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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by udysweet(f): 9:30am On Oct 08, 2015
I tink I shd post the message he sent me.
"Uduak good morning. How is calabar or is it akwa ibom? Do you know some messages may not be true and that some message for us believers are not to be seen carried by us. I have seen some of your post on spiritual matters and the are good. Please I would advice that you avoid commenting or posting on some messages on Facebook. For me I think there was no need for you to have reposted the message on a man and his wife and what they do in the bedroom. These are very sensitive issues for believers and as one I believer you are, it seem not appropriate for this to appear on your page. What do you think other believers would think about your post? This is my thought. But please take it as a message from a brother in Christ to you. Thank you"
And so I had to pull down the post as quite agree with him to an extent and allow someone else talk about(which you just did,lol)
And back to what you wrote,I ddnt dispute the issue of MouthAction but of cos you can't say that man is in his right senses! When something becomes too much and begins to affect a marriage then smtn is wrong! There shd be were u can draw the line inthings like this. I'd rather evn hear dat a man has high libido or d wife than hear such things as goin dwn der every nite b4 u can sleep and then its so bad she has to secure the services of som call girl or she had to wash off for him to go dwn! He needs to seek,help. My humble opinion tho
@Toks2008
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by CorrectGuy4love: 9:32am On Oct 08, 2015
Toks2008:


The embolden are the exact purpose of the thread and hooking up is a tertiary possibility.

So welcome on-board and invite your unmarried friends to join nairaland and be part of this awesome thread where we discuss any matter and give advice to each other in a no holds bar manner as well as in a very matured way.

So i am Tokunbo,a business consultant and politician and as you can see,i also do freelance writing as a great passion.

Am Tokunbo too.

Wants to go into politics too, will you mentor me?
Not a good writer...more of figure/calculation person.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by udysweet(f): 9:36am On Oct 08, 2015
Wow all dis to be posted on my facebook wall? Ha I can't o,I'm not a marriage counsellor(heck I'm not evn married yet)
I tink I'll jus leav the job for u to do sir,by the way you're doing a very good job.

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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 9:59am On Oct 08, 2015
CorrectGuy4love:


Am Tokunbo too.

Wants to go into politics too, will you mentor me?
Not a good writer...more of figure/calculation person.

Thats good so we have two tokunbo on the thread.

Politics is very interesting and YES its a job too but you do not really retire from it and can be dangerous if you are the desperate type.

You must have the passion to serve the people and you must have great empathy for the people and above all you must be extremely patient and focused.

My idea is to be a technocratic politician moving up the ladder through appointments which apparently will pave way to be elected as a result of past records of excellent service hence the need to be dogged,sincere and efficient.

Lastly you need to be identified with the grass-root and be humble enough to honor those you meet there irrespective of their educational background because often times, it is those who do not even have a secondary school cert that will lift you up and recommend you for elective positions.

Money is important but often times,you must be endearing to the strong party chieftains in your locality which brings to fall the need to have a very caudal relationship with them.

So go ahead and join any political party that suites you and by GOD's grace,together we shall make this country proud in future as those that are there now no matter how long they get recycled,must leave there soonest for us to take over.

Yes politics is a job like every other and financial gains is well juxtaposed with taking up politics as a career but never to go into politics for the primary aim of financial gain but passion.Also have something doing that brings in decent income for you,this way you will be able to look away from any form of stain as a result of financial enticements to do what may work against you as your every step is been observed by those you can never imagine and even when we know we can not be good to everyone,i have tried all my life to keep a clean slate in all i do and today at my young age of 40,i stand challenged that nobody on the surface of this world wil find me wanting in any way.


All the best tokunbo.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 10:06am On Oct 08, 2015
udysweet:
Wow all dis to be posted on my facebook wall? Ha I can't o,I'm not a marriage counsellor(heck I'm not evn married yet)
I tink I'll jus leav the job for u to do sir,by the way you're doing a very good job.

Thanks sis and drop that sir..

