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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by CertifiedSamuel: 11:01pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
lonelydora: And yet you are 'lonely'? According to your moniker 2 Likes |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Fidelismaria: 11:01pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
Yawn walks outta thread |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by tellwisdom: 11:01pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
Spits profusely |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by MadCow1: 11:02pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
I will always pick a Graduate.. This is 2015. The Hussle is realer than ever before. For economic and even for the sake of your kids, you need a fine and well educated chick riding shotgun. My advice: Clean your room sir. She (the graduate chick) is not your wife yet nor is she your maid. This is the phase when you should be doing all you can to please a woman and that includes fixing your joint before inviting her over. Plot twist: What if the school cert chick is doing all these eye service shiit to ensnare you? Has that thought crossed your mind? 15 Likes |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Edipee(m): 11:02pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
Manners all the way. #My Opinion though. |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Originalsly: 11:03pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
I say go for Miss Manners. She may have more potential and can achieve more than Ms Degree.....after all... she was denied the opportunity because of lack of finance. She can still earn a degree. She is showing you respect...that she is humble enough to take care of a husband and home and therefore kids. Ms Degree cannot now cultivate manners... she is already set in stone with that... so should you know you would face embarrassment when out in public ... and with your family or friends. She is above you and above doing tasks that she considers humiliating.she is not going to cook or clean or wash regardless of the financial situation...you would even be expected in such a situation to be washing her ehmmm ... let me shut up. Look before you leap. 1 Like |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by refreshrate: 11:03pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
elantraceey: i been no wan talk am before e become matter of english is not my language, which is often the case kai but babe you arsh o shooo... |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Nobody: 11:03pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
which one do you relate well with? that should be your choice... the graduate seems like a better choice to me. 1 Like |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by refreshrate: 11:04pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
tellwisdom: you get malaria? |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by MadCow1: 11:04pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
CertifiedSamuel: Shiit... Straight out of nowhere.. |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by zheroes(m): 11:05pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
Its obvious you will go for the graduate lady even if we advice you otherwise, even in your confused state you know what you want, my worry is from the way you spoke the graduate lady will dominate you, its the truth because you seem to revere her so much. beauty will fade but good manners last a life time, I don't see any bad manners in the graduate lady though because I don't need my wife to kneel and say a greeting to me, I had an ex who would rather say a hi rather than a good morning, I didn't have a problem with it, we loved each other enough. I really hope you will understand that, in the end though you decide what you can cope with. 1 Like |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by drmikeadams(m): 11:06pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
all these indomie girls dey support the girl wey dey blow grammar.....blow grammar em no go Sabi cook, em beauty go enter em block head...una go employ house help to dey cook for u cos madam beauty no go wan use her manicure hand cook or wash...indomie girls dey tell u make u go buy washing machine...hian...shebi u go still come back tell us ur beautiful wife is cheating on u...good manners good manners good manners good manners good manners... 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Missonas(f): 11:07pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
elantraceey:Or the educated one from bending and being more homely/wifely/respectful.Change is constant |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by akinlex(m): 11:07pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
Manners over beauty! Not that the semi literate is not beautiful. |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by DOWHILE: 11:10pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
Beauty "they say" is in the eye of the beholder. The sku cert lady may not be very beautiful but, trust me no one is ugly. U can always Behind her up if u so care about beauty. Besides, define the word; "educated" pls. Education ain't about being in control of grammar. I understand wat u r trying to say here, but u've got to weigh ur options very well. Unless u are scared of liability, but if u av enuf, u can always set her up big time.......trust me, u don't wanna get married to a wrong wife 1 Like |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by christinie(f): 11:10pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
