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| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 11:11pm On Oct 03, 2015 |
joebeckz: lol! we are one of a kind. I have never asked any lady out but it usually flows from friendship to the real thing and that is because i love to take my time. And please i want every lady on this thread to understand that no forming for here o.We are all matured people and trust me, in this present day world where the bad girls are getting the good guys i will advice sweet responsible ladies to loosen up so that calm and responsible guys can take them to mama.Trust me most responsible guys don't have time running after any lady in the name of proving hard to get and the fact that a guy wooed you for a year is no guaranty that he wont dump you after having his way. Hope you all got my drift?A lady can be very free with a guy without preoving hard to get yet maintain her dignity. 2 Likes |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by siamia(f): 11:21pm On Oct 03, 2015 |
@everyone Here's wishing everyone a wonderful nite's rest. Remember to go to church ooo |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 11:21pm On Oct 03, 2015 |
Toks2008:added you on whatsapp. my name is mfon |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by gratefulme40: 11:22pm On Oct 03, 2015 |
Okay....sleep calleth, gotta go. Op, Toks, Joe and others, I enjoyed my evening here. Thanks to you guys for keeping it real. |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 11:32pm On Oct 03, 2015 |
mfonnn: Cool, i really love your dexterity for business. |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 11:32pm On Oct 03, 2015 |
gratefulme40: G nite bro |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 11:35pm On Oct 03, 2015 |
Toks2008: Lolz you even have there tym. even if seun creates a section for age group na kids go still hijak am.. just take a stroll to NL politics or dating section and tell me wat u see.... Well I commend d Op 4 this |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by gratefulme40: 11:35pm On Oct 03, 2015 |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 11:51pm On Oct 03, 2015 |
Toks2008:do have bbm. you never responded to my whatsapp message |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 12:02am On Oct 04, 2015 |
gratefulme40:oh sowy 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 12:03am On Oct 04, 2015 |
mfonnn: Oh i will dear. I dont have a bb |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 12:08am On Oct 04, 2015 |
Toks2008:ok. waiting  1 Like |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 12:34am On Oct 04, 2015 |
BROS I know you are older than I am, but I wanna be your friend... I have been following your posts and comments on this thread and on your own personal threads. I truly need to learn a lot from you, I am based in Abeokuta or do I say USA? United States of Abeokuta lol.... |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by fairlyisabel(f): 3:05am On Oct 04, 2015 |
Hahahahah you guys are too funny especially you Joe. Why are you so excited?should it be because of gratefulme? Lol. You look fine on your dp. H. Timi, dosu and oppy saga is really getting me cracked up. Am enjoying what I am viewing. H. Torggue I think I saw your break light. Nno! |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by tallerhuge: 4:30am On Oct 04, 2015 |
siamia: Absolutely nothing wrong |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by agora4now: 6:32am On Oct 04, 2015 |
Good morning house. I must say this is a nice thread. Thumbs up to the op siamia. I am 36, male, lives in abuja and single. Looking forward to making friends here. |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 6:42am On Oct 04, 2015 |
Toks2008: Women behave that way because they should be chased not the other way around... Guys get tired of the readily available lady and keeps chasing the one that hardly give them attention... It's also wise to make the basis of a r/ship known to a lady and not just rallying her around and telling her you have no deep interest in her later on after wasting her time... Ladies too don't overspend time on a r/ship with any man.. If nothing is coming out from a r ship after 6 months to one year leave and move on |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 7:07am On Oct 04, 2015 |
Again for the ladies there are some things we do in r/ships that actually delays and breaks the deal instead of sealing it.. Eg Don't turn to a man's maid in the name of a r/ship.. Don't cook and clean for him, don't do his laundry and dishes.. Don't sleep with him.... When you do these things he doesn't see a need to propose cause you're already doing the wifely duties for him.. Let him reach out for you more often than you reach out to him(calls, texts, whatsapp, but.. Etc) Remain mysterious intelligent and feminine.... Don't start telling him abouts all your mistakes and your problems and all that... He might console you but he'll leave.. . But Very importantly respect the man.... Respect is what a man needs most in a relationship not even love .... When you respect a man in a any situation you grab his heart..... So many more to say but let me stop here for now..... Have a victorious lifes# 1 Like |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 7:08am On Oct 04, 2015 |