Call me toks so that i wont look older than 40 lol!
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 10:09am On Oct 08, 2015
udysweet:
I tink I shd post the message he sent me.
"Uduak good morning. How is calabar or is it akwa ibom? Do you know some messages may not be true and that some message for us believers are not to be seen carried by us. I have seen some of your post on spiritual matters and the are good. Please I would advice that you avoid commenting or posting on some messages on Facebook. For me I think there was no need for you to have reposted the message on a man and his wife and what they do in the bedroom. These are very sensitive issues for believers and as one I believer you are, it seem not appropriate for this to appear on your page. What do you think other believers would think about your post? This is my thought. But please take it as a message from a brother in Christ to you. Thank you"
And so I had to pull down the post as quite agree with him to an extent and allow someone else talk about(which you just did,lol)
And back to what you wrote,I ddnt dispute the issue of MouthAction but of cos you can't say that man is in his right senses! When something becomes too much and begins to affect a marriage then smtn is wrong! There shd be were u can draw the line inthings like this. I'd rather evn hear dat a man has high libido or d wife than hear such things as goin dwn der every nite b4 u can sleep and then its so bad she has to secure the services of som call girl or she had to wash off for him to go dwn! He needs to seek,help. My humble opinion tho
@Toks2008

Isorrite..Just that some gim gim brothers are wolves in sheep clothing trying to form holier than thou.

There is no gain saying i am a man with great sexual discipline but when i write on sexual matters you will be forced to doubt if im not a very bad person but that is me for you.I am very pragmatic in my approach to isues.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by udysweet(f): 10:43am On Oct 08, 2015
Hahahaha. You jus sound like an experienced person in that field. And point noted,no mor "sir" for u evn though you're stylishly and egbon to me sha o,lol!
Toks2008:


Isorrite..Just that some gim gim brothers are wolves in sheep clothing trying to form holier than thou.

There is no gain saying i am a man with great sexual discipline but when i write on sexual matters you will be forced to doubt if im not a very bad person but that is me for you.I am very pragmatic in my approach to isues.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by IceDude(m): 11:26am On Oct 08, 2015
@Toks2008....Why not? I will lick/suck her kondus like lollipop
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by siamia(f): 2:12pm On Oct 08, 2015
Hello everyone,
Eku ojoo. Its not easy going to go to work in this rain, but God has been faitthful. Hope everyone is doing well? More grace.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 7:28pm On Oct 08, 2015
IceDude:
@Toks2008....Why not? I will lick/suck her kondus like lollipop

Habba,what is kondus? You must be a very very naughty guy.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 7:29pm On Oct 08, 2015
udysweet:
Hahahaha. You jus sound like an experienced person in that field. And point noted,no mor "sir" for u evn though you're stylishly and egbon to me sha o,lol!

lol! Well tyhe truth is that understanding and knowing some stuffs does not really have to come from experience lol!
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by carls003(m): 7:35pm On Oct 08, 2015
Hello friends
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 7:39pm On Oct 08, 2015
siamia:
Hello everyone,
Eku ojoo. Its not easy going to go to work in this rain, but God has been faitthful. Hope everyone is doing well? More grace.

Good day sis.

You really need to consider revising the thread title to

(If Ur 26 Plus single lady and 30 Plus single guy, Let's Talk...)

Some responsible guys come here solely to socialize with some responsible ladies and except we want to deceive ourselves,26 plus ladies are matured enough to interact with 30plus single guys.

Yes we know that age is relative and a guy of 38 can socialize with a lady of 45 but we know that most ladies in their late twenties and early 30s will still prefer to socialize with guys ahead of them in age rather than their peers and since this thread is a responsible one that promotes interaction between the mature men and women in regards to socializing,i strongly believe that changing the title to the suggested one will go a long way bring a lasting vibrancy to the thread.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by IceDude(m): 7:44pm On Oct 08, 2015
Toks2008:


Habba,what is kondus? You must be a very very naughty guy.
Naughty for saying my mind? Nah.......I dont hide my feelings
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 7:52pm On Oct 08, 2015
Ate the afang soup for the first time today and one remarkable feature is the taste of the periwinkles in it with its shells and i had to suck it out lol!
I even ordered for more soup..I really envy the calabars and akwa ibomites..nice delicacy.

