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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by tonychristopher: 6:25pm On Oct 03, 2015
Toks2008:


There are legitimate grounds for polygamy.

1.A female divorcee of age will probably find solace in a married man.

2.A widow of age expecially the one with children.

3.A single mum of matured age.

4.An unmarried lady in her late 30s or early forties.

These are my candid opinion.Polygamy is not advisable but not a taboo nor a sin.

Infact polygamy is the answer to the prayers of some ladies.

I do not encourage polygamy neither will i ever consider it but nver theless,in certain circumstances,it is permissible.

You see your candid and factual. I love people that don't pretend ..why should a lady that is 39yrs be waiting for a single man..why don't she try pokygammy or been concubine

That's my humble suggestion


Beside that Christianity and Islam never forbade that
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 6:25pm On Oct 03, 2015
tonychristopher:


Polygamy isn't my thing bro... Never experienced that in my life but why is it that once you straff a lady she starts thinking marriage

That's to me is desperation ..I am not saying infidelity is good Bro ..just trying to be me

Choi..

You are a real bad type. dont you know that ladiies are emotional beings?

why do u think i dont sleep with a lady i ont see a possibility of marrying? its because women are not like men..even whores develop an attachment.

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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by siamia(f): 6:27pm On Oct 03, 2015
@pascalj
Drop her a mail on the open platform. Am sure when she logs in, she'll see it. Then keep ur fingers crossed.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by tonychristopher: 6:28pm On Oct 03, 2015
myztikal:


I believe that is a misconception, we are africans for one, the tradition of putting money in envelopes is no culture of ours, our parents learnt from their parents and there probably wasn't a ready availability of envelopes around to put money in, and whereby it may not be wrong, i doubt every american or englishman who gives his wife directly would see her as a prostitute

most men are usually threatened by a female who can verbally hold her own, they would rather not see them as equals, hence, the feminist card readily comes to play

as for the way he treated his mistress, his actions were inexcusable, a lady asking you money just before copulation doesn't mean she should be treated as such, as real prostitutes aren't even treated as such....
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 6:30pm On Oct 03, 2015
@siamia... I AM OFFICIALY STATING MY INTREST IN oppy4God.. FEEL FREE TO ASK ME QUESTIONS, PULL UP MY FOREVER POST AND USE YOUR LASER BEAM....
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by francizy(m): 6:31pm On Oct 03, 2015
lyntiffany:
Ride on Love Guru cheesy where is your team mate francizy?

That guy francizy seems to be so into politics.. No mind am... cheesy
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by tonychristopher: 6:32pm On Oct 03, 2015
Toks2008:


Choi..

You are a real bad type. dont you know that ladiies are emotional beings?

why do u think i dont sleep with a lady i ont see a possibility of marrying? its because women are not like men..even whores develop an attachment.

That's the problem ..the most annoying is after dating a lady you moved on to marry somebody they will start swearing

I used to tell any lady that it's not a must that a man that you date will marry you. So I think they should take dating what it is ...which is dating


He who doesn't expect much doesn't get disappointed

This is a matured firum and we are here to share ideas. I am an honest man otherwise I would have said I am single but at this age I just can't do such


Nice thread
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by torqque7(m): 6:35pm On Oct 03, 2015
Exactly why I say I have met 50year olds who act like teens and vice versa..having sex with a mistress and boasting about how you treated her is what an 18year old boy should do sir,no woman will want to hear a story like that and this is a thread for both sexes,that mistress is someone's sister and daughter and a human being plus it is morally wrong(taboo) to talk about sexcapades openly like this,very sensible issue..anyway we learn everyday in life and I want to believe everyone here has learnt one thing or the other..

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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 6:36pm On Oct 03, 2015
Dosunmuoflagos:
@siamia... I AM OFFICIALY STATING MY INTREST IN oppy4God.. FEEL FREE TO ASK ME QUESTIONS, PULL UP MY FOREVER POST AND USE YOUR LASER BEAM....

