EggovinMma:



Make I tell you something, just like women, it's not good to show maximum care for a man.Any man that wants me to do all those lovey dovey thing up there must be deserving of it. The op say make we treat our men like babies right! No be breast him dey chop anyhow ke? If he mess up i commot the breast carry am give another person straight!

misspicy:

No mind all dis attention seeking good girls on NL....i dnt even af a problem with her post,truth is i af made such mistakes n i corrected mysef buh the problem i have with this OP and the post is dat,its a biased post,why cnt she add ways men can treat women good too....na likes she want and she don get am.










Kossyablaze see wat i was telling you

EggovinMma:



Hian! !! Loyal ke? ? In this age? what is good for the goose....

chi4ik4:
I'm a victim of this. I'm 31 & my first ever girl friend is pushing me away & she doesn't know. d worst of it all is that she is selfish & I can't marry a selfish woman. I intend to marry her but I have great doubt. over one week now I have not called her & I won't; unlike me that do call her on daily basis. I'm tired of talking & complaining & I wanna really face my work & study now. I think I made a mistake in my relationship. I have not slept with her for 2 years half we have been in this relationship just because I wanna endure until I get married. d worst is that my female friends cares for me 70% more than my own girlfriend. I'm just tired.

Mzflexydeeva:
every single person thinks that till they meet that awesome somebody. The sweetness of been single is called self consoling

youngice:
Op be like

sinizia:
See as my fellow men are hailing the OP as the next thing since slice bread. If it's a thread criticizing the men, the men here would have insulted the living daylight out her, bashing her endlessly. Yeye dey smell.

misspicy:

No mind all dis attention seeking good girls on NL....i dnt even af a problem with her post,truth is i af made such mistakes n i corrected mysef buh the problem i have with this OP and the post is dat,its a biased post,why cnt she add ways men can treat women good too....na likes she want and she don get am.






Kossyablaze see wat i was telling you

ehix89:
no wonder its saggy,keep switchin booby o till u realize u now own a pair of slippers

Mzflexydeeva:
A lot of ladies find making their man happy very difficult. Some even feel making a guy happy is tied only to sex but it is worthy of remembrance that a lot of girls open their legs daily and this still doesn't make the men happy enough to stay with them. Maybe for the minute he wants to experience the excitement of your bosom but appreciating a guy is one thing most ladies overlook.

The number of ladies crying "he broke my heart" would reduce drastically if ladies stopped living their lives like its a fairy tale cartoon.

1. Insecurity:  no matter how insecure you are, its no reason to disrespect your man. Two captains can sail one sheep. Its hard to keep your calm especially if he has a lot of girls are around but shouting and insulting him won't make him pay more attention to you. You simply would be giving him more reasons to look out.

2: Appreciation: never underestimate the power of appreciation. If your man takes good care of you, use ever chance you have got to let him know he's doing a good job. If he looks cute in the morning tell him. If he showers you with gift, thank him. If he listens when you need a friend, be grateful. When you cry and he hugs you, embrace him. A man won't go looking for what he already has. When ladies point out more faults they are pointing at another lady to take their place.

3. The baby in every man: there is a baby in every man that comes to light when he is with the woman he loves the most. Don't see this as weakness. No matter how bad a man feels or angry or disappointed its the duty of the woman in his life to bring out the baby in him and know just how to calm the baby. You can't run away every time he's in a bad mood and expect to keep him.

4. Making him feel at home: around you, he doesn't want who to judge him but he needs someone who sees his strength not the weakness.

There are a couple of things ladies do without realising they are sending the men in their lives packing.
- challenging his authority as a man.
-always winning.
-nagging.
- being bossy.
Funniest part is, they always have an excuse and it is always this is who I am. Who you are is who you decided to be. There is always room for change especially when you make up your mind to be with the person. You must understand a man will always be the man irrespective of what you bring to the table.
Realizing that there is a difference between an humble woman and a stupid one  will hel you better appreciate that a man is your superior but you are his partner and never try to be the man especially when you know he really loves you and wants the best for you.

Alezy:
Lolz. ..u think it's good for the gander in this case? Listin not like he can't be loyal but ur aspect of it should show n if possible be greater. humility of the highest.

A help place for him as said by the bible.

This is one very big problem causing divorce every now and then in marriages. No man, I repeat. ...no man will put a proud, not loyal woman at home.

A woman whi dnt care much abt making the man her home instead thinking of how to sky rocket in her own ambition should pls stay single. my candid advice.

ehix89:
no wonder its saggy,keep switchin booby o till u realize u now own a pair of slippers

NemzySeries:

.......were in kwara do u stay?

CHUKSKALIDONN:

I was saying you're the type that interests men....even though u pretend not to take it serious.

vickydevoka:

eggovin u fine die. Abeg if him fuckup carry de breast give me make i de suck de go

Mzflexydeeva:
tell me more..... experience they say is d best teacher but it's not stated that it has to be urs. Knowledge is collective

Inioluwa01:

EggovinMma:


Nobody is talking about being proud and disloyal . Besides I am speaking for my self here, any man that wants me to treat him like a king must deserve it.I am like a computer, what you type is what you see.If he is a stupid man, definitely I will be a stupid wife.

londoner:


Lol op did mention the inner baby. This thread appeals to that. Op makes some good points though.

bukatyne:


Your female friends care more than your gf?

Don't you think that is a problem in itself?

You are 31. If you are not interested in marrying a selfish woman, break up (tell her the reason), take stock of the signs you missed/ignored and look for a better girlfriend.

Alezy:
so hw will ur marriage/relationship work? ? u intend righting a wrong with wrong? ? obviously that cannot work

sinizia:


Yeah, she made good points all through, but I hope the men reciprocates it too because relationships are between 2 people not one.