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8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by wristbangle: 6:09pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
The way some guys act clearly indicate that they will end up as chronic headache for their wives in the nearest future if care is not taken. I can't really blame guys who are involved in the act of humiliating ladies in public and online because these ladies in question must have torment their heart but going to the extent of destroying their intrinsic values is the major concern here. Therefore let's take a look at signs that indicate a guy will become an irresponsible husband. 1. Extremely stingy Some guys are so stingy to the extent that they can't call their girlfriends for just 1minute in a day. The only time they call for long period is during free night calls or bonus awarded from telecom providers. If they call for 30secs, they will hang up and later explain through whatsapp/BBM that it was network failure. 2. Highly promiscuous This issue is common to perverts who has never zipped up for once in their life by chasing every tom and harry in skirt. These are the kinds that will eventually become sugar daddy, chasing ladies who are young enough to be their daughter in future. 3. Very lazy Some guys are so idle to the extent that they have no goal, vision and purpose in life. They are just too lazy to seize opportunities around them as they are only seen in betting shops like nairabet, etc. to make money. 4. Ridicule ladies I hate when a guy beat or disgrace his girlfriend in public just because she hangs out with a guy. I consider this as a dysfunctional act because a man in making will not stoop so low to involve himself in this thrash. Meanwhile on nairaland some consider all ladies as whores of which we still have the rare and good ones like mhizkel, prettythicksme, redgem, aminat508, midehi, adeh39 and others. 5. Habit of alcoholism and smoking For a guy that consume too much alcohol and smoke probably in the bid to control his anger is not a man. Such guys cannot become responsible husbands to their wives because they can use children's school fee and other budgetary money to drink and smoke. 6. Wrong lifestyle Some guys rock and roll with the wrong peer groups who have influence them to have shameful lifestyles like yahoo yahoo occupation, rape gangs and area touts. 7. Careless attitude The way some guys behave can be likened to a voracious animal. They dump and change ladies like sanitary pads as they care less about their emotion by suggesting abortion for any sex journey that becomes foetus. 8. Poor financial planning Some guys blow money like trumpet without thinking about future investment. They spend their money on vague things like phones, prostitutes, etc. Such guys will eventually become an irresponsible husband. 76 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by redgem(f): 6:09pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Bad listening habit: most guys have this habit and it results in ineffective communication, which usually have an adverse impact on the productivity of the individual and their relationships. Poor listening definitely make a huge, negative impact on team morale and productivity. This situation usually results in conflicts and misunderstandings among partners , and it creates a negative environment. Lack of Self control : some guys lack the ability to control their emotions, behavior, and desires. Guys should constantly be striving towards self-control and discipline, because these are foundations of integrity. One thing they need to understand about self-control is that it is not as much about saying no to certain fleshly desires, lusts and cravings but more about living and abundant life free from addiction regret and shame. Interrupting a conversation: guys are good at Interrupting a conversation with improper body language or inappropriate words and this has a negative impact on their relationships. My bf does this a lot and it annoys me... I've told him severally yet, he can't stop it. Dirty: some guys are so dirty that if they should pass you, oh my God! you won't be able to breathe for hours and most of them terms it sexy.... Imagine animal odour is now sexy ta...go and sleep it's a turn off to we ladies.. We love guys that are neat, guys that organizes their home. Bragging : some guys brag a lot eg MrCork I have no problem with a guy having money. However, I do have a problem when you decide to treat women like gold-diggers whose eyes are bound to widen at the mention of “Bugatti”. Yes, we like money, just like you men, but that doesn't mean you should also shout it.... Brags are turn off for me 106 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by wristbangle: 6:14pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
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Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by vivypretty(f): 6:15pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
nice list.unless u are blindly in love to overlook this attributes. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by Nobody: 6:16pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Tcheew. Wristb.angle ko, Kurt Angle ni. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by Nobody: 6:17pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Noted. |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by wristbangle: 6:17pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
RickRichards: The truth dey pepper but I don talk am 6 Likes |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by LogoDWhiz(m): 6:17pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Noted! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by Haywhymido(m): 6:19pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Ladies dis 4 u |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by shiningamy(f): 6:19pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Hmmm, despite all these lists some girls will still end up with them. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by ronald4lif(m): 6:20pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
redgem: Omo see derailing. You had to quote the original lengthy post just to type a lone letter. Are you bored 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by Nobody: 6:21pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
He plays video games like his life depends on it 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by redgem(f): 6:22pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
ronald4lif: Lol.... Don't mind me |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by chefremy(m): 6:25pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
hmm,one just need to be carefull this days in every choise you make. |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by wristbangle: 6:29pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Tomfrench: Lol. But I play video games a lot. Does it mean I will not be a responsible husband? 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by Cutehector(m): 6:29pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Its not applicable in all cases... Even d good guys turn out to be wife beaters 1 Like |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by Nobody: 6:30pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
wristbangle:maybe 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by ronald4lif(m): 6:33pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
redgem: Should I recommend you past-time activities? Get a kettle, fill it up with water and put on the gas until it dries up. Repeat the process till you're exhausted. Thank me later. 12 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by wristbangle: 6:34pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Cutehector: Well I can dispute this because atimes the attitude of some ladies can push a guy real hard to beat them but still it is advisable to control the anger. 3 Likes |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by Cutehector(m): 6:36pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
wristbangle:I think you are still right... |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by xpac01(m): 6:36pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Very true bro. But you forgot 9. If his village witches has always been on the case of the men from his village 4 Likes |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by wristbangle: 6:37pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
thecreativeguy: Lol, why? |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by Whizzcute(m): 6:39pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
That No 3 is a nice point but you concluded it badly, Not all guys that goes to bet shops are lazy, only few are. Sports betting is a nice business for those that knows how to do it and people are earning very well with it. 7 Likes |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by ronald4lif(m): 6:39pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
That moment when you want to contribute but don't know where or how to. How do I even know if I fall into any category. I think one can be a moderate smoker, drink and still be responsible unlike the common perception that any smoker or an alcoholic must be reckless and irresponsible. The health risk associated with smoking alone is more dangerous than it behavioural effect on the consumer. That alone should be a huge concern to a partner who intends to walk down the aisle with a smoker. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by wristbangle: 6:42pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
xpac01: Lmao. That one na spiritual edifice oo. |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by wristbangle: 6:46pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
ronald4lif: Well analysed bro. The thing is if one consumes alcohol or smokes moderately, there is tendency such habit will become addictive as it may stare up that ugly attitude in him hence resort into derogatory acts on his love ones most especially his love partner. |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by wristbangle: 6:48pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Whizzcute: Yes I know but I am only stating fact on lazy. Guys what they do. I do know that not all people visiting the shop are jobless, lazy or whatever the case maybe. Some do it for fun like u and I. |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by starpon1: 6:50pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Whizzcute:see ya mouth |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by ifex370(m): 6:50pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
vivypretty: who cares... babe how fa na |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by Whizzcute(m): 6:52pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
wristbangle: Ok, Udo. |
Re: 8 Signs That Show A Guy Will Eventually Become An Irresponsible Husband by wristbangle: 6:52pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
shiningamy: lol. Really? Babes don wise up nowadays now. |
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