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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by CertifiedSamuel: 11:01pm On Oct 01, 2015
lonelydora:
All I see is.........

One is a career lady


One is a house wife.


The choice is yours.

In my time, I went for beauty first and God added manners, command of grammar, graduate, etc. for me.

And yet you are 'lonely'? According to your moniker smiley

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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Fidelismaria: 11:01pm On Oct 01, 2015
Yawn walks outta thread
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by tellwisdom: 11:01pm On Oct 01, 2015
Spits profusely angry
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by MadCow1: 11:02pm On Oct 01, 2015
I will always pick a Graduate..


This is 2015. The Hussle is realer than ever before. For economic and even for the sake of your kids, you need a fine and well educated chick riding shotgun.

My advice: Clean your room sir. She (the graduate chick) is not your wife yet nor is she your maid. This is the phase when you should be doing all you can to please a woman and that includes fixing your joint before inviting her over.


Plot twist: What if the school cert chick is doing all these eye service shiit to ensnare you? Has that thought crossed your mind?

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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Edipee(m): 11:02pm On Oct 01, 2015
Manners all the way. #My Opinion though.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Originalsly: 11:03pm On Oct 01, 2015
I say go for Miss Manners. She may have more potential and can achieve more than Ms Degree.....after all... she was denied the opportunity because of lack of finance. She can still earn a degree. She is showing you respect...that she is humble enough to take care of a husband and home and therefore kids. Ms Degree cannot now cultivate manners... she is already set in stone with that... so should you know you would face embarrassment when out in public ... and with your family or friends. She is above you and above doing tasks that she considers humiliating.she is not going to cook or clean or wash regardless of the financial situation...you would even be expected in such a situation to be washing her ehmmm ... let me shut up. Look before you leap.

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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by refreshrate: 11:03pm On Oct 01, 2015
elantraceey:
Sorry to say, you don't even sound like a graduate.

What stops the non-educated one from getting a degree?

i been no wan talk am before e become matter of english is not my language, which is often the case

kai but babe you arsh o

shooo...
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Nobody: 11:03pm On Oct 01, 2015
which one do you relate well with? that should be your choice... the graduate seems like a better choice to me.

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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by refreshrate: 11:04pm On Oct 01, 2015
tellwisdom:
Spits profusely angry

you get malaria?
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by MadCow1: 11:04pm On Oct 01, 2015
CertifiedSamuel:


And yet you are 'lonely'? According to your moniker smiley


Shiit... Straight out of nowhere..


Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by zheroes(m): 11:05pm On Oct 01, 2015
Its obvious you will go for the graduate lady even if we advice you otherwise, even in your confused state you know what you want, my worry is from the way you spoke the graduate lady will dominate you, its the truth because you seem to revere her so much. beauty will fade but good manners last a life time, I don't see any bad manners in the graduate lady though because I don't need my wife to kneel and say a greeting to me, I had an ex who would rather say a hi rather than a good morning, I didn't have a problem with it, we loved each other enough. I really hope you will understand that, in the end though you decide what you can cope with.

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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by drmikeadams(m): 11:06pm On Oct 01, 2015
grin grin all these indomie girls dey support the girl wey dey blow grammar.....blow grammar em no go Sabi cook, em beauty go enter em block head...una go employ house help to dey cook for u cos madam beauty no go wan use her manicure hand cook or wash...indomie girls dey tell u make u go buy washing machine...hian...shebi u go still come back tell us ur beautiful wife is cheating on u...good manners good manners good manners good manners good manners...

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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Missonas(f): 11:07pm On Oct 01, 2015
elantraceey:
Sorry to say, you don't even sound like a graduate.

What stops the non-educated one from getting a degree?
Or the educated one from bending and being more homely/wifely/respectful.Change is constant
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by akinlex(m): 11:07pm On Oct 01, 2015
Manners over beauty! Not that the semi literate is not beautiful.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by DOWHILE: 11:10pm On Oct 01, 2015
Beauty "they say" is in the eye of the beholder. The sku cert lady may not be very beautiful but, trust me no one is ugly. U can always Behind her up if u so care about beauty. Besides, define the word; "educated" pls. Education ain't about being in control of grammar. I understand wat u r trying to say here, but u've got to weigh ur options very well. Unless u are scared of liability, but if u av enuf, u can always set her up big time.......trust me, u don't wanna get married to a wrong wife

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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by christinie(f): 11:10pm On Oct 01, 2015
Most ladies are wiser than you think.

When a lady thinks she got it all made she will not see any need to pretend to be what she's not but any lady who feels inadequate in any way eg lack of education/beauty/good shape can do anything character-wise to convince a man she got eyes on to settle for her, especially when she detects that she has a better competitor out there.


It's not bad for one to strive to get what one wants, my only problem with such ladies is that some of them seize to do all that after marriage, especially after making about two babies.




