When a man shows interest in a lady and tells her that he would love to know her better,most times in his heart this is exactly what he is saying: "Hi lady, can i get to have a taste of your goody-bag and have the feel of your body to know if you are good enough in bed and decide if i should keep you for long or dump your ass in a jiffy because i don't really care whether we end up together or not".

I honestly don't believe in dating and even as courtship sounds more reasonable,it is still not really necessary and i will try to list logical reasons why ladies should avoid this lie from the pits of hell called dating or courtship and i hope you learn a great deal from this.


1. A man usually knows if there is a huge possibility of marrying you or just want to use you to pass time the very first day he sets his eyes on you and a man who is really interested in a purposeful affair with you will give you the sign almost immediately with the body language except you refuse to be vigilant.

2. Many Men use dating and courtship as a means of exploring you sexually and probably after he realizes that your bosoms are not as firm as he wants them to be or your sex performance is below what he wants or after he has really used you to his satisfaction then he tells you it can't work out because his mum does not want him to marry from your tribe or just brings up any lame excuse and decides to walk away to get another lady to "date"

3. An Angel can turn to a demon: Many people have argued that dating period is a period where you will know the type of person you have but this assertion is very funny because a good person can turn terrible and most times even if the person seems bad many ladies will still go on and marry him with the hope of changing him.

4.Dating and courtship is a disguised miniature marriage because in many cases when a guy starts dating or courting you,you will be doing some stuffs that wives do and i keep wondering why they still see the union as dating or courting when he is practically having all the benefits he should get from a wife hence the need to continue dating and courting and dating and.. until you suddenly realized you have spent your honey years married unofficially to a man who will probably dump you to marry another lady still in the name of dating.

5.A thousand years of courtship is no guaranty that you will know the man and until you two stay under the same roof as man and wife,you will never come closer to knowing who he really is so why waste your years dating and courting.

6.Most of the marriages of our parents are great examples as most of our parents hardly knew each other before getting married yet many of them had a lasting and loving union but these days despite the celebrated dating and courting culture,many marriages hit the rock.

7.A good union is not hinged on the number of years both of you spend sleeping with each other in the name of dating or courtship but its in learning to love whoever you choose to marry and making up your mind to be with him against all odds.

8. I believe that for a man to ever propose an affair to you then he must have found you good enough to have to himself and for a decent lady to agree to an affair with a man then she is definitely ready to be with the man except she is a slut so why waste time fooling around with each other all in the name of getting to sleep with each other in the name of dating and courtship?

9. A sexless date or courtship is the ideal form of courting where both of you try to know just a peripheral detail about yourselves hence once sex comes in then its no longer dating but unofficial marital union.

10.The responsible and matured guys at heart knows the type of woman they want and do not get involved in baseless dating but simply go for the lady of their choice and marry her.

If you are not ready to marry a lady,don't make advances towards her just to waste her years sampling her and if you are a lady,stop fooling yourself thinking you are dating him whereas you are just giving him your body to be used and probably dumped and understand that dating and courtship are just facade from the pits of hell aimed at destroying the lives of ladies by becoming single unmarried mothers,losing their lives through abortions and many have contracted deadly diseases all in the name of dating.

Lets face it,a year of sexless courtship should be enough and one year is not too much to deprive yourself of sex in order to know that guy better and if a man does not start the process of marrying you within a year then it means you are either dating a small boy for the sake of having sex or you are probably with a man who is not sure he wants you.

I know that all the sermons in the world will not bring sanity to the facade of dating and courtship and if any lady sees this piece and shoves it aside,my advice to such is to continue to serve herself on the alter of sexual ecstasy for as many guys as possible in the name of baseless dating or courtship

My humble opinion and i hope this helps.

Interesting....let's hope ladies will learn to move on when they see that the relationship isn't heading anywhere instead of hoping for change.

Its [size=20pt]LadyF[/size] again

Okay

very good....








shout out to all the mature ladies courting for 6years and above and still counting...

