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Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by stanvesco(m): 5:38am On Sep 04, 2015 |
#teamexcellentmedicaldoctors# patient confidentiality is downplayed in case of emergencies... I also saw a case sum1 cited above. Woman hiv positive,son negativ,fada negativ, woman insists on non-disclosure.,.. And plz dats not taking ethics too far, dats respecting ur licence,ur practice n ur cash .... ...and u know d funny tin,d husband can sue d doctor for negligence,if he contracts d virus..... And d woman wil sue d doctor if he tels her husband about her status...... At dis point d doctor wud just be singing GBESERE O,GBESERE O 1 Like |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Nobody: 5:40am On Sep 04, 2015 |
you found out the truth only after a botched abortion, not because she was truly remorseful and u come here asking what u should do? |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by flokii: 5:41am On Sep 04, 2015 |
Wilson125: @OP you've been scammed.. pele BTW you be nice guy o... if I hear say I pay her bill. she no get family? And who knows how many dickss she has serviced so far bfor deciding to settle with Mr. Right(YOU).. She no even gree make you do once.. Chai this life 1 Like |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by mudiana(m): 5:43am On Sep 04, 2015 |
Wilson125:chei! my guy,ur gf wicked no b small. |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by stanvesco(m): 5:47am On Sep 04, 2015 |
histemple:i beg to disagree with u plz, wat diagnosis wud d doctor be handling? Septic abortion/incomplete abortion..... Is dat nt revealing enof, dirz probably a bag of blood running in.... Abeg o, let dat doctors licence remain were e day o... |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by stanvesco(m): 5:58am On Sep 04, 2015 |
histemple: lemme fynd a li2 trobu, maaam lemme re-educate u a bit too?? 4 evry procedure done in medicin, u nid to gv d patient a consent form? What procedure is done to complete an incomplete abortion?? I guess u know dat?? Wil it nid a consent form to be signed in real practice?? YES, patient may need blud transfusion,wil it nid a signed consent form?? YES have u heard of post abortal care? I tink i shud pres pause here? If u r my senior coleague,ayam sory o, if u r my junior coleague, at list u learnt sumtin, if u stil in med skool, no day fal pipu hand lyk dis again,dats d rison,evry1 hates us, if u r JOHESU, ayam sory o,no bif intended |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by kenlash1(m): 6:06am On Sep 04, 2015 |
dicefrost:did u knw wat he presented himself as to doctor. As far as u are a relative dey wld tell u |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by autaspakladi: 6:07am On Sep 04, 2015 |
Guy,prentend you have forgiven her,then use condom cut your own share and take to your heels... 2 Likes |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by airex(m): 6:13am On Sep 04, 2015 |
dicefrost:In situations which stand between life and death? Do u say he/she is above 18 to decide? What if d patient is too weak to even move an inch? Will d doctor prefer to wait for d patient? D hiv situation is totally different from this situation please. |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by kasley44(m): 6:13am On Sep 04, 2015 |
im sleeping, dnt wake me next time for such rubbish |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by NinaNigeria(f): 6:13am On Sep 04, 2015 |
In the medical profession, there is what we call the Doctor Patient Confidentiality binding. Which prohibits any medical practitioner to disclose any type of information to anyone regarding their patients. Yes, even if the person is the next of kin. So i do not blv even for a second dat de doctor told u all this. Anyhow if it is true, there is a possibility dat yo girl had been heartbroken, used or toyed with, by men, and she swore to herself dat she will never allow herself to be used as a intimacy gadget ever again. So wen she met u, she must have felt dat u r de guy she wud love to spend her whole life wit, n de only way to protect dat, was for her to prevent u frm seeing her de way those other men saw her, as dey only saw her as an object n hurt her. Confront her, ask her why she did it, n if u still love her, plead wit her to never lie to u ever again, make her see the importancy of trust in relationships. both of u can still build a strong union together bcoz she now knows never to lie to her man ever again. Dis might be de one lesson which teaches her to see dat u r de best man ever and deserve to be cherished. Unless she is a fool. Remember true love conqueres, never fails and always forgives |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by ceaser: 6:16am On Sep 04, 2015 |
donholy28: Not necessarily. Once the patient is above 18 years of age, even if the enquirer is her own mother or father, the doctor is required to first seek the consent from the patient and only she may give the go ahead to have the info divulged to a third party. Patient confidentiality, even after the patient dies, is paramount to the caregiver. |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Nobody: 6:24am On Sep 04, 2015 |
BeeBeeOoh: What kind of useless q is that? So he should go back to a LovePeddler that went the length of committing abortion... are u considering even the fact she could be infected? OP, in the spirit of common sense which u lack, pls dump the how and move on. She'll trap her next victim the same way |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by 2sex(m): 6:29am On Sep 04, 2015 |
IYANGBALI:you are mad 1 Like |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by AdeniyiA(m): 6:32am On Sep 04, 2015 |
But why can't they endure to keep their virginity since they so much appreciate being one... ? Those who can't claim to be virgin would rather tell you that they were raped ... . wtf! 1 Like |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Nobody: 6:36am On Sep 04, 2015 |