Go for what your heart desires in a woman to avoid cheating after marriage.



Marry someone you are proud of.



Even the most hard-working of ladies still employ house helps/nannies to help in the house chores and also buy washing machines, vacuum cleaners, grinding machines etc.





If your educated/pretty lady isn't as hard working as you want, why not communicate to her?



Marriage is a lifetime legal contract.





Go for what makes you satisfied to avoid future regrets.

Cheers!

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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by ksbusari(m): 11:11pm On Oct 01, 2015
echomog1:
na big wah for you oh! Is he getting married for ppl or for himself? Tell me one thing you'll do and please everybody? Bro marry d uneducated girl n get her educated. Education is an acquisition n not inborn.she has shown to u her natural good attitude which carefulness n caring is included n I think thats wat a man needs for a wife. All d attributes d educated one has d uneducated one can get too but d ones d uneducated one have d educated one can't get it because its not in her foundation. REMEMBER THAT YOU NEED A GUN IF YOUR WIFE TOO FINE.
u talk tru self bt u knw woman could be tricky sha? When she finally gets in she will nw start to display hw half-educated she is. In my own opinion, d educated girl better sha.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Missonas(f): 11:12pm On Oct 01, 2015
tido77:
not sure if u read with understanding , the lady stopped at sec school coz of finance. U need to return to nursery school dude.
Help her further na.Or better still encourage her to with her school cert.People with lesser qualifications easily get jobs compared to those with higher degrees
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 11:12pm On Oct 01, 2015
elantraceey:
Sorry to say, you don't even sound like a graduate.

What stops the non-educated one from getting a degree?
neither do you sound educated.... Like he said, she couldn't further due to finance..... Is it a crime if she couldn't afford to further?

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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Nobody: 11:13pm On Oct 01, 2015
tido77:
I am limping between decisions, I need your piece of advice to buoy my wobbling senses. A well educated lady is in my radar, I like ladies that control grammar very well, in fact I am a sucker for such ladies. This my lady controls grammar so well and she is beautiful, a graduate.

Now, I also have a young lady that comes around, and I observed that they are both different in manners. She is not a graduate, she stopped at secondary school level due to finance problem.

When this not so schooled lady comes around she always notices disorganized things and would arrange them, would notice dirty floor and mop up,wash dirty dishes etc. She would not greet me without bending her left knee slightly to show respect. She is not as beautiful as the educated lady though.

The graduate lady do none of these things, all we do is just gist.

Lately the school cert lady makes me feel the warmth of a caring lady, I am beginning to notice her more.

I am a graduate with tastes, I don't know what I want again, I am confused, somebody advise.
you are still irresponsible and not ready for marriage undecided

Did you know why I said so?
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Youngpo413: 11:16pm On Oct 01, 2015
OZAOEKPE:
"I fvck beauties and I marry manners". Quote me anywhere
na so,beautiful ladies are not good for marriage.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by emmatok(m): 11:18pm On Oct 01, 2015
tido77:
I am limping between decisions, I need your piece of advice to buoy my wobbling senses. A well educated lady is in my radar, I like ladies that control grammar very well, in fact I am a sucker for such ladies. This my lady controls grammar so well and she is beautiful, a graduate.

Now, I also have a young lady that comes around, and I observed that they are both different in manners. She is not a graduate, she stopped at secondary school level due to finance problem.

When this not so schooled lady comes around she always notices disorganized things and would arrange them, would notice dirty floor and mop up,wash dirty dishes etc. She would not greet me without bending her left knee slightly to show respect. She is not as beautiful as the educated lady though.

The graduate lady do none of these things, all we do is just gist.

Lately the school cert lady makes me feel the warmth of a caring lady, I am beginning to notice her more.

I am a graduate with tastes, I don't know what I want again, I am confused, somebody advise.

Guy her good manners might be to inferiority complex.
So she has to stoop to conquer. If you understand that phrase.

And she will change immediately you marry her

But the educated lady is showing her true self, and I suggest you go for the educated.

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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by canalily(m): 11:18pm On Oct 01, 2015
This lady is educated too... but look at her again winkcool

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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Bondesniger(m): 11:19pm On Oct 01, 2015
Big lie bro
It takes just 4years to educate one


And forever to tell the other how to takecare of the house, child rendition, respect friends and family.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by nigerianvenom(m): 11:19pm On Oct 01, 2015
tido77:
thanks bro

Actually wen ir comes to marital issues, i hate advicing cos my advice may make or mar someone's else's relationship.
But let me ask;do u think if d not so educated lady was educated, she would have being that humble?
Isaac newton's law states;for every action, there is equal and opposite reaction.

