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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Truckpusher(m): 3:36pm On Oct 02, 2015
tido77:
I am limping between decisions, I need your piece of advice to buoy my wobbling senses. A well educated lady is in my radar, I like ladies that control grammar very well, in fact I am a sucker for such ladies. This my lady controls grammar so well and she is beautiful, a graduate.

Now, I also have a young lady that comes around, and I observed that they are both different in manners. She is not a graduate, she stopped at secondary school level due to finance problem.

When this not so schooled lady comes around she always notices disorganized things and would arrange them, would notice dirty floor and mop up,wash dirty dishes etc. She would not greet me without bending her left knee slightly to show respect. She is not as beautiful as the educated lady though.

The graduate lady do none of these things, all we do is just gist.

Lately the school cert lady makes me feel the warmth of a caring lady, I am beginning to notice her more.

I am a graduate with tastes, I don't know what I want again, I am confused, somebody advise.
Marry one and keep one as a concubine. grin
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by scarffield(m): 4:01pm On Oct 02, 2015
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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by sparkleice(f): 4:43pm On Oct 02, 2015
Good attitude s all dat matterss bro.u can mk ur woman beautiful now were beauty items full market.if u love her &ave d money u can enroll her in any institution.sme of dose beauties dey can disrespct men anyhow.I had a fwnds like dat bt dey are cat & dogs n deir r/lationships.I know sme of we ladies can pretend eh.js pray to God 2 direct u.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by UjSizzle(f): 5:00pm On Oct 02, 2015
Do you want a domestic wife or a help mate?
It all depends on what you're looking for.

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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Phembest86: 6:27pm On Oct 02, 2015
Well mannered gal is d best. D educated one will just frustrate you as time goes on...... by they're fruit, we shall know them.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by freecocoa(f): 6:46pm On Oct 02, 2015
Truckpusher:
Stubborn girls are like MTN these days everywhere you go. cheesy
No be matter of stubborn, guy reason am na.

How can you leave your house dirty and be complaining your partner doesn't clean it on her visits.

I even blame the lady that would date a pig, she sef no try, comfortably sitting and probably having sex in a pigsty, yuck!

Dirty guys are a huge turn off, infact they infuriate me.angry
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by PascalJ(m): 6:48pm On Oct 02, 2015
spongebob0006:


no marry o,wait der o....until ur mama go dey sing for ur ear say she wan carry her grandchildren.... ehn, igbayen lose ma understand pe u GATS marry...

Leave d guy abeg. Pls inbox me ur fb name @spongebob0006.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by abassisiaka(m): 6:50pm On Oct 02, 2015
I will marry beauty and teach her moral
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by freecocoa(f): 6:54pm On Oct 02, 2015
Truckpusher:
Marry one and keep one as a concubine. grin
I pity your girlfriend.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Truckpusher(m): 7:00pm On Oct 02, 2015
freecocoa:
I pity your girlfriend.
Do I really have time to think about my girlfriend ? No ! Almost making her an angry woman these days sha.
But I love her even as I've not been around her all the time like she wanted but I've got things to do.Serious things my dear.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by freecocoa(f): 7:03pm On Oct 02, 2015
Truckpusher:
Do I really have time to think about my girlfriend ? No ! Almost making her an angry woman these days sha.
But I love her even as I've not been around her all the time like she wanted but I've got things to do.Serious things my dear.

Lol, abeg why would she want you around all the time? Just say you aren't around as you need to be, you don't love her enough if you talk about her the way you just did. Why is she still with you?tongue
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Truckpusher(m): 7:06pm On Oct 02, 2015
freecocoa:
No be matter of stubborn, guy reason am na.

How can you leave your house dirty and be complaining your partner doesn't clean it on her visits.

I even blame the lady that would date a pig, she sef no try, comfortably sitting and probably having sex in a pigsty, yuck!

Dirty guys are a huge turn off, infact they infuriate me.angry
I'm also aware that at point in every passionate relationship ,the love of your life wouldn't really care if you're dirty because we all see ourselves as their knight in shinning amor and their warrior Queen who can save the day always . cheesy

We'll do and undo - of course you know what im talking about . cheesy
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Starieangel(f): 7:08pm On Oct 02, 2015
Well,I suggest you go for d manners...a beautiful face without manners is empty..trust me I know what I am saying...its easier for those who aint married to say being well mannered is not all it takes but trust me,it would relieve you latr on....when u are well mannered,you'll be well behaved!besides,you can groom her to your taste thereby having beauty and manners in one soul..have u tried talking to d other lady bout her manners?hmmmm.....its nt easy oooo....It took me time to really understand what my husband meant by saying,aftr a hard day@work,home shud be a place to long for and not to run from....now av got the 2 in me..beauty+manners...love u honey!well,worth is worth doing is worth doing well....gudluck!
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Truckpusher(m): 7:09pm On Oct 02, 2015
freecocoa:
Lol, abeg why would she want you around all the time? Just say you aren't around as you need to be, you don't love her enough if you talk about her the way you just did. Why is she still with you?tongue
Believe me , I love her with every drop of my blood but I've also learnt one thing - don't sacrifice anything for love , because you'd be so damned if the love of your life disappoints you big time.

