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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by kazmanbanjoko(m): 7:32am On Oct 02, 2015 |
vizkiz:are yu calling nairalands fools. Yu r sick. |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Leosamitodo(m): 7:32am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Beauty my friend is just a skin deep,if she cant serve you now what makes you think she will in the future...and ladies to say are pretence oriented(they can pretend die)if the mannerist can serve you now,what makes you think she cant in the later days ahead...my brother if God is your father then you need to call home for counselling |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Trustworthiness: 7:33am On Oct 02, 2015 |
People marry for four main reasons: 1. Beauty, 2. Wealth, 3. Position, and 4. Religion / Culture. I see that your reason for your choice of marriage is beauty that can command English language fluently. A question I will ask you is this: will you still be in love or willing to marry her if something happens to her beauty? If yes then marry your beauty. Else beauty should not be your priority. Likewise, if your so called well mannered girl change to a not mannered wife when you have married her, will you continue to love her. What happens during the period of courtship is not real. What is real is the real discussion you both discuss about what you want if you eventually married. This is where most young people of nowadays made serious mistakes. Instead of discussing issue, they will be assuming and judging based on the characters that is apparent to them. I will advise you to discuss real issues with your girlfriends and ask questions in an indirect way so that you can Truely get the answers you want. The beautiful girl may be doing that because she feels she is not married to you yet or she just a dirty and lazy type. While your well mannered girl may be doing so because she want to lure you to marry her or she is the neat type that can't withstand dirty environment. But what I am sure of is, if a man possesses something greater than a woman, the likelihood of the woman being 100% submissive is high. So, I can't advice to take any of them yet but to do you own home work first. How will you do that? Highlights what you actually want from a wife first and ask real questions in an indirect way to get the right answers to your questions. You might be surprised that both are far from being a wife material. Goodluck. 1 Like |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Nobody: 7:33am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Oliviaarims: My lady calm down! Don't let my guy go and commit suicide. |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Nobody: 7:33am On Oct 02, 2015 |
sonofananimal:Ur low understanding ability's snowballed... Ur shallow mindedness works mightily against u. U can't KNOW women like me..Do u know what it means to know sth?..Dyu know what a "knowledge claim" entails? Don't bother arguing with a philosopher on such matters. We deal with critical analysis nd evaluation....#smiling# BTW, that "another man's language" is very important..learn it...Hope u took note of the correct contextual usage of "another" still a #Philosopher Quëën |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by bellville: 7:34am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Marry the educated lady abeg. The economy ain't smiling. You may need her to support the family financially at some point. My neighbor, a graduate married a school cert hairdresser. Now that there's a salary cut, she fights him every morning for money. She just doesn't understand. Her house is always clean though. |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by freecocoa(f): 7:34am On Oct 02, 2015 |
So what you call 'manners' is cleaning up after you and bending knee to greet you? You are beyond mannerless for leaving your house dirty, what rubbish! |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by vizkiz: 7:34am On Oct 02, 2015 |
kazmanbanjoko: your dumb father is sick for not pulling out but pouring the sperm that created you into your mama ![]() |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Mwada: 7:35am On Oct 02, 2015 |
So those sarakis, gej, namadi sambos with the mentality of nationalism are they same? Are they same today? So it is better you get the other mentality so that incase u may reverse it. What i believe is that the wind of corruption started blowing during the shagari time, buhari try to halt it but Ibb sponsored it, abacha monopolize it. Obj came in and celebrate it while gej skyrocket it, thank God now that baba buhari is here to bombared it, therefore i foresee a better nigeria ahead rionel: |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by spongebob0006(f): 7:36am On Oct 02, 2015 |
I will suggest u marry d gal with character o ....u could even train her in skul wen u ppl get along togeda lerra on but for d graduate, how do u want to start training her abt domestic chores n all....... ro daada o ko si gbadura si |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Nobody: 7:36am On Oct 02, 2015 |
I greet y'all in the name of music Thought I drop this my song for y'all to listen yes Nigeria gain their independence!!! But check your heart are we truly free.. I didn't go out today cus I didn't feel like Reasoning all the things happening in this country.. Bombing.. killing Stealing. Corruption... [size=18pt]TRUTH IS WE ARE NOT FREE FROM OURSELF[/size] Had to express it true music Bro https://www.nairaland.com/2638177/nairalander-song-bombin-fighting-killings#38585207 |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Subom1(f): 7:38am On Oct 02, 2015 |
freecocoa:lol as in. Rubbish!!! |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by xbanda: 7:38am On Oct 02, 2015 |
