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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by tivta(m): 10:51pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie:Ok and noted. |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by haul: 10:51pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
kmcutez: You right, my cockiness knows no balance belive me it has been a selling point. |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by dinachi(m): 10:53pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
kmcutez:I hope you won't mind if his love is also conditional? Many of you women screaming about feminism,are just people suffering from extra large amounts of PRIDE. Ofcourse submission is impossible if you are a very proud person or you do not have said self control. A humble woman will not find submissiveness difficult at all. So are you proud and lack self control? If you can't submit why marry in the first place? You won't submit to a liar and a cheat? Was Oyedepo talking about liars and cheats? Do you also expect your husband to love you if you are a liar and cheat? My dear it is either you become humble and submissive and enjoy your marriage or you keep engaging your husband in fistcuffs and die a sad,bitter woman. The choice is yours! 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 10:58pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
ammyluv2002: I agree that last post was tasteless but I guess the message was lost in translation. It seems the baby was thrown out with the bathwater, so I will just wave my white flag of surrender and be submissive. |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by freecocoa(f): 10:58pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
haul:Stonehearted? Anyone who knows me will laugh very hard at that phrase. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by AfricanApple(f): 11:00pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
ammyluv2002: MrDenygerian: |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Raalsalghul: 11:01pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Team Men going their own way.Team Men going their own way. |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by haul: 11:02pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
freecocoa: thank God(no need since you don't believe) I don't know you, "stone hearted" was a conclusion of my premises. |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by ammyluv2002(f): 11:02pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
kmcutez:Lolz....relieved! We finally agreed! Thank God o |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by ZionSpecie(m): 11:05pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
kmcutez:I still stand by her comment. You just can't fault it. Being confident doesn't mean you shouldn't be submissive. A submissive woman will be well respect by a worthy husband. Don't try to alter the ancient landmark. |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by freecocoa(f): 11:06pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
haul:I don't think there's anything in my posts to suggest am stone hearted but I'm not surprised, it's very common to be mistaken for what I'm not by many men around here because of the kind of society we live in, it's all good anyways, I love the kind of men I attract. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by osazeeblue01: 11:06pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
ammyluv2002:MAY GOD BLESS U FOR SAYING THE TRUTH. ANYBODY THAT QUOTE U WRONG NEED DELIVERANCE , HE OR SHE SHOULD GO AND WASH HIS OR HER HEAD IN OVIA RIVER. |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 11:07pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
dinachi: Why should I mind if his love is conditional. Is he not a human being like me. I myself can never love nor respect a cheat or a liar, so why should I expect any different from him. What do you mean by was Oyedepo talking about liars and cheats? Are liars and cheats not men. Are men not husbands. My respect is not unconditional. Sorry if this offends you but I make no apologies for it. |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by dinachi(m): 11:07pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
AfricanApple:Ofcourse, you have nothing meaningful to add. Only proud women hate submission. Strong women are not afraid to be submissive. Weak women fear submission pass devil sef. |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by ammyluv2002(f): 11:07pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
osazeeblue01:Lolz.....Bless you too |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by haul: 11:09pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
freecocoa: You not mistaken, it is what you are on here that signals peoples perception, except you've got an oFfline personalty tho. But this right here?.......... |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 11:14pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
ZionSpecie: Whatever rocks your boat. |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by dinachi(m): 11:15pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
kmcutez:Are liars and cheats not women? Are women not wives? So what is your points really? Why are you worried about liars and cheats, do you want to marry them? Any time they talk about submission, you mention liars and cheats. The point is you will be submissive to your boss authority in the office today even if he is a liar and a cheat but when you get home you refuse to be submissive to your husband. It is simple really. Since you are too puffed up with pride and lack of self control, then do not marry, remain single. 2 Likes |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Lathunjimi(m): 11:15pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
kestolove95: & how is that your headache, leave them to God and face your own man. This is how it always starts, even if your man is a flirt you still have to be submissive to him not enslaved. 1 Like |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 11:21pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
dinachi: What is my business if my boss is a liar or a cheat in his personal life. All I'm looking at is his professional capabilities. I will not respect him though if he is a liar and a cheat in his professional life, but as a professional you keep your feelings to yourself and do your work. 2 Likes |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by freecocoa(f): 11:22pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
haul:This is the real me on relationships and I am beyond certain this is how it ought to be, I don't have to let someone lord over me to prove anything to anyone, I'm not even a christian so you shouldn't expect submission from me, I discovered the bible is one big lie and very 'misogynistic'(no offence to anyone)that's why I quit it, I know how I want to be treated and do my best to treat people the same, even most times better than I do myself but that doesn't mean I don't know my selfworth. I love who I am and aspire to be better, mind you, better doesn't have anything to do with believing in god or religion and I won't apologise for it. The irony of what you think people perceive about me, is that many of them want me close or admire me, yea, I'm proud like that. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 11:28pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
It is a dangerous thing to solely depend on the information from the media. #smh |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Youngpo413: 11:31pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
kestolove95:one toto is unhealthy to the prick. |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by dinachi(m): 11:31pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
kmcutez:Good, as a professional wife keep your feelings to yourself and be submissive, case closed! |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Bibol(f): 11:34pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
I find it amusing when the failure of a marriage is blamed on one gender alone. Everyone tries to shift the blame onto the next person maybe because it is more convenient. If we have to be sincere with ourselves, it takes two correct heads to make a marriage work. Correct in the sense that both parties have to respect each other's feelings. As the man loves his wife, the woman is bound by the bible to submit her headship to her man. If a man loves and adores his wife and she keeps proving heady, at some point he will get tired and just 'free' her. On the other hand if the woman keeps being submissive and she gets constantly treated like a doormat she will give up at some point. That's why you hear things like "oh, leave him, as long as I don't know who is cheating on me with he can go to hell" Why is this so? Because humans will be humans and we all have our breaking point. If both parties will follow God's injunction to the letter or at least try to follow, there will be more peace in marriages. 2 Likes |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by cococandy(f): 11:36pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
freecocoa:This girl sef. Ijighi ahu o |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Apsssal(m): 11:36pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
subterfuge: lollll by using charm or what? |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by trapQ: 11:37pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
pls be submissive. when your husband beats you, cheats on you left right and center, drinks to stupor, keeps late nights, asks you to cook meals at 2am, just be submissive like a robot. and don't come here crying sooner or later that someone cheated on you, just be submissive. hypocrite! ammyluv2002: 3 Likes |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by haul: 11:38pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
freecocoa: Point of correction, "so you shouldn't expect submission from me" this your statement is an illusion even danvinci won't paint well. Ooh misogynistic you say? Well I don't do religion,I believe in conscience which exalt humanity. I don't care to know the real you or not in relationships cause its really not fascinating to find appealing. You don't know how you want to be treated cause you stucked in science and history but you stylishly inquiring about religion, its a case of alice in wonderland. If you apologise or not you owe no one, yes the really want you closer I see, but its too lame too conclude. Go wash your face with water. |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 11:40pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
dinachi: I can never be a professional wife because marriage is of a personal nature, so your analogy is way off here. |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by freecocoa(f): 11:41pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by trapQ: 11:42pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
you're sane unlike some other people on this thread who just concurred to what the pastor said. it takes two to tango. the world is so hypocritical that we think and feel that ONLY women should have good moral conduct, forgetting that we are all humans. a man will cheat, beat, abuse and pounce on his wife at will. society and all her in laws will say FORGIVE HIM, HE'S YOUR HUSBAND. they blame her and accuse her wrongly while the man is applauded. we have failed GOD Bibol: |
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