I have this big shock absorber for my woman.
I simply feel free, let her live her life and always ready for the worst. tongue
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Truckpusher(m): 7:13pm On Oct 02, 2015
UjSizzle:
Do you want a domestic wife or a help mate?
It all depends on what you're looking for.
Peeps like me want it all in one package . grin
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by edwife(f): 7:14pm On Oct 02, 2015
Truckpusher:
Peeps like me want it all in one package . grin

I am still waiting trucky....i hate suspense. undecided
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Nweike1: 7:19pm On Oct 02, 2015
My advice is go for the not so beautiful girl who stopped her education at secondary school level, that is if you are looking for wife material. You can groom her, she can gain admission to university and even study to PHD level. You can teach her how to communicate properly. In terms of beauty, make her more presentable. In summary, mould her to your tastes
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by J4justice: 7:19pm On Oct 02, 2015
Also caught in the same dilemma but the girl without school cert. does not want to further in her education.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by freecocoa(f): 7:21pm On Oct 02, 2015
Truckpusher:
Believe me , I love her with every drop of my blood but I've also learnt one thing - don't sacrifice anything for love , because you'd be so damned if the love of your life disappoints you big time.

I have this big shock absorber for my woman.
I simply feel free, let her live her life and always ready for the worst. tongue
You don't sound like you know what love is.tongue

Seriously though, your type of love no pure,I have a different version, why are you expecting the worst? There's a crack somewhere to think this way.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Truckpusher(m): 7:21pm On Oct 02, 2015
edwife:


I am still waiting trucky....i hate suspense. undecided
Hmmm.... I'll comply immediately - I don't keep beautiful women waiting. wink
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Truckpusher(m): 7:26pm On Oct 02, 2015
freecocoa:
You don't sound like you know what love is.tongue

Seriously though, your type of love no pure,I have a different version, why are you expecting the worst? There's a crack somewhere to think this way.

You're dealing with humans that has a strange dynamic nature that can't be predicted so give yourself some safety pin and outlet lest you should be caught unawares. wink
I hope you dig ?
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by edwife(f): 7:32pm On Oct 02, 2015
Truckpusher:
Hmmm.... I'll comply immediately - I don't keep beautiful women waiting. wink

Okay you have until 00:00 am after that....... angryangrygrin
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by elantraceey(f): 7:32pm On Oct 02, 2015
tido77:
not sure if u read with understanding , the lady stopped at sec school coz of finance. U need to return to nursery school dude.

You're the one that lacks understanding here. If you really want her, you can aid her into polytechnic at least.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by freecocoa(f): 7:35pm On Oct 02, 2015
Truckpusher:
You're dealing with humans that has a strange dynamic nature that can't be predicted so give yourself some safety pin and outlet lest you should be caught unawares. wink
I hope you dig ?
Nah! I don't need any safety pin, I am a good judge of character.

How does one live like that?
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by elantraceey(f): 7:35pm On Oct 02, 2015
INDUSTRIALFAN:
neither do you sound educated.... Like he said, she couldn't further due to finance..... Is it a crime if she couldn't afford to further?


It's not a crime but if you really want something you'll put in all you can to get it and not give excuses.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by elantraceey(f): 7:37pm On Oct 02, 2015
Singingbae:
U school in UNILORIN right?

Nope I don't.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by arixsto2(m): 8:13pm On Oct 02, 2015
vizkiz:
just because she's gat good attitude doesn't mean I should marry a vulture undecided

To those guys quoting me to type trash. Na me talk say make una go marry fugly girls abi? grin

I just typed what I am gonna do mehn, an educated girl is "beauty" she is successful in her business which means she's gat brains

So what else do I need apart from a pretty girl who knows what she truly wants, forget about the manner, she go learn undecided

Make I come go marry illitrate cuz she dey always wash cloth Seems you guys think marriage is all about house chores abi? FOOLS angry

is like ate beans with weeeeEEed!. abi oborkorbokor.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by spongebob0006(f): 8:18pm On Oct 02, 2015
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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by luswitz(f): 10:04pm On Oct 02, 2015
It is very important to end up with someone u are compatible and have ease of communication with beautiful or not. Marry someone u are proud to be with, that plays alot in our life. The devil u know is better than the angel u dont know.

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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by mistabiola: 10:05pm On Oct 02, 2015
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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Truckpusher(m): 11:15pm On Oct 02, 2015
freecocoa:
Nah! I don't need any safety pin, I am a good judge of character.

How does one live like that?
People can fake character though true love will always show her ugly head.

If guy dey die for you , you sef go feel am nau. cheesy
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Nobody: 1:01am On Oct 03, 2015
If you are ugly,you are ugly...stop telling us about inner beauty. No one walks around with X-rays.

No doubt,ugly girls try hard to act the wife material just to get a man..they will eat his poo and can't stand on their right even when they are abused .. After having kids and she now looks like a real masquerade in one village,the man dumps her and can never go out with her. From the very beginning,he is not proud of her and can never show her off. She is simply the baby making machine and house keeper. Those are the type who answer their husbands 'sir!'.....

It should be beauty and manners combined... God forbid my brothers pollute our generation with ugly women.
If my post pain you?....

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