Honestly i believe if a lady is an excellent cook,sexually decent and GOD fearing,men wil find her indispensable. Thats why im crushing over gina the anchor of foodies and spice. I envy her hubby and every man that will be married to excellent cooks.

http://www.foodiesandspice.com/

Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 7:54pm On Oct 08, 2015
IceDude:
Naughty for saying my mind? Nah.......I dont hide my feelings

lol@ dont mind me,just kidding.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 8:03pm On Oct 08, 2015
Toks2008:


lol! Well tyhe truth is that understanding and knowing some stuffs does not really have to come from experience lol!
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 8:05pm On Oct 08, 2015
Toks2008:


lol! Well tyhe truth is that understanding and knowing some stuffs does not really have to come from experience lol!

Exactly...

So, sometimes learn from those who know even though they're inexperienced.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 8:13pm On Oct 08, 2015
Melish:


Exactly...

So, sometimes learn from those who know even though they're inexperienced.

I can imagine in future if your husband starts beating you they will start saying wife battering.

I have told guys to stop saying they can't beat a woman but rather pray to GOD to give them a woman who will not frustrate them and turn them to monsters and trust me melish you are one lady that has that propensity to make a man one.

There are some things you don't need experience to learn from like eating and making love or fantasy feelings and that is exact;y what im referring to and not experience of what is and not obtainable in dating which comes with experience.

I honestly dont know why im replying you but you are one hell of a stubborn lady.

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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nnemuka(f): 8:48pm On Oct 08, 2015
Toks2008:


Good day sis.

You really need to consider revising the thread title to

(If Ur 26 Plus single lady and 30 Plus single guy, Let's Talk...)

Some responsible guys come here solely to socialize with some responsible ladies and except we want to deceive ourselves,26 plus ladies are matured enough to interact with 30plus single guys.

Yes we know that age is relative and a guy of 38 can socialize with a lady of 45 but we know that most ladies in their late twenties and early 30s will still prefer to socialize with guys ahead of them in age rather than their peers and since this thread is a responsible one that promotes interaction between the mature men and women in regards to socializing,i strongly believe that changing the title to the suggested one will go a long way bring a lasting vibrancy to the thread.

Just leave the topic the way it is biko....
girls in their 20's should run far from this thread and allow the ones in their 30's and 40's to interact.
Late 20'scan create another thread for themselves.

BTW guys in their 40's have no biz dating or chasing girls in their 20's.
Take care

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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 9:09pm On Oct 08, 2015
Nnemuka:


Just leave the topic the way it is biko....
girls in their 20's should run far from this thread and allow the ones in their 30's and 40's to interact.
Late 20'scan create another thread for themselves.

BTW guys in their 40's have no biz dating or chasing girls in their 20's.
Take care

My ex was 8 years younger than me and it was a great union while it lasted.

As long as it involves male female interactive thread with a dint of hook up possibility then you cant dissociate ladies in their late 20s.

Ok may i ask you...how many 30plus ladies are on this thread? Are you 30plus? how many times have you made a post on the thread? the questions are endless.

Your notion that guys in their 40s have no business with ladies in late 20s is laughable because even at 40 i know many ladies in their late 20s who are so cool with even men in their early 40s and if i may ask...how many men on this thread are 40 and above?

Will a 30 year old guy not prefer to mingle with a lady lower than his age? If yes then a 30 year old guy may find this thread uninteresting and i do not see how a 30year old lady on this thread would want to mingle with an age mate or a guy just a year or two older than her.

Age is nothing but a number but most times i do not advice any lady to date or marry a man she is older than with over 5years nut in the factual world most ladies in their late twenties will be more gravitated towards guys in their 30s and this is why i clamored for the inclusion of 26plus single ladies.

I will stop here but why i am reiterating thi opinion is for the sake of continuity and not for any other reason.

I rest my case on this issue.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 9:43pm On Oct 08, 2015
Toks2008:


I can imagine in future if your husband starts beating you they will start saying wife battering.