Melish: Nice Good mornng my great friends and wish you all a great sunday. Less forget please i urge ladies who are no where near 30 to desist from commentng on this thread. Of what use is it if i add a lady to my watsup because i met her here just to realize she is 20years and i begin to wonder... Please this is a thread strictly for 30plus and even if a younger lady should show face at all at lst she should be like e yr or 3 short of 30. Please this is a responsible thread with responsible guys..if i want to date young ladiies iin their early twenties trust me they are all over the place wiith their hormones running wild but guys here are interested in purposeful friendship with grown ladies. Please i beg you once again,do not comment here and dont even say hi to anyone if you are a lady less than 30 or 28 if that will be fair enough. Happy sunday once again 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by siamia(f): 7:11am On Oct 04, 2015 |
@everyone Gdmrn great nairalanders! Gdmrn to all the wonderful people on this thread! As we enter our 26th page, I must say it cudnt have happened without u. I've read every single post and I am proud of the fact that 9jaians are world leaders wherever they go. Maturity, wisdom, sensibility, sensitivity are some of the key attributes that the posters on this thread have displayed in their writings. This thread started on oct 1st, and already, we are approaching 7000 viewers. That means we are all making sense. Let's keep impacting lives through our posts. Let's make lasting friends, lasting relationships, and yes, let's come and eat ur rice. I've got my eye and my pankere out for those who want to come in here and disrespect their elders. If ur under 30, sit on the bleachers and learn. If ur married, identify ur status with pride. If ur single and searching, ith an eye to settling, I can tell u with pride that the gents and ladies here are of premium stock. Happy sunday and don't forget to go to church. If ur at sea, churchwise, pls join me at Omega Fire ministries, @ TYTTLO EVENT CENTRE, Plot 8 CMD Rd, Magodo Lagos. All church enquiries 08166185837. God bless u and see u after church! 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 7:12am On Oct 04, 2015 |
Melish: Madam relish i must confess that you have words of wisdom but this face im seing on this dp should certainly be far less than a 30year old or even 25yr old lady..please be sincere..how old are you? Your advice though sounds nice but in the world of matured individuals,those are not applicable. |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 7:20am On Oct 04, 2015 |
The things I say apply to every woman from any race and of any age... I I'm 20 |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by agora4now: 7:24am On Oct 04, 2015 |
Melish:My dear life is not a straight line. I might be wrong but there is nothing in nature that is a straight line. The earlier we realize this the less burden we carry in life. |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 7:29am On Oct 04, 2015 |
Importantly though... You need to be a good Christian that lives a holy life... And God will bless you |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by revolt(m): 7:36am On Oct 04, 2015 |
Nice thread, I'm a 33 yr old. And finally glad to see mature ppl. On nl. Hi everyone. |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 7:38am On Oct 04, 2015 |
Melish: lol. Dearie they do not apply to every age. for instance where you wrote..that he should reach out to you more is so childish..mature ladies dont think that way and where you also wrote that she should remain mysterious and keep stuffs about her away..lol..honestly only imature minds will take the past of a lady or her past mistakes to juddge her..anyway all good. Now back to the matter about age disperity..a 20yr old on this thread..hmmmm...so if i woo you now how will you see me considering that if i got a lady pregnant 20yrs ago i could have your mate as a child? Wont you call me a useless man? yes age is nothing but a number but be sincere if i propose marriage to you right now would you be ready to start a family? So you see why this thread is for 30plus? I love your intellect and its well appreciated but i implore you to take the bench and learn. *hugs* 1 Like |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 7:45am On Oct 04, 2015 |
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| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Enoquin(f): 7:54am On Oct 04, 2015 |
smsshola: No sire, sorry |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 8:10am On Oct 04, 2015 |
PLEASE LADIES KEEP TO THESE THINGS... THOSE OF US THAT HAVE DONE THE OPPOSITE WILL BEAR ME WITNESS THAT IT DOESN'T WORK.... 1. Be feminine in every way. Don't act like a man or dress like one. 2. Men are different from women. They act and think differently. What he needs from you is RESPECT! Not necessarily love. Very important. 3. Don't chase a man. Let the man initiate everything. Men delight in "hunting" their women. Not the women chasing them. that's why the men you throw yourself at abandon you but the ones you detest keep chasing you. 4. Men like women who are neat and clean . Use your perfumes and deodorants. Be clean and look smart. 5. Men love privacy and don't like chatty women. Don't keep discussing things going on in your relationship outside. 6. A man in love with a woman acts differently towards her. When a man says "I Don't Love you" He MEANS it. Don't waste your time any longer. Just leave him and move on 7. Maintain a sense of vague in a relationship. Don't start saying everything you have ever done in your.. Maintain a sense of mystery. 8. Get busy. Men love independent women and get tired of those always available. Better to be too busy. 9. Men love their space.. Sometimes they want to be alone. Enjoy moments of silence when it comes up.. Don't feel obliged to break the silence. 