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Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by 400billionman: 1:29pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Thank you mods for honoring my front page plea. Yes, what's the topic again. ? |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by hob(m): 1:29pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
You have said it all. Go on and may God guide you its never a yes or no thing when it comes to a relationship Im sure you know the consequences,so when it happens...u ve to deal with it No small pikin again 1 Like |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by fajani(m): 1:29pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
it seems this little girl know too much, no need for advice......... |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by mart2k(m): 1:30pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
falconey:Dnt mind her, I trust guys, they wl soon finish her 1 Like |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Nobody: 1:30pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Diamondqueen:You seems to know a lot , my dear go ahead. Let me tell you some alliens you may meet on this journey. 1) unwanted pregnancy: that guy u feel loves you so much may not be bold to own up. You'll be left to deal with whatever comes with it. 2) STDS: You know what I mean , they are not written on the face of anyone that is infected. 3) You maybe out of control, for a kids your age to claim you know too much, I don't think you'll listen to advice even when you need one. I'll advice you to wait a little reason "I was once a teen! I took some decisions that affected my life negatively. 7 Likes |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by sparklesJ(f): 1:31pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
I advice u don't start what u can't finish @ an early stage...to avoid regrets later....there are many guys on earth.. patience s better my dear |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by 3rdlegxxx(m): 1:32pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Diamondqueen: i like this your comment right here but let me ask you this, the girls she that have experienced this, u really think at the beginning they knew it would go bad, truth is, you never know these things just try and thread with caution, be friends for now, atttraction, emotions, romance would eventually creep in, you might want to do anything for him and him likewise for you, just make sure you have a 3rd party kinda friend that u know understands issues of sex, dating and all that and wouldn't be biased with his opinions and advice to you. have fun, be good but stay and play safe, enjoy |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Nobody: 1:32pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
LordOfTheWeed: U no wan fall niggass hand abi? So dem go talk say na lie U wey before u go don download me insult |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Nobody: 1:33pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Have you had sex before? |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Bollinger(m): 1:33pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Diamondqueen: OP. Don't mind all these hypocrites. I bet you they did worse. The common sense response will be to wait till you are at least 17 but you will not take that advice. So, just be careful and smart about it if you do decide to have one. Make sure the guy is within your age range and say no to sex until you are at least 18. Your focus for now should be college and good grades. Good luck. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Glomoni: 1:33pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Diamondqueen: Miss know all, u wants to offer your self for experiment abi?. If u did not see what u want u switch to another guy, and u think the next guy will be looking at u like the previous one?. Beta face ur studies till ur 23, at ur age u can hardly handle emotional trauma. A word is enough......... |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Orikinla(m): 1:34pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
NO. Grow up first. You are not yet emotionally mature and secure to have a relationship. Relationships come with many challenges of human temptations and trials you are not prepared for until you are an adult. Heartbreaks, STDs, unwanted pregnancies, abortions and financial demands are common trials for lovers. Please, I beg, face your studies. I have seen terrible things happen to teenage girls in relationship. Two of them committed suicide when their boyfriends dumped them after getting tired of forking them. Another girl stole more than N200, 000 from her mother and gave the money to her desperate poor boyfriend. Another one was gang raped by cultists from the rival cult of her boyfriend's cult. Beware of all the dangers, before asking or looking for a boyfriend just because you want a regular sex partner. Take girl. 1 Like |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Emokai3(m): 1:34pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Why not?? U ar even old enough 2 hav a kid..but b careful |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by alaskido(m): 1:34pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Hmmmmmm 16+. In this new generation anything can happen. The right age is 18 but that does not mean that you cannot have a boyfriend. A boyfriend does not mean a sex partner. This is what some people do not understand. We have boyfriends and girlfriends we make while in secondary schools. We have lovers which means sex is involved. We have fiancée which is a woman you are engaged to and about to get married. So my dear you are free to have a boyfriend but be very careful. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Nobody: 1:34pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Diamondqueen:you already made up your mind before coming here. I can tell from this post. Are you in the position to talk about restraining one's kid.... I ll advice you think about how to go about being successful, now am not talking about your books as you assume you are " intelligent and doing well ". You have not done well at all as you have not made news. Now think about how to make news and not dating a dude. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Nobody: 1:35pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
