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Re: Why Would A Guy Want To Talk To You Even When He Thinks You're Mean? by Nobody: 3:10pm On Sep 16, 2015 |
Teempakguy: Lol no no no I don't like that. I hate when people are like oh you're only a child you've no experience you don't understand. I really really really hate it. Cause I've mad more bullshit thrown my way than most "adults" and I've handled myself pretty Damn well and they had better acknowledge and respect that before I kick my foot up their Ass. RantOver. It's easy to say live independent of people's opinion but that doesn't work in reality. In your lifetime you're going to need people. You can't exactly decide oh being myself I love dressing up like a 12 year old and then go to run for and expect people to take you seriously. I think we all have to look and act appropriate to our situation. If you get me... You'd think sounding mature would be enough. Most people I know tell me I sound a lot older than I am and often forget my age but when it comes to "debating" or having an intellectual argument suddenly they're like look at your dp you're only a certain age you haven't experienced life. When I am obviously in the right. |
Re: Why Would A Guy Want To Talk To You Even When He Thinks You're Mean? by Nobody: 3:11pm On Sep 16, 2015 |
runnazz: Awh. That's nice. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: Why Would A Guy Want To Talk To You Even When He Thinks You're Mean? by Nobody: 3:13pm On Sep 16, 2015 |
Akkord4gov: Awh no. I'm sorry. I really hate emails. Ill sign in and reply asap |
Re: Why Would A Guy Want To Talk To You Even When He Thinks You're Mean? by Akkord4gov: 3:46pm On Sep 16, 2015 |
YourMain: Reply asap with ur new no before I change my mind I miss u though |
Re: Why Would A Guy Want To Talk To You Even When He Thinks You're Mean? by Nobody: 4:53pm On Sep 16, 2015 |
YourMain:UW |
Re: Why Would A Guy Want To Talk To You Even When He Thinks You're Mean? by mamagee3(f): 6:52pm On Sep 16, 2015 |
OKAY, YOURMAIN AND HER ADMIRERS, LET'S GET BACK TO THE TOPIC NOW. NO MORE DERAILING POSTS AND DISCUSSIONS...JUST POST YOUR IDEAS. LET'S NOT START THE LOVE AND MESSAGE THREADS NOW!!! |
Re: Why Would A Guy Want To Talk To You Even When He Thinks You're Mean? by Nobody: 6:57pm On Sep 16, 2015 |
^ Lol woman why are u ruining yourmains market nah Some guys get kicks out of cracking the hard nut, so to speak. Some guys are turned on by tough/mean girls. I am not one sha this is just what they tell me 1 Like |
Re: Why Would A Guy Want To Talk To You Even When He Thinks You're Mean? by Nobody: 7:15pm On Sep 16, 2015 |
MrsPhyno: You see, its kinda like breaking a wild horse that has never been ridden b4 You get bragging rights about how this "tough cookie" got broke Similar to the feeling girls get when they turn down a guy y'dig? |
Re: Why Would A Guy Want To Talk To You Even When He Thinks You're Mean? by Nobody: 7:18pm On Sep 16, 2015 |
YourMain: Okay. I'll rest my case now. |
Re: Why Would A Guy Want To Talk To You Even When He Thinks You're Mean? by Nobody: 7:23pm On Sep 16, 2015 |
BUTCHCASSIDY:*long hiss* tough and mean aint the same thing. i thought u guys jus liked getting the girl no one could get? what kinda feeling are u talking about it doesn't give us shivers or anything honestly u guys are so passive-aggressive. 1 Like |
Re: Why Would A Guy Want To Talk To You Even When He Thinks You're Mean? by Nobody: 7:24pm On Sep 16, 2015 |
mamagee3:okay, fine. Humans are wired to go for things that are seemingly hard to get. So they can amass a huge collection of bragging rights. Women are no different. Which is why most women are adviced to play hard. So that, when they finally bow, the guy can put them among his highest achievements. "I paid your mother 2000 to sleep with me over the weekend" doesn't quite sound as impressive as "I pursued your mother for five years!". |
Re: Why Would A Guy Want To Talk To You Even When He Thinks You're Mean? by Nobody: 12:22am On Sep 22, 2015 |
Teempakguy: haba!! five wetin!!! so u go just. dedicate five yrs to chase one girl? hmm me I don't like girls forming unnecessary hard to get oh...but she could be mean with a little bit tease leading me on and a little bit of sassiness and that's fcking attractive... not that yeye hard to get with no meaning... I swear I will leave her fast dejected and confused... lubishh |
Re: Why Would A Guy Want To Talk To You Even When He Thinks You're Mean? by Mcslize: 12:28pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
mamagee3 the reason is guys see girls being mean as the usual attitude of many girls which is a 'subconscious' factor when a guy try to ask them out. They do not become mean to a guy intentionally. Ladies do it out of their already prorammmed mindset of playing hard to get which does not portray the true person in them making guys chase them knowing that she is doing that just to present herself not being cheap. On the part of the guy, he sees that as a challenge making him never want to give up chasing that lady cuz she already presented herself as a trophy to be won and u know what? We guys love challenge alot. So no matter how mean u act to him he will still keep on coming after you. Another reason why a guy will never give up on any mean girl, is if he conceives good intention towards her which he will like to prove to her. But giving up simply because she is mean to him would abruptly destroy such good intent which he wouldn't want making him keep on being nice to her as he wait patiently to finally win her heart. And when he finally does, such a girl end up falling madly madl madly in luv with the guy. Time to retrospect the guy will like : u know d stress wey u make me pass tru before I fit win u? U wey make shit hook for my yansh.... D girl wil like: Haba I no mean to do all dat to u bt I b no wan make u see me as a cheap gal na. But u get mind sha.....u don giv me luv charm chop now u own me hw do u feel? D guy go just dey smile dey shake his head like all those old papas 4 village |
Re: Why Would A Guy Want To Talk To You Even When He Thinks You're Mean? by gab264(m): 12:36pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Because some guys find mean girls very attractive.. I have a friend who have a crush on a mean girl, but still he can't let go off her. |
Re: Why Would A Guy Want To Talk To You Even When He Thinks You're Mean? by gab264(m): 12:40pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
YourMain:I don't like a challenge sis... buh I like mean girls but if she try to be too mean .. I step back immediately ... |
Re: Why Would A Guy Want To Talk To You Even When He Thinks You're Mean? by femi4: 3:17pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
YourMain:I refuse to be tempted |
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