WIZGUY69:


iboes and fetishisms are like Siamese twin.
an average iboe man has shrine in his bedroom!

My people are rather the fetish people of Nigeria. ..not the ibos...you are a Christian like me, always learn to say the truth and Shame the devil....we should start evangelizing to our yoruba people

so okrija shrine still exist na wa ooo...

Tinking of dragging Lafy f and introvert to dat okija, dia Ftc is becoming too much, I dey always smell yeye

Can't this couple overlooedk some things for the sake of their children?

Why fighting as there was never any love between them?

From the look of things, I think they started on a wrong foundation?

They matured and respected personnel to resolve this issue.

[quote author=Paschal001 post=37350689]My advice goes I.. ...

Dig out your wedding video Nd watch.. If u guys are still at loggerheads considering the fact u have kids...... then both of u should go n bath on top transformer.
Na was for you !!!

victor2fresh:
"Money is the root of all evil..i thought okija shrine no longer exists..but why d husband dey jump from one shrine to another.

My dear,money is'nt the root of all evil rather the LOVE of money is...

QED

From the pickshure above, its evident the woman is over head over heel with the man

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That's why sometimes when one hears about assassinations in Nigeria, it is easy to decipher what happened.
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Safe Journey oo... Judgement sharp sharp! No time

WIZGUY69:


iboes and fetishisms are like Siamese twin.
an average iboe man has shrine in his bedroom!

You bigots always have to show yourselves abi?When did fetishism become exclusive to ibo people?Continue disgracing your family.Ode!

yorubatic:

My people are rather the fetish people of Nigeria. ..not the ibos...you are a Christian like me, always learn to say the truth and Shame the devil....we should start evangelizing to our yoruba people

chinonso!

stop stalking me.
or trailer go jam u.

Bros i am from anambra... whether u are educated or not is not when the okija shrine is involved.... the shrine is piling with corpse of people wey no gree come when invited... im not bullshi.tting you... when the police raided that place in 2004 almost 500 corpse was recovered..they began operating again after a few years.. i advise both of them to settle amicably

alonzoiv:
To even think that they were married before and they both are educated. Educated people consulting shrines operated by illiterates. What a shame.

edwife:
This is becoming alarming to say the least.

The marriage institution has been dragged to the mud,people who once confessed loving each other till death are now worst enemies.

They are so selfish that they don't even care about the kids.

That is what you get when modern couples put all their efforts on "romantic" engagements and flamboyant weddings ( both lasting less than a day), and then neglect the main thing - marriage - thinking they are all the same

I'm sure the guy proposed to her on top of a moving train.

What happened to the feelings and pledges

Too fetish

Truckpusher:
Of course they do .
I'm even planning on dragging VickyRotex to that shrine.

The gods must question her for me o.

What did I do?

Bring it on

This case no be small case oooo. The lady in question has already moved on and married another bank in a Dubai wedding as alleged by the husband as at last year.

http://www.pmnewsnigeria.com/2014/11/13/bank-manager-dumps-husband-marries-lover-secretly-in-dubai/

There is a twist in a divorce suit between an area manager with an old generation bank in Lagos, western Nigeria, Mrs Blessing Ifeanyi-Okpoko and her estranged husband, Ifeanyi Kenneth Okpoko, as the husband alleged that Blessing fled her matrimonial home after he discovered her secret marriage to another banker, Kelvin Ugwuoke, in Dubai recently.

Okpoko alleged that Blessing and Ugwuoke, who is the risk manager at a new generation bank on Lagos Island, secretly went to Dubai with a few friends and wedded before returning to Nigeria.

He lamented that while Blessing was still in his house, he received information about her wedding to Ugwuoke, and got photographs on her trip to Dubai with Ugwuoke as evidence and when he confronted her, she packed out of her matrimonial home at Ajao Estate and moved to Lekki area where Ugwuoke reportedly has a property.


•Blessing and Okpoko

Blessing also quickly filed a suit before Lagos High Court seeking for the dissolution of the marriage after the cat was let out of the bag.

In the suit filed at the court, both estranged couple accused each other of adultery and want the court to dissolve the marriage which produced three female children.

According to Okpoko, the 13-year old marriage crashed after his wife’s trip to Dubai.

He said Blessing told him that she was going for a banking assignment in Dubai but unknown to him, her trip was to wed Ugwuoke there.

He said when she returned from the trip, he did not suspect anything until he saw the photographs of her trip with Ugwuokeand confronted Blessing who was shocked about how the information got to him.

When our reporter contacted Blessing, she did not deny or confirm the allegation.

She said it was not anybody’s business to tell her how she should live her life.

She admitted that she knew Ugwuoke and declined to comment on whether she is staying in Ugwuoke’s house in Lekki as claimed by Okpoko.

When Ugwuoke was also contacted at his office, our reporter was asked to leave the bank premises by security guards who said Ugwuoke was not ready to entertain such matter as it was not part of his schedule in the bank.

P.M.NEWS learnt that Ugwuoke, who is from Nsukka in Enugu State, met Blessing at the Kano branch of the old generation bank where they both worked before left to join a new generation bank.

They allegedly became lovers for years before Blessing married Okpoko, who is a furniture dealer in Lagos.

