Am in tertiary institution, during course registration in first semester a beautiful girl walked up to me ask me some questions about how the registration is being done and how to locate her level adviser. At that instance I knew she was a fresher, I didn't take cognizance of her beauty then because I was going through a lot then. Thereafter, during fresher's orientation in my dept she walked up to me to thank me. We exchanged pleasantry and gave me her number. A bosom friend of mine saw me when I was talking with her, he told me he likes the girl and want to date her. I told him no problem that whenever he's ready I'll give him the girl's phone number and he told me to wait until he gets a multimedia phone. I never had the intention of asking the girl out or even to date her. We started chatting on whatsapp and once in a while she pays me visit in my apartment. There was this faithful day that she came, we gisted, ate together and watched movie together when she was about leaving I held her hand and kissed her lips. Eversince then she has been coming to my place and we became very close. I've developed feelings for her and I guess she has too. She came few days ago and met this my friend that had crush on her during orientation, I introduce her as my friend to him. Since then my friend has been telling other guys that I betrayed him, I snatched the girl he had a crush on and it really disgusting. He's ruining my reputation. Please fellow nairalanders did I betray my friend?

No u didn't betray him...ur mind na jonsing man.

No

you did not jare
but you should have told him you like her.

All is fair in love and










War.

MBA...

She was never his babe, so the issue of betrayal is negligible and trifling. Shouldn't even be discussed. Ask him to explain to anyone who cares to listen how you betrayed him.

Although you might have picked interest in her after the friend indicated interest in her. Perhaps you were motivated to chase her and wanted to find out what he saw in this girl you never noticed. Either way, it's still no betrayal. They were never an item.

Lmao........



Let him blame the gods jaree.

Betray who?to think you met the gal first.

he been dey dull
so fire on..

First to come....

But u sef, after giving him her number and being fully aware of his feelings for her, u still go dey kiss her...

Not cool.

you didn't... you are just smarter than him

op one thing you should know is never introduce a girl to any of your male friends as "she is just a friend"
always make it known to them that you like the girl(it does not matter if you like her now or not)
that is just me ... we all are different though...

U shuda told him when the feelings crept in.. It's not okay that uv agreed to help him get her yet u still kissed her.

taa

he shud go to hell

My guy, my guy. First you didn't see anything to love in her until your friend began to show interest in her. Now your guy comes and finds that...ah ah, bros, reason am now. If na you, how you go feel, umh?

henribj:
op one thing you should know is never introduce a girl to any of your male friends as "she is just a friend"
always make it known to them that you like the girl(it does not matter if you like her now or not)
that is just me ... we all are different though...

Yeah i will have to subscribe to your point

damilareoye:
you didn't... you are just smarter than him

smart ke! Two dull guys - can't even blame him cos the girl likes him. His fren sef- him guy just get to know babe and he rushed in. I can't completely blame him also. Complicated situation. Like I said, the girl likes Op, His fren shud understand and move on.

You did the right thing by not letting that beautiful girl slip from you. About the reputation stuff, let him continue reporting you while you keep lashing her. He lost so tell him to suck it up but on the other hand........YOU FVCKED UP

Op, let's not deceive ourselves, you self use style mess up somehow sha

In fact, na two of una mess up

Your friend on the other hand should have showed a propriety of maturity by letting go rather than telling it to cats and dogs

Of course you did!

Avoid love triangle

Twaci:
First to come....

But u sef, after giving him her number and being fully aware of his feelings for her, u still go dey kiss her...

Not cool.

He didn't give his friend the number na,the friend wan buy better phone 1st b4 em go collect number and that's where he bleeped up

I just laughed after reading this story

@op,you didn't betray your friend,you also have to go and warn that your friend to stop tarnishing your image unnecessarily.

You both are on the wrong sha... Fighting over some girl you probably wont remember in 2 years. Set your priorities right and stop kissing girls of whom your friends have already called dibs on.#guy code

Bleep your friend.
Hes a dullard

Delay is dangerous...

That your guy have a bit of low self esteem
He needs to work on it before it affects him on big issues

U knew her first and she became a friend u had no crush on.....FINE!! Ur friend later knew her, had a crush on her and even told you probably realising from u,dat u r jex mutual friends ..Then suddenly wen she visited,her LOVE crawled into ur heart!! Put urself in his shoes so as to knw how painful it is..

But, by painting ur name red, he is taking it too far...

ShayGirl:
U knew her first and she became a friend u had no crush on.....FINE!! Ur friend later knew her, had a crush on her and even told you probably realising from u,dat u r jex mutual friends ..Then suddenly wen she visited,her LOVE crawled into ur heart!! Put urself in his shoes so as to knw how painful it is..

But, by painting ur name red, he is taking it too far...

isn't it past your bedtime?