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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by torqque7(m): 9:35pm On Oct 05, 2015
Bhella5:
The true purpose of this thread has been defeated. Where is the op?
Pls remind them again what the true purpose of the thread is so they can re trace their steps
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by torqque7(m): 9:41pm On Oct 05, 2015
fairlyisabel:
@ torrque, where art thou?
Lol I got lost o trying to trace your house and give you a surprise visit,how was your day dear?I have been praying for you so that God will touch you and give you a new perspective on things,you know now,I hope the prayer is starting to work sha..
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by coded06(m): 9:43pm On Oct 05, 2015
Tomorrow is my day!

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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by DIVFAVOR(m): 9:46pm On Oct 05, 2015
EggovinMma:


Life ain't a perfect place.your best may be others' "rest".I will definitely not expect too much, but will choose a man that I can handle. Believe me there are other things worst than cheating. I have seen very bad attitudes of some men.

Wow, I will like to know those things you think are worst than cheating....... I thought for ladies the climax of all is cheating.........All same wish you the best dear.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by tbaby123(f): 9:48pm On Oct 05, 2015
Any Oct 30 born here?, I am looking for a birthdaymate smiley
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by coded06(m): 9:55pm On Oct 05, 2015
Yes @tbaby but mine is Tomorrow.

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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by marcusagrippa(m): 10:05pm On Oct 05, 2015
tbaby123:
Any Oct 30 born here?, I am looking for a birthdaymate smiley
Hi, you mentioned that you're from Owo, right? I'm from Uso or at least my old man is from there. I can't really speak the language but I understand it.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by goodguygonebad: 10:08pm On Oct 05, 2015
The name Onyedinefu got me thinking. I think I might just know the man from FGC Okigwe. Na the man make me run from Intro Tech class.
PMB007:

Yes, I do. We finished in d same set m I tot dat nickname rang a bell. U must remember the likes of Modupe Johnson, Bimbo Benjamin, Yetunde Esan, Abiola Adeoye, Tosin Okiti, Principal (Mrs Ojo), V.P (Mr Odofin), V.P. (Mr Onyedinefu), Tinuade Okoro, Ebuka Nnaji, e.t.c. I was in Red house and 'C' class thru awt. I think u were in Blue house.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by tbaby123(f): 10:15pm On Oct 05, 2015
coded06:
Yes @tbaby but mine is Tomorrow.

Awww, happy birthday advance dearie, age with grace huh! kiss

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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 10:17pm On Oct 05, 2015
DIVFAVOR:


Wow, I will like to know those things you think are worst than cheating....... I thought for ladies the climax of all is cheating.........All same wish you the best dear.

Hmmmmm, I don't need to start dishing out true life stories here.cheating is absolutely bad especially when the knot us tied but, whereas it has landed a lot in trouble, some families are still living fine. There are men who cheat maybe very few times in their life time, some cheat like kilode while some cheat serially without any form of protection.

If my husband cheats on me, definitely I will feel bad if i get to know of course. On the same vein, I would communicate with him on why he did that, not because vi want to listen to his bullshiite, but because I just want to satisfy the idea of a wife who cares that MUCH . DEFINITELY IT WILL REPEAT IT SELF cheesy cheesy grin but these time around he will hide it better.

My life experiences with people I ve dated have shown me that when it comes relationships, I should never expect the best . Unfortunately, I have always been the cheat.Msybr they are smart enough to hide it, well, good to know, I may care!

Have you ever been with a partner without emotions? He doesn't cheat, he comes home early, argue when his underwears are not well kept , nags about the food being salty, sleeps, fuccks you and sleep while at it, goes to work, and this repeats itself like every day?

Or a husband that tends to put all the frustration if his daily activities into punches and slaps


Or husband that doesn't cheat but will be brought home drunk every weekend by his friends , colleagues or neighbours down to your doorstep? angry

There are even very religious husbands that sees moderate bedroom pervasion as a terrible sin!