Blessing later met Ugwuoke who had separated from his wife in Lagos and the relationship allegedly continued until it allegedly culminated in the Dubai wedding.


[b]In the suit number ID/477WD/13 filed before the court, Blessing alleged that the respondent (Okpoko) had committed adultery with many women whom he had brought to their matrimonial home to sleep with in the presence of their three young female children.

She alleged that the respondent sought to use physical violence and even threatened to kill her in order to inherit all her property solely purchased by her.

She also alleged that the respondent has subjected her and the female children to mental, physical and emotional trauma by accusing her that she cannot bear male children.

In response, Okpoko denied all the allegations and stated that Blessing has made him a very miserable man by constantly reminding him of his educational background, that he was a secondary school drop-out.
He stated that Blessing intimidated and made jest of him by telling him that she married him out of pity and reminded him that they were not in the same class.

He alleged that Blessing was a dishonest and serial liar who brought home strange men and constantly slept outside her matrimonial home under the pretence of doing her job, thereby neglecting her duties in her matrimonial home. No date has been fixed for the hearing.[/b]

Lesson learnt here. That a person's name is blessing does not mean he or she is a blessing or will be a blessing. in fact he or she can be a curse, a trouble maker and an associate of boko haram

endeedike:
Bros i am from anambra... whether u are educated or not is not when the okija shrine is involved.... the shrine is piling with corpse of people wey no gree come when invited... im not bullshi.tting you... when the police raided that place in 2004 almost 500 corpse was recovered..they began operating again after a few years.. i advise both of them to settle amicably

The way both of them are going, they have chosen to die in d course of dealing with the other.

Why did she marry a furniture maker in the quest to get married when she knew she could not cope?

alonzoiv:
To even think that they were married before and they both are educated. Educated people consulting shrines operated by illiterates. What a shame.

?? Meaning ?? Some people don't know the meaning of illiterate and they use this word as if they are really educated. When you use the word illiterate, it simple means you can't read and write.

Now there is another version of it, computer literate for example means you know some aspect of computer or how to operate it or write programs. The list goes on. If you can read and write Yoruba language or even Arabic Language. You cannot be considered as an illiterate okay.

Going to shrine makes super sense. I did not read the article because it's too long but your comment is really alarming. Plus Education is not until you go to school read and write or pass. Education is having knowledge of what's around you and how to relate to them. Lets stop being one way traffic.

E.g, A tailor that went to a tailoring workshop or school to have knowledge of how to sew is educated in that aspect by the time he or she is one with it..
The same goes for a Mechanic.. The list goes on..

VickyRotex:


What did I do?

Bring it on

Fear catch am.

this woman has invited trouble for herself and her siblings. a shrine that wipes families without mercy until the issue reported is solved by that family.

alonzoiv:
To even think that they were married before and they both are educated. Educated people consulting shrines operated by illiterates. What a shame.

honestly the thing is so disgusting.
in those days , illiterates copied and strived to be like graduates but these days, graduates in good position and influence now copy illiterates.it's a big shame!!

Na wa.
So a normal court couldn't have settled their matter that he took the extra step to sidestep into juju?


This their case pass Wetin eye dey see.

victor2fresh:
"Money is the root of all evil..i thought okija shrine no longer exists..but why d husband dey jump from one shrine to another.

The same way he's jumping from one woman to another.

alonzoiv:
Educated people consulting shrines operated by illiterates.

lekjons:
couldn't remember reading an article where okija shrine is declared a law court.

Shrines could also serve as traditional judiciary. They had functioned in that capacity before the arrival of the white man. Shrines can still operate in that capacity today.

Dannidom:
Blacks and their fetish superstitious belifs no matter their level of education

What is superstitious; besides, I thought there was freedom of religion?

chudidonas:
I wonder if the shrines and oracles can possibly hurt her.

Stories abound how shrines could administer justice.

Last Saturday, I was with a cousin of mine. He related the story of 4 men who were destroyed by a deity in a road crash.

The men had robbed a woman whose son sent her some money from abroad. Then they stabbed her to death when she recognised one of them.

When the son returned, he reported the matter to a shrine for justice.

Later, the 4 men, after enjoying themselves, were returning from a joint; and boom; it's an accident. 3 of them died. The surviving one later died after confessing their involvement in killing the woman.

Wonders shall never end

This is not encouraging at all!

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Chidoks:

honestly the thing is so disgusting.
in those days , illiterates copied and strived to be like graduates but these days, graduates in good position and influence now copy illiterates.it's a big shame!!

god will help them (emphasis on the small g)

scully95:


?? Meaning ?? Some people don't know the meaning of illiterate and they use this word as if they are really educated. When you use the word illiterate, it simple means you can't read and write.

Now there is another version of it, computer literate for example means you know some aspect of computer or how to operate it or write programs. The list goes on. If you can read and write Yoruba language or even Arabic Language. You cannot be considered as an illiterate okay.

Going to shrine makes super sense. I did not read the article because it's too long but your comment is really alarming. Plus Education is not until you go to school read and write or pass. Education is having knowledge of what's around you and how to relate to them. Lets stop being one way traffic.

E.g, A tailor that went to tailoring workshop to have a knowledge of how to sew is educated in that aspect by the time or or she is one with it..
The same goes for a Mechanic.. The list goes on..

lecturer,thanks alot for the expository comment