pucci:

Used that gap because that was when boarding schools were still boarding school. I went to FGC Idoani and I know what it felt like. Served in a boding school only to see kids eating chicken lap , I no wan ask any question. Try and put up your pic it won't hurt u

Awww. I also went to FGC Idoani, Alaani (green) house. 30+ years now

Some very interesting conversations so far.

I have couple of opinions one of which is the issue of principle and a line of order in relatiinships.

We should always understand that on record, no two relationships or marriages has ever been the same. There are no predetermined conditions which governs a relationship except the one you establish personally which should be based on your own convictions, intuition and the personality of the individual you are dealing with.

The mistake most ladies make is going into a relationship with a document in their head which has been prepared either by their pastors or certain authors outlining the way and manner they should run the relationship.

My own personal advice is that we should first learn to love ourselves, determine our ideals, explore friendship, be charismatic and we should always allow God's processes take its own course.

Toks2008:


Splendid.

So focus on those things and bother less about giving relationship advices.

You see why we say you are not matured enough? you give advice to people online but cant marry someone you meet online so wats the use of admonishing people you cant relate with.

Those who counsel are usually married,divorced or old enough to have the experience.

i put that to you to prove the point you just confirmed...you are not ready for marriage so stop making comments. So respect the thread henceforth and happy viewing.

Knowledge empowers whatever the source of the knowledge....

Melish:



I wanna marry at the age of 25 and I can't marry someone I met online... I wanna achieve some things first

Melish, if I come back and can't find u on ur seat outside; I go vex for u. This trend is for people 2 generations ahead of u, therefore u lack the experience to advise them. Pls remain where u are after all u aren't alone; plenty people are watching from outside.

Toks2008:


Been wooed is an understatement in my case.I have been molested by many ladies at different ages of my life. At 17 i was made a man by one akwa ibom lady and latter i never did that thing again until i was 25 and molested again by a long time friend and i will never forget how she laughed at me when i prayed for forgiveness after the act and i was like "e be like say this girl na devil proper" I cant remember how many times i will enter my room in school to see a naked girl in my bed just to send her out like mumu and many times ladies will pas the night in my place yet i go dey look them like bolo.

If not for Christ i have no business with marriage and this is exactly how so many guys out there think. Sex is so cheap and a man must be really responsible to settle with one lady a midst billions who are willing to be with a man.

ohhhh my God, your last paragraph....... Am so sorry about what happened to you but if I may ask, did you by any chance ejaculated when the act took place? Hope am not prying!

DIVFAVOR:
Good morning house ooo,

You guys should welcome me na, Have introduced myself before.

Toks2008, Siamia, Fairlyisabel and all I dey wait oooooo.

Am Divfavor, a male, Lives and work in Lagos. in my 30s...

Abeg make una tell me welcome.

sweetheart I give you my warm reception, nno!

AXYZ:


Awww. I also went to FGC Idoani, Alaani (green) house. 30+ years now

Was in alani house too, what set?

EggovinMma:


Doesn't work for me that way.Id love to see who I'm setting down with, I get easy irritated with attitudes I dint like.

Attitude is everyting.....u can't find a man 100% complete.

fairlyisabel:
ohhhh my God, your last paragraph....... Am so sorry about what happened to you but if I may ask, did you by any chance ejaculated when the act took place? Hope am not prying!

Lol! your question sounds like one coming from a virgin or sexually inexperienced lady so i presume you will be one of these two.

Of-course eruption took place and that was teh bad part.

Imagine that look on an experienced akwa ibom lady after i barely made an entry and erupted lol! will you blame a naive 17year old boy? I was like wat is this feeling and before i said jack i don mess up and she just stood up and left and that was the last day i saw her till date talking about 23years ago.

Toks2008:


Lol! your question sounds like one coming from a virgin or sexually inexperienced lady so i presume you will be one of these two.

Of-course eruption took place and that was teh bad part.

Imagine that look on an experienced akwa ibom lady after i barely made an entry and erupted lol! will you blame a naive 17year old boy? I was like wat is this feeling and before i said jack i don mess up and she just stood up and left and that was the last day i saw her till date talking about 23years ago.

Toks!!!!!!!!!hmmmm......
I reserve my comment

ddshow:
Some very interesting conversations so far.

I have couple of opinions one of which is the issue of principle and a line of order in relatiinships.

We should always understand that on record, no two relationships or marriages has ever been the same. There are no predetermined conditions which governs a relationship except the one you establish personally which should be based on your own convictions, intuition and the personality of the individual you are dealing with.

The mistake most ladies make is going into a relationship with a document in their head which has been prepared either by their pastors or certain authors outlining the way and manner they should run the relationship.

My own personal advice is that we should first learn to love ourselves, determine our ideals, explore friendship, be charismatic and we should always allow God's processes take its own course.

That is the 100% truth.

A lady wants a tall,cute,Rich,God fearing,Romantic*takes a breath* caring,non aggressive...... and on and on the endless list continues yet look at these ladies and you wil be shocked that their lives are totally not worthy of even a bad guy but the worse guy they can ever imagine to have.

I beg guys or ladies as teh case may be and im writing out of experience,don't believe what any lady or guy tells you about an ex...if you want to risk it please go ahead and do that BUT DO NOT TAKE THEIR WORD. This is why i quickly ask any lady who asks me about my ex if she will not mind having her number to ask her what went down.

If it were possible;e to chat up the ex of any lady i want to date i would be glad and even if the guy try to paint her bad,at least i will have an idea of the personality of the lady im planning to settle down with and this also concerns ladies in respect to teh guy they want to date.