Kk

Hmmm good....some ladies can wear that engagement ring for 10yrs...SMH 4dem

d first,second posters above. Which network una dey use. You guys submitted at d same time as d op. D hustle is real

Nice right up

dabexy:
Nice right up

Oh thanks bro. I was actually expecting a backlash from guys because this looks like a show spoiiler lol.

Wow... This is Good!

I hope today's youth learn.

Omotayor123:
Wow... This is Good!

I hope today's youth learn.

They hardly learn until it gets too late.

There are many frustrated after one unmarried ladies today just because they were negligent and many young ladies are burning in hell as i write as a result of death from trying to abort a child one randy man planted yet the same man is alive cruising another possible victim.

This is why i dont do casuals. I cant touch you if i cant marry you. Never

Nice one

adesegun121:
Nice one

Im so amazed that guys like this piece. im really impressed.

Toks2008:


They hardly learn until it gets too late.

There are many frustrated after one unmarried ladies today just because they were negligent and many young ladies are burning in hell as i write as a result of death from trying to abort a child one randy man planted yet the same man is alive cruising another possible victim.

[b]This why i dont do casuals. I cant touch you if i cant marry you. Never[b/]

Guys should Emulate that! But pity the trend this days is chop and clean mouth.

Omotayor123:

Guys should Emulate that! But pity the trend this days is chop and clean mouth.

Na because of my love for christ o. If not walahi i no send any girl.

Im not a good guy when it comes to ladies at all but its GODs doing that im disciplined and not by my effort.

Omotayor123:

Lol..you dey laugh me?

Na so nah. 1sec in hell and you will forget the sweetness of all the holes you have sampled.

I believe in going for just one chic of my choice and staying put rather than fooling around sleeping with ogbanjes,snakes and marmaids.

Even if na witch i carry put for house at least she go happy say i no cheat on am.

I don't expect this thread to go far.

Very true especially 6 and 9

Nyc 1 op

Raalsalghul:
I don't expect this thread to go far.

Weres,you must be a guy lol!

here to read comment,and see people's opinion

Toks2008:

Weres,you must be a guy lol!

You dey spoil show nw abi u knw knw?

@op, u a fucck up nigga.

Raalsalghul:
You dey spoil show nw abi u knw knw?

lol guys are not smiling.

Abeg o na for the sake of our sisters and daughters i write am.

Johnnoah1st:
@op, u a fucck up nigga.

Make una sef pity these ladies abeg.

In the name of dating una go dey freestyle them so tey do for their body wettin even the husband no go ever do.

Nna i pity our ladies o wey don turn to free wife in the name of courtship.

AgbenuAnna:
here to read comment,and see people's opinion

This is not about people's opinion.Its a fact that long courtship is baseless and the more you court a guy the more you lose your sexual values and this is very true 8 out of 10 cases.

i no gree with this thing lailai.

diz days wey we get

Padded bras,

Push-up bras

butt enhancers

hips enlarger

and even stomach clencher sef dey.

why i no go sample wetin i go carry keep for my house for the rest of my life.....

na only wen u do the needful,wen all d makeup don clean finish,the weave-on don scatter-scatter.........but most importantly,the auxillary "enhancers" no dey.


na him u go no d true colour(literally) of the person.

IamLEGEND1:
i no gree with this thing lailai.

diz days wey we get

Padded bras,

Push-up bras

butt enhancers

hips enlarger

and even stomach clencher sef dey.

why i no go sample wetin i go carry keep for my house for the rest of my life.....

na only wen u do the needful,wen all d makeup don clean finish,the weave-on don scatter-scatter.........but most importantly,the auxillary "enhancers" no dey.


na him u go no d true colour(literally) of the person.

So this is a good ground for prolong courtship abi? Tarrr

Toks2008:


This is not about people's opinion.Its a fact that long courtship is baseless and the more you court a guy the more you lose your sexual values and this is very true 8 out of 10 cases.

,OK oh

Toks2008:


Oh thanks bro. I was actually expecting a backlash from guys because this looks like a show spoiiler lol.

its not a show spoiler cos those fishbrains will never learn

Omotayor123:

Guys should Emulate that! But pity the trend this days is chop and clean mouth.

yeah,most ladies deserves to be choped and clean mouth.