Most ladies are wiser than you think. When a lady thinks she got it all made she will not see any need to pretend to be what she's not but any lady who feels inadequate in any way eg lack of education/beauty/good shape can do anything character-wise to convince a man she got eyes on to settle for her, especially when she detects that she has a better competitor out there. It's not bad for one to strive to get what one wants, my only problem with such ladies is that some of them seize to do all that after marriage, especially after making about two babies. Go for what your heart desires in a woman to avoid cheating after marriage. Marry someone you are proud of. Even the most hard-working of ladies still employ house helps/nannies to help in the house chores and also buy washing machines, vacuum cleaners, grinding machines etc. If your educated/pretty lady isn't as hard working as you want, why not communicate to her? Marriage is a lifetime legal contract. Go for what makes you satisfied to avoid future regrets. Cheers! 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by ksbusari(m): 11:11pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
echomog1:u talk tru self bt u knw woman could be tricky sha? When she finally gets in she will nw start to display hw half-educated she is. In my own opinion, d educated girl better sha. |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Missonas(f): 11:12pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
tido77:Help her further na.Or better still encourage her to with her school cert.People with lesser qualifications easily get jobs compared to those with higher degrees |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 11:12pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
elantraceey:neither do you sound educated.... Like he said, she couldn't further due to finance..... Is it a crime if she couldn't afford to further? 1 Like |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Nobody: 11:13pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
tido77:you are still irresponsible and not ready for marriage Did you know why I said so? |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Youngpo413: 11:16pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
OZAOEKPE:na so,beautiful ladies are not good for marriage. |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by emmatok(m): 11:18pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
tido77: Guy her good manners might be to inferiority complex. So she has to stoop to conquer. If you understand that phrase. And she will change immediately you marry her But the educated lady is showing her true self, and I suggest you go for the educated. 4 Likes |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by canalily(m): 11:18pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
This lady is educated too... but look at her again 4 Likes
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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Bondesniger(m): 11:19pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
Big lie bro It takes just 4years to educate one And forever to tell the other how to takecare of the house, child rendition, respect friends and family. |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by nigerianvenom(m): 11:19pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
tido77: Actually wen ir comes to marital issues, i hate advicing cos my advice may make or mar someone's else's relationship. But let me ask;do u think if d not so educated lady was educated, she would have being that humble? Isaac newton's law states;for every action, there is equal and opposite reaction. Ask urself, why do people start bin proud once they get admitted into school. Her humility is all she could offer thats why shes acting d way she does. D other girl also feels she has no competition thats why shes exhibiting some lackadaisical attitude |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by robosky02(m): 11:20pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
manners |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Timoleon(m): 11:20pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
rionel: i am not worried! The previous generation that cared about morality, general knowledge, nationalism....what is their positive contribution to this country? They are obviously worse than yahoo boys. criminals, the majority of them. when tomorow comes, there will be the few good eggs amongst the many bad eggs! so it has been since the time of adam and eve, so will it be till the end of time. The mistake we kip making is to always assume that morality is static. morality to our fore fathers was a woman walking bare breasted, but wen a woman walks with alittle cleavage showing today she is ajugded to be immoral...,when God created adam and eve, he was ok with them walking naked, the say they knew they were naked, was the day they became immoral...the standards for 2035/2040 are not yet set, i am in the least worried! if the europeabs were worried about the actions of their youths, they wouldnt have the better countries they have today....their youths raided african lands for slaves that wotked their lands, enriched their lords and provided foundations for capital accumulation. here we enshackle the youths and expect them to do exploits. I am worried about the remainder of 2015 and not 2035 afterall, ther might not be a Nigeria in 20years! 3 Likes |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by lonelydora: 11:21pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
CertifiedSamuel: I am happily married bros. Moniker can deceive you, you know? Ask MadCow1 if he's actually mad. 3 Likes |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by haykayjay(m): 11:22pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by ahamonyeka(m): 11:23pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
Of course manners. |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by omosefeeguaibor(f): 11:23pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
It's very relative, because who knows the one with the good manners can as well be faking it, wait till you marry her. While on the other hand the miss graduate, can as well feel so high and mighty, based on she's educated, but @ least she's not pretending around u, wen she doesn't do the chores or bow to greet you. You my good man will have the final say not nairalanders 1 Like |
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