My best friend has been dating this guy for
about 18 months. She loves him and he loves
her. Becuase of her I got close to this guy too,
hes now one of my best friends. the problem is that he sent me a text message the other day saying he'd picked
the wrong girl, that he'd loved me since he met
me and we had so much more in common than
him and his girlfriend. he said he hates his
decision to date my best friend but he'll live
with it. He said he loves me and wants to be with me so much, but that he's not the guy I'm
chasing and he thinks he can live with that.
I don't know what I'm supposed to do! I dont
love him, I dont want to be in a relationship with
him. but how am I supposed to tell my best
friend that the guy she loves, the guy shes thinking about marriage and kids with, actually
loves me and regrets his decision to date her?
I dont want to lose my friendship with her!

Nice advert, op .... Now we know you are 500 yards of boo/wife material



I have also fallen into love with you... please check your mail and reply my pm before I kill myself


Much love from..


BUYGALA

Tell him you're not interested. Simple!

Don't tell me you're thinking of...

Just becarefu!, as in very careful! Tell him point blank you aren't interested. What manner of guy is that?!

Do what you think is best. I won't say go into a relationship with him, or don't, but just put in mind that life is all about Karma.

If he is ready to dump your friend for you, he can dump you for another. Be careful.

Best friend boyfriend


Ask the lady above me. . .she read guidance and counselling.

#Yol'O

If you don't luv him and also don't want to break ur girlfriend's heart as you said, why don't you just tell him point-blank rather than coming here to tell us on NL and...

I dey suspect you joor.....

Hope you know the difference between lust and love.

spare yourself the drama, if you want to get laid look elsewhere. Why do I have a feeling it's you gunning for him.

Twaci:
Do what you think is best. I won't say go into a relationship with him, or don't, but just put in mind that life is all about Karma.

If he is ready to dump your friend for you, he can dump you for another. Be careful.

Not up for a relationship with him, problem is how to tell my friend without hurting her feelings.

Twaci:
Do what you think is best. I won't say go into a relationship with him, or don't, but just put in mind that life is all about Karma.

If he is ready to dump your friend for you, he can dump you for another. Be careful.

good advise

let her run for life

cos even if it works, know you will have ONE ENEMY that may cost you more

quiinnBee:

Not up for a relationship with him, problem is how to tell her without hurting her feelings.

Well its better u be straight with her and hurt her now than for her to find out later and hate you.

It'd be hard, i know, but you would have to try. For her sake.

robosky02:



good advise

let her run for life

cos even if it works, know you will have ONE ENEMY that may cost you more

Very true. And we all know that girls can be unforgiving, especially when it has to do with someone they truly have feelings for.

richommie:

Best friend boyfriend

Ask the lady above me. . .she read guidance and counselling.
#Yol'O

Yolo, how your crush sef?

Twaci:
Well its better u be straight with her and hurt her now than for her to find out later and hate you.

It'd be hard, i know, but you would have to try. For her sake.

true that, i have to....thanks much

I smell something here...

if you seriously don't want your friendship with her to break, you know wat to do..













oya! #gerrarahia mehn

quiinnBee:
true that, i have to....thanks much

You are welcome.

The way you are sounding, it is most likely that you are the one in love with him; you are trying to convince him with your own subtle ways.

You don't really have to tell him anything... This ish happens alot, especially if you are hotter than the friend in question. Just stay away from them. Don't let it get to your head that much and if you really like your friend and she's serious about the guy find a way to tell her. He doesn't love you sha. He wants you, if you get my meaning.

who else is seeing the similarities between this story and the one cooked up by sugarbée a month or two ago.......

it seems every girl's fantasy now is to have her best friend's boyfriend fall in love with her.....

wanting their lives to be some kind of twisted love triangle....

News flash: this is not "the vampire diaries" or "Twilight".

MrsPhyno:
You don't really have to tell him anything... This ish happens alot, especially if you are hotter than the friend in question. Just stay away from them. Don't let it get to your head that much and if you really like your friend and she's serious about the guy find a way to tell her. He doesn't love you sha. He wants you, if you get my meaning.

yes i get it...would tell her when she's back

Twaci:

Yolo, how your crush sef?

lol..i no get any crush ooo. . .
#YolO

AwesomelyMade:
The way you are sounding, it is most likely that you are the one in love with him; you are trying to convince him with your own subtle ways.

No

If you don't wanna loose the friendship with your girlfriend, just discharge her guy and tell him you're not interested.Don't even dream about telling your girlfriend coz that'll be the end of the relationship, trust me, I'm talking from experience. In my own case, it was my friend's husband making sexual advances at me, swearing to divorce my friend and marry me.

How did u know he's in love wit u?? just because he said so mtchewww..use your tongue 2 count your teeth abeg...

Slimzjoe:
See Stories If you where a Caring Friend, you should have Told your Bestie a Long time ago.... That Dude just wants to Shag you both and Walk away

shoulda told her since, but its more complicated than that

modelmike7:
Just becarefu!, as in very careful! Tell him point blank you aren't interested. What manner of guy is that?!

Beats me too

We guys will become a girl's n
best friend to sleep with her.

The guy wants to scatter your friendship with her with his cucumber....... at least he'll have bragging rights when with his friends that he's slept with bestfriends........... next, mother and daughter before switching to sisters.

IamLEGEND1:
who else is seeing the similarities between this story and the one cooked up by sugarbée a month or two ago.......

it seems every girl's fantasy now is to have her best friend's boyfriend fall in love with her.....

wanting their lives to be some kind of twisted love triangle....

News flash: this is not "the vampireries" or "Twilight".

Iamlegend I think I like your sense of thinking,the way you reasoning is quite different from most nairaland guys,have seen most of your comments and they always reasonable...,.... anyway you right the story is similar to that of sugarbree

esosa993:




Iamlegend I think I like your sense of thinking,the way you reasoning is quite different from most nairaland guys,have seen most of your comments and they always reasonable...,.... anyway you right the story is similar to that of sugarbree

abeg abegggggg

the rest of us no go hear word for the next week u guys should stop complimenting this dude

esosa993:




Iamlegend I think I like your sense of thinking,the way you reasoning is quite different from most nairaland guys,have seen most of your comments and they always reasonable...,.... anyway you right the story is similar to that of sugarbree

Thank you honey.

even if this story is remotely true, she has obviously started catching the feels for the guy....

naturally,the solution to this kind of situation is a straightforward one,tell the guy NO...but she had to come to NL to tell us.. is it that she doesn't know what to do abi wetin?

shows the guy has gotten to her head already.

Or maybe she is putting it here so we can see how
"oh so desirable" she is that her best friend's boyfriend has fallen for her....