Seriously I can't spend a minute with that kind of husband without nursing the need to blow his head off!

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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by tbaby123(f): 10:18pm On Oct 05, 2015
marcusagrippa:

Hi, you mentioned that you're from Owo, right? I'm from Uso or at least my old man is from there. I can't really speak the language but I understand it.

Where is uso? I mean owo in ondo state
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 10:22pm On Oct 05, 2015
siamia:
I am glad everyone has calmed down. The torrent of strange posts that appeared before, has abated. Pls remember, 9000plus people are viewing ur posts. Write responsibly, write intelligently, write respectfully, write with basic common sense.
Nairalanders are wonderful people.
God bless u and remain on top.
As I said before, may u move from counting Azikiwe (naira), to counting Mama Charles (pounds sterling)....

Good..

Please what is the number for that watsup group?
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by tpiander: 10:26pm On Oct 05, 2015
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by tpiander: 10:27pm On Oct 05, 2015
folks, kindly desist from dropping place names and people names anyhow, we do not want to hear of another kidnapping or any crap from any quarters plz.

Thanks as you comply.

If you were give such an assignment as your job duties, ask for another one.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by fairlyisabel(f): 10:31pm On Oct 05, 2015
gratefulme40:



Lol....no mind Joe. Where has he been hiding sef? I have not seen his comment here lately.

Thanks jare. My day was good except the rain. I dont like rains at all.

Hope yours was good too
my dear, he has not been fronting here for some time now. Don't worry about the rain for the season will soon pass. My day was great too. I guess you must be sleeping by now. Sleep tight
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 10:33pm On Oct 05, 2015
Toks2008:


My sister abeg go read again..

E no pass 3

Good cook

Pleasing to the eyes

GOD fearing


shikenah..no long list
Please i am not quoting any one.I'm here to learn and open to corrections.
A lot of guys when asked what qualities do you desire in your lady always include God fearing.
Now a God fearing woman i belive takes to heart the word of God in the bible dear as such tries not to do the things the word of God condems like would not indulge in sex before marriage ,rarely or never does outings like clubs,night outings.never or rarely sleeps over at her man place so as to avoid stories that touch.
Most men aviod such women in the excuse that they are boring,can't be with a woman that they cannot shine her congo.
So my question is do men truly want God fearing women or it is just a word of mouth they love listing.

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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 10:35pm On Oct 05, 2015
Ahhh,.. so dis fine girl is abv 30? @onomeglo
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 10:38pm On Oct 05, 2015
EggovinMma:


Hmmmmm, I don't need to start dishing out true life stories here.cheating is absolutely bad especially when the knot us tied but, whereas it has landed a lot in trouble, some families are still living fine. There are men who cheat maybe very few times in their life time, some cheat like kilode while some cheat serially without any form of protection.

If my husband cheats on me, definitely I will feel bad if i get to know of course. On the same vein, I would communicate with him on why he did that, not because vi want to listen to his bullshiite, but because I just want to satisfy the idea of a wife who cares that MUCH . DEFINITELY IT WILL REPEAT IT SELF cheesy cheesy grin but these time around he will hide it better.

My life experiences with people I ve dated have shown me that when it comes relationships, I should never expect the best . Unfortunately, I have always been the cheat.Msybr they are smart enough to hide it, well, good to know, I may care!

Have you ever been with a partner without emotions? He doesn't cheat, he comes home early, argue when his underwears are not well kept , nags about the food being salty, sleeps, fuccks you and sleep while at it, goes to work, and this repeats itself like every day?

Or a husband that tends to put all the frustration if his daily activities into punches and slaps


Or husband that doesn't cheat but will be brought home drunk every weekend by his friends , colleagues or neighbours down to your doorstep? angry

There are even very religious husbands that sees moderate bedroom pervasion as a terrible sin!

Seriously I can't spend a minute with that kind of husband without nursing the need to blow his head off!

