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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by bettercreature(m): 11:23pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
OZAOEKPE:My thought exactly,thump up |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by superbloke(m): 11:23pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
I don't believe this your story. I find it hard to believe that a graduate, as you call yourself, who's looking to get married, is caught in a dilemma of choice between a well-spoken graduate lady and a well mannered semi-literate and that's it. I mean, these are the most important things to you? How beautiful a lady is and how well she speaks or the fact that she cleans up after you? What happened to connection, dreams, shared vision and how much of a better person she makes you? How much do you know them? I don't know if you're ready for marriage. Or maybe you need to share the full story. 13 Likes |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Nobody: 11:24pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
Marry beauty nd face d heat dt cums afta it |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Cameleon72(f): 11:25pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
You are not confused rather you need rest. If you still insist on advise marry the two of them and graduate will be your ceremonial wife. Promiscious men always confused of tastes. 2 Likes |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Tamakay(m): 11:26pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
The theme of ur story is marriage. If u notice d ssce drop out is willing to learn I mean to improve her educational background I will advise u go for her. Naturally women with d attributes of d graduates lady are usually pompous, bossy, women liberation advocates etc. When u get such as wife my brother d thought of divorce is like Airtel promotional ads. But wait, mind u there are exceptions. Beauty, brain and d flawless command of English is what a graduates needs but we are talking abt marriage here. The reasons why u are tilting ur interest to that ssce drop out are usually done by local,classless, desperate and uneducated girls but mind u there are exceptions too. Maybe d reason why d graduate babe doesn't want to do all of that is; she doesn't want to embarrasse u. Two she is observing if u are clean enough to be her husband. Three she is not ur wife yet and she is adding value to herself by doing that. Pencil down all d things u want from a would-be wife and still do a thorough study on them. As for me ur reasons are still not enough. I wish u good luck. 2 Likes |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by BUSYBRAIN2(m): 11:27pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
Firstly, What defines Education? She doesn't have a university degree means she ain't "Educated"..? If you've answered the above successfully. Now, What do you want from a Woman(Wife). Beauty? love and Care? Class? Companionship? Elegance? HELPER? If you've figured that out. Now, which among the list is most important to you? If you've figured. Now, which of the lady got that? You figured? That's the lady you should take seriously 2 Likes |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by OKUCHI11(m): 11:34pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
elantraceey:IGZATALLY |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Sylver247: 11:35pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
vizkiz:why is it dat ur comments dont ever make any sense? u only comment in order to get likes from ur fellow brainless mofos. no offence |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Nobody: 11:36pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
Oliviaarims:.you and your likes think the school cert girl want something or desperately want his heart and after that, her real character comes out, but never the less you and your likes did not think outside the box. If you want to marry someone, you must have asses the both of them and see which one fit your likes and match your criteria before you made up your mind RIGH! But just look at the OP ![]() ![]() I won't classify you as a philosopher cos you fail to observe both angle 1 Like |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by SwTee: 11:37pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
bestestgirl:u just nail it |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by friends4ever(m): 11:37pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
Another Nollywood Movie coming out soon: Dumebi the dropped out session 1 ![]() ![]() |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by emmanuel596(m): 11:38pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
A well trained and mannered lady will build ur home and make u live longer than u were supposed tooo......say no to all this 2015 girls wearing fake ass,hair,breast and always demanding for wat their fathers can't afford 2 Likes |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by babywhite(f): 11:39pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
CHANCEMAN:she has a point. but didn't present it clearly is true the lady can get a degree anytime what matters is their happiness, I have married men and women in my class,is Neva too late for her |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by friends4ever(m): 11:40pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
tido77: Somebody needs anger management ![]() |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by niyidenrele: 11:41pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
elantraceey:..God bless you,ma guy |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Sparkles003(f): 11:41pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
If the semi-educated lady is open to going back to school i will advise you go for her. but if not forget both of them. I know some would say going to school does not guarantee u will be successful . it might not but it will broaden her perception of life making her open to diverse change that would take place in the relationship or marriage. |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Homguy(m): 11:43pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