Carry go but please avoid initial gra gra thing o

www.nairaland.com/2432231/how-avoid-falling-into-trap

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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by onstelly(f): 6:36pm On Oct 03, 2015
STFUareyouGod:
your smile, cute wink wink smiley
grin
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by fairlyisabel(f): 6:38pm On Oct 03, 2015
STFUareyouGod:
exactly why yur still single. No offienz
maybe. Though am cool with it
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 6:41pm On Oct 03, 2015
tonychristopher:


That's the problem ..the most annoying is after dating a lady you moved on to marry somebody they will start swearing

I used to tell any lady that it's not a must that a man that you date will marry you. So I think they should take dating what it is ...which is dating


He who doesn't expect much doesn't get disappointed

This is a matured firum and we are here to share ideas. I am an honest man otherwise I would have said I am single but at this age I just can't do such


Nice thread

Im happy you said you have stopped.

If you have not yet given ur life to christ please do now and you will be glad u made the decision.

No sweetness of any cunt or firmness of any boobs is worth more than your soul bro.

you can make ur wife boobs firm even after 10 children..thanks to natural bust enhancers and her kini can be as tight as a virgin own and she can get rid of that belly fat.

It pays to b wth one lady not because they are worth it but because God hates philandering.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by fairlyisabel(f): 6:44pm On Oct 03, 2015
kaboninc:


Scam is relative.

It appears you've had a very disturbing experience.

But don't you think those who say that it exist actually do mean it?
my dear why wouldn't they mean it? To me, what they call love is absolutely something else. Maybe lust, mere attraction, etc. And that is why they get bored with time, cheat, abuse, and even fall out of the so called love. Sweetheart, what they call love is scam in disguise
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by tonychristopher: 6:48pm On Oct 03, 2015
Toks2008:


Im happy you said you have stopped.

If you have not yet given ur life to christ please do now and you will be glad u made the decision.

No sweetness of any cunt or firmness of any boobs is worth more than your soul bro.

you can make ur wife boobs firm even after 10 children..thanks to natural bust enhancers and her kini can be as tight as a virgin own and she can get rid of that belly fat.

It pays to b wth one lady not because they are worth it but because God hates philandering.

Thank you brother for this
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 6:51pm On Oct 03, 2015
onstelly:

grin
can you just keep smiling at me pls?
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 6:52pm On Oct 03, 2015
fairlyisabel:
maybe. Though am cool with it
snap out of it and embrace love ma'am. Love when found is the most beautiful thing
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by kaboninc(m): 6:52pm On Oct 03, 2015
Oppy4God:

i agree with u.some stupid things we do 4 LOVE.u just can't imagine it.love is not over rated.but wen we fall in love after marriage we fail to care,nurture and give it adequate attention especially ladies(wen pikin do show)it's kills d love gradually.

Thank God you do!

We should always continue working ourselves. Fire doesn't just exist. And when it does, it needs something to keep it burning. So we should work towards keeping the fire burning.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by fairlyisabel(f): 6:53pm On Oct 03, 2015
Skii:


@fairyisabel, Love does exist...its just that we have confused it with "feelings" when in reality its a decision not an emotion! Its tough to still love somebody when, despite your telling them EVERYDAY, they keep pressing the toothpaste tube from the bottom and you would rather have it pressed from the middle! grin
Lol @ the toothpaste saga. Dear so love is actually a decision and not a feeling? That means this so called love will be burdensome. Cos people make decisions out of frustrations, lack, poverty, desperation, etc. So much for this thing called love
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by kaboninc(m): 6:54pm On Oct 03, 2015
fairlyisabel:
my dear why wouldn't they mean it? To me, what they call love is absolutely something else. Maybe lust, mere attraction, etc. And that is why they get bored with time, cheat, abuse, and even fall out of the so called love. Sweetheart, what they call love is scam in disguise

There must be someone in your life you cherish so mucchhhh.