You don't set out attributes as a criteria for the type of man you ant when you do not even have one solid attribute any man can boast of.

Work on yourself and if you are done working on yourself, you will inadvertently attract the right suitors.

kunlexbaba45:


Toks!!!!!!!!!hmmmm......
I reserve my comment

This is a no holds Barr thread o and we all are matured people so spill it out abeg.

victor54:

Melish, if I come back and can't find u on ur seat outside; I go vex for u. This trend is for people 2 generations ahead of u, therefore u lack the experience to advise them. Pls remain where u are after all u aren't alone; plenty people are watching from outside.

No wonder the op was hammering on d age limits,

pucci:

Was in alani house too, what set?

Do u speak owo?, or say you from owo town...
I really get excited wen I meet people from my hometown

Dosunmuoflagos:



Tbaby123.. How was your night? Nice profile pic, can we relate?

My nite was cold o jare.
thanks for d complento sure we are already relating

fairlyisabel:
sweetheart I give you my warm reception, nno!

Thanks dear how is your day going?

DIVFAVOR:


Thanks dear how is your day going?

very fine dear. Thanks for asking.

Melish:


Knowledge empowers whatever the source of the knowledge....

Lol...this girl nor wan rest, she's 20, not ready to get married, she has experience (from home videos or people around), and yet she insists on giving advice to those who have actually been there, done that...Melish, you have just one problem, as far as i can see, and that is you believe you know it all, you have come to teach us thereby closing yo own mind to being taught by us, you are wise and knowledgable, you got wisdom as the principal thing, but in all yo getting, you have failed to get understanding...so, my dear, get understanding, only then will yo wisdom become power

myztikal:


Lol...this girl nor wan rest, she's 20, not ready to get married, she has experience (from home videos or people around), and yet she insists on giving advice to those who have actually been there, done that...Melish, you have just one problem, as far as i can see, and that is you believe you know it all, you have come to teach us thereby closing yo own mind to being taught by us, you are wise and knowledgable, you got wisdom as the principal thing, but in all yo getting, you have failed to get understanding...so, my dear, get understanding, only then will yo wisdom become power

Thanks pls tell her she is annnoyinng already, she can't just Respect peoples wish giving her advice where its not needed

kunlexbaba45:


Attitude is everyting.....u can't find a man 100% complete.

I'm not looking for a perfect man, but I have a standard.For example, I may live with a serial cheat but never a physical abuser.

EggovinMma:


I'm not looking for a perfect man, but I have a standard.For example, I may live with a serial cheat but never a physical abuser.

pardon me but why would you even consider a serial cheat

Youngpo413:
just check out my pix,I will be 30 in just 4yrs time(you know how time flies)so shall we chat up?

Ehhhhh! You are cute jare but I doubt that you are below 30 with those broad shoulders of yours. Nice T.shirt

I am really enjoying this thread o.......I know by June 2016 i will be visiting a Nairalander base on omugwo tins

Hello people! Hope the day is going well? Just popped in to say hi. Every time I check in,thread has increased by 4pages,lol! So keeping up will be a hardous task. I'll come in soon to look at faces of my friends here,some my egbos and some my aburos. And like sm1 rightly said,come next year som of us shall be visiting d odas for omugwo things o. Marriage is still very possible dis year. Long courtship wen u meet ur missing rib,can be dangersom jo,lol. Trust me I'm talking from experience. So mak una begin shop for dos nice suits abi na tuxedos and dos lovely wedding gowns(by d way I've pictured d one I'll be in to flatter dis my slimmy or lepa figure ,lol) down o b4 the tin cost.
Make una no mind me with my many talk,letme rush out. *kisses*

Nice one op

Cos hhe felts age 30 iis Whn. Guys. Get serious

EggovinMma:


I'm not looking for a perfect man, but I have a standard.For example, I may live with a serial cheat but never a physical abuser.

Mbanu, No I disagree, EggvinMma with this your fine name why will you go for a serial cheat, see be it serial cheat or physical abuser non is good. what if the serial cheat infects you, how will you react? Just pray for a man that will respect you.

Good afternoon, house. I clocked 32 in September. I qualify na.

stephnie44:
Nice one op

Ghost mode.Please deactivate and lets meet you.

marcusagrippa:
Good afternoon, house. I clocked 32 in September. I qualify na.

Another ghost mode waiting for deactivation.

fairlyisabel:
Ehhhhh! You are cute jare but I doubt that you are below 30 with those broad shoulders of yours. Nice T.shirt

hahahahaha,I'm not a lady,they are the only ones who lie about their age

udysweet:
Hello people! Hope the day is going well? Just popped in to say hi. Every time I check in,thread has increased by 4pages,lol! So keeping up will be a hardous task. I'll come in soon to look at faces of my friends here,some my egbos and some my aburos. And like sm1 rightly said,come next year som of us shall be visiting d odas for omugwo things o. Marriage is still very possible dis year. Long courtship wen u meet ur missing rib,can be dangersom jo,lol. Trust me I'm talking from experience. So mak una begin shop for dos nice suits abi na tuxedos and dos lovely wedding gowns(by d way I've pictured d one I'll be in to flatter dis my slimmy or lepa figure ,lol) down o b4 the tin cost.
Make una no mind me with my many talk,letme rush out. *kisses*

The question now is what if you see a serious guy who for some reason is not buoyant enough to get that tuxedo suit or that imagined wedding gown,can you say yes and still marry him in the most simplistic way imagined while you plan for a bigger one when the funds are available?