Toks2008:


lol! we are one of a kind.

I have never asked any lady out but it usually flows from friendship to the real thing and that is because i love to take my time.

And please i want every lady on this thread to understand that no forming for here o.We are all matured people and trust me, in this present day world where the bad girls are getting the good guys i will advice sweet responsible ladies to loosen up so that calm and responsible guys can take them to mama.Trust me most responsible guys don't have time running after any lady in the name of proving hard to get and the fact that a guy wooed you for a year is no guaranty that he wont dump you after having his way.

Hope you all got my drift?A lady can be very free with a guy without preoving hard to get yet maintain her dignity.

fairlyisabel:
Hahahahah you guys are too funny especially you Joe. Why are you so excited?should it be because of gratefulme? Lol. You look fine on your dp.

quiinnBee:
not raining here one of us is in the wrong place

Toks2008:


Vested interest in a 20year old..ok o

These days sef i have recieved several friendship proposals from 20yr old ladies and i kept asking myself if anything good can come out from it but if you are 30 and she is 20 then it just might work out. At lst if you decide to marry at 35 she will be 25 and ripe enough for marriage...

Toks2008:


Vested interest in a 20year old..ok o

These days sef i have recieved several friendship proposals from 20yr old ladies and i kept asking myself if anything good can come out from it but if you are 30 and she is 20 then it just might work out. At lst if you decide to marry at 35 she will be 25 and ripe enough for marriage...

joebeckz:

I knew you were that cool, romantic and true person from the unset as your words exposed you.
No time to be rehearsing punch lines in the name of toasting a woman like de say, is she bread?
Good morning bro.

bimflash:
Following silently
I'm not up to 30 tho

Toks2008:


Good morning and how was your night as we dey ask for naija lol

Melish:
The things I say apply to every woman from any race and of any age... I

I'm 20

Dosunmuoflagos:
Good morning and happy sunday to us all....
Why must a guy pretend to win the heart of a lady? I am a blunt and outspoken guy, so if that's an issue, if you can't handle hearing the truth, then you don't deserve my time..

Enoquin:

No sire, sorry

bimflash:
Following silently I'm not up to 30 tho

gratefulme40:



Nnaaa....what is this about?

victor54:

Melish pls kindly allow these experienced people to run this plant. Quietly join us to watch n learn from outside. Just like he told u, u r theoretical. U can't just come fresh from uni and want to run a plant as big as this.

Toks2008:


Very true


All these forming and hypocrisy dey always vex me where you see people always try to paint a superlative picture of themselves.

Igboro o rerin and many ladies you see out there don't know what they want but trust me, if a lady hooks up with you online for a date you can be more certain that she means business especially if she is 30 or above.

You will hardly see decent ladies out there except maybe in theire work place where you cant disturb them and another place is in their homes where you cant barge into.

The other option is online where they can be in their bedroom and hook up with you. It will amaze you the quality of friends i have on nairaland both male and female and i don't think i have ever met such friends offline.Decent and responsible set of ladies that any man will be proud of.

Trust me, it can be frustrating wooing a lady offline because you dont even know the one that is married,engaged or not even searching but online you are most likely to get a decent single and searching lady just at a click.

Look at the creator of this thread and observe her personality and tell me if she does not seem very responsible yet you will hardly even think of walking up to her one on one due to prejudice.

Toks2008:


I know you are not up to 30 yet so i understand your decision not to give out your number,nevertheless im curious to know your age cos you have a deep intellectual prowess that is endearing..

You must also undderstand that the best investment you can have is in a human being.

Many ladies tend to make a collosal blunder when they react harshly to a guy just because a guy approaches them.

Every guy you meet in life is an asset but ladies dont know this. I make friends like kilode and no lady i have ever met on nairalandd can come out to say i have ever asked her out and i stand challenged but they will tell you how wonderful my friendship have been to them.

If the op bcomes the first lady tomorrow and i gain access to her,trust me she cant deny me and as a budding politician that i am,when i climb the saddle of authority in the nearest future,i can never deny knowing everyone i have ever known.

The best time to be friends with great people is when they are ordinary people.

If this guy you turned down happens to be a governor would you have said No? at least if not for romance no one dares refuse giving a governor his or her phone number.

So please make this an habbit and give every man who ask for your contact a means of contact. It may not be your direct call line,you could have a fbook ID,twitter handle or linkedin account...trust me,even that tout you turned down harshly might be one of the armedrobbers that will prevent his gang from robbing you in future.

My advice to any other lady reading this is that they must understand that no matter how hot or classy they may be,that truck pusher has a right to approach them and they also have the right to turn him down but if they must do so,it must be done with proper decorum as it becomes totally immature to talk down on any man no matter his status simply because he approached you

Im just trying to make common sense and i hope you got the drift.

Melish:



Knowledge is power... I'm only trying to impart people with it... It's far from theory.. Women have employed this and it worked out....And this was what I got from pastor David ogbueli's teaching...
It's got nothing to do with age sir

Luckygurl:


@ emboldened
Now, this is a matured way of handling such issues. Practising it right away.
Thanks for sharing this

*gets back to the sidelines* while observing with the intention of learning from matured minds.

tbaby123:


I how I love dis post, u must have experienced it all...I am actually in dissituation, though gradually tryin to fix me

Toks2008:


which one be sideline?

If you are above 25 just stay and mingle and dars because you are a lady o...

So how old are you? by the way you look like a classical redeem member lol..nice calm beauty.

Luckygurl:


That's why I said I'd be on the sidelines, a year less than 20.

Lol@ classical redeem member, something like that

Toks2008:


Madam relish i must confess that you have words of wisdom but..please be sincere..how old are you?

Your advice though sounds nice but in the world of matured individuals,those are not applicable.

Davidbee:


Good morning, I actually thought she's 30years old.

myztikal:


My thoughts exactly, and most of the advice clearly shows she's probably 25 and below...pls, don't hesitate to correct me if i'm wrong