9. Talk about your family with dignity. Don't start demeaning your family before him even if that's the case 10. Give value to yourself. Don't become his house help.. Don't wash his clothes. don't cook for him. don't go to his parents house to help them out. Don't sleep with him. Don't spend weekends in his house. If you leave him he wants all these things.. DON'T do it.. 11. Men Don't propose when you throw yourself at them. They do so when they're afraid of losing you. So don't act desperate. 12. The way a man acts towards you during courtship is what will be happening during marriage. If he's beating you now, no matter the promises he makes to you, the beating will continue till rapture. Same thing with stinginess and womanising. 13. Always be polite. Even when you're refusing offers and advances.. Always do it nicely. 14. Men want to be respected and valued. 15. You have to be seen to be approached... Don't hide in your house. Go out and interact. 16. Carry yourself with grace Like a beauty Queen . Project happiness, radiance and confidence. Don't carry yourself like a failure or a trash can. Have a sense of dignity and significance. Don't latch on to any man like he's your life. 17. Always be nice friendly and polite. Always use "PLEASE" and "THANK YOU". 18. For those dating older men, maybe your boss. Use titles due to him. Don't become too informal even though he might be open to informality . 20. Don't just talk about love during dates. Talk about hobbies and career and academics.. Not just love. 19. Always leave a man seeking for more of you instead of giving him too much of you. Don't see him often, don't always answer his phone call.. Don't call him often. Don't let him get bored of you. For every three of his calls, Return one. Always end the phone conversation first. 20. Let marriage never be mentioned by the lady in a relationship. Act like you're not interested in marriage. If you feel the relationship has gone on for longer than you like, you can leave. Don't bother him. 21. If you are not engaged to a man and he is dating other people then date other people as well. Again if he's arranging dates for you with other men it's time to move on girl. He's not interested. 22. Don't fight him when he talks to other ladies or when other ladies flirt around him. Be calm and act as if you're not bothered about it. Never ever act desperate. 23. Don't take risks. Don't close down your account for him or try to please him at the expense of your academics or career. Don't take it to the sexual areas. Before marriage check for diseases and genotype compatibility. Be sure of his status don't be too trusting. 24. Always let those in authority over you know him. But he should take you to his parents first. Stay away from his parents house . 25. Always be ready to walk away from a dead end relationship. 26. Don't impose change on a man. If you don't like his attitude and behaviour, move on. Finally you're a child of God. So have great self esteem when one door closes seven others open . 2 Likes |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 8:19am On Oct 04, 2015 |
Enoquin: I know you are not up to 30 yet so i understand your decision not to give out your number,nevertheless im curious to know your age cos you have a deep intellectual prowess that is endearing.. You must also undderstand that the best investment you can have is in a human being. Many ladies tend to make a collosal blunder when they react harshly to a guy just because a guy approaches them. Every guy you meet in life is an asset but ladies dont know this. I make friends like kilode and no lady i have ever met on nairalandd can come out to say i have ever asked her out and i stand challenged but they will tell you how wonderful my friendship have been to them. If the op bcomes the first lady tomorrow and i gain access to her,trust me she cant deny me and as a budding politician that i am,when i climb the saddle of authority in the nearest future,i can never deny knowing everyone i have ever known. The best time to be friends with great people is when they are ordinary people. If this guy you turned down happens to be a governor would you have said No? at least if not for romance no one dares refuse giving a governor his or her phone number. So please make this an habbit and give every man who ask for your contact a means of contact. It may not be your direct call line,you could have a fbook ID,twitter handle or linkedin account...trust me,even that tout you turned down harshly might be one of the armedrobbers that will prevent his gang from robbing you in future. My advice to any other lady reading this is that they must understand that no matter how hot or classy they may be,that truck pusher has a right to approach them and they also have the right to turn him down but if they must do so,it must be done with proper decorum as it becomes totally immature to talk down on any man no matter his status simply because he approached you. Im just trying to make common sense and i hope you got the drift. 3 Likes |
| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Davidbee(m): 8:19am On Oct 04, 2015 |
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| Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 8:34am On Oct 04, 2015 |
Davidbee: Vested interest in a 20year old..ok o These days sef i have recieved several friendship proposals from 20yr old ladies and i kept asking myself if anything good can come out from it but if you are 30 and she is 20 then it just might work out. At lst if you decide to marry at 35 she will be 25 and ripe enough for marriage... |
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