If there is one thing i like about you,its the fact that you are real though i also have my reservations cos i also believe you are wacko as in you no send...but with your standview on a philanderer i guesss you will have no issue in your marriage.

Those other stuffs you mentioned can be adjusted with good communication.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 10:38pm On Oct 05, 2015
fairlyisabel:
why should you talk about people in that manner? That's very wrong. Why not talk to her directly than saying it the way you just did. Too bad.
Hey! Take it easy!! I never meant to ruffle any ones feathers. I'm so sorry if you're offended. Just me been blunt. Sorry. But....
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by fairlyisabel(f): 10:40pm On Oct 05, 2015
torqque7:

Lol I got lost o trying to trace your house and give you a surprise visit,how was your day dear?I have been praying for you so that God will touch you and give you a new perspective on things,you know now,I hope the prayer is starting to work sha..
Loll you never told me you were coming so it's good you lost your way. grin
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 10:42pm On Oct 05, 2015
Sparkles003:

Please i am not quoting any one.I'm here to learn and open to corrections.
A lot of guys when asked what qualities do you desire in your lady always include God fearing.
Now a God fearing woman i belive takes to heart the word of God in the bible dear as such tries not to do the things the word of God condems like would not indulge in sex before marriage ,rarely or never does outings like clubs,night outings.never or rarely sleeps over at her man place so as to avoid stories that touch.
Most men aviod such women in the excuse that they are boring,can't be with a woman that they cannot shine her congo.
So my question is do men truly want God fearing women or it is just a word of mouth they love listing.

I dont know about others but im good with all you wrote except that i must eat her food to know whether she should enroll in a cathering school before i put a ring on it.

Sexual decency is a by product of fearing God.

The problem is that many retired oloshos usually push it too far..they start forming as if they have nver visited a man at home before so many guys are like abeg no be my head you go wan dey form packaging...

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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 10:49pm On Oct 05, 2015
QatarPlayboy:
Ahhh,.. so dis fine girl is abv 30? @onomeglo

Fine lady you mean?
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by siamia(f): 10:49pm On Oct 05, 2015
@toks 2008
Whatsapp 08180632132.
Am off to bed. I leave u all in the hands of God. As u sleep, may the Lord who neither slumbers nor sleeps, watch over u and urs in Jesus name.
God bless u all.

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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 10:50pm On Oct 05, 2015
Toks2008:

Fine lady you mean?
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 10:50pm On Oct 05, 2015
tbaby123:


My nite was cold o jare.
thanks for d complento kiss sure we are already relating




Thanks.. Why not try and joing the whatsapp group?
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 10:52pm On Oct 05, 2015
Sparkles003:

Please i am not quoting any one.I'm here to learn and open to corrections.
A lot of guys when asked what qualities do you desire in your lady always include God fearing.
Now a God fearing woman i belive takes to heart the word of God in the bible dear as such tries not to do the things the word of God condems like would not indulge in sex before marriage ,rarely or never does outings like clubs,night outings.never or rarely sleeps over at her man place so as to avoid stories that touch.
Most men aviod such women in the excuse that they are boring,can't be with a woman that they cannot shine her congo.
So my question is do men truly want God fearing women or it is just a word of mouth they love listing.

But you just quoted me..lol
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 10:56pm On Oct 05, 2015
Toks2008:


But you just quoted me..lol
*smiles*didn't want to.just had to
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by DIVFAVOR(m): 10:56pm On Oct 05, 2015
EggovinMma:


Hmmmmm, I don't need to start dishing out true life stories here.cheating is absolutely bad especially when the knot us tied but, whereas it has landed a lot in trouble, some families are still living fine. There are men who cheat maybe very few times in their life time, some cheat like kilode while some cheat serially without any form of protection.

If my husband cheats on me, definitely I will feel bad if i get to know of course. On the same vein, I would communicate with him on why he did that, not because vi want to listen to his bullshiite, but because I just want to satisfy the idea of a wife who cares that MUCH . DEFINITELY IT WILL REPEAT IT SELF cheesy cheesy grin but these time around he will hide it better.