Do you mind telling us?
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by joebeckz(m): 6:56pm On Oct 03, 2015
Enoquin:


Hahaha, I say amen but 40X3 must be purposeful i.e 90% of my dreams completed, great grand children, no senility, able to read all the books I want to and chew meat tongue
no meat at that age, u would loose all tooth and become a museum for your 3rd or 4th generation. Lol
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by kaboninc(m): 6:56pm On Oct 03, 2015
lyntiffany:
this not my kind of thread......... But wait I can view some interesting comments here.



Ok am coming in with my full armoury of love notes.

Sweerryy pls do!
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by fairlyisabel(f): 6:57pm On Oct 03, 2015
kaboninc:


There must be someone in your life you cherish so mucchhhh.

Do you mind telling us?
hahahahah crazy dude. We are bloodly related na.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by kaboninc(m): 6:57pm On Oct 03, 2015
fairlyisabel:
hahahahah crazy dude. We are bloodly related na.

Tellll usss jooorrr
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by kaboninc(m): 7:00pm On Oct 03, 2015
lyntiffany:
you absolutely wrong to ask me cause his your partner in crime. tongue

Hehehe.... Like you do not partake in our loot
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by fairlyisabel(f): 7:00pm On Oct 03, 2015
kaboninc:


Tellll usss jooorrr

ohhhh is even "us" and not "you"? Go and sleep abegi. undecided
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 7:03pm On Oct 03, 2015
tonychristopher:


Thank you brother for this

You are most welcome bro.

Please take a look at my wall pics and tell me if you wont love to be a proud everlasting owner of one of those mansions?

That is the reason i maintain a status quo in chriist and not because of any lady cos {with due respect to the ladies in the house} no woman is freaking worth it.

So in the confines of your room just repeat these wordds out loud and recieve the eternal succour of salvation and your name will be written in the book of life instantly..

this goes for anyone that reads this and not yet saved...just say these words out loud..

LORD JESUS,I BELIEVE YOU DIED ON THE CROSS TO SAVE ME FROM SIN AND ETERNAL DEATH..I ACCEPT YOU THIS MINUTE AS MY LORD AND SAVIOUR..THANK YOU JESSUS FOR SAVING ME..I AM NOW BORN AGAIN..

Thats it...you are born again..congratulations.Hell no longer knows your name and i look forward to see you stroll wiith me on the streets of gold *winks*

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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by kaboninc(m): 7:05pm On Oct 03, 2015
fairlyisabel:
ohhhh is even "us" and not "you"? Go and sleep abegi. undecided

Lol.

I wanted us talk about love. We can start with someone you cherish so much
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Oppy4God(f): 7:05pm On Oct 03, 2015
kaboninc:


Thank God you do!

We should always continue working ourselves. Fire doesn't just exist. And when it does, it needs something to keep it burning. So we should work towards keeping the fire burning.
absolutely
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Timijo(m): 7:10pm On Oct 03, 2015
Oppy4God:

u must be joking right ?poly what.have u ever witnessed or experience it, i dont thing so.y will a lady with her senses date married man let alone marry him.i hate it wen married man ask me out.in short i don dey vex.pls just stop it(ogba were 100%)
Can we be friends? I would like to know you better.
Thanks!
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by kaboninc(m): 7:10pm On Oct 03, 2015
francizy:


That guy francizy seems to be so into politics.. No mind am... cheesy

Lool

Tell us what you'd love to do on a cool Sunday evening... just after rain fall
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by kaboninc(m): 7:12pm On Oct 03, 2015
Oppy4God:

absolutely

Ope, someone has decorated his intention for you oh....

The campaign just started
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by marriagearian: 7:14pm On Oct 03, 2015
Hello all. I'm above 30 (not single though) and I'll like to follow this thread. I think it's a good idea and I hope to hear of many weddings stemming from this thread!

I manage a blog www.marriagearian.com, which addresses issues for people who are married and hope to marry. I'd like to learn first hand from all of you.

Having said that, I have read (with dismay) some comments from a married man on this thread. All I will say is, pay him no mind. Marriage is more beautiful and purposeful than he paints it. I will keep everyone in my prayers and I trust that one day, you will find your life partner and enjoy a wonderful home!

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