BeeBeeOoh: This question is totally unnecessary! Its not a matter of virginity. Its a matter of being truthful and honest. Who knows how many abortion she has done and kept lying about it? Can you ever trust someone like that? |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by ceaser: 6:45am On Sep 04, 2015 |
yanabasee: Laughably, you are the one that is in error here. This is what is expected to transpire as demanded by ethics of the profession: Ask the lady to herself call or give the contact details of who she wants to come. Of course he would have sought the consent of the patient on revealing her ailment to the guy or to anyone for that matter (asides hospital staff who are already in the know). When the guy comes and insists on knowing the ailment, the doctor simply tells him she had a case of "acute abdomen" (the doctor has not lied) that required a minor surgery/procedure and that she is currently out of it and doing fine. Believe me, that will be enough to put the guy's agitation to rest. Of course if he demands explicit description to know what he is about to pay for, then the doctor may counsel the lady on full disclosure since the guy is the only one available for her at that moment to handle what her treatment incures. Please note that maybe morally, you may question the doctor's approach, but ethically and legally, he is on the right path and that is what makes patients to have the confidentiality of full disclosure to their doctors which always help in management. I bet you wouldn't like your hospital case file to be freely accessible to anyone no matter how minor your ailment is. And note that should the physician disclose her case to the guy without her written consent, she has every right under the law to sue the doctor and hospital for damages. The doctor also risk losing his practicing licence for unprofessional conduct. |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by schumastic(m): 6:47am On Sep 04, 2015 |
[quote author=ZianaJordana post=37648591]Oh, dear. I hope your ex girlfriend is okay. And, that is all. Yes, she shouldn't have lied to you about being a virgin, but I'm not surprised some women do in Nigeria if so much emphasis is placed on the virginity of a woman, and they're valued more because of it. I, however, do sympathise with you. I'm guessing you weren't the one who impregnated her, so she obviously cheated on you. She's a pathological liar, and you should just stay away from her.[/quote can't you read? he said he still believe she s a virgin meaning he has not slept with her... |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by eunisam: 6:47am On Sep 04, 2015 |
Wilson125 Pls go and pay her pride price right away,she me be a virgin anyway,just for get about the abortion and focus on her virginity. remember we have pregnant virgins and she may just be one of them. |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Tohat(m): 6:47am On Sep 04, 2015 |
He only hate the lies, that's all |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by johncreek: 6:51am On Sep 04, 2015 |
IT is normal for a Nigerian girl to tell you she is a virgin. |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by blackfase(m): 6:52am On Sep 04, 2015 |
Bro, why dont u hear her out first. Aswir, she intends telling u she got preggie eating a combination of apples & carrots, thats a lethal combination these days for fertility treatment. I just raised d bar of ur confusion. Confused indeed! #ConfusedDotCom |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Nobody: 6:53am On Sep 04, 2015 |
NinaNigeria: oh she stopped being an object for only the op...na still a guy got her pregnant. na wa for ur analysis. 2 Likes |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by j4sure(m): 6:54am On Sep 04, 2015 |
Noted. So wetin u wan con do now? |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by daresimon(m): 6:55am On Sep 04, 2015 |
butterflyy: Do you mean being a virgin is a think of the past? |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by NinaNigeria(f): 6:56am On Sep 04, 2015 |
kosplateau: lol, clearly u havnt seen life. I have dealt wit such girls for a very long time dear. Dis type of a case is nt new to me |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Greycious(m): 6:56am On Sep 04, 2015 |
dicefrost: |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by coretechng1(m): 6:59am On Sep 04, 2015 |
OP how many girlfriends do you have? You wrote in one of your posts that you are always unable to pray after having sex with your girlfriend.
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Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by ZianaJordana(f): 7:03am On Sep 04, 2015 |
[quote author=schumastic post=37652100][/quote] That's why I said I guess he's not the one who impregnated her i.e. He thought she was a virgin, so he obviously wasn't the one who impregnated her. |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Chidonc(m): 7:04am On Sep 04, 2015 |
dicefrost: na where you go hide na dicefrost long time my brother abi na now mtn finally decide to bless ur life with mb. anyway sha welcom |
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by ceaser: 7:06am On Sep 04, 2015 |
HARDDON: Do not play the blame game on the guy. He hadn't in anyway supported her action by paying for the treatment. What if the lady needs blood transfusion and he happens to be the only one at that moment with a compatible blood group? Refusing to donate to save her life on the grounds of what she did will be inhumane and actually makes him the greater devil. Paying for her bills was a chivalrous approach him and believe me, by that singular action he has heaped tons of hot coal on that lady. He took that maturity further by picking her first call post-op and asking to ensure if she was finally okay to have been discharged from the hospital. And even though they may never roll together again (I know I'll never talk to that lady again), she will continue to respect and LOVE that guy for his entire life even while she is with another and even to the point of jeopardizing her own marriage and home cos all she would forever long for is the guy. Believe me, I know how less crimes by ladies to chivalrous guys have turned out. |
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