Ask urself, why do people start bin proud once they get admitted into school.
Her humility is all she could offer thats why shes acting d way she does.
D other girl also feels she has no competition thats why shes exhibiting some lackadaisical attitude
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by robosky02(m): 11:20pm On Oct 01, 2015
manners
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Timoleon(m): 11:20pm On Oct 01, 2015
rionel:
THE COMING GENERATION SCARES ME...REAL HARD! While we have been busy talking about Nigeria of today, I wonder if we have spared a thought about how this country will be in the next TWENTY-FIVE years. On October 1, 1979,when Alhaji Shehu Usman Aliyu Shagari was sworn-in as
President, Goodluck Jonathan was just a 22-year old undergraduate of University of Port-Harcourt. Shagari was 54 years old. Ayo Fayose was 19 years old. Bukola Saraki was 17. Yemi Osinbajo was 22. The generation of the likes of Shagari, Richard Akinjide, Adisa Akinloye, Sabo Bakin Zuwo,Ifeanyi Nwobodo, Ume Ezeoke, Akin Omoboriowo, Olusola
Saraki, Sunday Awoniyi,Garba Nadama, Awal Ibrahim and so on have gone for good! Some of us in our 20s and 30s, when in school, either in the university or secondary school, had lofty dreams, both personal and societal. We were always motivated by nationalists and inventors who had impacted positively on the cause of humanity. We were voracious readers of novels and other books. Nelkon for our Ordinary Level Physics, Lambert for Chemistry, B.O ADELEKE and Goh ChengLeong for our Geography, Phebean Ogundipe for Practical English and others like that. We were always flaunting our knowledge of current affairs. Inter- school quiz competition was the in-thing.Fast forward 35 years on and you are shocked and disturbed. Have you ever spoken to or engaged a 20 year-old boy? Ask him what motivates him and he is likely to mention music,hip hop to be precise. He has hundreds of downloaded songs on his phone. He can sing all of them off hand. He knows all the singles of Nice,Neato C, Timaya, Davido, Whiz Kid off had. But he does not know anything about history of nationalism in the country. Ideas about good society, responsible family and good conduct do not motivate him. He just wants to make money because his friend who does yahoo is rich and rides a good car, an SUV! The things that interest him are things that do not add value. He has google but never uses it for advancement of knowledge but to download porn and other inanities. Yet, in TWENTY years time, they are the ones that will be contesting to become Governors, Senators,Reps Members and even President. They belong to a generation that does not care about morality. They belong to a generation that is motivated only by money and it's acquisition. By 2035 to 2040, they will be our Senators,Reps, Governors and so on. I wonder if we have ever spared a thought how this country will look like under them. I told a man recently and these are my words: IF A GUY WHO IS IN LAGOS COULD USE FALSE PRETENCE TO OBTAIN $20,000 FROM SOMEONE IN UNITED STATES, WHAT DO YOU THINK WILL HAPPEN IF SUCH A GUY BECOMES A STATE GOVERNOR AND IS IN CHARGE OF AN ALLOCATION HE DOES NOT EVEN HAVE TO OBTAIN UNDER FALSE PRETENCE? WHICH HIS STATE IS STATUTORILY ENTITLED TO. I am worried, deeply worried. Are You? Forwarded as received from a friend.

i am not worried! The previous generation that cared about morality, general knowledge, nationalism....what is their positive contribution to this country? They are obviously worse than yahoo boys. criminals, the majority of them. when tomorow comes, there will be the few good eggs amongst the many bad eggs! so it has been since the time of adam and eve, so will it be till the end of time. The mistake we kip making is to always assume that morality is static. morality to our fore fathers was a woman walking bare breasted, but wen a woman walks with alittle cleavage showing today she is ajugded to be immoral...,when God created adam and eve, he was ok with them walking naked, the say they knew they were naked, was the day they became immoral...the standards for 2035/2040 are not yet set, i am in the least worried! if the europeabs were worried about the actions of their youths, they wouldnt have the better countries they have today....their youths raided african lands for slaves that wotked their lands, enriched their lords and provided foundations for capital accumulation. here we enshackle the youths and expect them to do exploits. I am worried about the remainder of 2015 and not 2035 afterall, ther might not be a Nigeria in 20years!

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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by lonelydora: 11:21pm On Oct 01, 2015
CertifiedSamuel:


And yet you are 'lonely'? According to your moniker smiley

I am happily married bros. Moniker can deceive you, you know? Ask MadCow1 if he's actually mad.

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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by haykayjay(m): 11:22pm On Oct 01, 2015
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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by ahamonyeka(m): 11:23pm On Oct 01, 2015
Of course manners.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by omosefeeguaibor(f): 11:23pm On Oct 01, 2015
It's very relative, because who knows the one with the good manners can as well be faking it, wait till you marry her. While on the other hand the miss graduate, can as well feel so high and mighty, based on she's educated, but @ least she's not pretending around u, wen she doesn't do the chores or bow to greet you. You my good man will have the final say not nairalanders

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