous night together is very common and should be taken lightly pls_ more as a compliment, than an insult or invitation for more.

freecocoa:
Mine doesn't, and I don't think it does for anyone, it's just that many people lack self control.

Fit2Rule:

That's a lot coming from someone whose moniker gender is "f"