ksbusari:Bro, real men live their lives, they don't live it based on what other people would think, why live your life just for the sake of what other people want, meanwhile they live their own without giving a frigging thought about your opinion. Living according to the dude I quoted here would ensure a man lies on hi death bed feeled with regrets and sorrow for having not really lived, for not doing what they really want to because of what inconsequential people would think. Bro, I just made a similar decision lately. Guess what?! I chose character over beauty and form, BTW, what's beauty to a pig, or sloth of a woman, a woman who would prefer to feed your children from canteens, and prefer to cater to her beauty than to your children's intellectual, physical well being. Pls function over form always.all the best,bro. Cc: tido77 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by seedorfg(m): 11:43pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
Silas marner |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by niyidenrele: 11:43pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
bestestgirl:Hmmmmm,salute your sagacity ... |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by thelish(f): 11:44pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
Bros, don't u feel embarrass wen ur girl kneel to greet u? Are u that old? It looks as if u want someone who will worship n adore u, if true, u can settle for d uneducated one. cos d other one know who she be. She can't just be intimidated by u. 5 Likes |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by illiad: 11:45pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
Swear you haven't already made up your mind |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Titugirl(f): 11:45pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
@ OP....I think u shld seek the face of God bcoz beauty or manners are not enof attributes to make a lifetime commitment. |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Rexology: 11:46pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
THE EDUCATED and BEAUTIFUL LADY: Perhaps she does not do all those house chores for you at this stage so that you don't take her for granted. There is tendency that she may want to do those things as your WIFE and not as your GIRLFRIEND. THE GOOD MANNERED LADY: A lady that have not been to high institution has a higher probability in Character changes than a lady that had already passed through high institution (High Institution is a world of its own, where you mix up with so many different characters with high influence etc. ) Therefore, you cannot in real sense say that this lady has good manner at her level of education (Education opens one's eyes). CONCLUSION : The deeper you compare two of them, the clearer the difference becomes, therefore stop comparing the two ladies, you ALONE knows what you want in a wife. Make your choice and be ready to take responsibility of your choice. Goodluck! |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by coretechng1(m): 11:49pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
bestestgirl:Hmmmmm. This is loaded with wisdom. |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by wytecat: 11:51pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
Get both! Who says you can't! ![]() ![]() |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by peedeeasobie(m): 11:53pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
who asked you to date two ladies at the same time? |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by chronique(m): 11:53pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
How can you be asking for advice on who you should marry between them,when you're not even dating anyone of them? Your submission above,doesn't imply that you are in a relationship with either of them,but portrays you as trying to select who you should date. I'd advice you go for the girl with manners even though a well polished girl with manners,would have been the ideal thing. |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by webshopng1(m): 11:57pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
Manners and beauty |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Richardonald(m): 12:04am On Oct 02, 2015 |
tido77:guy trust me al d guys saying u shud marry the beauty one are senseless na fine u won chop..u dont know the meaning of marriage . U are trying to say dat becuz she is not educatd.u cannot marry her..jst look at yourself.dat girl wil soon grammar to anoda person bed..imagine marrying mannerles girl only becuz she is a graduate.but rememba dat not every family can train their children in skul..my broda i wil advice u to marry the kind,good,manner and good loving neat girl over just educated girl that has nothing to prove as a woman..dont think that d uneducated girl cannot do runz like that girl u called grammer did..and graduated..are u not blindfolded..AM SAYING THE TRUTH 2 Likes |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by InvertedHammer: 12:04am On Oct 02, 2015 |
/ Marriage is a leap of faith. Using the characters they display during courtship is a gamble. Go with your heart. But be ready to live with the consequences. Instead of considering their strength, you should put more emphasis on their weaknesses and determine if they will be tolerable should life throw you a curve ball. \ Talking about beauty, the graduate is very beautiful because she dresses up and visits you. Wait until she moves in with you and you start seeing her dirty undies, using the toilet, bad hair days, early morning breathe, etc. And if she has kids and adds some pounds, all her grammar will disappear in your brain. Beauty fades with time. 2 Likes |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by BTT(m): 12:09am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Marry the one with the biggest boooobs. Don't mention... No, just thank me later. |
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