Am 31 i have a girl i want to marry,she is 35years old,though will love ourselves so much,but my problem is her age,does it have any implications, please advice.

if you love her, carry on...love superceeds all things.

Age doesn't matter...what matter most if ur financially stable to raise ur own family soon?

Its all good as long as both of you respect each other and your marriage.

U hav a girl dat u want to marry, and she is 35 yrs old? Hian



Na woman be dat na... Agadi nwanyi


Marry her ooooo

It's a lie.

KashyBaby:
Age doesn't matter...what matter most if ur financially stable to raise ur own family soon?

Why bring up financial matter into the stuff¿

sauceny:


Why bring up financial matter into the stuff¿

Coz this is the most common issue in marriage, abi?

lol @ "but my problem is her age". It's like you're talking about an arthritic granny. It's only 4 years difference. I'm sure just looking at you two together, no one could tell she's older. Just forget the TINY age gap & just luxuriate in love.

Many aren't saying the truth here.
dear op do not forget that that age is harder to conceive for many women.
So, please think your decision through and brace yourself for the future challenges.

Wish you the best

KashyBaby:


Coz this is the most common issue in marriage, abi?

Ooh i see...It seems money is your number one priority in picking a partner.

Besides,op was only making reference to the age bracket,not the financial inability.

KashyBaby:


Coz this is the most common issue in marriage, abi?

qualities of a girl who marry a man for his money

sauceny:


Ooh i see...It seems money is your number one priority in picking a partner.

dont mind her if we scream our girls to like money, na dem go dey vex

slimthugchimee:
qualities of a girl who marry a man for his money

If ur not married...sit down boy coz u know nothing.

sauceny:


Ooh i see...It seems money is your number one priority in picking a partner.

Besides,op was only making reference to the age bracket,not the financial inability.

Men brain only function one at a time..juz like u...if ur not married, u sit down too coz marriage is not abt age little boy, it's abt how u gonna raise ur family.

Donphilip:
Am 31 i have a girl i want to marry,she is 35years old,though will love ourselves so much,but my problem is her age,does it have any implications, please advice.

not at all. U have my backing. Age is jux a number, love is the most important ish..... 4 year diff is nutin.

KashyBaby:


Men brain only function one at a time..juz like u...if ur not married, u sit down too coz marriage is not abt age little boy, it's abt how u gonna raise ur family.

A fool living in a fools paradise

Yes, it is,

@ 35? She will do everything to prove to you that she is loyal, even, If u order her to chop sh!t, she will do it as long as it will make u slip that ring on that her finger and say, "I do".


Many people will say that age is just a number, "YES", but does it matter? "YES".


The only thing that can tame a woman is respect for elder person( it is age dependent).

Talk of riches? She will mess you with her affluence power.
Talk of age? She will always remind you that she is higher than u.


The only thing women live for is power, forget money, money is just a latter with which they climb up to power.

Present money and power to women, she will take power, to her, "what's money when she has got the power?".


The only automatic ticket for a woman to be superior to u "a man," is if she is older than u are.

As sweet as our elder sisters are, they will always show us that they are superior even for any flimsy thing, but they dare not do such to our elder bros who is also older than she is.














My point is, no matter how loyal and respectful u think a woman is, she will one day do that thing that makes her a woman,( it might be in d midst of small family quarrel or something like that).


Can you handle it? We love our Ego and prestige as men. Can u let go easily? Can u live with the fact that your wife reminds you of who is older and should be respected when u want to assert your rights and stands as the head of the family?

Can u give out instructions as a man of the house without the fear of being reminded of who Is older?



Marriage is not a bed of roses, as disagreements and quarrels are bound to come.

Ask her why hasn't she married before now first.

If she has a good sense of self worth, is medically fertile(if you want kids), she loves you and isn't desperate.

If you truly love her and you're ready to be married to her.

If you guys are financially, physically, spiritually and psychologically ready for marriage.

You have no problem we can help you with.
Good luck with your decision making.

sauceny:


A fool living in a fools paradise

juz exactly where u live @ d moment...

Tnk u all 4 ur gud contributions

If you believe she have a good character, though some women can pretend sha.... Chai

Donphilip:
Am 31 i have a girl i want to marry,she is 35years old,though will love ourselves so much,but my problem is her age,does it have any implications, please advice.

The fact that you're thinking about it shows there's a problem already. Please look for someone much younger.

Donphilip:
Am 31 i have a girl i want to marry,she is 35years old,though will love ourselves so much,but my problem is her age,does it have any implications, please advice.

Personally I see absolutely nothing wrong with it, but if this is your life and situation, you need to be okay with it first. This is your personal decision, it hasn't got anything to do with anyone else except your partner. Good luck

sauceny:


Why bring up financial matter into the stuff¿

Why not if not. U think a 35yrs old woman ve time to waste again on child bearing, all they need do is rush to have their kids b4 she is 40 n do u think dat will be possible without money?

Hmm it's a very dicey ish..now you might now have a problem with the age o..but marriage is a long time from now...men stay sexually active into their 60's and 70's...what now happens when you are 66 and agile aand she's 70yrs old..love is sweet but don't let it cloud your judgement..think with your head..personally would advice you against it but at the end of the day it's your decision to make...

@Op....

Don't listen to all these advice from ladies above telling you to go ahead if the luv is there, the truth is most nigerian ladies will never respect you in a r/ship once they discover they are older than you talkless of marriage.

Of course they will be in luv with you even if they are older once they have crossed the bridge of 30yrs of age and nor married bt deep down, they will always feel they are older and God save you she has more money than you, then you are in soup!!

Generally, age is not important when it comes to luv bt for our nigerian women, Money and age matters a lot.

# don't.....

Captainswag225:
not at all. U have my backing. Age is jux a number, love is the most important ish..... 4 year diff is nutin.

hmmmm

jnrbayano:
Ask her why hasn't she married before now first.

30yr old is too old for marriage sef talkless of 35,OP more grease to your elbow o.