no show 4 u bros jxt because say she dey wash clothes na y u come notice am 4 ur board shebi ur notice board full up wit miss grammar u come open dem because miss manner dey wash clothes kneel dwn greet u abeg follow ur heart and ask God 4 direction d devil u knw is beta dan d angel u dnt knwno show 4 u bros jxt because say she dey wash clothes na y u come notice am 4 ur board shebi ur notice board full up wit miss grammar u come open dem because miss manner dey wash clothes kneel dwn greet u abeg follow ur heart and ask God 4 direction d devil u knw is beta dan d angel u dnt knwno show 4 u bros jxt because say she dey wash clothes na y u come notice am 4 ur board shebi ur notice board full up wit miss grammar u come open dem because miss manner dey wash clothes kneel dwn greet u abeg follow ur heart and ask God 4 direction d devil u knw is beta dan d angel u dnt knw |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Nobody: 7:41am On Oct 02, 2015 |
mistabiola:Feelings..very subjective. Hope u knw better now. It's a good thing u sought 4 clarification, though. |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by kayceeD2(m): 7:41am On Oct 02, 2015 |
tido77: Abeg make I ask u too question... if u see #1000 note and #500 note which one will u pick first? |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by linked: 7:42am On Oct 02, 2015 |
vizkiz:I pity your life although you dont even derserve such pity... You call someone who has finished senior secondary school uneducated and an illiterate?... SMH... You seem lost... . I wonder why people make a public spectacle the their utter ineptness and often agonizing cluelessness. You need a reset.. |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by kazmanbanjoko(m): 7:44am On Oct 02, 2015 |
vizkiz:ok. Fixed. |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by livinbygrace: 7:46am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Whats special about being graduate in the present day economy,where a graduate is being paid 20,000 for a month?Abeg park well.Go tell Alaba boys,they ll answer your question. |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by vizkiz: 7:46am On Oct 02, 2015 |
linked: I don't need your pity ass-wipe! ![]() Its my life, my rules, my headache.ig you wanna go marry an SSCE holder in this century, your life, your headache. You will soon get to know making a strong home isn't all about a girl who can wash cloths very well. Dummy ![]() |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by vizkiz: 7:48am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by adorable2016(f): 7:49am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Hmmm |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Captain001(m): 7:49am On Oct 02, 2015 |
bestestgirl: Inasmuch as I am not advocating that he marries the not-so-educated girl, but you saying that the "grammar controller" might surprise him after marriage sounds more like fallacy. I always tell people;once during courtship you identify character traits you cannot live with as a man/woman, do not go ahead with the marriage hoping that the partner will change after marriage. It is only true for infinitesimal proportion of marriages. Marriage hardly changes inbuilt character traits, it only consolidates. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Captain001(m): 7:51am On Oct 02, 2015 |
bestestgirl: Inasmuch as I am not advocating that he marries the not-so-educated girl, but you saying that the "grammar controller" might surprise him after marriage sounds more like fallacy. I always tell people;once during courtship you identify character traits you cannot live with as a man/woman, do not go ahead with the marriage hoping that the partner will change after marriage. It is only true for infinitesimal proportion of marriages. Marriage hardly changes inbuilt character traits, it only consolidates. |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by cleoMcdanie(m): 7:51am On Oct 02, 2015 |
to hell with all this marriage shii. wats d craze all about? must we all marry? end time things just like the Bible said |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by misspicy(f): 7:51am On Oct 02, 2015 |
vizkiz:Seriously man u typed sense for once..... Money making is really d back bone of marriage not house chores like pple think,abi na house chores go feed the children? Wetin house help dey for Bar man please serve my niccur a truce orijin from me
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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by mistabiola: 7:52am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Oliviaarims: ★★★English teacher... Okay ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Ifexladon: 7:53am On Oct 02, 2015 |
vizkiz:dats d kind of stupid advice dat I was telling u abt |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by vizkiz: 7:53am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Sylver247: why is it that you are such a biitch? Go furck yourself dimwit! ![]() |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by hope4nigeria(m): 7:56am On Oct 02, 2015 |
sholay2011:YOU ARE A MAAAD IDIOOOOTS. I CANT ague with you. must you joke with everything? i fight gidigbo with your mother , the last cong-ful compitition i did last time. that was when your father died on the stage! ode |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by spongebob0006(f): 7:57am On Oct 02, 2015 |
cleoMcdanie: no marry o,wait der o....until ur mama go dey sing for ur ear say she wan carry her grandchildren.... ehn, igbayen lose ma understand pe u GATS marry... |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by vizkiz: 7:58am On Oct 02, 2015 |
misspicy: just because we don't ever agree on a topic doesn't mean I am not making my own point. I don't drink early, let me have a coffee ![]() |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by spongebob0006(f): 8:00am On Oct 02, 2015 |
vizkiz: so who told u d illiterate gal is not pretty...its just cos ders no money to Polish her na....wat makes u think she won't be successful too...nna ehn! odi egwu o |
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