On a more strict note,you don't sound serious. If you are good academically,don't rock the boat. By having a bf,you may rock it big time. While kids of 9 years old are doing a Bsc degree in UK and USA, you are busy thinking of being hopelessly in love. If you think you're wiser than Solomon,why do you seek for people's advise? Your problem is purely over-soji. 1 Like |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by efemty001: 1:35pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
guy u badt o... she just wanna taste it.. free d lil bae i beg.. |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Nobody: 1:35pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
OP. i am always available to mend your heart if and when your kid boyfriend breaks your heart. Smh for all this kids today. small time I will start hearing stories that touch the heart. |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by cdoffx(m): 1:35pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Diamondqueen:you already made up your mind from your post so go ahead and follow your mind |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Firefire(m): 1:36pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
ajepako: Ajepako ore mi, she is not from the north, I guess. Honestly, she needs to face her studies and nothing more. Any other advise at this age is evil. OP, you can't face your studies enough until have you reach the peak of your goal. I leave you in peace with this scripture... "I beseech you therefore, (Diamondqueen), by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God". Romans 12:1-2 Shalom! 4 Likes |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by moses425: 1:36pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Look fvck is free if e sweet u chop am small small bcuz awof dey run belle. NT: the tin nor get shoulder be warn... I don talk my mind |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Collinsemegreat(m): 1:37pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Youthful lust! Flee!... The thing is that you feel u love dat pesin bt u don't u lust after him... Ur mind is made up already! But my question wil u like to get married to him naw if he gets u preg? If u tink ur feelngs ar controlable den dnt start a relationshp if u do dat means it's nt contrable dear... I had a similiar issue when i was 16+! I was active at 2go den, i den saw sme username wit my uncle(young though), i wanted to try wat it feels lik to be in a relatnshp! I took one and added her we became friendx i even visit her! My mom strugled to register waec for me. I dnt like praisng myseld academical bt am gud and u asume also dat my feelings to edu can be tempered wit! I even chat wit her in skul becos she wrote jamb, and waec at ss2 watin for admisn and am in ss2 tryng waec d first time... Guex wat i had only 4 C-2A 2C. I was perplexed and til today at 18 i don't need it! Even if i have feelings! Do u tink d Bible was wrng wen it said feel youthful lust? it took d grace of God for me to rewrite and i made it. NEVER THING U CAN CNTRL UR FEELINGS! U can be distroyed essili tru dat dear... Be warned 2 Likes |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Marvellouzkk(f): 1:37pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
To me i disagree, first of all you are not of age no matter how intelligent you claim you are, secondly there are some issues you need to handle maturely thirdly the guy you claim you love, can he handle your financial bills? and probably you become pregnant can he sand the pressure and claim responsibility? To me my dearest patience they said does it, please keep cool not now or you find yourself in an unplanned destination. thank you |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Nobody: 1:37pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
wait for me... |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Nobody: 1:38pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
avoid sex |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by refreshrate: 1:38pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
CC: Sanusi Lamido Sanusi your attention is needed here oga 1 Like |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by sats: 1:39pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
when you carry belle or the guy knack you,leave you come back to this your post and read it again i am 100% perfectly completely sure you will have an answer |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by LordOfTheWeed: 1:39pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
halfrica:Hand wey do normal no fit fall na I know i don't possess any of those characters you aforelisted but i can only develop it if a lady push me to do so, and that's the same reason why guys mostly act funny at times, na una dey cause am.. .. .. And i can't remember insulting you on this forum ooo Isn't this my first time of quoting you? 1 Like |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by refreshrate: 1:40pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Marvellouzkk: Allow am na, the thing wey dey hungry am no go let am see road. Experience they say... |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by ajepako(f): 1:40pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Firefire: I know jare.. Just being nutty.. Bawo ni eeyan mi? 1 Like |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by columbus007(m): 1:41pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Just look @ursef ,do you think it's a good thing to have a bf? |
Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Nobody: 1:41pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
LordOfTheWeed:u av been insultin ladies i read nd pass by Any ways u sound cool headed i love that keep it up |
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