My life experiences with people I ve dated have shown me that when it comes relationships, I should never expect the best . Unfortunately, I have always been the cheat.Msybr they are smart enough to hide it, well, good to know, I may care!

Have you ever been with a partner without emotions? He doesn't cheat, he comes home early, argue when his underwears are not well kept , nags about the food being salty, sleeps, fuccks you and sleep while at it, goes to work, and this repeats itself like every day?

Or a husband that tends to put all the frustration if his daily activities into punches and slaps


Or husband that doesn't cheat but will be brought home drunk every weekend by his friends , colleagues or neighbours down to your doorstep? angry

There are even very religious husbands that sees moderate bedroom pervasion as a terrible sin!

Seriously I can't spend a minute with that kind of husband without nursing the need to blow his head off!

Wow dear, I see its terrible, from your explanation I assumed you have experienced some shit in rship or have witnessed it happened to people around. but that will not make you expect the best. you never can tell your Mr. angel is around the corner.

I think is time we mode our relationship, know the person we are dealing with, allow him/her to say the bitter truth and discuss it after all drama. Its time we build a rship with our best friend, someone you can vague for, someone you can tell to some extent things about him, someone that can see your weaknesses and will want to help, someone when you see his/her weaknesses you wldnt draw thunder from heaven, rather choose to help too. my grandma will always don't go into a rship like a full glass of water rather make it half so your partner can fill it up.

Lets keep craving for the best......... even as we come across some bullshits...

All same, ups and downs get us going strong and focus.

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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by tpiander: 10:57pm On Oct 05, 2015
Sparkles003:

Please i am not quoting any one.I'm here to learn and open to corrections.
A lot of guys when asked what qualities do you desire in your lady always include God fearing.
Now a God fearing woman i belive takes to heart the word of God in the bible dear as such tries not to do the things the word of God condems like would not indulge in sex before marriage ,rarely or never does outings like clubs,night outings.never or rarely sleeps over at her man place so as to avoid stories that touch.
Most men aviod such women in the excuse that they are boring,can't be with a woman that they cannot shine her congo.
So my question is do men truly want God fearing women or it is just a word of mouth they love listing.

check this book for such a scenario:

Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 10:58pm On Oct 05, 2015
Toks2008:


If there is one thing i like about you,its the fact that you are real though i also have my reservations cos i also believe you are wacko as in you no send...but with your standview on a philanderer i guesss you will have no issue in your marriage.

Those other stuffs you mentioned can be adjusted with good communication.


Lmao!
Wacko ke? cheesy grin grin grin cheesy.I mo get wahala oooooooo, na person wey no understand me go get problem. Everybody has got his/her own weaknesses. But trust me, I dint tolerate bullshiite for long.I snapp easily!


Ok, communication is good even in all relationships.


As for a philanderer, I may have issues depending on the extent to which he is philandering. I can't condone a man that will bring a woman into my home.I can't even condone someone who comes home late at night, except of course I give him the permission to stay that late with friends. Sometimes even for men it's needed. I also want to have alone time hanging out around home with good female married friends. Na that kind life I like.If hubby call, he sure will know where the wife dey dey "KOLO PROPER".


More reason I dey take my time choose man wey fit me and man wey I fit. I've got so much love stored up to give that he may drown cheesy
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by tbaby123(f): 10:59pm On Oct 05, 2015
Dosunmuoflagos:





Thanks.. Why not try and joing the whatsapp group?


Rite away man
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 11:00pm On Oct 05, 2015
QatarPlayboy:
Ahhh,.. so dis fine girl is abv 30? @onomeglo
pls I dnt wanna disrespect the rules here,I'm not up to that age criteria,is becos I really like wat I'm reading here,cool matured minds ,but I'm no qualified so I better stay afar watching,wat abt u grandpa?

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