Seuncoded:
Unless I Know The Meaninf Of ****Cohabited****

pet4ril:
If it were the past, there would have been nothing wrong with that, but not that she's still living with the guy, my dear she may not like u d way you are thinking oooooo

Truckpusher:
Op , you're on your own.

A woman that cohabited with another man has known a lot of things from her unholy journey and I for once will never marry such a lady.

To cohabit with anyone and end not getting married to each other is very close to being a divorced man or woman.

lilmax:
co·hab·it/ˌkōˈhabət/
verb

live together and have a sexual relationship without being married.


Op is this what you are asking for?

patrotic9gerian:


I salute your wisdom... Tell me more about future consequences....

Truckpusher:
You'll get the future consequences when you're in it.

Why don't you give it a try.

patrotic9gerian:
Ever since I left Nigeria two years ago, I found myself falling for a foreigner. I have never been into any relationship before but my heart feels special when ever I sight this girl. But after critical thinking, I made up my mind that if I must ask her out then I must get set to marry her cos I can't date a girl that I cannot marry. But do you guys know the problem, She has a boyfriend and not only that, they live together like husband and wife. I am 99% sure that she likes me and we have been chatting too all this while but I am not sure if I can date a lady that has cohabited.

Guys can you marry a Lady that has lived with another man? What are the possible negative effects that may come out of this union after marriage? State any benefit that may come out too if you have any...

patrotic9gerian:


haha... Such an experiment is devastating...

crackhaus:

You found yourself falling for a foreigner who not only has a boyfriend, but also lives with him.

The only problem here is that you seem blind...abi other women no dey your social circle?

As per the issue of cohabitation...dude what's the difference between a girl who has a boyfriend she fvcks on the regular but doesn't live with him, and the girl who lives with her man and still fvcks him?

eyinjuege:
Dude,the babe never even gree to date you you're already planning wedding things. Na so the scores be?
You better leave her alone with her boyfriend and go fall for someone free and ready to mingle.

Truckpusher:
They use to say that experience is the best teacher....lol

I can't even get married to a lady that dated someone for more than 3 years unless in some scenario where something bad happened to the other guy which stopped the relationship half way.

Truth be told - When you've passed through a process either legally or not it is a binding factor on how your general outlook on life is and would become in the long run .A woman or a man that that cohabited will no longer be a novice to the day to day ups and downs of living together with the opposite sex.

If one must get married then it is important to be on the same level when it comes to your knowledge of what should be obtainable in a union and not one party having a lot of experience while the other one is still in kindergarten.That is a recipe for a disaster.

SeverusSnape:
God forbid!!!...After the guy must have finished using her, as in fucked_ her to smithereens; Used her like they do in porn, most likely aborted countless of times, then I'll come and marry the liability.

patrotic9gerian:


Nyz Contributions bro. It has come to my knowledge that finding that novice as you are is always difficult. Life generally presents the opposite of you especially in relationships. The good fall in love with the bad and vice versa. Lets see how one can condition the mind. Tnks

SeverusSnape:
God forbid!!!...After the guy must have finished using her, as in fucked_ her to smithereens; Used her like they do in porn, most likely aborted countless of times, then I'll come and marry the liability.

Truckpusher:
At a certain age in life those things won't make any difference to you anymore.

There was a time I can never date any girl that I'm aware of who she was dating before , but now sometimes you don't care because there are other important things that has taken all that zeal and energy and the little you have you cant afford to use it in chasing shadows( women) - It will get to a point that women to you is just like a necessary evil and not something to be seen as an achievement and the reason to feel honored to have her around , but my stand against the four years thing was based on the day to day running of a unity with an experienced partner while the other one is naive to the manoeuvres of such venture - I personally feel that one person would be short changed emotionally and psychologically.

The puccy will always remain the same even if ten men should walk through it with severe barbaric ferocity.

Me??...I know the kind of person I am, It will surely matter to me. I know no body is a saint, But at least there are still decent ladies out there, And I won't settle for less when the time comes. I can't marry someone who another person sees as his trash, No way!, A background check must be carried out mehn, whores don't deserve people like me (...and you ), I'll advice you do the same.

SeverusSnape:

Me??...I know the kind of person I am, It will surely matter to me. I know no body is a saint, But at least there are still decent ladies out there, And I won't settle for less when the time comes. I can't marry someone who another person sees as his trash, No way!, A background check must be carried out mehn, whores don't deserve people like me (...and you ), I'll advice you do the same.

SeverusSnape:

Me??...I know the kind of person I am, It will surely matter to me. I know no body is a saint, But at least there are still decent ladies out there, And I won't settle for less when the time comes. I can't marry someone who another person sees as his trash, No way!, A background check must be carried out mehn, whores don't deserve people like me (...and you ), I'll advice you do the same.

Truckpusher:
Lmao.....

When that time comes many things won't matter to you anymore bro.

Of course background check is important but hey! There is nothing like a descent lady in a 21st century world my brother - We dey enter jungle and we've seen a lot .

In this age of independence, the decent ladies are the ones doing shiit while the oloshos are strictly for business and are more mindful of how far they can go.
Use your head o.

patrotic9gerian:


Lol.. U fit recommend some women for me?

crackhaus:

Freecocoa is a good start, I hear she has average beauty and very single.