I have told guys to stop saying they can't beat a woman but rather pray to GOD to give them a woman who will not frustrate them and turn them to monsters and trust me melish you are one lady that has that propensity to make a man one.

There are some things you don't need experience to learn from like eating and making love or fantasy feelings and that is exact;y what im referring to and not experience of what is and not obtainable in dating which comes with experience.

I honestly dont know why im replying you but you are one hell of a stubborn lady.


grin


God loves you so much...

He wants complete commitment from you....
And wants you to live a consecrated life both in your words action thoughts and motive both online and offline..


GOD Bless you!
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 9:46pm On Oct 08, 2015
Melish:



grin


God loves you so much...

He wants complete commitment from you....
And wants you to live a consecrated life both in your words action thoughts and motive both online and offline..


GOD Bless you!

If i check very well,you must be an old woman in a young body or maybe an ogbanje.

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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 9:47pm On Oct 08, 2015
Toks2008:


My ex was 8 years younger than me and it was a great union while it lasted.

Ass long as it involves male female interactive thread with a dint of hook up possinility then you cant disociatee ladiess in their late 20s.

Ok may i ask you...how many 30plus ladies are on this thread? Are you 30plus? how many times have you made a post on the thread? the questions are endless.

Youur notion that guys in their 40s have no business with ladies in late 20s is laughable becauuse even at 40 i know many ladies in their late 20s who are so cool with even men in their early 40s and if i may ask...how many men on this thread are 40 and above?

Will a 30 year old guy not prefer to mingle with a lady lower than his age?

I will stop here but why i am reiterating thi opinion is for the sake of continuity and not for any other reason.

I rest my case on this issue.


Of course the thread was gonna die off...... With all the "stay in the sideline" sermon..
smiley
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Bhella5(m): 11:23pm On Oct 08, 2015
Mellish and Toks2008 u guys should call a truce o...! hehe
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 11:30pm On Oct 08, 2015
Bhella5:
Mellish and Toks2008 u guys should call a truce o...! hehe

LOL!

She is my daughter so there is no need to equate us together.

If i see her one on one i will punish her like a father does to his daughter.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by ddshow(m): 11:39pm On Oct 08, 2015
I always knew this thread won't stand the test time....

Whoever created that crappy whatsapp group is so inexperienced in online interactions...The conversations here were aborted prematurely.

How can you come on a faceless forum with the sole intention of looking for a husband or wife?

#EpicFail

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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Yksoul(m): 11:55pm On Oct 08, 2015
EVERYBODY,I HAIL O. OYA NOW LETS GET TALKING ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS,HOW TO WORK ON OUR WEAKNESS,HANDLING A STUBBORN MATES,CORRECTING MATES THAT HATE IN -LAWS E.T.C
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by andysnoopy(m): 12:23am On Oct 09, 2015
Look at them, walking stick crew .. there is nothing you guys can say here that people in their twenties can't say .. trust Africans and the feelings that age makes us special.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by udysweet(f): 2:41am On Oct 09, 2015
For the 1st time? You kidding me?uav been missing a lot bro! I evn opened a thread in d fud section on my afang soup,lol! You shd eat it more often,d feeling is heavenly! Lol
Toks2008:
Ate the afang soup for the first time today and one remarkable feature is the taste of the periwinkles in it with its shells and i had to suck it out lol!
I even ordered for more soup..I really envy the calabars and akwa ibomites..nice delicacy.

Honestly i believe if a lady is an excellent cook,sexually decent and GOD fearing,men wil find her indispensable. Thats why im crushing over gina the anchor of foodies and spice. I envy her hubby and every man that will be married to excellent cooks.

http://www.foodiesandspice.com/
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by joebeckz(m): 6:38am On Oct 09, 2015
Morning guys. Toks. I de greet
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 8:18am On Oct 09, 2015
udysweet:
For the 1st time? You kidding me?uav been missing a lot bro! I evn opened a thread in d fud section on my afang soup,lol! You shd eat it more often,d feeling is heavenly! Lol

Hmmm

Are you in lagos?

I just might be a great friend *winks*

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